asuustrike1:
The responsibility lies more with the parent while the teacher plays his or her part. The teacher's responsibility is to impact knowledge on the students but it doesn't exempt him or her from disciplining when the need arises.

This is correct.
Let me shed more light with an example. I am a school administrator, a parent once complained that her daughter is above 2 but still uses diapers. She insisted that the school should be able to train the child.i wanted her to understand that to do potty training, it is advisable to start during a weekend when the child is at home. By Monday she should inform us so we continue from where she stopped. She said the school spend more time with the child and the child tend to obey the teacher more so we should do the job.

asuustrike1:
The responsibility lies more with the parent while the teacher plays his or her part. The teacher's responsibility is to impact knowledge on the students but it doesn't exempt him or her from disciplining when the need arises.

That's right.
But looking at my stated situation which is the recent phenomenon expecially among the rich and middle class folks. A child spends about 14 hours max and 12 hours minimum with the teacher. The child sleep 8hours a day leaving the parent with 4 hours. This has caused a mixed reactions on who has more influence on a child

I can imagine the shock

Education is the process of transferring knowledge , skills or information from one person to another through a means of communication.
Education does not necessarily mean schooling as many people believe. In this write-up I will be based majorly on general child upbringing which covers both formal and informal education .
We have heard and seen cases where parents blames the school/teacher for poor or inappropriate behaviour of children also the school tell us that education start from home.
With the present day education standards where a child join the school bus at 6am to close school by 4pm, in some cases he joins the after school program ( baby sitter,or tutorial classes) before heading home by 6pm.some also have weekend baby sitting program at school as well as part time boarding school, summer classes, summer vacation, etc
In the pursuit of more profit, the educational institutions forget the importance of letting the children have their parents around. No wonder the parents throw the blames back to the school.
In pursuit of career, freedom and business , many parents shun opportunity to have the kids around and expect the school to do it all.
Forgetting in a class minimum of 6 children are found, the teacher may overlook your children's behaviour due to many factors such as work pressure, target settings eg lesson plans, personal issues, fear of your reaction, etc
These are my thoughts.....
This brings us back to the drawing board, looking at today's world, who should be responsible for the child upbringing?

ogawisdom:


U are contradicting yourself most of them will never re marry bc they will never attract the kinda of man to marry again, they only attract poor fuk boys. They will settle for fuking around in the name of dating. Most men that will come to them are after their money if they are comfortable so they won't like to marry them fuk boys DT they can only attract. U won't see a comfortable single guy going for a divorcee for marriage, very rare.

A divorced man is way ahead DT is why a whole celebrity like Tonto dike is still crying about her husband even after 3yrs of divorce while unknown Churchill has moved on since.

If it's about chop n clean mouth men full to mark her register free of charge aka oshofree which is called dating as a cover up. The right word is oshofree

NB: marriage is not meant to have children only after all every child will leave home someday, marriage is for a life companion, ppl only realize this in old age when all their children have left the house

Sincerely u said it all. Gbayi!!!
Igbeyin lo dun oloku Ada
It's at the end a one who weed with blunt cutlass will know the harm he has caused himself

Amanee:


Please just shut up and face your marriage

Hope you find happiness

Bighead9:


Madam why are you PAINED, I hope you are not another Tonto Dike in disguise?

You can say that again
Really I mentioned the word "most of women" not all
Getting married after divorce is usually a wrong way out because most times it ends same way.
Attitude of women with the issue of feminism has affected many homes
Compare statistics of 80's to now

Terrible

My title says it all but I still need your contribution. Looking at the recent celebrity story about a failed marriage I have decided to take a thought about failed marriages.
Before we go further I am a woman and have been Married for 7 years. I think I know little about marriage.
Firstly, speaking as an experienced person in marriage counseling (I head a big school where 30 Percent of my parents are either divorced or separated) each time I have issues with a child (moral or academic default) I invite the parent mostly mom. At the end of the day we find ourselves discussing the father. Blames upon blames on how irresponsible the father is or how the child is taking after the father. I end up asking the mom if she knows she couldn't raise the kids without the father why did she divorce him
Note: most times it's the woman that was at fault i.e.lack of patience
I have a friend too who is separated from the husband to the extent that she has refused to tell the man she put to bed till date. When she was about to put to bed she called that I follow her but I told her I couldn't because it wasn't my duty. Then she started ranting about how the man has been useless and all that. I later volunteer my sister. After the birth it was a normal birth I called my sister to come home. She said she wanted to bury the placenta that there was no one to do it. Then I asked her to return it and tell the lady to call her husband who lives just 50# can from the hospital. In summary she didn't take the placenta from the hospital. She asked a nurse to bury it and didn't bother to know if she did or not. Then I told her it was dangerous. She went back to her to her usual story of 'he is not a serious man'
Just to make peace reign I called the man to find out only to find out that my friend was a cheat, the man found out and she opted for divorce. He is not ready for it but my friend asked him to leave ( they lived in a rented apartment)
Same as been the story of most of my divorce parents, they cheated.
When the marriage failed they find it hard to forgive themselves and they resort to ranting.
Women who weren't cheating or weren't at fault are usually calm after the divorce because they know they did their best.
To avoid becoming a sadist.....be transparent in marriage
My opinion tho .....( Don't mind my typo and writing)
Cheers

crazyABO:
What if the side chick name is Bisola Dawodu

Your head correct. This same thing happened when I was serving at united CAC akure. The lady (corp member) was bearing same name with the man's wife. She quickly fast track the marriage..... . sadly the man was not legally married to the woman.

