₦airaland Forum

MannieA:
wtf are u sayingyou are obviously a stingy type....na who give dey receive... wats bad to loan ur girlfriend money....mtchewww...stinginess will kee some pple sha!!!u will see the truth but refuse to say the truth.... mtchewww

guyz of these days are just holding on to their pasts...holding on to heartbreaks.... holding on to the girls who have disappointed them...and have now developed a dumb mentality DAT girls shouldn't be taken care of....move on!!!there are good girls...!!! don't let ur blessings pass u by!!

Really... U dnt even kno me, nd u term me stingy? In wat sense... Well, cnt blame anyone who's held unto experience as thier guide.... Its certainly the best teacher

Read the story well, no one is depending on anyone, for 8 years no penny dropped why na?Mfunny enough she makes her own money to still look attractive for the stingy guy

I think she attractive for herself.. Atleast she dated others in between breaks

Liliyann:
That guy doesn't value you!!
This is one of the reasons that I can't date struggling guys!!!
You need to be with someone that values you!!!
Someone that is crazy about you!!
Someone that is ready to spend his last dime to prove his love for you!!
Real men don't wait for their girl to ask before giving them, they spend willingly and happily!!!
Call me a gold digger but I don't care, my happiness comes first in everything, Financial security is one of the things that makes me happy!!!

What security are u talkin abt when u don't own ur money.. Pls get sense

Susu888:
Lets say relationship is not an occupation like most people r blaming her for.... but even to loan her(not dash her O”) to loan her money is a biggy for this guy?? The mofo is stingy as fvck i swear! Later on him go dey complain if she no allow him browse... abi na him mama pussy? Or did he inherit her that common sweet gesture nd money favours go dey hard for him? Wicked Idiot! Na men like him dey tarnish our image. Jst imagine

Can you please be quiet and let elders deliberate.. If u attention is needed.. We wud hint u

Nwibii:
That was how I was dupe by this same people in April this year of 15,500, and later again I paid 20k.

Where una dey get this money to pay?

Pureety:
Its quite unfortunate that most of all this guys that are always quick to castigate a lady have never asked a girl out physically!!!

Its better to end up in shiloh than to be with an abusive, inconsiderate cheat as a husband!!
No rush in marriage!

Lol.. I could cheat considerably if you let me

Corrinthians:
What if it is and what if I Am a farmer? Is there something wrong with being a farmer?

Idiotic questions like this are mostly asked by ignorant little kids still feeding off of their poor parents.

Jesu christi

Corrinthians:
What if it is and what if I Am a farmer? Is there something wrong with being a farmer?

Idiotic questions like this are mostly asked by ignorant little kids still feeding off of their poor parents.

Jesus christi

Xaos:
That's because the really smart ladies tend to just put less effort into their appearance and generally don't have such a big nyash. Instead most are head-masters.

Bros your head dey there... How take know?... I cn never forget Helen.. Smart and articulate.... Not good in bed.. But her head... My God... If your not careful, u fit convulse...

Congrats

I.m Speechless

He beats a lady.. He's disgusting

lastclaire4:
Lol u no know me. Well, where I work is not bad but wanted a new job. But at the same time my happiness is very important to me. I have been in a place where I don't like to see Sunday evening cos of what I will face in the week. I never looked forward to Monday. If the first one was a mistake and a lesson then if I allow myself go through it again then I must stupid.

I know you?

lastclaire4:
I get your points though. But sometimes peace of mind is more important than money. I turned down a job because of this. I noticed it when I went for an interview. But do you know there is a certain lady who is currently abused by that same person that made me turn down the job.I always pet her whenever she comes around.

Hmmm.. Abii dem no take you for the job

wunmi590:
Young man, it shows that you are the real lazy and jobless fellow.

Kindly ready again, and open my first thread and read again, and take a chill pill.

Because i am earning 6 figure does not mean, i will allow somebody to abuse my mother.

If you have been taking such insult, then, it means you dont have self respect for your mother.

The talk cut ur mama leg?... She hear am?.... Why wud dey rain abuse on you if u dnt repeat what's not instructed or if u dnt flow with the company's culture... U seff abuse bk and collect ur salary

CreepyBlackpool:
ok I didn't read your other thread.

What I'm trying to say is, you should have a survival plan before quitting.

This country is hard rn, and is even harder for the unemployed.

Have you saved enough to at least start up a small business or at least live well till you get a new job.


These people that will support your decision here will not give you a new job oh!

