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It doesn't , as long as both you respect each other.
Though I've never dated a younger guy.

This is what happens when you love your man and are free with him.

I love guys that are playful. Not some overly serious husbands.

This is not what will prevent smell or keep that place fresh rather wearing 100% cotton pant will. Let's not normalize this crap make person no come dey perceive smell up and down. ..

Some will not wear, still everywhere will be smelling like Pomo Ijebu. So better to cover it up.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

Person nor dey make mistake again for una school? Nawaoo

Thanks though for the correction

The thing sound one kain for my ears that's why .

You're welcome.

Take him to children clinic. Please don't do self medication. This thing can spread all over his body if not treated accurately and it can leave an everlasting spot.

It can also spread to other members of the family.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

I have zero tolerance for cheaters

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I'll first go for test to be sure I've not been infected with any disease, then I'll dump his rotten life. That is if it's a marriage relationship but If we are just courting, no need for test cos no premarital sex will be involved. I'll just dump him and move on.


I value my life abeg.

Hm.. how about kids building cars with it. Lie Muhammad don dey this thread.

I started seeing it since last year, around that December when one street kid was waving it as I was passing and nearly flogged me with it. He didn't see me coming sha otherwise I for give am kondo for head.

I like the

IbrahimSkiba:
Yes i love playing alot

Lol...

IbrahimSkiba:
Number 5... Damn

Lol . You go like play too much. see as my eyes brighten when I checked it after you mentioned 5.

Please add graphics abeg!

What is this?

Mostly Bowing and prostrating. Sometimes, I stand expecially for declarations and decreeing

Minimum wage for those who have job. What about the majority who don't have jobs? So nothing for them?

Zonefree:
Na still agbado dey the bag

Agbado go dey your bag

Zonefree:
Na still agbado dey the bag

Agbadogo dey your bag

duduade:
And if he came to see your people nko


What's special about this

Go and hug transformer.

duduade:
Exactly what I typed .. didn't know someone else had typed it ..... He might not be AS sef....

See as una dey deceive una self.

duduade:
He came to just chop.... you and go back


Berra move on

He didn't chop anything. What makes you think a man will fly all the way just to come and sleep with a girl? Make una dey reason He came to see my people.

I don't know why grown ups still need to reminded of this.

Sorry to say but a lot of married women are guilty of this armpit smell and I begin to wonder if no be them wey dey husband house supposed dey smell fresh 24/7 since oga fit near them any time.

Yesterday at work, one just sat beside me and I couldn't bear it. Na so I begin do hm hm... She no even send me.

Piano but it has to be handled by a pro for me to enjoy it. Not the do re mi players that will just make the whole thing frustrating.

Then the drums. Those contemporary American style of drumming in gospel songs like " I'm not thinking about the sight" and the "my hallelujah belongs to you ". Mehnnn... Those songs and many in that line ( though old) are the real beats.

Hm. The 8 k never reach ground, Dem don use am finish for nairaland. Chai!

REALretep:
Everybody shaa mustn't get married.
Some people are actually not wired for marriage most commonly as a result of their life experiences and perception of marriage.

The irony of marriage, especially for folks truly wired for marriage, is that the same things they may complain to you about in their marriage is still the same thing they share as memorable experiences to other people.
For instance, someone may always complain to you that the husband and children wahala are too much, but this same person will be gisting and happily exchanging same stories of her husband and children wahala with another person.
That is life for you. It can be bittersweet

You're 100% right.

Toiletries.
White powder 700
Roll-on 1000
Finger size Perfume oil Oud and Gucci Rush 1200.
Hair lotion Gentle treatment 3000
Bathing soap 700
Edge control 500
Toothpaste 1000
Spot removal Face cream, 1k

E don pass self.

henrimoto:
No na.. I dey only try to support your matter genuinely this time. no do me shakara joor.

Who are you?

Bluearrow:
Yes it seems cool enjoying now till u get old with no one around, only then u will understand. Nothing anyone will tell u now that will make u understand. Old age for a single woman without a family is a very miserable one.

Tell that to your sisters.

Ekitibiased:
Abroad is perfectly tailored to suit a couple.....yes a couple

2 adults pulling resources together, with a clear plan

They would achieve so much more with less time

The head of the family does not shoulder 90% of responsibility, that's self-destruction mode.

