₦airaland Forum

SimpleGuy001:
Hi, What are the best residential areas in shomolu?

Market street is good.
Bajulaiye and petti-dah areas are fair.


Unilag road and akoka pako area are better. Saint finbarrs road too is good.

I don have it

Teacher Eliza

Most companies no longer accept hard copy of CV. So they would usually tell you to senf it through email to them.

Just have a copy in your mailbox and search online for recruiting companies you can send it to..

Also be prayerful and ask God what he wants you to do and that He should guide you to the path he wants you to go.

Thunder fire your mouth. Shey the girl carry am dey campaign for class or what is this one saying?

I remember we used to wrap our own books with NNPC and other company calendars those days. Why were we not sent home?

Abeg make una get out!

I would say use as desired or until you're satisfied with the taste.

As for me, I use 4 cubes for one derica of jollof rice and I add little or no salt because the seasoning cubes already serve as salt for me.

Then for a medium sized pot of soup, I use 4 cubes. 2 for boiling meat and two in the main soup. For stews, because it's lighter, I use 2 or 3 cubes.


If I don't use meat for the food especially jollof, I can use 5 or 6 cubes because food is meant to be sweet otherwise it will be too bland and boring.to eat. At least I'm still better that one of my neighbors that uses 10 cubes 😂😆😂😆😂😆.. make una leave me Biko.

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Mynd44

Abeg, make we hear what others use and laugh small.

😂😂😂😂... All the men talking about peace of mind over beauty are deceiving you cos non of them will settle for an ugly girl. So do you

99% of men go after beauty. The ones that end up with ugly women are either trapped mistakenly with pregnancy or forced by their Church to marry the girl.

I remember one of my male colleague back then saying even if the girl is an ogbanje, he'll marry her like that provided she's beautiful. That is how much he detest ugly girls.

Op, follow your heart but this one you said the fine girl is a sex perve, na big red flag be that o.

seguno2:
Tinubu and his thugs should not kill him like they must have killed Engr. Funsho Williams in the run up to the 2007 elections.

They can't. I soak him in the pool of the blood of Jesus.

Must they use gragra for everything? Na wa o!

Why
Nothing must happen to this handsome guy o. I don talk my own.

Babsolala:
Firstly, this is exactly how silly people end their posts. They write such senseless conclusions to blackmail people into staying mute. If you had not written this, I probably won't need to describe you as a silly person!

Secondly, there are guys or ladies that started off with the little that they had, but are doing really great for themselves today. I know quite a number of such.

Bottom line, your idea or experience is not a "one size fits all". People need to learn from others, but in the end, let people do what works for them.

The mere fact you're attacking me simply shows this is your reality and instead of picking the positive ones and working with it, you resorted to insults. Anyways it is expected as usual. Nigerians like to be reactive than proactive. So I understand.

Cheers.

Pimplewankeeme:
The name pls?

Here's the soap

Then the face cream

You can get the soap from women selling agbo

For someone with an acne pron skin, you don't need bio oil cos one, it's not meant for the face neither does it clear acne. it will only clog your pores and cause more pimples. Get a proper acne treatment.

Get the natural local black soap and be using it to wash your face. Use BSC face cream at night. It will clear it.

The black soap is not the jet black one. It's the one wrapped in brown paper, sold by herbal sellers.

QueenVaji:
Can't u just see that nobody wants to talk to u...if u like the op why don't u start talking to her instead of forming backup artist for her...abi u no dey shame for this ur life...nobody likes u..u just dey here dey lick op ass

Hmmm... I knew this is where this whole pain and anger is coming from. pure jealousy.

For your info, Kobojunkie is my nairaland crush. Kee yourself.

Na wa o.

After bringing children into the world, he now ran away, saddling the woman with responsibility of taking care of the children they both had together.

Women, make una too wise up. See her now standing helpless in the court with a huge debt and no husband in sight to assist. All these could have been avoided.

Struggle with a man at your own peril.

God1000:
You called men despicable and you want the same men to shadow your responsibilities, are your hands tied?

Did you read right? I said some men.

I will continue to say it. Let the men be allowed to carry all the burden so they can be responsible in the home.

