₦airaland Forum

Them born you and a man the same year , both of you entered primary school till university and go service and after that you feel unbothered to get a Job or open a business .and you keep calling men broke .are you not ashmed of yourself ? Is it a crime for you to buy a car in your name, build a house and earn your own income as a women . You Nigerian girls are really a disgrace to womanhood. Visit Ghana and other African countries and see your fellow woman working day and night and making a living for themselves. You are here shouting gender equality and feminizm when you sol depend on a man's money after sex for survival. My brother's please why are our girls like this add yours

@ubunja , @lefulefu , @iLegend , @Airforce1

What these girls don't know is that No man gives his follow man a free money or free gift just like Nigerian men gives women money and gift. What men do with there follow men is business transaction and at the end the both make profit or one pays others salary. So before you say u are a feminist ,you as a girl make money from sleeping with Mr Peter ,James or mark. If men withdraw all the financial support they give you, can you survive ?. If you want to be feminist first learn how to survive on your own without asking any man for help in exchange for sex. Get a job , do legit business make your own money and pay your bills by yourself before you can say you are a feminist. Owon feminist way man dey fvk dey dash money

What's the essence of putting 600k in her bank account , don't you have a bank account. Listen my brother any hand you give a woman from the beginning is the same hand she will use to follow you till you die or divorce her. I can say that you are the course of your problem. If my woman earns 60k monthly as salary. She will have to bring money from that her salary to contribute to our family expenses. I can buy her gift oo and buy or pay some major things in the house like nepa bill and gas. But she has to be spending from that her salary. You made her see you like a money bag and now she is treating you like one and you Begin to complain. Stop giving her any monthly money unless the money is specifically for something in the house like bag of rice or nepa bills. Tight your hand small or before five years to come . You can not control her way is wasting your money any more

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This is how these Nigerian girls survive . How do you explain a girl that does not have a job , no legit business and yet she uses expensive phones and makes expensive hair. Definitely she is using her body to make money

All these guys wey dey say the are married or dating Nigerian girls may be a year or two years ago , I wonder how they do it oo. Cos me can never ever pay for unnecessary bills of a woman. No matter the mumu Love wey I say I get for you . Immediately you begin Nack me bill and ask me money , I will start hating you and begin to avoid you

whitebeard:
Person see trouble, instead make he run comot, he carry head shook in side..he con come online they disturb us..!

Better set your priorities right..!

You are very stopid , for saying that. I'm here to give these girls orientation about men and relationship. Wey u suppose teach your sisters

Go and be buy suruka oil. Search for it on Instagram or fellow instablog9ja and search for it there then thank me later

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Lots of girls will not learn lesson from other girls mistake.my advice to young girls is to get married on time between 19 to 24 so u can have your kids on time . No man wants to marry an old woman between the age of 31 to 35 upwards , men consider you to be old and decayed by then. Please girls don't say had I know at Last. Age is not just a number ooo . Age matters when it comes to marriage to men

Because i wanted to end everything this Valentine .but she has finally agreed to give me sex . I made it clear to her that I Will not give her one naira again unless she give me ..... Lol u no nah and she have agreed

I meet this girl oo over a year now . I would say she has refused to visit me in my house . She keeps on coming to my office to visit me atimes and she can spend upto an hour with me at work and she say she Love me .if I tell her to visit me at home she will come up with excuse . I do spend money on her let's say 5k 4k atimes Which I don't see as a big money . She allows me to kiss her and hold her waist oo

Guys what do you think about this girl
Should I call it a quite ? Is she decieving me or wasting my time . Girls you can advice me too

proclinician:
You are not worth his penny. Currently i date three women and only one of them is worth my money. She is the youngest and a virgin like we don't have sex. She loves me more than she loves herself but i don't love anyway. she wants to just do it to please me but there are more to a good woman than just sex. I just care about her needs then i see a future with her too. She has just 2 years to being a doctor. The other two when they want to deny me sex i send them transaction failed screenshots then i tell them my bank acc has issues. I promise them heaven and earth but all na wash. They know i have the means, i live fine, great career good job etc. They probably has other guys elsewhere but i dont care. Shit happens. Find out where you belong.

