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In summary, if you don't want to be billed, go for ladies that earn their own money... But remember you can't be broke and expect a lady to respect you much, so make some money. Money is the oil that lubricates relationships.[/quote]Who is talking about broke here. So if a man has 3 houses. Cars , Businesses and other investment and refuse to give a girl or woman money that she didn't work for and you begin to call him broke ? The man is using his sense of reasoning prosperly. A woman must be 100% Loyal and obidient to her man before she thinks of expecting any money from him. This is none negotiable . Free money is the hardest thing you can get in this world

MrBrownJay1:
In a poor country where women use dating as a poverty alleviation tool AND/OR in a country where women see sex as a gift to men.... YES, "many" deluded women will see dating as a financial transaction.

As for parents, marriage is indeed a way to cash out and get a benefit from raising/educating a (female) child.

Finally. is there daughters that will suffer it . that's why majority of the men beats there wife if they remembered how much it cost them to marry her and yet she disobeys him. I thinks that's a very poor mentality on her parents side. Was another man supposed to train there daughter for them

Why does this Nigerian girls think that when a man says I love you or can we date means he want to be giving you money . Where on earth have you seen any body begging to have or Loving expenses. True Love doesn't cost a thing . This same thing apply to marriage ceremony. You said you love me and I love you too but when a man goes to meet the girls parents they will start asking him for money for this or that . Then my question remains where is the Love if I'm paying you to be in relationship with you or if I'm paying your parents to have you as a wife thats means this is pure business transaction because there is nothing wey concern Love in it. So when your husband or boyfriend cheats on you , he is 100% right because he paid to have you or paying to be sleeping with you indirectly.

Guys add yours . These things Tire person

yomi007k:
Download trucaller...

The line in my small phone, cos that small phone is my main business phone . Is there no code from Airtel that can be used to block a number

How do i block a number to stop calling my Airtel line

How do i block a number to stop calling my Airtel line

What's your encanter with girls from Bonny island in River State . Tell us . Are they good or Bad in bed . Both in character and other wise.

Guys Let us know

I wish all Nigerian guys can be very wise and bold like this aba man. Enough is enough . All these girls have been defrauding us for years . If she need a free money she should meet her father ,uncles or brother for that . For instance Imagine paying 700k for marriage rite and feeding and housing the woman as your wife and after 3 years she file for divorce . All the money spend was supposed to return to the man what's arrant nonsense. Is hight time Nigerian men begin to wise and stop to pardon all these hungry scammers that called themselves girls .

I believe you are educated , you dont have to reason like an illiterate. You already have two kids with your wife. What else do you need more kids for in the bad country and bad economy. Why dont you focus on your family and raise your kids well . You wife is a good woman and she has done her best for the marriage. If I have two kids I dont think I need more kids for anything.

NtiObaEneke:
Yes he did. Let the OP let us know where and when he installed a speedometer in our vaginas to measure the mileage and came up with 2000.

An average Nigerian girl have sex up to 30 times in a month because she makes money from having sex with a man while a man Loose money by having sex. 30 x 12 months of the year will give you 360 times she have sex in a year . then between there age of 18 to 24 years that she is very sexy and eating her cake she has had sex upto 2,160 with men.which is very simple to calculate. 360 multiple by 6 years of her active sexcapade will give 2,160 times. Hopes I have clear your doubt . You think men are fools

LKTJ123:
Honestly Dis Is My First Time Of Reading All Comments On A Thread Before And I Must Commend D Op For Dis Wonderful Topic.
I Reserve My Comment For My Unborn Children Either Boy Or Girl Or Both Because I Have Something Very Important To Tell Them. God Bless All Nairalanders I Have Really Learn Alot.

I'm the Op , I still have a lot secret to reveal to men .more is coming.

jmdw02:
I had before but i was happy she left bcus she was so boring...she doesnt kiss nor romance all she does is to lie down while i masturbate myself to be in mood and penetrate her and then i started having weak erection and it seems she aint attractive to me....so the girl i met is just friend with no strings and she did good job for me in fact mere seeing her alone i am already hard and the last time we had it i didnt last long on first round but second round i spent close to 30 minutes without cumming ,she gave me hand job yet i didnt cum though i enjoyed it and i just gave her a token

Like how much do you use to give her after the fun

humilitypays:
my brother I shock as I de read the comments oh, wahala de for young girls of this generation.


