₦airaland Forum

Juliearth:
What better way to know than to conduct a study. I can facilitate this research. Conduct one per geopolitical zone in the country and let's create another thread to discuss findings.

I would really love to see this happen, and also see the respondent to any sampling method employed, give genuine answers without holding back. I would love to see the findings.

ogbonti:
my brother I am not saying my friend is not contributing to the relationship, the point I am trying to drive home is that giving should not be a one way street - most naija girls do not give even when they have AND their man is in trouble financially - they only collect and that is a parasitic relationship - if this is too hard for you to understand- then its ok, that is what you want for your LIFE, but please, do not try to convince others to be like you - THANK YOU!

I am all in support of a symbiotic relationship. God forbid I try convincing others to be like me. I just don't believe isolated events be misconstrued as the reality obtainable in other climes. That same yanky u dey hype na im women dey use divorce settlements take set themselves up for life. My brother trying to sound intelligent does not make you intelligent(in response to 'if its too hard for u to understand then its okay'} These are not the only way to drive home your point. Thanks

Juliearth:
If he is basing his judgement based on his personal experience, then the word "most" is not tenable. How about " from my personal experience with women, I have come to realise that..." This is subtle and a fair representation of the situation on ground as it relates to the op.

While most of us may make hasty generalisations, there abound a great percentage of female folks who has this mentality ingrained in them (I would love to be proven incorrect/wrong). Society psycho-conditions 'them/some/most' to see beauty as a wealth generating venture, and those who through experiences would have swayed this young ones encourages them to pursue that which failed them(personal experiences though). We see the girl child gradually loosing a sense of decency,morals, and most going with the crowd thereby, soiling the word 'girl' for those whose moral compass be intact.

[quote author=ogbonti post=94610232]This is exactly the problems with weaklings - so when women impoverish you with demands and milk you dry and use your money to support their secret lover, build a house, buy a car and train herself in the University - take care of her parents and keep posting you to wait until she completes her NYSC before you marry her and when she is done with you, you are broke and she marries your best friend, that is not yahoo KWA?
Civility demands you be open to everyones point of view without prejudice nor throw weak punches to score cheap points. At a point in life, we all have been jilted in love, and some grew through that experience while others regressed. It working for your friend but you do not know his contributions to the growth of that relationship (irrespective of what he tells you). Society may have weaponized ladies to dependency but there are always exemptions to every laws. As regards to the weakling jibe ( I do salute your alpha status in the manosphere).

Juliearth:
Maybe if you had used a fair judgement, eliminating " most" in your narrative, I would have given you a fair reply. "Most" Nigerian ladies are gold diggers, according to you, yet the statistics in our tertiary institutions show that there are more women than men...

Population-wise, women dwarfs men and op may have used 'most' because of those he had come across, or experiences from friends or what he has seen. This statistics been postulated, does it negate his assertion, or do they correspond. For me when you bring the tertiary institution into this discuss, you open up a 'can of worms' that will give credence to op assertions (statistically I mean)

ogbonti:
When a woman have too much money on her hands she will spend it on another man who is shining her congo - PERIOD

start borrowing money from her

Even if you don't need it - start eating her money to the extent that she will not have enough money to take care of herself


IF SHE NO GIVE YOU THE MONEY - let her bounce dont beg her - blank her totally do not even pick her calls, ignore her messages


WHEN SHE COMES WITH THE MONEY - Nack her well well again and and ask her to bring more for you when next she is coming to see you

guys - try this pattern - even your paddies go think say na jazz u dey use - women love men who can control and dominate them not weaklings!!!

This looks lile a recipe for yahoo. Why would you want to take advantage of someones emotions and extort him/her? If the relationship is purely physical and she gives of her volition then thats ok. We all have forgotten karma bites back.

Zzor:
yes and that's when it comes to money.Let everybody display his/her wisdom for im papa house,relationship these days is strictly business

All relationship

Veiniously:
does it work?

It does for me.

If it is as a result of prolong erection, you can take a tin of milk.

Tiny is mighty(please I can't explain). But Oyinbo worry oo. Rabbit wey boys go take do poverty alleviation, na im them dey refer to as though e dey understand. I am tempted to say 'this life nor balance' but the picture above show am.

Politics is now a do or die affair. If he had ruled well, he need not fear or instill fear