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fatymore:
Why don't you give your room a new look.
I sell quality and affordable bed sheets and duvet

Howmuch

wunmi590:
Lol, it might be better in other company, but definitely not where I work.

The reason why they do this 60-40 is to tie staff down from resigning their jobs.

When they pay on the 1st of New month and you intend leaving the coy, you will be forced to wait till the 5-6 of the month to collect your remaining salary, if not, it might be difficult for you to get the remaining 40% when you leave there.

It is a very big strategy to keep staff there.

Seriously.. Do u mean you are paid ist of every month of work of the previous month?

Straight to looking for that thread

ogawisdom:
Yes any man single single after 40 is not only a fool but a goat

udonmeanit

how do you get rid of an ex who doesnt wanna leave u

wunmi590:
60% come in on the 1st or 2nd of the new month, while the remaining 40% comes in either 5th or 6th

better company ..they pay you to work well so you dont feel owed ...bigups ...where u locateed ?

Hillsabah18:
So just yesterday this my female friend was gisting me how she used pregnancy to collect money from 2 stingy guys in December.
1. She may be pulling ur legs. Buy a pregnancy test strip and let her confirm it b4 you.
2. If she saw her period 4 days after you had sex, that baby may be mine not yours. Lie to her that you'll gake her to a new medical facility in Abuja where DNA can be conducted on a foetus. Judge her reaction..
3. Next time learn the act of withdrawal. My own babe usually pulls out my CD but i use withdrawal and sometimes she takes morning after pill. She's aware im not ready for a child yet.
All the best

is it postinor 2?

a country called nigeria

Hows and liars are like pills and portions

Picture of corolla camry 2016 or I don't believe this story

Capensis:
He is a stupid man. These days they see us paying rent for girls, and they, with their peanut salaries, also want to pay rent for women.

Any man, who is living on rent, and I do not care if you pay 10m rent, but pays rent for a lady, is a fool. He probably boasted how wealthy he is and how secure his job is, so he can Bleep a big girl, then went ahead to use 'Salary' to pay rent for a girl. While he moves around with big beards.

These days, bearded guys are the most wretched ones. They think growing beards is what makes a man masculine.

The girl needs to recover real quick and get people to come beat the hell out of his broke asss.

Oga you no get joy at all

ZIMDRILL:
well you know yourself inside that you are not ready financially therefore mentally, you are not becoz you have told yourself aready that finnancially that you are not

there is nothing wrong with your current decision atleast you seeing your life from future point view that those who want you to married now as if they will help you to look after your wife and kids

what you need to is to explain to your parents, your current plans for now which is reasons why you dont want to marry this early

they might agree or not but you would communicated direct and would much easier to explain your than those who keep on saying next year

marriage is not about pleasing parents, when things are tough they wont chip all they would say is be a man

the same people who used to asked why are not married they would dissapear when tbings are tough

Thanks for the advice... U said the reality

Raalsalghul:
Here's a link to the beer parlor thread: https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/ashewo-beer-parlour-share-ashewo
Besides is it not your life, why do you feel you have to come up with solid points to make them back off you.
Do whatever you want with your life without having to explain to anyone.
Again, I will advise leave this country while you can.

Tnks for the link... Sure I got to... But money is required to get out...

pocohantas:
Okay, because my elder bro is about your age and my dad is already hinting marriage. The guy no just send.

Exactly... I dunno why they do that... They keep saying they made mixtake not to have married early.

I think he's still gonna think abt it.. He wouldn't just open a thread like me.. Cnt hide mine

Raalsalghul:
At the end of the day, it's up to you. Like I said before "just my opinion"

Thnks man...shallom

Rosarie:
life throw challenges at us.we need to be prepared at all times is what I mean.anything can happen tomorrow.shikenabl
Time waits for no one

Alright.. Thanks and noted

Raalsalghul:
Nah. You should be older than me by a few months, but I've never been the optimistic type towards marriage. Hence, my folks don't even mention the "M" word to me.

Oh I see.. Dats a good one.. U don't know what you enjoying... Less headache..

Im not optimistic... They just keep screaming it in my head... I had to start thinking abt it

pocohantas:
Your income isn't the problem, the problem is you are not ready. Marry when you are psychologically ready for it. No be your parents go help you face the challenges.

Are you an only son?

You might be right tho...

Im. Not the only son, but first son, second born.. My half broda is the last born after 4 generations

Raalsalghul:
As regards the right age to marry....there is non. It's up to you pal, but 5 years from now at age 32 wouldn't be bad. Just my opinion though. Imagine what you would have achieved by then all things being equal.

Hmmm.. 32... Damn... Is dat not too late?... Hehehe.. U dnt know my people

Raalsalghul:
So many factors involved here.
We are talking about location, a working/dependent wife, do you plan to have kids immediately.
I will advise you keep that marriage thing on hold.
Leave this country as quickly as you can. Your leaders don't care about your unborn kids.
If na konji dey worry you, I suggest the beer parlor thread.

Hahahaha.. Were the beer palour thread dey.. But on a serious note.. Its never conji... Its pressure, I just need good advice to counter them or soccumb if they telling truth for my benefit

Mizwisdom:
Many people are married with under N100K salaries, some even marry without a means of livelihood. N200K is good, plan your family, 2 kids max, you will live like a King. The more kids you have, the more expenses you will need to cater for

Are you saying i should get married, not considering my tots of starting a life in the west.. You didn't even say a word considering that.... Thanks tho

Raalsalghul:
So in your own opinion, any man not married at 40 is a fool? The way people reason at times.

Are you 40 and not married?

Raalsalghul:
Op please I beg you listen to this advice. I will suggest you concentrate on your travelling plans because once you get hitched, the wife and kids responsibilities will bog you down. In addition, I'm sure you don't wanna start breeding into this shit hole call Naija. 200 k/per month is okay as a seed money for you to use and build your life. Please do that. No let konji/fine ladies flocking around to deceive you. Be warned!

Thanks pal... I see sense here too.. But at what age do u think it's right to get married,?

ogawisdom:
What's your location

With 200k monthly u can live as a king in some locations.

27 is quite young for a man u need more maturity say by 30 yrs max u can get married

200k is enough to start a family with a productive wife

Very few 40 yrs old men earn up to 200k but almost all 40 yrs old men are married except the foolish ones that are fools at 40

Currently in ota, exactly I feel 27 is young but they make me feel I'm so old.

Whats your meaning of a productive wife?

dingbang:
You can marry with a 200k salary..

Ok gotten, but do u think dat wouldn't hinder me getting a new life in the west

Rosarie:
U can marry with 100 k Nn still make something out of it.depends on ur wife ND u.how u both can plan.if u know you are not mentally ready then don't.if I am ur mom.I will pressurize u to marry.......

Seriously, dnt make me laff here... Unfortunately I dnt have a mum to do that... So the pressure is frm dad and unkle, his wife and others.... Mentally, I can't really tell... If feels exciting, but reality I've always gotten frm alot of stories shared here

Rosarie:
true talk .some people die early.....nothing like settling down early

Hello, wht do you mean.. I cant comprehend

bukatyne:
You are not ready to be married hence the questions.

When you are ready, you will know.

As I earlier said... I needed guide to make a decision, if you ain't providing the, you could calmly pass pretending you didn't see the post.. As I said, matured people only...