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josephsm823:
How about those who see sex as doing their man's favor?

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Before nko? Shey it's you people that make it look like food that you can't do without and must always have....

No be food.

Autobot05:
And her need must have to do with finance ba ?
Learn to cater for yourself ... then the man will respect you not begging for sub , money for hair , wigs and clothes etc everytime

An average Nigerian girl can't even transport herself to go see her boyfriend or pay for a meal when they both go out . Is it the same way in Europe and the west . Hungry girls everywhere. No wonder una nor dey see husbands sef.

LoL.. where the husbands kwanu? Is it the ones that are still struggling to feed themselves? You don't seem to get the drift.

Bye o.

Autobot05:
Ehen e reach Bills .. feminism turn to bullshit . So In your opinion feminism is about having equal right as a man but not having equal responsibilities as a man ba ??

Well a responsible man can manage his home and finance alone and do it properly .. it's all about frugality

Women are becoming increasingly accepted in all areas and sections in the workforce . And that was what y'all have always wanted. So go get a job ma'am.

No sensible man wants a woman that cannot bring anything reasonable to the table this days.

That was why I said you have no business being with a woman if you can't cater for her needs. Period!

advanceDNA:
Go and look for a man that will bankroll all ur bills and needs.....its fine if thats what u want.

Sure, I'll get me one soonest.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are kidding, right? Thing behind you is not an arse?

2. Look, for a fully functional adult to insist that dependence status, a life as a liability to others, is her lot, clearly such a being has no confidence in her existence as is. If you cannot even see that, then what a mess it really is.

Abeg shift!

Autobot05:
Times have changed .. back then women were not allowed to work . They were mostly housewives until y'all started your equality and feminism thingy
You wanted to work and the modern days brought equality which is good. Women are becoming anything they wish to be and they're hitting different landmarks and achievements ...Now you are complaining you want to go back to the days of housewifery ( probably because of laziness)

You skipped my question what do you bring to the table?

Leave that feminist bullshit! That's what you men are using as excuse to dodge responsibilities these days.

By the way, feminism is widely misunderstood. It doesn't mean equality with men in the area of financial responsibilities but equality of rights to work, earn and occupy certain office and political positions. You are just being ridiculous to think feminism is all about sharing financial responsibilities equally. No!

To your question, a womans duty is to make sure the home is in order and the children and husband are well fed and cared for. Manages the husbands finance very well. Proper Home and financial management are what we bring to the table.

StrongAlphMale:
What a parasite and a liability you are!

Waiting for a man to provide for you? As in per your father or what? Your father is the only man God created to provide and take care of you until you're married. Stop being entitled parasite. No man is responsible for taking care of you except your father!

See them. Na Dem 😂🤣😂🤣

Kobojunkie:
Dirty word?

Abeg, no come change channel. You created this thread.

Oh.. you don't know that arse is a dirty word?
And who's existence are you calling a mess?

It's like you're beginning to lose control of your mouth. You'll be jam-talking anyhow. You better Watch it!

Kobojunkie:
1. Leave God and His mention out of the mess that is your existence abeg!

You folks only mention His name when it suits , particularly to cover up one of your many ridiculous lies. And nothing you even do is of Him.

2. Where does this mandate you continue to claim come from? Your arse or where?

Kobojunkie, make that your mouth bend for using such dirty words on me. Are you ok?
If not for one thing now, i go blast you here, ahu a cha gi.

Mind your mouth.

Kobojunkie:
1. Shouldn't a woman first make certain she is able to meet her own needs as a capable individual should before she goes seeking a man of equal or greater financial status?

2. A man's duty? No be the same vagina una both take enter this world? No be one brain, one body we all get so? Who made it someone's else's duty to take care of another equally capable adult such as himself?

Go and read your bible oga. God placed that responsibility on the man.

So far, women have been getting empowered financially and meeting their needs by themselves since the men are beginning to fall short in their responsibilities and original position. So no biggies but that does not erase the fact that a man should cater for her needs.

Autobot05:
Another potential evening newspaper

Are you an orphan or you simply don't understand that adulthood is simply about looking out for yourself

When he meets your needs what do you bring to the table ?

You're missing the point and that is why a lot of you men have become so complacent and have refused to rise up to your duties as a man; expecting what a woman will bring to the table to feed you.

Go back to the ancient landmarks our forefathers set.

Sweet. I met light when I got back and there's still light. It's been very Fair since last year.

virginchaser:
Kindly mention one sensible reasonable man you had in mind.

Are you trying to say there are none? 👀 👀

He's falling for her money. Oponu. With her recent past record, no reasonable and sensible man would want to have anything to do with the public dog.

TossTos:
What are you doing with a woman that can't meet your need

Why should a woman be the one to meet your needs? Are women meant to til the ground? That's the man's duty from creation and even though women are now doing it. It still doesn't give a man the right to her money.

DaddyFreeze2020:
Don't come and start begging for husband to marry you like that woman in Paris looking for husband to marry her and pay after your youthfulness has passed and you're aging.

Go and work and get your own money too to contribute to your family..only lazy men without vision and plans can be poor.

Do you know my age? No. So don't conclude yet.

I still maintain my stance. Don't ever be with a man that cannot meet your needs.

No no no... You tell me?

A man who cannot meet your needs should not be anywhere around you because he'll only be a stumbling block to your progress and cause you to miss out on great opportunities that would have come your way through those who understand the assignment. Don't ever let such men around you.

