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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Sixfeetbelle: 8:14pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
SmartPolician: I always tell ladies to use the opportunity when they still look good to get a good husband and stop flirting around because the beauty of a woman is like a flower - it has a season. When she gets old, all the boobs and big backside are flat and no more attention. It will just be her, her husband and the kids. What did you mean by this statement? |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Juliearth: 1 Like
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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by enirock(m): 8:17pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Juliearth:Population-wise, women dwarfs men and op may have used 'most' because of those he had come across, or experiences from friends or what he has seen. This statistics been postulated, does it negate his assertion, or do they correspond. For me when you bring the tertiary institution into this discuss, you open up a 'can of worms' that will give credence to op assertions (statistically I mean) |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Funkyswagzz(m): 8:18pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Farki: I tut as much bro cos no girl in right senses cud make such a statement. What made my suspicion even stronger was when she said "I've not dated for over two yrs now it's hard for me to love" in mind I was like this girl is into prostitution. She refused to give me her phone so I can look at her pictures. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by ogbonti: 8:19pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
enirock: This is exactly the problems with weaklings - so when women impoverish you with demands and milk you dry and use your money to support their secret lover, build a house, buy a car and train herself in the University - take care of her parents and keep posting you to wait until she completes her NYSC before you marry her and when she is done with you, you are broke and she marries your best friend, that is not yahoo KWA? I do not mean to disrespect you Sir, as long as we have men who reason like you, who think they are superman and the Incredible Hulk that can carry all the burden of women, women will continue using men in Nigeria Come to America - and see where women lavish money on men YOU GO FEAR NA. I have a friend here who is from the Congo, his fiancee bought him a Brand New Honda Pilot SUV 2019 model cash down (no financing, full purchase) - last year - The girl is a pretty chic of about 33 and a business owner - drop dead gorgeous - my friend is like 36 - not too good looking but a brilliant chap. Babe takes this guy around the world for vacation like say tomorrow no dey - they are balling on her money and the guy intends to marry her this year 2020 if not for the covid-19 pandemic that slowed things down - lets not talk about the shopping for him, hmmmmm NAIJA girls have a lot to learn - that concept of "HER MONEY IS HER MONEY AND A MAN'S MONEY IS THEIR MONEY" is the very reason every right thinking dude should avoid naija chics with such mentality if you want to live long 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Juliearth(f): 8:21pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
enirock: If he is basing his judgement based on his personal experience, then the word "most" is not tenable. How about " from my personal experience with women, I have come to realise that..." This is subtle and a fair representation of the situation on ground as it relates to the op. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virginprincess:we don't accept that F language here next time or you chop bann, last warning |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by LINTUNE(m): 8:30pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virginprincess:how many of them can contribute up to 30% to their families finance and growth |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by LINTUNE(m): 8:33pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Zzor:why do u like to twist words abd misunderstand someone, im thinking u are doing it on purpose, nd its not cool 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by merieam16(f): 8:39pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
fati2001:that will say Nigeria ladies aint loyal |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by enirock(m): 8:41pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
[quote author=ogbonti post=94610232] This is exactly the problems with weaklings - so when women impoverish you with demands and milk you dry and use your money to support their secret lover, build a house, buy a car and train herself in the University - take care of her parents and keep posting you to wait until she completes her NYSC before you marry her and when she is done with you, you are broke and she marries your best friend, that is not yahoo KWA? Civility demands you be open to everyones point of view without prejudice nor throw weak punches to score cheap points. At a point in life, we all have been jilted in love, and some grew through that experience while others regressed. It working for your friend but you do not know his contributions to the growth of that relationship (irrespective of what he tells you). Society may have weaponized ladies to dependency but there are always exemptions to every laws. As regards to the weakling jibe ( I do salute your alpha status in the manosphere). |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by fati2001(m): 8:41pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
merieam16:thank you jerey. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by LINTUNE(m): 8:42pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Elder0001:guy leave that gal, im sure she knows wht is right , i notice that she crave so much for attention, such that she can make irrelevant comments or even open irrelevant threads, just to get attention, so believe tht she meant what she typed, at ur own peril.. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by chatinent: 8:43pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Seconded. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by pansophist(m): 8:45pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
franchasng: Francis, where person fit meet this smart ladies you always talk about na? Give me address, I wan go there. I need one, just one 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by ogbonti: 8:50pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
