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NiRfreak:
Maturity brings contentment in oneself.
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want to be in control of your space and people who have access to you.
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With the security situation in Nigeria I will advice both introvert and extrovert to keep less or no friends and mind there business , it will also save u alot of money and save you from danger of the unknown . I have came to realize that is only poor and needy people that seeks for friendship . I have lived both in rich and poor environment . Rich people dont keep friends unless is business related and such friends don't visit there houses anyhow . And they dont do all this my nebor my nebor that poor people do . For instance in GRA or lekki everyone minds there businesses and leave a very peaceful life. I would have listed more point but I'm just tired of typing .

kalu61:
A poor mentality is you being poor financially in a situation that needs financial solution and lack poor mentally to know it.

You can only rant. Those with the means know what and how it feels to be loved and to show love.

Nobody is forcing you to buy gift and nobody made it a rule. lf you want to give, do that or leave it.

Anyway I can see you are a simp . How much or what gift has your girlfriend abi wife given to you .

kalu61:
Just give her whatever you have. It's not a big deal to make people feel special on their birthday.

This is is a very poor mentality , because is the people who are celebrating there birthday that are supposed to make others feel special for coming to celebrate with them . Or is it my own birthday. ??

Please I want to keep some record straight . Someone that added a year to his or her age and is happy about that , should be the one buying gift and drink to share to others Because u are happy u added an extra year . I don't understand the rational of we Nigerians men buying gift or spending money on a girl for her birthday. For God sake it's her birthday and not yours .when is your birthday you can spend millions if you have .

Now this my single mother girlfriend want me to spend for her next week because it's her birthday.im just Laffing in my mind like seems this girl thinks I'm a simp .

Guys what do you think I should do .

There is this single mother that's always giving me x whenever I want and she never says no to anything I tells her to do . But the problem now is that she always come to my place with her child and i feels so guilty nackin her when her child is around . I have told her to drop her child with her own mother she said the child always want to be with her. I don't know what to do , she calls me , tell me how she love me and all that but I dont know what else to do .Advice needed

Poanan:
I can see you are not mature enough to have a relationship. 3k and someone opened the book of lamentation.

if you dont have simply tell her.

More importantly, is your use of pro(noun), you may need to mindful of the verb that comes after. Rather than calculating when you will fu***ck her, spend time with your grammar book.

U are the most usuuless person I have ever seen . Does dating means employment where a girl is supposed to be earning money ? U are a ful

U see why I really hate having anything to do with Nigeria Girls , this girl I'm starting to date visited me and out of my magnanimity I gave her 3k for transport yesterday and today she is asking for money for subscription . Does it mean girls thinks men are fools by giving dem free money ? Cos from the Look of things my 3k is gone forever if I refuse to send her this subscription money .more or less like a 4.1.9 and she will never visit me again if I didn't send the money . Guys what do you think I should do . Should I continue to play like a full till a fvk her ?

FalseProphet1:
The dark forces are gradually encroaching into this one's destiny, he's already reasoning like someone who's case is dead and buried, you will need serious flogging from my holy cane so that we can return your case back to factory settings. This I have seen.

Ur name false prophet means u are a fuu and a simp. Give list of things men benefit from marriage and u are here talking like a fuu which u are

If you say s. ex : currently s.ex is the cheapest commodity you can buy now as low as N500 to N1000

If you say a child : how can a woman have sex with a man give birth , and she seats back waiting for the man to bring money for feeding, clothing , house bills . Which is called financial slavery

If you say been responsible : how can only a man be responsible for the children, and a woman who is a grown up adult . We're as both of them are supposed to be responsible for there family expenses.

Have u noticed when a man takes up all the financial responsibility of his home till the kids grow they only buy gift and cars for there mom.

Have you also noticed when a woman bear financial cost for raising her child , she will spoil there minds towards there father and make them see him as evil .have u ever seen a single mother that speaks good of his baby dady ? We need to use our head here .think very well men



So tell me exactly what a man stand to gain in marriage .

SeaTrade:
So was bored today so I said let me go to coldstone today and get something.
mad.

These girls will never change , na so one girl tell me say she get boyfriend and she can't date me. after 5 days she is begging me to give her 20k to buy school text book . Laff wan finish me. No be juju be dat ?

Penguin2:
Person wey no get roof over her head, she no dey see food chop and she no see cloth wear...

Na him you take into your house, dey feed am on a
But on a serious note, why would such beauty be homeless in the first place?

If na naija babe eh, she go dey rotate her boyfriends houses until one go give am belle carry am wholesale

Nigerian girls are the most dedly and corropt girls I have ever seen . Go to other african countries you will see girls that looks like Regina daniel roasting corn or even hawking pure water on the Street to make a genuine income instead of pros .titution .