Listen to this woman's ordeal and learn a great lesson.

Some men are despicable.

You can bash all you want I don't care.

https://www.facebook.com/100082804324719/posts/155191503917660/


Another one here beating the wife.
What do people even enjoy in marriage?


https://www.facebook.com/reel/1603099936790481/

QueenVaji:
Carry ur long throat go man house go chop suya. u no even get 20 naira to buy tetracycline...u get luck say she no die that day...tagbuo kwa owegi na suya there...imagine the audacity of a poor rat

You are pained. Go and hug transformer.

Continue crying.

Kobojunkie:
1. Exactly! A woman has no right to wake up one morning and decide the man must get out. He had to have done something to give her that power and leverage over him. The silly man conveniently left that important detail out of the video which is obviously meant to smear the woman.

Don't mind the op. This is a skit. At the end of the video both couple were seen advising people who do such things to desist from it. The op cut out that part. I don watch the full video since three days ago.

Op, Weldon.

ddeola:
Tell me what the woman is doing. Are they not supposed to help each other as husband and wife?

Na so many of una dey miss correct husband because of impatience and materialism.

Which correct husband wey go take hunger kill you?

RedPilChurchBoy:
Bitter truth.

REDPIL truth. No man should get angry at you on this position.

Don't forget to advise your fellow ladies to keep their virginity and also maintain our traditional values. So that after we have laboured and fit to marry, we would not have to settle for trash and overused pụssy.

They will hear Nnam. They will, as soon as men resume back their fatherly roles and assume their manly duties.

Umu Ada, una don hear When!
Our husbands, carry go nothing for you. We are solidly behind you.

QueenVaji:
i can't believe that people are actually replying and engaging themselves with a big FOOL like you... thunder fire both you and the people replying an idiot like u with a very low IQ

See.. this right here is what majority of you have been reduced to and the reason you lost touch of the purpose of your existence. A man doing choo choo choo with a woman. Na man be that one? And if you're a woman, quickly pick one of them from here. Una match.

sharone21:
Just reading the story of Actor Ogbebor whose wife had to call him out after losing 2/kids they had since he was financially incapable....

The MAIN job of a man is to LOOK FOR MONEY...If he fails in this one main task for his family( doesn't have to be Bill Gates), he isn't ready and not mam enough to make any home.

Women are saddled with more tasks and we still have to go out and look for money if not people will say u have no impact on a man...However, no matter how much a man loves u there are certain roles of women that he can NEVER do and if he does it, he pays through his nose.

OP is right, though women can support but with or without financial support for a man, the woman is already playing all her roles plus his, and his only role is to get money - abi men are handicaps( lol)?

Tell them. The mention of responsibilities makes them lose their sense of reasoning making them irresponsible indeed. I'm talking about the men who believe it's not their duty to cater for their wife and children cos I know we still have some responble ones among us.

Last night, I saw a MAN bargaining with the Mallams that sell yams and pleading with them to accept transfer. He stood there for hours trying to talk this Mallam into accepting. I was just looking at him in admiration. You know... It was his persistence for me. If it were some men here, they won't even bother if their family ate or go hungry. In fact they will use this no cash crises as an excuse to starve their family to death.

Majority of the men here are highly irresponsible with exception to the sensible ones amongst us who live up to their responsibilities.

wildikeman:
So you would agree when a man sys shut up and go to the kitchen...and stay there till you are needed...in bedroom

So because he's a provider, he'll now become a monster and not know how to treat others with respect? Very shallow way of reasoning.

I'm out of here.

kushme:
I have the means to cater for a woman but I won't do it. Thief mentality..

Na you body go tell now.

BenedictAbajue:
If love never existed in a mans heart.
It would be cheaper for me to get a housemaid that cooks, cleans and caters for my adopted children than to get a wife that wont provide.
You just reason am na.

The only special thing a wife does is childbirth.

EriMma1 Say for instance, you get married today. What would you take as your responsibility in the house? Since you won't provide

I'll cook for him and his children
Tidy the house and look after the children. That's enough responsibility to combine with ones job as a working class mum.

Profitsystemx10:
When men say “what you bring to the table as a woman”, many of you misunderstand its meaning.