You speak the truth my Guy... Wen i got tired of my former job , I started applying online for roles that suit me, luckily I got called up, I just quit immediately... Trust me relocation alone cost me 400k+ just within the state... So survival plan is very important especially now he's nt moving to a new job

missingribs:
Most times I feel lonely but when I make friends I get bored easily....how do I classified this

They probably not your missing ribs

sKeetz:
Na that dirty bed you wan sell for 30k ?

Help me ask am ooo

Preator:
Not in the next 10yrs, but fashola will still promise you 40gw if they are reelected

Only the ignorant believes that... Discos have even gone as far as placing isolators on 33kv feeders.... They now load shed 33kv...and if that's load shredded.. Whats the fate of the majority on 11kv feeders... Such a pity

nanizle:
Let me give you an example.

TCN says 'Disco A' should take 700MW and distribute/sell to customers.

'Disco A' says no and takes only 300MW (load rejection), intentionally leaving many other customers without power.

One common ridiculous and unacceptable reason for this load rejection is 'they can't collect the bill for 700MW' from customers. Same discos that intentionally won't give customers prepaid meters.

Discos are not ready to do real electricity business in Nigeria. They are just profiting from a broken system via estimated billing with apparently no intention to improve their network and capacity.

Meters aren't the problem cos bypassing is paramount with nigerians.... The load rejection is the main thing, cos if u give meter and reject load, u lose both ways....

Preator:
You would have been right except you missed the wheeling capacity of TCN which is roughly 5GW(even that is a doubt now as some section of the grid are not adequately maintained)

Furthermore, generating capacity is far different from generated energy due to constraints. The major constraint is usually gas which keeps quite a number of our gas turbines idle.
By the way, if the gencos generates and tcn wheels out, the discos have to distribute or the system collapse(EE guys can confirm this). Plus they pay for the idle capacity too.

The discos refuse to distribute energy even when available to reduce load, therefore forcing generation to shut down turbines.... The way they load shed these days is majorly for this purpose. Since they couldn't improve thier ATC & C losses.. Thats the only way to go... Nigeria can never have light with this operating system

Na ask u dey ask, or posting ad?

Hbd dear... Wishing you more years to celebrate in goodhealth and sucess

JERRY1925:
and you feel she's begging bcoz u hit her well sex wise? lol, fact is, she just feel sorry. probably you her best option. probably, she regret her actions.. bcoz u were different.. from her ex. oga, she just feel bad... it's not about sex my friend.
Alot of guy can hit her better.

Ure right bro... I think I was her best option .. She probably has a plan B to rest on... We broke it off

Dat guy is just an classic boogie, no joy at all

AAU my blessed school... I will forever remeber how rugged you molded me to be... And for u wen they talk say dem gbadu uniben result pass AAU, u nor wise... No employer dey resine which school u go.... Dem no even wan no.... Na result be koko... As far say dem accredit the school... Na allele... So no dey talk mumu talk online....

drnoel:
Bro that is very common among Nigerians. Why the person in question here will never get an honest opinion of things.

Bros, the thing just tire me... How can people be so wicked even online to thier fellow man in diaspora... Whom dey don't even know... Is it oversabi or wickedness.. I hate thier Guts abegg

wunmi590:
Na so I see am oo, my brother, but what can someone do, this is Nigeria.

Lol... Tins re gonna be fine... Cheers

Picking him up is no big deal... One thing is for sure, as a nigerian leaves this country to America, he sure and gradually puts away local mentality i which these reactors are trying to let you see.. Im glad you could say you man is a great guy... Some stupid folks are out here trying to tell u he's using you for gains... All of una dey craze... Nigerians sabotaging each other from the days of obasanjo ... Nobsense

OP... Make no mistake... Go home to your aunt... Spend few days with them, discuss with them if they can link u up to any connect for a job to fend for urself.. If no, thank them for the journey so far... Ensure u establish a peaceful atmosphere while at this... Tell them ur intention to go out to the world... Hear thier advice, thou uve made up your mind... Then follow everyting else, they fellow above my post said....

All those talk abt, dem no cater for u well just shut up u hear.... No body owes u shit.... Be always grateful to them and never remember that bad times with them... Them fit send u go sch, dem try.... I give dem hand... Dem give u food chop and shelter.... U weren't a maltreated slave...so give dem cuddles... Every other stuff u wrote to me is uneccesary for this post

wunmi590:
I am the administrative officer/facility maintenance manager

How can you be an officer and a manager at the same time... Why are they deceiving with names and virtual portfolios?