Family › Re: Pressure To Marry Early by Erums(op): 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
HMPD: If you have the intention of travelling out to the west then don't get married. I will advice you focus your attention on your travelling out plans considering your age.
200k monthly income with other reliable source of income should be able to sustain any marriage
I will suggest you focus on your travelling out plans, career development and establishing more source of income for now because Marriage and work is pretty much demanding and leave no or little room for self growth Oh thnks.. I pretty much talk to them abt career growth and how marriage might limit that..... But my unkle keeps saying he continued his career after he got married... And look how successful his become... They keep insisting that early marriage wud lead to a early and a stable future especially with the kids |
Family › Re: Pressure To Marry Early by Erums(op): 6:31pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
Emmafe: It depends on the standard of living you want for your family.
Check my siggy if you need iPhone xr As I explained earlier.. I dnt feel I need a family now.. Family pressures bro... So at least an average family lifestyle that gets all she needs |
Family › Re: Pressure To Marry Early by Erums(op): 6:30pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
Grupo: For how long have you been earning the 200k?
If you should lose your job today, how many months or years will you be able to sustain yourself without another job? Few months ago... Ive just been trying to grow salary... Its been like 100k+ for sometime That I can't tell... Its gonna depend on my savings.. But i dnt think it's dats grab.. Cos i cnt boast of 4 million as savings money |
Travel › Re: Polar Vortex: Breathtaking Photos Shows How Insanely Cold It Is In America Now by Erums(m): 6:25pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
DexterousOne: That's the south west na.
North East/mid west are the region's most susceptible to cold like this Yes ure right bro and that's were most blacks are situated |
Family › Pressure To Marry Early by Erums(op): 6:24pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
Hello guys,
I'm going to be brief,
Im starting to receive pressure from family to get married, mind you im just 27 and i have a job, payment is average if compared to the nigeria economy monthly basis if i work pretty hard 200k upward. It's not really abt the money but my family feels I'm all prepared to be married as at now. Thou I have the intention of traveling to the west and starting a life, what I'm gonna do there I don't know yet, thus I'm still keeping a low profile on that not letting family know.
I just need candid advise from matured minds.
Is it not too early to marry?
Can 200k sustain a family pretty well?
. I don't want my family lacking, atleast my wife and my kids should be able to get thier demands averagely met.
I need experience people to guide me out here. Thanks |
Travel › Re: Polar Vortex: Breathtaking Photos Shows How Insanely Cold It Is In America Now by Erums(m): 5:54pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
Snow don't fall at this rate in all states.. My friend is even on a hike mission at the moment in his Phoenix |
Family › Re: Brand New Luxury Semi Detached 4bedroom Duplex With BQ In Lekki See Pics by Erums(m): 8:01pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
Are we buying the house for that amount or we are renting? |
Family › Re: Just Felt Like Sharing This; So Stressed Out by Erums(m): 7:50pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
angelfrnd: There's always a first time for everything. If only my interviewers knew, because I'm yet to go for NYSC I can't work. Well, their loss if only they knew my potentials. 
Who am I?
I'm a young girl with big dreams who have struggled her way to today, with God as her only friend and comforter. Growing up has been so hard, was made to study hard in Primary and Secondary school, get scholarships cos my parents couldn't afford my school fees, though they tried their best; moved my siblings to govt school.
Life goes on..........
Then life in the University, hmmmmm. I finally got into school a virgin after so much temptation ( I know this might be too much or unnecessary information). The pressure was so much in school, I could barely feed. I had to go against my "no boyfriend" principle. The bottom line is I don't like sex or boyfriend drama, I just want God, my family and dreams on my mind , but the hardship compromised all that.
School life was not easy.....like proper HARD
I always wanted to be independent, so I did menial jobs in school. After which, I acquired some skills and mapped out this amazing business plan.
But guess what?
No money, no friend, no family friend, no uncle, no aunty, I mean no single person to assist me a lil bit. C'mon I've bin doing it all by myself. I need dz lil help now. But there's NOBODY.