Guys are becoming more brutal and determined to pay back, hmmmm, may God save my future daughter from bad guys oh

My advice to you is to train your daughters in a way to earn money on there own , make them to be resourceful,to believe in themselves as a human being not just girls mindset and learn a skill like sewing , making cake or stuff like that so they can have the right to say no to a guy and not depend on a man's free money for survival. But when you raise a girl child to be beautiful without telling her the real truth of live and thinking her beauty or sexy body will attract a man to her .then I'm sorry becos men and boys will deal with her ruthlessly , she will be more like a commodity to be paid for , used and dumped.

I wonder why a man will use his money to be chassing a woman. And after the woman will in return be asking him for money or help . It shows The women needs the men the most. Is the women that are supposed to be chasing after men . We need to be wise

paulolee:
no lies man but not in all cases oo...me am lucky enough to date numerous girls dt do pay bills and i still straff n leta dump them after they start acting strange..

If they pay the bill while with you , don't fell bad because is another man that's giving them that money . So they were cheating on you while you think they were faithful. An average Nigeria girl depends on a man's money for survival

paulolee:
what about the guys that use and dump the ones of 18-25 years??.. the guys that do use and dump the girls nko?? who they deserv to marry??

What do you mean by use and dump when the guy gives them money and comfort. In other words he paid them in exchange for the pleasure direct or indirectly . Bear it in mind that no woman stays with a man for free. Wethin your period with her you will be spending on her and that's a payment for her time with you

Mgtowmonk:
I'd recommend any guy new to this whole red pill philosophy watch this video.
I feel disgusted anytime I see men just entering their prime wifeing up 27+ women who are rapidly depreciating in looks and sexual value.
Take some red pill and be wise guys!!
Even the Bible encourages men to marry only the wife of their YOUTH!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3x9kDtj6dmU

This white man has really finished them all and said the truth . I wish every young man will watch this video . Please Let's make the post reach the front page @lalasticalala

When a girl is between the age of 18 to 24 .she feels untop of the world and think she has the right to insult and snub any guy that comes her away and she also think she has the right over her body to sleep and fvk any Rich guy she wants. At this time marriage is not in her agenda.she is busy eating her cake but by the time she gets to 29 and 30 years,she already have over 2000 men that has sleept with her and never want to marry her. Then She begin to form good girl to decieve any guy that comes her way into marriage and use him as her retirement plan from Oloshosim. Guys don't allow yourself to be used by these girls oo .
.if she can't accept you and remain faithful to you when she is between 18 to 23 years.Never you accept her when she passes this age.

You are free to add yours so we can continue to enlighten ourselves not to be used by these evil girls.

ZINIBANKS:
I once promised myself to marry a White woman
But seeing their every day madness, craziness and weird ways of living
Am having a second thought about it
Why I won't say you're wrong is just imagine getting married to someone like petyprincess your life will be ruined forever
I pity the guy that will marry her
I doubt if that guy will grow old

Let me give you a clue , just travel to near by Ghana or Togo . You will meet a very loyal , romantic and genuine woman to marry . It most not be white woman. I have been to more than 12 different countries and I will tell you in all sincerity that Nigerian girls are the worst girl I have ever meet. What did petyprincess say to you

The economy is very hard , no matter how rich you think you are . Been it yahoo boy or politician. Don't forget the more money you have is the more you want to raise your standards of living and upgrade. Never you marry a jobless woman, a woman who doesn't believe in her self. A woman who thinks her body will get her whatever she wants. That's a typical Nigerian girl mentality. Run away from such girls as fast as your leg can carry you and thank me later

Petyprincess:
Jesus fed 5000 people nd died a virgin.

Nigerian guys will spend 5 naira on you nd expect something in return
The day y'all learn to give without expecting something in return that is the day y'all will have my respect mtchew.

