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My is that I'm a kind of guy that believe in human capital development. I'm a kind of guy that can establish my woman and even open business for her . But my major issue of dating is that I have find out that many girls are looking for men that will be spending money on them and continue to be giving them free money without working or doing business. So I can't put up to such life style .

Guys share yours

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Dibblez:
Both you and your girlfriend are stupid. With all thats going on in the country now, this is what you could post. You lack wisdom, knowledge and understanding!

Mr man .
Nigerian government is not your problem.

Blame your parents for every problem you have, why should they gave birth to children they can't provide a better life for . Same way u will born children like rat and when this grow they begin to blame the government for your stupidity.

Mine was my girlfriend with big ass always want me to be fvking her from ass an puci whenever we are making Love. And first she does in the morning after a pise was to start svking my thing.

Guys tell us yours

You meet a girl and toaste her . she agreed . But asked you this question:

can you take care of me
Or
I hope you can be taking Good care of me

What will you answer her
And what will you do if you guys start dating

Guys Share your experience if you have meet a girl that's asked you such question and how you reacted

A Nigerian Lady Identified as Elohor Okudu narrates how her husband has refused to help her own family members after paying almost N580k bride Price.



She wrote: “I got married 8 months ago, my hubby earns 70k monthly while I am yet to get a job, during our wedding ceremony, hubby spent about 580k on the list given to him for the traditional wedding, I persuaded my parents to reduce the list but they said it is a must and a tradition.”

“He raised the money alone as I wasn’t working and I was unable to help monetarily. After the marriage I recommended that he ought to send something month to month to my parents as he do ship off his parent as well, yet incredibly the answer he gave me was that he didn’t owe my parents anything that they have collected all they are entitled to from him, at first I was not furious about that, until my yonger brother needed to get married and his lady family gave him rundown of things for the conventional wedding which is added up to 400k.”

“My father at that point shared the costs and advised my significant other to contribute 120k towards my sibling’s wedding however incredibly, my better half said no and revealed to me that my family has gathered all they needed during our wedding and they shouldn’t come to him for any money related help this got me furious and I disclosed to him that he is not responsible.”

“Since that time, we have been living like outsiders in the house, he doesn’t converse with me, he has quite recently been minding his own business, and I have never seen him this way not even in our 2 yrs of dating. kindly advise me on what to do to savor the situation

Quality20:
I often hear ppl say rich people's children alway marry themselves, we'll this might be true to some extent, but we the ordinary folks or guys also have our own issues which we need to change. How often are we doing ordinary folks marrying women and girls hawking things on the streets? Why can't we marry some of these ladies so we can at least improve their lives? They are equally human beings as every one of us. Marrying and helping to improve their wellbeing comes with a lot of rewards and blessings. God bless all of us as we change our attitudes

There is one that's hawking meat pie oo , I wanted to marry her .I even gave her proposal that I will open a better business for her but the girl said she don't want.Lol what I notice is that mose of the poor girls feel every rich man is a ritualist .so they end up hawking and marrying poor folks like them

Dreamliner787:
Lol.. it's kind of personal but your post totally relates to what I'm experiencing now

Lol this is a faceless forum .so feel free and say whatever you want to say . Nobody will know is you

Dreamliner787:
Your post hit me at the right spot bro..

Lol how did it hit you , explain to us so we can hear your own experience too

Men in the house , I wonder how you guys say you have a girlfriend or fiance in Nigeria .

Now let me educate you

Our women here most don't have a job and yet they feed from January to december
Have you asked urself how they manage to feed.
as A man no how much u spend on your self in a month .

Most girls feed with there pusi

If you are a man and you hate this write up
It means you are a Lazy and jobless guy waiting for a girl to fvk outside and feed you

Most girls pay school fees and house tru fvkn

Most girls are love pedelars they have more 10 to 20 different males friends that's are nackin them

You know men don't do a woman favour without nakn

So I wonder where you guys see decent girls you say u dating in this country

Unless you as a guy is timid because that's girl you call your girlfriend , feeds and pay her bills tru fvkn different men that's how women survive in this country Nigeria

If you dont like this post it means you are a useless , broke , Lazy guy waiting for ur woman to fvk outside to feed you . because a hardworking rich man will not torelate a cheating partner

That's for men who believe what they came to this world to do is to please a woman or dance to her tone. As for I'm more strict when doing business with a woman .most of them want free things without payment.

tensazangetsu20:
I have been amused at the roles Nigerian women are playing at the end SARS protest Including the notorious feminist coven. They have donated, cooked, protested, gotten arrested and harassed and they still keep going. The feminist coven organised lawyers on standby mode that are working round the clock to make sure that protesters are released.

No one should abuse Nigerian girls again. They are queens men and we should also show concern on matters that involve women.