State your price.....n location

Ibule? That's the town before futa? I thought they said no regent can have children after she has taken the position. Hope she knows that? That explains why regent use to be very tough women back then.

The last time we visited the inherited farm at obokun ijesha, this Hausa people were mining on the land. They were even challenging us until we brought in the king's attention. They negotiate to buy but my father in law said no. Those people are thieves

If one has means to travel pls stay off these Arab world. If you must go there kindly fear for your life by obeying their laws.

God have mercy ....some types like implano will just be making some one menstruate for weeks .......the off days will be with blood type discharge person just tire

SmartyPants:


If he never told you guys to do this... How did you guys discover that he would do it?

It means one bold person just There use to be a lecturer in chemistry department unilorin , he won't tell you set questions buy if you don't know the answer to his questions and you set yours he will mark it as far as it's within his course outline. Can't remember his mamn though. Don't even know if he's still in the school. 2008set to write his or her own question one day like that?

Interesting!

yes some one did that was before our admission. So they usually advice the new intakes about him during orientation. Some people did in our set too

There use to be a lecturer in chemistry department unilorin , he won't tell you set questions buy if you don't know the answer to his questions and you set yours he will mark it as far as it's within his course outline. Can't remember his mamn though. Don't even know if he's still in the school. 2008set

IkpuMmadu:


https://etimes.com.ng/the-consequences-of-late-marriage-and-the-very-reasons-why-you-should-marry-early-if-you-can/

By Anayo M. Nwosu

this is so true.from childhood omotola has been my mentor on marriage and career. I got Married at 20 immediately after b.sc, my husband was 26. We have 2 kids now after 8years of marriage. I'm back To my m.sc. I don't regret it . many of my friends who got married later due to hustle and career are finding it difficult to cope. They have become to independent to live or allow a man control them. Also the kind of men they find are the ones that have all n they are just looking for someone to sit at home and bear kids. It s not going down well with ma friends.
Marrying early also has its stress but sincerely you will enjoy it if you plan it well

maxiuc:


Serving some church pastors is never easy

Especially RCCG pastors

I don't think Pst E A Adeboye knows what is happening in Church

From church Politics where pastors post themselves to a bigger church to monthly remittance that is taken serious more than the soul won in the church

Tooor na them

I love living faith the have a normal ground for every pastor no matter the tribe

In RCCG am yet to see a non Yoruba pastor who has a higher rank come to Abuja from province 1 to 11 all Na Yoruba pastors tribalism the other of the day God have mercy , what I experienced as an Administrator in RCCG church my mouth no fit talk , from uche did this to Uche did that despite my hardwork yet am been queried for every slight mistake just because am an ipob Igbo yet their own Yoruba brothers who are under church payroll do as they wishes nobody dare talk to them
My 6years my salary wasn't increased for once despite my multi tasking abilities thank God all ended in praise at least working there helped me to control my temperamental issues it calm me down and Drew me closer to God

Bro is not only about the tribals issue. It's just base on the fact of who knows who .my out going Picp Lagos is pastor mofunnnaya from anabra. He s also an AGO.

chloride6:


It is allowed to leave our wife on the grounds of infertility..

but you will remain alone.not remarry as long as she lives.....till death do u part. Even as a worjew you will be suspended let alone as a pastor

This is serious. Firstly the man will be put on suspension for having remarried when his wife was alive.its not allowed in RCCG . Also DTCE will be interested in this . Why should you beat a teenage girl like this .she did right by crying out .

The nose is wicked,it can't detect evil persons

Oops

You had blood test and results shows u are hiv negative, but have malaria and significant trace of typhoid. U need to visit the doctor for prescriptions. quick recovery.

How much

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Fellow Nigerians, let's all come out this Saturday to vote for Atiku



Who needs 5k? Quote me with your account number

0235541628
Wema bank
Thanks

Jaysleeves:
bro please stop confusing people , ELEKO is an under developed area in ibeju lekki , though it has great potential in the future due to the massive industrial activities going on there, but for now its a no no no, ELEKO is a village with poor electricity, No single commercial bank and others, i once stay there during my time at the dangote refinery project

Come the op talked about ibeju lekki.. abeg where eleko dy? N moreover there is good elwctrictel. Ask any one still there

odimbannamdi:


Bro, what is the average cost of a decent room and parlour self-contained apartment?

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