Lol italo baba

@op don't blame Nigerian guys oo. Nigerian is a very grafty country. Whenever a Nigerian girl is interested in a guy , she always have something bad at the back of her mind . She is Always after sometime and to gain, get something from the guy. So the guys are now wise . Nigerian girls are very greedy and wicked.

dzionist:
I have observed that most ladies claim to be ignorant to sex. But secretly engaged in it with boyfriend's/sugar daddies

If a Nigerian girl can be doing Runs,slay Queen and prostitution as a job that bring food on her table .then you should know they love sex alot. Do you know how many men a Runs girl sleep with in a month ? More than 300 men sleep with her and avarage of 10 men in a day and times It by 30 days of the month

yes am angry n so bitter n so what !! What wrong with a woman being hurt n bitter?? Who wanted to change anything? Take a sit or take an L , ur choice

Immediately you stop seeing men as your source of income and ATM machine, then you will begin to see men as been the best you have. Greedy and sense of entitlement has blinded most of you girls . Men are not Bank.

AshiraWealthy:
This your rants about women relying on men to take care of them is becoming stale and monotonous it no longer holds water. So drop it already.


Akikor 21st century. Mtchew!

I pity you and your woman rapper mentality. Wait until your money Finish then you will realize that a woman has no atom of true Love for you . She is just there for what she will gain from you

Serious Advice to Nigeria girls . To be sincere with you . If you want to get married stop saying you need a man to take care of you . Rather look for how to be independent and take care of your self and think of what you can bring in to the relationship not what you can take out of the relationship.ask an average Nigerian girl out or try to chat with her and the next thing you hear is I need a man that take care of me. Hmmm It's only a foolish man that will want a woman that will say she needs a man that will take care of her. are you a baby that they take care of ?? . Tell a man you have business plan you need to establish, he will open a business for you when he marry you or job this will attract a man more than saying you need a man that will take care of you . If you have ear you listen and take my advice. Nigerian men of nowadays are not much more interested in marriage oo

If she can live in your house and not allow you to use her things and it means she can't use your house . She should go and rent her own house

Two can no more become one.
When a woman thinks she can survive on her own and pay her Bills either through Legit work or through Runs.

When a woman thinks cooking for her husband and washing his clothes means she is a house maid.

When a woman thinks she owns her body and can diny her husband sex anytime she feels or use sex against him to get what she wants from Him.

When a woman thinks her money is her money but her husband money is our money.

Nigerian women has used Nigeria men for a long time, using the man to Raise her illigimate kids, using him to establish her own brothers financially and now the foolish men of the old are becoming wise

When a man thinks no woman is entitled to his money and wealth.

It's really sad this is happening in Nigeria of today we see divorces every where even on News paper.

Two can no more become one.
When a woman thinks she can survive on her own and pay her Bills either through Legit work or through Runs.

When a woman thinks cooking for her husband and washing his clothes means she is a house maid.

When a woman thinks she owns her body and can diny her husband sex anytime she feels or use sex against him to get what she wants from Him.

When a woman thinks her money is her money but her husband money is our money.

Nigerian women has used Nigeria men for a long time, using the man to Raise her illigimate kids, using him to establish her own brothers financially and now the foolish men of the old are becoming wise

When a man thinks no woman is entitled to his money and wealth.

It's really sad this is happening in Nigeria of today we see divorces every where even on News paper.

Owerri is a city filled with rich yahoo boys and runs girls. I pity any guy dating a girl that lives in owerri because u are just dating a runs girl. How much do you even have to spare and levish on an owerri girl and to be doing competition with yahoo boys . If you are doing anything with an owerri girl , don't do pass yourself oo. because definitely she will cheat on you

Nigerian girls are the worst set of women i have ever seen in my entire . They see dating and marriage as job opportunity where they earn money

Marlian:
I met a girl recently, after much wooing and introduction she finally agreed to be my girlfriend. She is a very good girl and I will love to take the relationship serious. She has visited twice without having sex with her except kisses, she e never experienced such a thing before.

Please nairalanders has she given birth already or is a normal thing ! I need your replies please bashing is also allowed!

