The First Lady of Kogi State, Hajia Rashida Yahaya Bello has brought joy and happiness to the faces of her domestic staff and security aides as she doles out N1m each to appreciate them for their diligent services. This is coming few months after she gifted some of the staff cars.
She was captured in a video sharing two bundles of N1000 denominations to the staff as they explode in excitement.
The benefitting staff could not hide their joy as they sang her praises in excitement.
According to a source from government who spoke with our correspondent, said it is a routine practice as she occasionally decides to surprise them with cash and other gift items. And even sponsored them abroad in different occasions.
They attested that she enjoys seeing those around her happy especially the security men who takes risk in protecting lives ..
Hajia Rashida has been praised for embarking on massive charity campaigns in the past within and outside Kogi where she grant many her numerous scholarship awards, widows empowerment programmes and other life touching works through her foundation.
satandeterrible: Brother, let me tell you. Forget what everyone else might be saying here. Your wife's case is not a case or post partum depression or whatever jargon they want to give you. Its all lies. Stupid lies intended to manipulate you into believing that she is not conscious of the actions she has been taking.
No reasonable woman will fail to take care of her baby, depression or not. No reasonable woman will just wake up and tell you the marriage is over, depression or not. Believe otherwise at your one peril. I strongly put it to you that your wife is fully aware of her actions and she is fully thinking out every of her steps.
That being said, you dey eff up. You dey eff up big time. Why will you care about what other people say? That's a very unattractive, low quality from a man. Honestly, how can you give a damn about what people say about your life. Your own life?
My man, as it stands now, divorce is the best option. Divorce that lady now and start looking for a sensible girl to marry, if you're so inclined.
Even if you do not divorce her immediately, take your child away from her. It is wickedness on your part to allow your own toddler not to receive enough attention and care at this crucial stage. You have been wicked to that baby and you must now ammend your steps. How do you feel when you know fully well that your wife is not taking care of your infant? How do you sleep at night? No matter the care from your in-laws, parental affection cannot be matched. You do not expect that they'll take care of the baby the way you should have done.
I cannot even imagine that my own offspring is not beign taken care of properly by my wife, yet I abandon him/her to my in-laws to take care of. That is so low of you. So, so low. I am disgusted! How can your child be suffering neglect why you, the father, are alive? Please don't give me the bullcrap of in-laws. Unless you want to say your in laws are better human than you are.
Now is time to get over your neglect and wickedness towards your own offspring. Take back your child now. If necessary, employ a nanny who will help you take care of the child. But you have to make extra sacrifices. Do not abandon the child to the nanny. Take extra steps to be overly present and involved in the taking care of your own child.
This is exactly what you have to do. If you decide to take any other directly contrasting opinion from this forum, I assure you that it will most certainly not end well.