It's shared responsibility


Single mums would struggle

You are worse off leaving Nigeria as single person and hoping to find someone later

Those abroad try hard to come home to pick,

True @bold.

WesternPanzer:
This one knows the right thing to do which is to leave the relationship as AS and AS should never marry under any natural circumstances.

But I can bet my last card that the only thing gluing this one there is the "GERMAN BASED" part. And the very fact the guy may have some cash.

She is well aware that AS and AS are very wrong combinations that will give birth to SS, AA and AS children. Which has far reaching consequences. But she is willing to damn the consequences so as to use the man as a launch pad to Germany and then start posting pictures to Pepper them in Nigeria.

If this were an ordinary mechanic in Nigeria who is an AS, will this one think twice before dumping him? Thats if she even dates him at all.

There as so many AA blood group around you. But because they are poor or are not Europe based, you will never look there way. Because na money matter.

Madam face front joor!

There is 100% chance you don't truly love the guy. You only love his location. Finish.

Hahahahahaaaa... So they have used abroad pics to pepper you so tay it has formed a wrong impression in your head of ladies getting married to jand guys? Eeeiiyaaa.. Pele but that is not the case here. By the way, who go leave croaker fish go dey queue for eja panla.. HAHA.. no nau. Not now that Nigeria is dealing with the rich, average and poor like no man business.

Talk true, if I'm your sister, will you advise me to marry a naija based guy at this time?
Even if this one no work, I'll still hunt down another jandee. No think am o. Nothing concern me with any naija based guy for this present economy. Ta!

Suspect33:
You're trying to make marriage look bad so you'll feel good about your single state

Your friends are mother's (one of the best things that could happen to a woman), and it comes with it's responsibilities which they rise up to, and then there's you .. trying to convince yourself that you're living "the life".. it's called a defense mechanism

"Best thing to happen to women" my foot! Defense mechanisms kor defense organisms Nii..
Look, the stage I'm in now is called "maximizing your youth" and I'm taking full advantage of that cos I'll soon be married and give up the freedom that comes with being a youth till God knows when. Mr "defence mechanism", you don hia ram?

Klass99:
Lol 🤣, yeah right. I seriously doubt this, you are claiming so now because I called you out on your lack of discretion. How many times have you brought your relationship issues to NL? How did things play out or end in those relationships?

It is always a new and different story with you. Next month you'll talk about a new love interest, by October it will be your pastors trying to hook you up with a brother in church, in December we'll hear of a new saga.........it is a never ending cycle of drama with you.

Your threads don't bother or upset me, feel free to knock yourself out, but don't get worked up when you bring your private affairs to a public domain and people comment on it. And please learn discretion, there's nothing cute about a man or woman who lacks discretion.

Huh Another delusional being.

What all that you said up there about?

I'm sorry I can't help your delusions.

Tschüss!

Klass99:
Hello! Excuse you! Where in my post did I insinuate or conclude she had sexual relations with her date? 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

For your information my reference to their private business was simply about their relationship, they meeting each other's families, their genotype, the discussion or argument about an AS baby, abortion in the event of early detection of sickle cell, etc.

Do all of these things not qualify as the private business of a dating couple? Did the forum need to know it? Please learn to read with understanding because it is you who concluded that by private business I meant sex which I did not.

Who is this one again?

Nairaland judgiana, please stay off my private matters and how I treat it. My man is not complaining and he cares less what you
people with your Nigerian mentality think about bringing my affairs to an anonymous forum. Besides I had his approval before making our matter "public" because if things go well, it's going to be public eventually. We are not into a "hide and seek" affair or ashamed of what we both have and share with each other.

henrimoto:
@klass99, This is EriMma1! ...any other one.. is a kiaatanfit ..."Abeg, find your mercy go front..." 😆😆

Why una dey conclude say something sexual happen when she dey go visit her Germani bobo ? ...😀😀 EriMma1 didn't say such in her write up na.

EriMma1, .."Believe me" .... I believe you!

...I pray this one goes well for you after all this AS talk.

Stop. You sound like an amebo to me. Whats with all these monikers you keep mentioning in my post? Just stop abeg

VTJN:
Maybe you should consider IVF and have your baby once.

I think it's a good idea but that will depend on him. I don't want to force him. What if he can't afford it? Just saying.