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PoliticsRe: Proof That Reno Omokri Steals Posts From Nairaland And Use It On Twitter by engrtee(f): 1:25am On Jul 11, 2020
Beosten:
Ole. Stealing intellectual properties. Wendel simlin abi wetin im be?
j. is any of the post copyrighted?/
HealthRe: 70 Countries Are Running Out Of HIV Drugs by engrtee(f): 1:21am On Jul 11, 2020
may be HIV drug is secretly curing covid 19
PoliticsRe: South-East Governors Boycott Commissioning Of Police Zonal Hqts In Anambra by engrtee(f): 4:01am On Jul 09, 2020
governors are limiting movement due yo covid 19
PoliticsRe: Between FFK And ‘The Church Of Satan’ On Twitter by engrtee(f): 3:59am On Jul 09, 2020
I LAFFED WHEN HE STARTED ONLINE PRAYER AND THE VHURCH TOLD HIM ONLINE PRAYER DOES NOT WORK.

HE WOULD HAVE HUMBLY ASKED

WHAT WORKS?
PoliticsRe: Have You Heard Of The "Yoruba Biafran?" by engrtee(f): 3:56am On Jul 09, 2020
1968/is past. move on
CrimeRe: George Floyd Transcript Is Nauseating Repulsive And Cold by engrtee(f): 3:54am On Jul 09, 2020
if I click the link eh
CrimeRe: James Nwafor: "I Killed Your Son & Nothing Will Happen" - Awkuzu SARS by engrtee(f): 3:53am On Jul 09, 2020
2012.
this is 2020. move on
PoliticsRe: Video: Woman Praises God As Watermelon She Buys Explodes by engrtee(f): 4:16am On Jul 08, 2020
I thought blood came out of the explosion.mtvheeeee
PoliticsRe: Dino Melaye Releases New Song To Mock Suspended EFCC Boss, Ibrahim Magu (video) by engrtee(f): 4:14am On Jul 08, 2020
Tomorrow, he will claim he cannot go to court for health reason.now he is singibg
PoliticsRe: Magu: Osinbajo May Be Indicted! (photo) by engrtee(f): 4:13am On Jul 08, 2020
osibanjo is senior advocate of Nigeria.
such men are so intelligent that they don't steal without covering their track.
no way
PoliticsRe: Policemen search Ibrahim Magu's house - Punch by engrtee(f): 4:11am On Jul 08, 2020
one day bushmeat go catch hunter
PoliticsRe: How Magu Was Almost Rough Handled On The Streets Before He Was Driven To The Vil by engrtee(f): 4:10am On Jul 08, 2020
one day bushmeat will catch the hunter
EducationRe: American Students Are Not Allowed To Travel To Nigeria For Study by engrtee(f): 2:29pm On Jul 06, 2020
ukaface:
Why will you leave America to study in Nigeriahuh

Like you been in First position,and intentionally want to carry last position. Why?
some courses like cultural anthropology requires visit to any culture of your choice.esp PHD
CrimeRe: Drunk Nigerian Police Officer Robs Customers In An Hotel. by engrtee(f): 4:55am On Jul 06, 2020
to steal dey I'm mind since. beer gave him mind
CrimeRe: Please Beware Of This Name; Raphael Wilson Ogwu by engrtee(f): 4:52am On Jul 06, 2020
sorry gorbyour loss
BusinessRe: How Sokoloan Dragged Their Customer To Retrieve A 5k Loan by engrtee(f): 3:29pm On Jul 04, 2020
five thousand for Eight thousand in two weeks. what an interest?
PoliticsRe: Imam Of Peace Label Buhari " Hushpuppi Snr' Hush Papa by engrtee(f): 3:25pm On Jul 04, 2020
this guy like nigeria
PoliticsRe: Non-chinese Citizens Who Criticise Beijing Anywhere On The Planet Could Be Arres by engrtee(f): 3:23pm On Jul 04, 2020
The way USA and China are acting this days against foreigners,I hope their fall is not eminent
RomanceRe: What Really Is Love? by engrtee(f): 2:13am On Jul 04, 2020
love cannot be described. it is better felt
PoliticsRe: Have These States Gone Into Extinct? by engrtee(f): 1:58am On Jul 04, 2020
Sammy07:
Have these states gone into extinct?

Hardly, do we hear from them grin

Gombe
Jigawa
Benue
Kebbi
Taraba
Yobe
Zamfara.
Sokoto.
All states made the list of poorest states of 2019.