As long as they stop asking men for money .
As long as they pay there bills
Untill then men will continue to insult liability

How can you say you are dating someone without having sex with her for two years . Can she swear she have not had sex for dat 2 years . Don't give her anything. Nigerian women are most heartless woman I have ever seen

Ashawo will cry for a child and husband during her old age

Guys tell us how much you have spend once for flexing or paying olosho ,club and stuffs like that

Lol Abeg let's have fun cos problem no dey finish

Mine was a day i lodged in a hotel of 15k a night call one olosho like dat we had fun and everything cost me close to 45k that night . Lol



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@frankraj
@ilegend
@lalastilala
@ubunja
@warlord2015
@kriss216
@Zzor

Sameazy15:
Guys, if u get ghana u go no that ghana women loves sex more than money

You are very right . Not only in ghana . Both in other african countries. There girls value love more than sex , but Nigerian girls are the worst girls I have ever meet in my entire life

When a Nigerian girl tell you that she is in a serious relationship it means her current boyfriend is paying all her bills and giving her money whenever she asks . Or she is an Olosho that wants to discharge you because you can't give her the type of money she wants .

A typical Nigerian girl can not say she is in serious relationship with a man that's not giving her enough money or paying her Bill

Pure fact !!!

Offpoint1:
10k views from clickbait, shows how unintelligent and uninteresting your posts are.

Lol na big azz u find come abi ? The message op passed is far more important than azz pictures

WoundedLamb:
You have created 76 threads on Nairaland and not even one makes sense. Time to give up...

And each of my tread have more than 10,000 views . More over you are lazy and a foool to have time to check how many thread I have created . Why no go and creat your own let's see many views you will get . Fvk off my thread you parasitee

I have heard encounter with lots of girls and there dreams are to get married including an Olosho that sleeps with upto 10 men in a day.
So I keep wondering why these girls want to get married even from the look of things lots of them are not qualified to be a wife , in terms of character and other bad lives they indulge in .or does it mean these girls don't know they have bad manners , bad characters and bad life styles .
Or is it as a retirement plan from bad vises ??

Guys add yours. why are these girls desperately in need of getting married . Cos me I no understand ooo

atheistandproud:
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Money has to be exchanged for value. The value depends on what the owner of the money wants it to be.

After all, the owner of the money didn't get it for free, not even if it's N5.

.talking about the sex they think they offer men , that should be attributed to a man that sees sex as what he value . As for I don't value sex that much . And I'm sure so many men don't value sex they way our girls thinks we value sex. I may not have sex for three weeks or a month but they are other things I value doing with these time .so in other words Nigeria girls are actually worthless and useless . Or will she offer sex in exchange for my money when I don't even want the sex . Rubbish people

Tillatalk:
maybe you are jealous because girls always troop in his house or his car is bigger than yours

Lol This shows you are very childish. If I bring out 100k and say is for fvking girls , don't you know that amount can give me 20 different classic woman of different shapes to fvk ?.

How can you compare me that have investment worth million of naira with a guy that bought a car of ordinary 2.5million ?

Hahahaha seems this nairaland is full of small boys . Abeg let me go over to twitter and instergram

Tillatalk:
Are you jealous

Jealous of what . I have my own car and I have a girlfriend.

Sometimes I don't know if I should say these girls are silly , foolish or morons. My neighbor just bought lexus rx330 jeep and there is no day he doesn't sleep with 3 to 4 different girls . Does it mean these girls are trying there luck to see if he will marry one of them or what and most of these girls have fiance and serious boyfriends oo . Hmmm .

Guys share your experience with all these girls that are materialistic

I just have pity for all these boys shouting I have a girlfriend or fiance. If they tell you how many men that sleep with her in a month , you will vomit and run away

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@lefulefu
@frankraj
@ilegend
@lalastilala
@ubunja
@warlord2015
@suen
@kriss216

Firstorderwizard:
If only op know the speed I take dive in to see the fat ass

I'm the Op that post is more important than fat ass . Read the post. It will be more useful to you . Lol

abeliver:
Where the fat ass

Lol na fat ass you find come abi, ok open your ass and snap it

Zzor:
im submitting your name to my Baba immediately

Hahaha which your baba . Baba lawu or baba ijebu. No worry send me your aza let me wire you 1 million immediately

Zzor:
How dare you mention me on this thread,this post is for broke men with entitlement.im out

Broke Poor sily besh, will your hand bend if you make your own money . Lol

Have you noticed is better when you do pay as you go with all these girls instead of dating them or been in a relationship with them

Once you begin to date them , they now assume you must take care of them and be giving them money

But when you do fvk and pay , they will satisfy you sexually and never disturb your Peace or ask you for money unless is for another fvk

Does a guy now commit a crime by now tying to date Nigerian girls. Cos dating now looks like a trap to ripe the men off

Bear in mind that most of these girls you call your girlfriend are into runs with other men
Guys and girls can we talk about this.

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@lefulefu
@frankraj
@ilegend
@lalastilala
@ubunja
@warlord2015
@suen
@zzor
@kriss216

Seems you are looking for a guy to be paying your bills. Or you are the one to pay the bills when it arises