We are talking about woman matter here .was it written in the Bible that Jesus feed 5000 girls ? Use your head ooo. Stop scamming guys

OnyeMmeri:
Actually, why I asked that question was because of the part where you said she said visiting you would be in your dream. It really sounded as if she found you really unappealing and hideous. 2 years of constant wooing and she remained adamant? Nawa o!

No give her shishi.

She was just been , silly , rude and childish when she said that .just as Nigerian girls behave nah. They dont want you but they want your money. Thinking men are fools.

OnyeMmeri:
But seriously, are you that ugly and unattractive that a lady will reject your 2 years long 'toasting’?

Me ugly ke ? .I'm a very handsome guy. Her reason was that we live close to each other , that she doesn't want close relationship . But now she want me to give her a close money . Lol Yeye dey smell

0rion:
So you only toast girls just to knack them.

Maybe that is why she shunned you for 2yrs because she knows you are up to no good

What else can she offer me if not knack or children which is still a product of knacking. is she my business associate or business partner ?? Na nacking every man needs from a woman if you wan tell yourself truth.

dairykidd:
What sort of nonsense is this? Chase one girl for two years Even if na from English royalty she come from sef i can't waste such productive energy n time which can't be called back. This sht tells alot about u man

As i dey chase i still dey nack girls around her

Chris525:
Would you have preferred she said yes, 'chopped' your money & dumped you??

She dey chop my money and me no go chop her be say I momo abi wetin.

play5050:
U Bleep Up Guy,,, U For Ask Her How Much See Need, If They Tell U The Amount, U Will Tell Her That U Can Only Give Her The Money If She Can Allow U Go Four Around Of Sex.
Give Me I Give U, SIMPLE AGENDA by Izi-iyamu

I'm well respected in my area and she dey try claim say she be legit girl. So if i ask her how much for sex , she will use it against me and ruin my reputation. That's why I just keep quiet make she continue dey fool her self. Guys Dont pity any of these girls oo they are really heartless. For good two years this girl use me dey play ball. Knowing I can afford 10 of her type

There is this girl I have toasted for good 2 years and she said no . I invited her to my place she refused and said for her to come to my house will be in my wildest dream I felt very insulted but smiled and kept quite. After few months she came to me and said she needed my help if can pls give her some money to sought of stuff. I was silent and didn't respond to her till she left . My brother instead of me to give that girl N1 naira .I will rather put N10,000 together and set it on fire. She thinks she have sense

Guys share your experience with all these selfish Nigerian girls

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Nigeria...[/color]

I thought as much . Even here in Nigeria is the worst . Here is filled with so much hatred and envy .they even kidnap and kill people here. Better stay in u.s .people here even want to travel Nigeria asap

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]My mother brought I and my brother to America as children and I’m beginning to hate America and their non stop working and the culture in general. In fact, I regret coming here.

I miss my cousins and aunts who I grew up and spent time with and I cannot move back due to having a chronic illness that would require lifelong medical treatment that I cannot get in Nigeria. And my mother who I came here with does not even want to bond nor talk to me. I have to force her to try to even speak or have a conversation with me.

I feel stuck, disappointed and neglected by everyone around me. Please what do I do?[/color]

The woman you say that gives you a jealous Look at an event, is she from Nigerian or an America woman

Muna4real:
Lol. I said "some" financial support. We all know that most women are the breadwinners of their homes. You men will not agree to this fact. Lazy soul

If most women are breadwinner , why don't you want to be one of such women . Instead of begging men for money up and down in exchange for sex with your smelly hole down there.

lastclaire4:
Why abuse someone? A man that wants to assume the role of a married man by sleeping with a lady, should also assume the responsibility of taking care of her.

Madam listen to me. This old mentality of women need to stop. You are not doing any man a favour by sleeping with him. You girls enjoy the sex the most. Even come to think of it lot of women are not clean, down there smell so bad and you expect a man to still give you money after putting his joystick in a smelly hole . Learn how to make your own legit money it will do you more good. Stop expecting a man to give you money. Have you for once ask yourself this question . does any body dash men money ? The answer is no . No man gives his follow man money and yet men keep surviving . So why can't you women survive without feeling entitled to a man's money . Is this a curse or what