We don’t mean food or money. A real man doesn’t need his wife’s money or any other materialistic valuable.

We mean “what can you provide that will be a benefit”, other than achieving housewife duties? You as a woman can never give your husband the kind of money he envisions, so, calm down. At the end, you all will be like “after all I have done for you “, because you didn’t give whole heartedly but with expectations.

Can you bring the necessary encouragement I need when things are rough or you nag and complain?

Can you be as prayerful even when things are going smoothly and we as a couple have all the money we need?

Can you offer to help me manage a portion of my business so I don’t spend expense on an extra staff?

Can you motivate me when I’ve just had a rough day or had a deal that didn’t go through?

Can you teach my kids how to be great men and women when they grow up, even when I’m in the trenches or on a business trip?

Can you back me up with the little connections you have so we grow as a family?

I can go on and on, but, this is to just let you men and women understand.

When asking a woman what she brings to the table, don’t expect her to bring money for you to eat or feed. Additionally, as a woman don’t assume it’s a mans job to only bring to the table whilst you sit and fill up the cushions and beds in the house, eating, getting fat, and buying all the clothes and make ups in the world.

Would you be a Queen or a housewife?

When men talk about "bringing to the table," they are actually talking about shared responsibilities mostly in the area of finance. That's why you hear them calling the woman a leech, liability and all what nots. They don't understand it the way you put it here.

I hope they learn.

Bullythebully:
I don't even want to believe that this thread has lingered for up to 16 pages because of a woman choice.
This is really unfair.

At least we see threads littered by males against non virgins,against single moms,against 30+women . But just one thread of men providing and they are triggered. Why can't they allow women to chase their dream men the way the chase their virgins?

All ladies that are viewing this,don't be shamed into believing your wants are "entitlement".

Wear your hypergamy with pride. Men vet brutally when looking for who to settle with. You have seen for yourself how they treat and sham single moms,30+ women,divorcees etc.

If you sadly fall into any category of the aforementioned then you are in peppersoup in the average Nigerian man eyes. No one will hear your story. The average man is capable of adhering to nuances.

Don't let them scare or frighten you into believing all men are average and you can't get a comfortable or rich man. This is to scare you into settling for them. Their fantasies always revolve around something bad happening to you just for your choice(being impregnanted and dumped,ending up with a rich abusing guy,or being used for ritual). And I ask,if struggling or broke guys are virtous,why are nairaland men(who are usually struggling financially) vile?

Secure your children future. Don't let your kids suffer ridicule in school because he can't buy that fancy toy their classmates have.

Don't even believe in "he has prospects" or "future" stuff. It is as good as a Christian declaring he will go to heaven in the afterlife. Vet men brutally as they vet your last brutally.

Gbam! The is the whole truth summed up in one breath, nullifying all the numerous wailings and baseless arguments throughout the pages of this post

Case closed.

wildikeman:
Hey woman...shut up..you are talking to a potential husband..know your place

He's not a potential husband. He's my egbon. We be cat and rat for here. Leave us.

REALretep:
While I agree with your submission on the basis that the society expects a man to be able to cater for the needs of his family, I however feel I should remind you that all that glitters is not gold.

Don't focus your mind wholly on a man's economic status and forget other equally important marital matters.
It's a crazy world we live in. Let God guide your steps.

Of course now. That's just one of the so many things a woman should look out for before commiting to marriage; including the source of his wealth before he uses her to renew it in the future.

kazyhm:
Your age is not a secret going by your experiences with this two men you stated......at what can a gal go spend weekend with a boyfriend?

I be Grandma o. No go there.

ogbe88:
This one never still get sense, until life teach u lessons.

The one life will teach you will be worse if you don't guard against such nonsense. Go and marry a woman and dont take care of her. You will know what's up.

DonBenny77:
Ancient landmarks women didn't go to school.
Now you started kindergarten same age with a man and progressed likewise. You should be able to at least feed yourself and provide your basic needs.

So a married woman should be feeding herself in her husbands House? You men have really lost it and funny enough, this is what is obtainable in most Nigerian homes. The women are not only feeding themselves but the children and in some cases the man.