Your girlfriend Just did abortion for another man. She was recently impregnated for another man and she aborted it that's why her breast ia bringing out milk

Enemyofdarkness:
I don't have a girlfriend, all because of naija girls palava. I never wished myself experiencing that painful shît called "LOVE" so once I feel like playing I will just call a "call - Girl". They full my dm, light skinned, dark skinned, big yansh, moderate yansh all full my dm. I spent 5k on runs girls everyday, I'm a cyber guy so that money is nothing to me cos I can pile up 5k in just an hour. Sad thing. This is becoming frequent, I've tried to fight this behavior but all to no avail. The spirit in me keeps telling me go, go get her you have the money. I need to stop this.
Please advise

My brother if you need real Love trave to other African country and get a girl friend. Nigerian girls are too greedy and corrupt. If you get any Nigeria girl to date , she will still do runs In your back . Do you know those girls you fvk and pay 5k are other guys girlfriend and lover but there boyfriend don't know they do runs

callthefred:
I have to appreciate you for taking time to read this. I'm about to take a big step in my life and I need honest advice and answers.

I'm planning and hoping to really settle down this year so any relationship I have right now is towards marriage, however, I have a girl friend who also seems to be ready to settle down and I have huge respect for her. However, I have always believed that my authority in a relationship or marriage should not be up for debate. I am a very good listener and also very loving and I find it hard to double date although, I have some women I'm keeping on standby because I've seen enough to understand nothing is guaranteed.

So I told my girlfriend I want to meet her family, she insisted I see her Pastor first or forget about it because she is scared if she takes any man home it must surely be the man she wants to marry.

My challenge is I am not a fan of Pastors these days because I know 80% of them are criminals and I can never have my wife respect her Pastor more than me or even discuss my affairs with her Pastor. Many of these clowns take advantage of women so I have always had my reservations and she knows.

joke.

My brother you are Real man . You behave exactly like me . Never allow any woman or any so called pastor to control or compromise you. Stand by your word. If she didn't accept it that way let her go her way. Orderwise she will end up controlling you in the marriage

[quote author=SlimyJ post=85610603]Currently I'm in tears,my heart is disturbed...
I'm a single mother of one boy (4years

Madam listen to me , is not a matter of been wicked or not . No avarage young Nigerian man will marry a woman that already have a child for another man. Even if he marry you just know he has something at the back of his mind . Nigeria is not USA , Nigerians are wise. you as a girl if you were single with no child will you agree to marry an already married man with kids or any man with kids. men are not Fools

Huawei101:
I'm going to make this short.

Please I'm doing this for a friend.



My name is Damilola, I got into relationship with this guy six months ago. I didn't wanted to start the relationship with him but he kept pestering me and I had to give him a trial and as it goes on I fell in love with him.



please your advice. insult is allowed.

I will not insult you . But why are you girls like this, what were you thinking when you got pregnant for a student that still depends on his parents for up keep. I'm well to do man and ready to father a child. If you get pregnant for me I will place you on monthly salary. If you are serious you reply me with your phone number so we can meet face to face

donbachi:
Truth be told....if u keep a decent responsible girl and a wayward irresponsible girl...96% guys will go for d wayward irresponsible girl,if not all....reasons;all d the guys sees a decent responsible girl as hard to get and may come up with"no sex before marriage" story...but will run after d wayward irresponsible girl,cos she dey game as dem dey game...konji curing gangs.

They are not the same. If a girl tell me no sex before marriage I will accept it as long as she is not asking me for money . But immediately she begin ask me money then I go begin ask her for sex.

marvelck:
Is it cos Owerri girls are too beautiful, intelligent, domineering and sophisticated. Or is it cos of their exorbitant bride price?

There is a difference between an owerri indigin and a young girl that's just living in owerri. Now let me explain

Owerri indigin and there culture : owerri people Carry any child there daughter born in a marriage if along the line there is a misunderstanding in the marriage .
So no man in his right senses will like to marry a woman that will carry his children and run back to her father's house just because of a minor misunderstanding

Now a young girl living in owerri : an average young girl living in a owerri is a runs girl,weather schooling or Workin . So men are been very careful nowadays

AfroKnight:
Nice story.

He caught them early.

Na so e dey start. Small time, nacking will start.

Thank you my brother