enirock: my brother I am not saying my friend is not contributing to the relationship, the point I am trying to drive home is that giving should not be a one way street - most naija girls do not give even when they have AND their man is in trouble financially - they only collect and that is a parasitic relationship - if this is too hard for you to understand- then its ok, that is what you want for your LIFE, but please, do not try to convince others to be like you - THANK YOU!!! |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by enirock(m): 8:54pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Juliearth:While most of us may make hasty generalisations, there abound a great percentage of female folks who has this mentality ingrained in them (I would love to be proven incorrect/wrong). Society psycho-conditions 'them/some/most' to see beauty as a wealth generating venture, and those who through experiences would have swayed this young ones encourages them to pursue that which failed them(personal experiences though). We see the girl child gradually loosing a sense of decency,morals, and most going with the crowd thereby, soiling the word 'girl' for those whose moral compass be intact. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by franchasng: 8:55pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
pansophist:first of all, my name no be Francis oh, don't let the handle mislead u oh lol As for the ladies, it's just that I am not a fixer, never liked it and will never be one, would have fixed you up with one or two, but u know guys can never be trusted, even when they want to put the tip of their dagger inside that thing, they will disguise that they have come for marriage or serious relationship but all na wash, that's why it's dangerous to be a matchmaker for guys I see lots of these ladies everyday oh, both on social media platforms, real life, in fact they are everywhere except u don't have good eyes. Try instagram. I am sure u do come across such ladies but feel you don't need them because of theit age; most of them are above 27yrs. If you want a quality lady, avoid girls of 25yrs below, search from 30yrs above or maybe 27yrs 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Origin(f): 8:57pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
You have to let people be what they choose to be..... If you cant handle that then dont have a relationship with those who choose to be what you dislike.... If the man chooses to be the breadwinner, then he can marry a full housewife... If the woman chooses to work that does not mean she will share the responsibility with the man... It just gives her a certqin level of self respect.... But to each his own and people can choose their own paths and of course bear the consequences of that decision. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by opribo(m): 8:57pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
That's the way it was designed to be. That's why you meet her and take care of her in return she carried your baby and train them in the right way. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Juliearth(f): 9:08pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
enirock: What better way to know than to conduct a study. I can facilitate this research. Conduct one per geopolitical zone in the country and let's create another thread to discuss findings. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:09pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
LINTUNE:ok |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by oluspicy: 9:18pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Nice analysis. Ororo dey ya head. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by enirock(m): 9:27pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
ogbonti:I am all in support of a symbiotic relationship. God forbid I try convincing others to be like me. I just don't believe isolated events be misconstrued as the reality obtainable in other climes. That same yanky u dey hype na im women dey use divorce settlements take set themselves up for life. My brother trying to sound intelligent does not make you intelligent(in response to 'if its too hard for u to understand then its okay'} These are not the only way to drive home your point. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by victorian(f): 9:33pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
franchasng: God bless you. Please don't matchmake any guy for anyone. They all have sweet mouth as if they want to really settle down and marry but check the guys life, it's either he smokes igbo as a hobby or he is neck deep in debt because of baba ijebu. Or he's a fucccking player looking for more good ladies to mess up and possibly fleece from. I can never match make guy with any one. Let them go and find that special babe and mess it up all by themselves! You really understand guys and their deceptive paroles. Thumbs up! |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by enirock(m): 9:35pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Juliearth:I would really love to see this happen, and also see the respondent to any sampling method employed, give genuine answers without holding back. I would love to see the findings. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
victorian:how about women/girls and their "relationship scam"? Why do you have hairs on your chest though? Abi I nor see well |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by victorian(f): 9:40pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Heartlessbanker: It goes both ways. Hairs on my chest? Seems you have eye problem! Go fix those eyes first! |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Happy2020: 9:43pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
I’m tired of these lazy ass women that want their weave, makeup, nails, newest phone funded by SOMEONE, they don’t care who even, just some poor sucker. And in exchange for some most likely unclean/over used pussy. What are you bringing to the table? Please tell us all. Pussy and what else? No intelligent conversation, no forward movement, nothing. I’d rather stay single. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
victorian:I use glasses. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
which one u want |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
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