I've never been an advocate for starting small with a man after my past experiences even before the economy got this bad not to talk of now that it has plunged deep into meltdown.

A lot of ladies who went into such mess in the early 2000s are still carrying the family till today while the men are struggling to meet up with no headways or hopes in sight. This takes me to the next point.

As a single man still struggling, don't ever brainwash or be brainwashed by any girl to go into marriage and manage with you until things get better. Y'all have seen that e go better has become the prayer of a poor man. So run away from such trap. Make it to a reasonable level first before going for a woman.

I don't want to begin to go into details of the eventualities that may likely occur and become very grave due to inability to tackle them financially. Use your tongue to count your teeth.

I remember a long time ago when I was dating one struggling guy. The aunty asked him a very good question I'll never forget in my life and that taught me a lesson I've been applying in life's situations.

He invited me to come spend the weekend with him that the aunt was around so I could feel relaxed. When I got there and the aunty saw me, she called him aside and asked him the following.
You know we are struggling to eat in this house. Your salary is not enough and you brought in a young girl. What if there's an emergency in the course of her stay, what will you do? How will you go about it? When he told me, I became scared and thought the aunt was right. I now remembered one certain time I visited a friend. So that night we strolled out to buy suya. I don't know if it was from the suya paper or the unhygienic environment it was prepared that gave me food poison. That night, I didn't know where I was. Serious stomach cramps and I was just coiling up in the room that day holding my stomach. Again this lawyer guy no get shishi to even take me to the nearest clinic. In his confusion he gave me garlic to chew. That seemed to help a little but omor, I broke up with him.

So, with this few points of mine, I believe iv been able to convince and not confuse you on the need to stay away from a man that cannot cater for your needs.

If you attack me, it shows you're a struggling guy or dating a struggling guy. Una eyes go soon clear. My own don clear tey tey.

Enjoy.

Oya My rice and chicken. Seun

It was a long time ago. Those tiny ones that don't grow past the size of a cockroach. They were nibbling on the money I kept in my old shoe rack for easy reach when ever I needed cash. Na so I commot the money from there.

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HanisahZuwy:
Alright. Thanks.

You're welcome.

HanisahZuwy:
Please, can you give me a name of one of such groups? You can mention me in a dead thread if you wouldn't want to say it here.

Just type young mothers group or vagina tightening group on Facebook, it will bring up so many groups where such topics are discussed.

You'll also see soaked groundut water method. I cant really remember how that one is prepared cos it's a long time I visited such groups moreso as I don't need them anymore after that second experience that I nearly died from pain and bleeding during sex after trying out two methods.

Type those key words and you'll find the groups.

Good luck!

I won't advise any man to do that cos I'm not ready to even disclose mine to any husband I'll marry.

I don't want to know how much you earn. Just carry out your financial responsibilities very well and provide for the family. We good .

Karlifate:
Damn!

This is a whole load of tutorial.

LoL... Go to young mothers group on Facebook, you'll see orisirisi tips there. Women who have given birth with slack vagina seeking help. Some will advise surgery but many can't afford it. So they give this kind of tips. Na there me I see am too. So In case I give birth, I'll know how to take care of that place because childbirth can disfigure that place too.

God help women.

HanisahZuwy:
About the sitting on hot water, some people say it slacks the vagina. That it kind of cooks the vagina. Using cold water is good. It works momentarily, but I don't know if it helps in the long run. That is, without applying it for sometime.

You won't sit inside the hot water. You'll sit on the bucket. It works.

The thing is, if you do it for some time and your body returns back to virgin state, you can stop and it will remain so. I didn't do it for long. Just a few times cos I was only experimenting and it closed my body completely.

Do the ice block method then if you're not convinced about the hot water method.

Overall, I think abstaining from sex for long works better.

Lol. No man deserves a virgin except he is one himself.

Just be careful the way you throw yourself out there on social media, let evil guys not plan you o.

Keep it up

Endure. You saw it while dating and you turned blind eyes. It's too late now to do anything. So bear with her.

woginid967:
Have a side chick and have peace.

Not all women love sex especially if the man doesn't know how to really put her in the mood.

Enjoy yourself with tinder, SFS, coddedruns.

But pls use condomzzz

Worst advice.

Op, if you don't want to dig your grave with your own hand, don't take this advice. Trash!

Try hot water seats bath like a woman that just gave birth.
Pour hot water in a bucket. Add Dettol liquid and sit on it to get the steam inside you.

Secondly, use ice block. Insert it into your VJ and allow it to melt there. Do this twice a week.

Then thirdly, abstain from sexual activities. Go celibate.

I once experimented with this method (not because I was wide down there or anything). I saw it online and people say it restores ones virginity. So I did it in 2007 after I quit a relationship with my guy then and I went celibate from that time till 2013. Men, the man I wanted to marry then now tried to do it. It was so tight and painful that I bled for three days.

He kept asking me, are you a virgin? I said no but he was surprised at the amount of blood. Funny enough, I didn't bleed that much when I originally got disvirgined but this one was... Though I'm not that sexually active type.

Try it. It might work but you must abstain.

Kobojunkie:
Where are the moderators to push this thread so that other women who may find themselves in a similar situation can understand the brain damage that is this worship of men?

No be only front page. Na back page. Something I've already erased .

Kobojunkie, zuruike.. rest!

They now want us to vote for them again.... Na so

Go and marry ashawo na. Nonsense.

This is why I've given up on men. Na that ashawo na him fit una. Rotten dogs.