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Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

search for Avpd and read,,, avoidance personality disorder

lie lie

I miss

That us good oooo, NERC is working, hail buhari

will Satan go to heaven

if it parent now die, marriage don die,u now go back and follow your heart?

The young shall grow

Since older men refuses to marry them. allow younger ones now,

can I add sugar

anytime

WE ARE ALL DIFFERENTLY ADDICTED to Something. It could be a Habit, An Urge, A Passion, A Disposition or An Act,Etc.


I AM addicted TO MY PHONE

PLEASE WHAT CAN I DO TO BE A VIRGEN AGAIN

marriage is social contract

as if to say be real

The queen is the most powerful piece on the board, the king by contrast is plodding and slow. Yet the game can continue for dozens of moves after the queens are off the board—but once the king dies, the game ends. As in real life, women are often the centers of attention with their dazzle and flash and drama, but in the end, it is individual male leadership that decides the outcome.WOMEN ARE POWERFUL, MEN ARE ESSENTIAL

ANTICIPATES OTHERS’ ACTIONS. When your goal is total chess domination, being able to anticipate your opponent’s moves is key. If you see how your opponent could reach checkmate, you can move your pieces to safety. Being aware of others’ intentions may not be a life or death matter outside of chess, but paying attention could help you win in other areas of life. If you know your boyfriend will arrive home stressed from work, order his favorite takeout or plan to watch his favorite movie as a surprise. Or, if a classmate or coworker rarely does their share of work in group projects, try to avoid having them as a partner. Sometimes we can get so wrapped up in our own problems that we forget to look outside of ourselves – which, ironically enough, could have prevented some of those issues in the first place!

is like a game of chess. Every move/decision you make can either bring you an advantage or a disadvantage. Even acting upon your wisest/ planned decision can bring a negative outcome. Pieces must keep moving though. life keeps on moving. Wins and Losses are a part of life. Sacrifices must be made at some point. Expect the unexpected. When making a decision that wasn't well thought out and have lost something BECAUSE of it, well it teaches to think twice next time, to be more vigilant. you musn't ever regret your decisions because every mistake is a lesson. mistakes are part of our fate.

Did you ever play chess and stood up and walked around and saw the game from blacks side? Try to do the same in life. See life from other viewpoints and angles. Try the unknown, test things, learn, discover.

I think it is important to understand that it is you who control the pawns, how they move and what happens to them rather than thinking that you are the pawns and they are controlled by God, your genes, patter in society, just random or any other such idea. Personally I believe that if you can establish the thinking that you are responsible for anything that happens in your life or did not happen which you wanted to happen then you have come far on your way.

In this game of life you cannot just focus on your next move, but rather, you have to focus on your next three moves. The next move you make has an impact on the moves you’re allowed to and will be forced to make in the future. Every decision you make today will have an impact on your future decisions tomorrow, regardless of where you fit in this game of life. Sometimes we make decisions fully believing that it was our best decision and ends up being the worst decision we could have made. What’s important though is how fast we are willing to get back up and start again. Each piece has to keep moving. Mistakes are made and learnt from. Such is the game of life. In the game of life, which chess piece best describes you?
http://www.theemotionmachine.com/life-game-chess/

Pawns The workers. The most over looked, yet most crucial pieces in the game of life. Without the pawns, the higher powers would be weak, vulnerable. The all-powerful often use these pieces for their own gain. The pawn remains headstrong and looks ahead, knowing that if they work hard enough they will get rewarded and move well up the ladder. Sometimes, the pawn becomes so fixated on moving up, that they lose their self in the process….. Construction workers, Teachers, Doctors, etc. Many of us fall into this category…

The Rook (Castle) These are the tall, head-strong and powerful ones. Their almost intimidating power is often used to fight off the bad and protect all the other pieces on the board. These pieces provide support to the rest of the pieces on the board. Army, Police force, Firefighters, etc.

The Knights These players represent those that love freedom! They move around the world with their head and their heart. They are the motivators of the world. These are the pieces that encourage change. Their free-spirited capabilities are so unique that not even the Queen can perform these moves. Nelson Mandela, Priests, Freedom fighters, Activists, Philosophers, Positive Thinkers, e

Bishop
hese players remain on their own colour. These ‘pieces’ avoid change at all costs and prefer to remain in their comfort zones. These pieces are crucial to the King’s success and often serve as loyal Devotees. Conservative or traditional people that generally try sticking to rigid regime, etc.