meanwhile, vivid 19 patients were protesting, blocking the road without facemask , two months ago
RomanceRe: by engrtee(f): 1:56am On Jul 04, 2020
you are making sencr small small. proof that you are a guy.
RomanceRe: Why You Should Not Bath With Your Partner by engrtee(f): 1:52am On Jul 04, 2020
IT IS GOOD WHEN THERE IS WATER SCARCITY AND YOU WANT TO MANAGE WATER..
YOU POUR ONE BOWL OF WATER ON HER.SHE POURS HALF BOWL OF WATER ON YOU.IF WATER FINISH, CLEAN HIM. WITH TOWEL.THANK ME LATER
RomanceRe: If She Cheats With My Brother, Will Child DNA Still Match Mine by engrtee(f): 1:49am On Jul 04, 2020
science experiment. tell him to try it first. practical.a trial will convince you
RomanceRe: 15 Things Almost All Women Do Behind Closed Doors by engrtee(f): 1:48am On Jul 04, 2020
Do you know that..........?
RomanceRe: How I Used Juju To Win 44k Bet9ja Today by engrtee(f): 1:46am On Jul 04, 2020
arsenal and Manchester united wet dey wear red short and red shirt still dey fight for UEFA CUP. red ko
IslamRe: Muslim Women Can Still Participate In Beauty Pageants! by engrtee(f): 2:31am On Jul 03, 2020
she disqualified herself because of her refusal to remove hijab.no body discriminate d against her
FamilyRe: Why Are 80% Of Divorces Filed By The Wives? by engrtee(f): 1:56am On Jul 03, 2020
Hathor5:
The Divorce Gap
There’s a common perception that women siphon off the wealth of their exes and go on to live in comfort. It’s wrong.

A 38-year-old woman living in Everett, Washington recently told me that nine years ago, she had a well-paying job, immaculate credit, substantial savings, and a happy marriage. When her first daughter was born, she and her husband decided that she would quit her job in publishing to stay home with the baby. She loved being a mother and homemaker, and when another daughter came, she gave up the idea of going back to work.

Seven years later, her husband told her to leave their house, and filed for a divorce she couldn’t afford. “He said he was tired of my medical issues, and unwilling to work on things,” she said, citing her severe rheumatoid arthritis and OCD, both of which she manages with medication. “He kicked me out of my own house, with no job and no home, and then my only recourse was to lawyer up. I’m paying them on credit.” (Some of the men and women quoted in this article have been kept anonymous because they were discussing sensitive financial matters, some of them involving ongoing legal disputes.)

She is far from alone. Despite the common perception that women make out better than men in divorce proceedings, women who worked before, during, or after their marriages see a 20 percent decline in income when their marriages end, according to Stephen Jenkins, a professor at the London School of Economics. His research found that men, meanwhile, tend to see their incomes rise more than 30 percent post-divorce. Meanwhile, the poverty rate for separated women is 27 percent, nearly triple the figure for separated men.

Women like the mother in Washington, who leave the workforce for several years, will likely see their earnings stunted when they resume working. The main reason women suffer the brunt of divorce’s financial burdens, according to Jenkins, is that during marriage, they are more likely than men to stop working in order to raise kids. “The key differences are not between men and women, but between fathers and mothers,” he told The Guardian.

On top of that, divorce proceedings alone can pose a serious financial burden. According to Divorce Magazine, a trade publication, the cost of divorce varies wildly, from as little as $8,500 to well over $100,000. An accurate average is hard to nail down, but estimates usually fall within the range of $15,000 to $30,000. And if the split is relatively amicable, costs can sometimes be as low as $250 to $3,000, according to Lee Borden, a divorce lawyer in Alabama.

These burdens tend to fall disproportionately on women, and, in its usual way, the market has recognized that: A handful of firms have started providing loans—some of them for hundreds of thousands of dollars—to women so that they can properly argue their case in court. The loans’ interest rates can be high, but one firm estimates that applicants typically win assets worth three times the amount of their loan.

Weinberger says that because of the inevitability of alimony and child support, she advises ex-partners to make peace with paying for support before proceedings even begin. “The judge is going to order how much you pay and for how long, once you go to court, and that’s it,” she says. (If spouses choose to divorce via a settlement, she notes, they have a little more flexibility.)

And alimony and child support don’t always flow from ex-husband to ex-wife. Many men fear they’ll be ridiculed when others find out they’re receiving money from their exes, Weinberger says. Some would rather forgo their monthly stipends than swallow their pride, even if they are the stay-at-home parent bringing in no income.

Of course, the messiness of life can cause serious stress before there’s time to have a judge step in. When asked what she got out of her divorce, a mother in New Hampshire I spoke to simply says: “divorced.” Having been married to her husband for two years and having been the mother of their child, the woman found herself without any financial safety net when they split abruptly. “He would not contribute to any expenses,” she said. “He gave me 15 days to get off his cellphone plan, and expected that I wouldn't default on our rent, which was $1,600 a month. I sold my cellphone for food and got a prepaid number.”

https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/04/the-divorce-gap/480333/
thanks for the enlightenment. I learnt a lot today
RomanceRe: Nairalanders, Kindly Help This Friend Of Mine Who Got Scammed Yesterday by engrtee(f): 1:52am On Jul 03, 2020
sorry
FamilyRe: I Can Create Any Ritual For You To Help You Deal With Any Problems. by engrtee(f): 4:02am On Jul 02, 2020
all ritual has side effect and ecpiridate.they won't tell u
FamilyRe: Over Protective Parents by engrtee(f): 4:01am On Jul 02, 2020
let them know u are a man,they will stop
FamilyRe: What Will You Call This?? Fun Or Child Abuse by engrtee(f): 4:00am On Jul 02, 2020
the innocent boy is not noticing anything. una get bad mind

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