victrick105: so if they can pursue a career and still take care of the family, why the heck are the women complaining... and please, I never said the place of a woman ends in the kitchen, don't misquote me
The complaint I know is that most husbands think their responsibilities starts and end in making their wives pregnant and providing money. That's nonsense.
Chukapage: soo who will pay the man for providing for his family since you need to get paid to look after your own home as a woman....lets balance it will you also pay the man for providing for HIS own home??since its all about equality....
If he can't pay her allowances then let her work. Simple
victrick105: I never said she shouldn't have an ambition... but must do the right thing at the right time... most of this young ladies never talk about there ambition when they are single and free, why must it now be when they are married that they remember that they have dreams to chase, it's doing the right thing at the wrong time... most of them even start planning marriage at their early 20's or even in school, when they get married, they now remember what career they want to pursue, why do you think they do that?... it's simply because they are too damn dependent and want to use there husbands to get to the top, when he refuses, they turn to feminist and remember that there husband is a hindering block to there fame,if a lady wants to really chase her dreams then she should do that b4 marriage so as not to get distracted by her kids and duties in the home, a perfect example is Linda ikeji... even upon societal pressure, such ladies have resolved to remain focused, not minding what people have to say... last, last, you go soon marry, born picking.
Fact: You can pursue career and take care of a family at the same time. You can also plan a marriage, get married and have kids while having a career.
You think it takes 2-3 years to pursue ones dream and get it? What kind of dream is that abi what do you mean by doing right thing at the right time?
Guys that don't ask about their spouses' dreams and career are the foolish ones. Go to the village and pick a girl if you don't want one that wants to make it big in her professional field. Stop assuming that every lady should end in the kitchen.
Elder001: The woman can insist she doesn't want to be a full time housewife ...She's not a slave
Some lazy ladies immediately become happy when some foolish husbands say such..
But we both know or are made to believe that husband decision is final. It's still people here that will insult her for insisting to go against his command
victrick105: so the man also didn't sacrifice his dreams... or you think his dream is to toil day and night, under the sun and rain, even the likes of Hillary Clinton,okonjo iwela and so on, one time or the other ones took a break to look after there family, women of today lack wisdom, does dreams should have been chased when they were still single, not now that they have kids, the very moment you give birth, the needs and dreams of your kids come first, you can't do two things at the same time, it's either you choose not to have kids for the main time and chase your dreams, or sacrifice your dreams for that of your kids, then go back to chasing those dreams when the kids are of age to know there left from there right... both parents have actually sacrificed a lot,so ladies should stop making it look as if it's only they who give up there all,just to play there part in the family.
That's you. I hate ladies that are ambitionless, those that their only goal in life is to procreate and keep the home. My woman should be able to grow a career of her own. The home should be kept by both parents. I see no reason why independent ladies shouldn't be supported and loved.
You are toiling night and day because you refuse to let your woman help you. Let her be a helper to you. You will live longer that way. But if you insist that she shouldn't work, then its either she gets some allowances or there's an account you open for her and housekeep. She shouldn't come to you for every damn thing she needs or the house needs.
weedtaker: [s]Na the bolded the make you cry for oga potential? Do you actually watch our games b4 coming to the conclusion that young doesn't attack? I don't think any fan who watch united games will agree with these.
Back to the matter sha, what has shaw done for Manchester United since he arrived??[/s]
You suppose don stop to dey ask mumu questions na. Shaw has been injured for a long time. But now he only needs to be on the bench to be blamed for the outcome of a match
victrick105: your husband paying you salaries...is that not the height of invoking authority?
If you insist your wife must stay at home then she should be given allowance. You can't ask your wife to stay at home and drop her passion because she got married to you. What happened to her dreams?
victrick105: the funny thing about this is that I was expecting the comment from waje to come from a foreign based person like Dencia and that of Dencia from waje ..but it was the reverse,.... the way most Nigerian women carry feminism for head now, it shows how fast we learn unnecessary things from the westerners and dump the necessary ones
weedtaker: says who? shey na potential we wan chop? depay follow get potential maybe we should've kept him. you can't mention top 5 left backs in the PL currently without ashley young in it. there's a reason he is whoscored joint highest rated left back in the PL. no be to de mention potential upandan, i'll like to see the big team shaw will sign for after leaving united to harness his world class potential, dude hasn't even done anything for united apart from collecting better salary and looking fat.
just mention one thing that shaw has done for united since we signed him, blind was a starter in our top FA cup win campaign under van gaal and also formed a brilliant defensive partnership with smalling under van gaal, fellaini and young were key to our top 4 finish under van gaal, rojo was also brilliant in our europa league triumph forming a deadly partnership with bailly until his injury happened.
Na so una the complain about zlatan, say him no fit run..him don old.. now we don buy 75mil striker with pace yet to outsccore old man na wahala.. na work rate una take the hail 75mil striker. some were even asking for zlatan to be dropped for marcus rashford ffs! Lol
So wati u dey chop now? Shey na whoscored joint highest left back in the epl rating? Why won't he be rated when to go front na hard work?
After Zlatan carry us troway for 6th? God forbid bad thing.
funlord: walahi I just studied it and noticed that too...that na why I modified the o.g post....but Kratos wey I dey worship has promised not to fail me....bros nihilist must pay for my monthly subscription by fire by force...
funlord: Study the table I sent your way sir! It is impossible for chelsea to get into the top 4 or the UCL now. You guys only have 1 game left and even winning it by 45 - 0 would still have you lads confirming your 5th position......so wetin concern seasons end with the fine print on our vegas wager? or if the season ends would uefa suddenly send you guys to the UCL as a favor to drogba? You better get used to today and strange fixtures bro....
Abeg play me "MVP" by your name sake the late "BIG L"....
Bros a chelsea win and LFC lose on last match day will take chelsea to champe. LFC still need a draw at least
dopeJemi: I dey reason to bet with am next season sef
You go surely win. In fact if he know watin him dey do, he suppose they drop the bar immediately him place the bet instead of longing things. Na L last last
afrodoc2: And for people like Nihilist and Skimpledawg that "away match" has more than one meaning, here is a street-smart video to give you tips on how to score the greatly valued away goal.
For everyone who mentioned me......thanda will visit you scumcvnts!!!
Good morning uncle diggz. We came to greet you yesterday but you were not at home. Nihilstjnr told us you went to beg Costa to come back. Hope the begging was successful?
Jose gave you guys a very good striker but you starting shouting upandan that Costa should fvck off. You see why you shouldn't be drinking shekpe even if you're a shekpetewon?
MorataFC: Chelsea can still play in UCL next season if the story is anything to go by, ''if'' Liverpool should win UCL then the Number 1 to 4 in epl table will qualify plus automatic qualification for Liverpool as the winner.
raumdeuter: Its not sure for Chelsea because Spartak Westeros, Arik Thesaloki, Otelul Galati, Rumpeltilskin, Skonto Riga, FC Dothraki and Ludogerets will be seeded
Ahhh! They should not goan fall into group of death o
Mrphilia: The whole team and conte deserves the europa league. Nobody is going anywhere ooh!
If they do well in the group stage they may be asked to move to the league of champions. All hope is not lost yet. You just need to beat chimpolopolo home and away