The Queen The most powerful piece of all, with unmatched freedom of movement. With all this power though, try as she might, the Queen will always only be second to the king. The Queen has a lot of influence but if she is not careful, she may easily be replaced by an upcoming pawn. As with the King, powerful as the Queen may be, she is almost useless without the support of the other pieces on the board. Experts, Managers, Directors of big corporations, Heads of different governmental sectors, etc.

The King These are the all-powerful influencers and the decision makers. They don’t move around much, but they have a huge following. They are very well protected by all the other pieces and at all costs. All the other players have to move in the interest of these all powerful human Chess pieces. Interesting thing with these all powerful pieces are that even with all their power, if the ‘kings’ in life do not have substantial backup from those around him, they are almost useless. Presidents, Celebrities, Royalty, Corporate CEOs, etc.

Chess is a strategy board game where all pieces on the board can move in different positions and each with different limitations. All pieces on the chessboard are moved to strategically over power the opponent’s King and this is how the players ultimately win the game. Chess, the game of life, is a game where every decision made has an impact on the rest of your game. One bad move and your entire game is ruined or in the least, it makes it hard to recover from that bad choice.

Each chess Game consists of 32 initial pieces. (These pieces make up the human population) 2 Kings 2 Queens 4 Rooks(Castles) 4 Knights 4 Bishops 16 Pawns It’s clear to see that not all pieces on the board of life are placed equally in the hierarchy of life: The few elite. The powerful reinforcements. The free spirits. The majority – dedicated hard workers. Some, at first, appear to be lucky to have already been placed in positions of power. Others have to work hard if they have any hopes of “moving up” in life. Life is one big chess board. All the pieces represent each type of person in this world

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The Day My Mother's Marriage Crashed My mother's marriage ended the day she visited a Doctor and came back home to tell my father that the Doctor made untoward sexual advances to her. According to her, my father never recovered from her sincere disclosure. Her need to tell my father about her encounter with Dr. Osuala was borne out of a genuine desire to follow a tradition which advocates sincere revelation of all inappropriate encounters with men while inside a marriage. No such rule applies to men. A while ago, I made a post on Facebook advising partners not to go probing about the past sexual experiences of their partners. I believe something significant leaves you the day you know about the sexual history of your partner. Where do we draw the line between genuine disclosure of cases of groping and inappropriate acts against us and the need to keep them secret for fear of being misunderstood and causing permanent damage in our relationships? My mother recounts of an experience which embarrassed her when she visited a Doctor who diagnosed her of malaria fever and recommended that she takes some injection. When she took off her underwear in anticipation of the needle, the next thing she felt on her body was the Doctor's penis. She didn't bother about taking the injection as she was completely fazed by the Doctor's attitude towards her. She left the Doctor's presence with a huge moral obligation to report the incident at home. She did and she was not convinced my father believed she was innocent. The challenge wasn't much of the embarrassing situation she found herself, but the fact that she was bound to report the incident to her husband as tradition demands. There is this tradition observed by the Edos which demands that whenever a woman is touched whether appropriately or inappropriately by the opposite sex, she is bound to report the incident to her husband. I don't know how many people still observe this tradition as the incident I now write about happened in the 70s and my mother was someone who was stuck with traditional beliefs and customs. My mother was to recount that her sincerity in keeping to her tradition caused her marriage to fail. The marriage didn't crash the day she reported the incident according to her, but she identifies that day as the day she lost my father's love and interest. He simply moved on after that day. He probably felt betrayed by my mother's sincerity. My parents separated years later and she continued to lament that she lost out in the marriage because of her sincerity. It seemed to her my father never accepted her explanations that the encounter with the Doctor was an innocent one and that she never acted inappropriately towards the Doctor. Today, many women have become victims of inappropriate liaison from Doctors and even random men on the streets and even though tradition doesn't make it mandatory for many to disclose to their husbands or boyfriends, what should a woman do when she is groped or touched inappropriately by another man? Do you tell your husband or boyfriend of strange encounters of sexual nature and what do you do when your man never recovers after your telling? My mother believed that everything that happened to her subsequently in the marriage after the disclosure, led to my father moving gradually away from her and the ultimate crash of the marriage.

hope he doesn't want to buy arsenal like chelsea