Does been a girl means been disabled. Atimes I don't understand why our Nigerian girls doesn't want to be uuseful and productive, to the society as a whole . Have these girls ever bothered about there esistance as a human being . Than seen themselves as a commodity that will be bought over with money or material things .

Why are our girls been very comfortable to be broke and still be proud at the same time ?

Nigeria because there girls are greedy , selfish , scamers and unfaithful .

An average Nigerian girl between the age of 18 to 30 years is an Olosho publicly or codedly and she so much believe in feminism which no man in his right senses will like to settle down with. How can a man go and pay dwary to bring a woman in his house to come and start competition with him and be draging his position as the head of the family. If You are a man seat down and think about this

I meet this girl on inmessage i asked her night how much she said 25k I laff and told her is 5k I have. she agree .then come my place. When she came she said she doesn't give Mouth Action I was very angry.we fvk and the fvk was nothing to write home about. I regret giving her my 5k. What i learnt is to be bold to ask these online runz girls the services they offer in bed before u agree on a price with them . To avoid paying more for a lesser services .

If u have fvk olosho in your life before and u now bad mouth this topic. tonda go faya u

.Guys share yours expirense with all these online girls

It's a scam for a rich man to have only one girlfriend or be fvking only his wife . This is designed to benefit women. You can't tell me you struggled to make money only for you be fvking one particular woman as a wife or a fiance . If the table were turned the girl will be fvking many other guys because as a single girl especially in Nigeria survive by collecting money and fvking many different men . So why should your husband or boyfriend have money and u want him to be fvking only you .but when he was broke u were busy fvking other men and if he ask you will say baby u know you can't take care of me . Guys don't allow these girls to use your head. Be woke too

WalexyWWE:
Hello guys, what a sigh of relief. Thanks to nairalanders for your advice. For those who haven't been following this is the previous thread link

https://www.nairaland.com/6460802/girlfriend-just-scammed-me

So after what happened yesterday I couldn't sleep, I hardly blinked throughout the night I was looking for all the possible means to get back to this girl and get my money refunded.

mocking me and telling some of her freinds how she stole my ATM card. Victory at last.!!!

I wish all men can be brave and smart like you . Relationship and marriage Is an organized scam designed to favour women . Know this and know peace . Thank you for been a real man

illicit:
Ijaw girls can have big asses but their face no dey fine....

Wethin I use the face dey do . D az is importanter ;

justscorchone:
I see you have taste.

Very high taste oo . If you know were i can find big azz ijaw girls just let me know

Abeg Where can I find ijaw girls , I hear alot about them how they have fat az especially bayelsa girls but I have search all social media including badoo but na all those girls way be like fish born i dey see way there location be bayelsa . Abeg guy men in the house, . Abi na lie all these people way say ijaw girls get big az dey lie . where can I find ijaw girls with big ass

How much is POS machine sold . The android big pos machine and the small one .
How much does those company that needs an agent sell it to there agent

Please to all the simp here and guy men . Whenever you are toasting a Nigerian girl and she Said she is not ready for a relationship for now , just know that she is a runz girl or coded Olosho . The reason for that is Because she doesn't need disturbance from a guy that will monitor her movement whenever she is wants to go and do her runz . This is 2021 don't allow any yeye girl to fuu you .

bluefilm:
You really sound foolish.

Same way your moniker sounds

angie541:
Please I need help before I kill someone, my fiancé just canceled our wedding because his baby mama wants to come back.
with my life he must pay!

I sent you private .check it . I have something important to discuss with you

illicit:
Oh my, I met those ones in Ilorin, They are usually and unusually rich, neat babes

But na Hausa babe I dey with that time for Uni

Hausa babe like anal

How can slim babe like anal . It's irritating doing anal with a slim girl

No guarantee she will be giving u x wen ever you need it . Bride price and weeding cost more than 1.5 million . Stop decieving yourself. What off the nagging and poisoning u if possible . Baby mama sure pass

Sluvist:
Some girls and women seriously needs someone to lean on, but most men are just after sex not genuine relationship.

What do you mean by that . Girls are looking for men that will be paying there bills and you are trying to sweet goat it . She should get a job or open a business then we can begin to take her serious. Tifs in disguise

I'm not even buying her any New phone . I don't have such money to waste. I will tell her to buy phone buy herself or collect the one her ex give her. Me I don't want to carry any relationship for head.

This is One month into our relationship and she wants me to buy a new phone for her. She is not a good digger because her ex boyfriend gave her Brand New infinix smart 5 but she refused to collect it. She do spend some little little money on me but we have not had s.e x . I do spend money on her too . Now the issue is that I don't want to do something I will regret because Nigerian girls can never be trusted. she prefers I call her with her sisters number but I'm getting tired of calling her from someone else phone and I don't want to buy her any new phone to avoid falling mugu . The whole thing is getting me tired in the relationship . Guys advice me on what to do