I'm really getting depressed. My plea now is I need help with a job, an investor, a partner or a friend PLS. DM ME... I can be the four for you... If your truly sincere |
Romance › Re: Why You Shouldn't Lick Pussy by Erums(m): 8:59pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: Davido Reacts To New Report That He Didn't Sell Out O2 Arena, Shares Proof by Erums(m): 8:15pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
Koralords: Empty seats does not mean it's not sold out its the ticket ..onces there's no more ticket means sold out ...even priemiership stadium you see empty seats but when the announce attendance they announce the numbers of tickets sold not number of people on the seat Pls lecture them retards |
Romance › Re: Why You Shouldn't Lick Pussy by Erums(m): 7:39pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
I really dunt know what u guys are abt abt... For me, I'm a clit master... I suck till she drips... |
Family › Re: Need Friends In Lekki..anyone?? by Erums(m): 9:04pm On Jan 29, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: i am not in lekki though, but livd on the island. Interested?! Don't be.. Shes ugly and fat as Bleep |
Family › Re: My Marriage Finally Collapses by Erums(m): 9:50pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Bros.. Hv u remarried, what happened |
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Technology Market › Re: Help Me Review Skyrun 39inch Television by Erums(m): 8:53pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
U still use de skyrun 39 |
Romance › Re: My Husband Wants Me To Alway Wear Pant And Bra With My 4 Kids In The House by Erums(m): 9:19pm On Jan 16, 2019 |
oluphunmy: What is this woman preaching for Gods sake haaaaaa. Husband material biko get ready to get dirty with me oooooo we are doing everything ONLY in za oza room and also some nice places in the house when the kids are out u hear  Howbt hitting you in the shower, while you hold the burglary and later I lick u wen u dripping wet |
Education › Re: ASUU Gives Least Acceptable Conditions To End Strike by Erums(m): 6:37pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
Jiang: Well, WE ARE CURRENTLY EXPERIENCE IT!!! & ITS DIFFERENT FROM UR TIME
does it even seem reasonable to you that a 3 months semester will be shorten to 2 weeks Well all dese questions u asking... If it's reasonable..its not, but possible and it has been done before |
Education › Re: ASUU Gives Least Acceptable Conditions To End Strike by Erums(m): 3:19pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
Etinosa1234: ok
are u sure you passed through uni keep asking ..teen |
Education › Re: ASUU Gives Least Acceptable Conditions To End Strike by Erums(m): 2:58pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
Etinosa1234: what are you saying... when I have not been taught anything ...they will just set exam....big lie
instead the academic calendar will be shifted when they shift calendar ..you can mention me then ..until den be reading ahead .,teen |
Education › Re: ASUU Gives Least Acceptable Conditions To End Strike by Erums(m): 2:58pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
Jiang: Commot jare, he is talking to Nigerians who are still in the system for real, not people like you who can't comprehend reality see this man ta;lking abt reality ..reality is nigerian system conducting exams 2 eeks after returning from strike ..be clouded there ..ive gonbe thru the system ..i know teen |
Romance › Re: "I Don't Double Date" - The Lie Behind It by Erums(m): 8:42pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
She siad she don't swallow... |
Education › Re: ASUU Gives Least Acceptable Conditions To End Strike by Erums(m): 7:29pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
abbeyty: I honestly feel for Nigerian youths most especially the university students I dont think there is any other country in the world that wastes their students times (lives) like Nigerian system has been doing to her so called leaders of the future. A 4 years course could turn to 7 years just cuz of strike action. What are u talking abt.. Are you in this nigeria.. 4 years is 4 years.. Wen u come back from strike, prepare for exam. In a week.. Deres never extensions.. So stop posting wrong news |
Romance › Re: Honest Question To All Ladies And Gents In Relationships by Erums(m): 11:24pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
cutefy: Lols... but consider the wasted resources involved, viz time, money, and energy The are not wasted,they are well spent maam |
Romance › Re: Who Is The Most Gorgeous Lady On Nairaland? by Erums(m): 9:27pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
Offpoint: Dude like seriously? are freaking kidding me? like nigga you outta your fûckin mind?
Jesus Christ I can't believe this!!! Dude just stay the fück outta my mention. I don't recall starting any convo with you, nor mentioning your name anywhere. please just stay THE HELL OUT OF MY MENTION. If I catch u slap u.. Dey speak British dere.. Na who u dey tell fuckin this fuckin that... Clown .. U nor know ur mate abii. Respect no dey ur head abii... Wetin be ur mention.. Dem dey chop. Am... Mention kee u dere |
Romance › Re: Honest Question To All Ladies And Gents In Relationships by Erums(m): 9:08pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
Paxie55: Why should I be in a relationship if I don't wanna get married to you in the first place? For fucking tins only maam |
Romance › Re: Who Is The Most Gorgeous Lady On Nairaland? by Erums(m): 9:06pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
Offpoint: Minding one business should be a full time job. I am a clown and offpoint...you got a problem with that? The problem. Na ur problem.. If u wanted privacy you shud go offline and fool urself and declare yourself a clown over pussy u will never see... You are a shame and disgrace to all men... Pussy kee u there |
Romance › Re: Who Is The Most Gorgeous Lady On Nairaland? by Erums(m): 8:31pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
Offpoint: Hahahahaha Hahahahaha, stop that kind rough play... we only met once and it lasted just 30sec, you can tell me your sperm is that active  Guy your going offpoint stop this mumu online Pls... Been a clown is not a complement |
Romance › Re: Who Is The Most Gorgeous Lady On Nairaland? by Erums(m): 8:22pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
Kidaholic: Lol... For me: Funmisticqueen, NwanyiAkwaEkiti, MissRaine69, Tamarapretty 
Too many abeg, all are gorgeous in their own right but those 4 up there, their minds are amazingly gorgeous! Stupid.. Pple u haven't met |
Education › Re: Five Fallacies About Being A Medical Student by Erums(m): 6:26am On Jan 09, 2019 |
PurplePatch: They like to wear glasses, form ITK, form for fellow guys, hang stethoscope inside their cars even keke, form too gentle, date and marry fellow medical students, look down on students doing other courses, and finally usually form too important to people around them when they finally become doctors.
My people I lie? Guy u too correct.. Naso one idiot dey do for nysc dat time |
Family › Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Erums(m): 10:53pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
serubawon: Yes, I'm married now. Actually, I've been married to this wonderful Amazon called "Olori", for over 2 years now and I've been truly blessed. Congrats sir.. More bliss |
Family › Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Erums(m): 9:38pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Jesus dis thread is frm 2006, oga go don marry na |
Romance › Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Erums(m): 3:06pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
internationalman: That is why my future wife is the luckiest woman on earth. As a matter of fact i don't think she's deserving of me.
I don't cheat on a girlfriend while we are actively still dating let alone wife. So when you want to cheat.. U just quickly break up and coolect the other pussy.. I know de format oga |