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shugacane:
I've been wondering if it is ever possible for a guy to stay with one girl without cheating.....i trusted my boyfriend so much, he made me bliv he doesnt hv time for women nd can never cheat...until i read his chats of recent nd found out he is just playing games...#unfaithful guys everywhere

We should worry more about girls cheating because girls make money from.while men loose money. 95% of Nigerian girls are now olosho and mind you these girls have boyfriend. Who is more cheat

If a dry cleaner wash your clothes . Do you wash his plate or you pay him for his services and then go. That goes the same way.men pays for the services girls renders to them . If you want a man to Satisfy you sexually then don't ask him for money or any financial support.

To all the guys that send me pm begging me for money. This is last warning. I'm not buhari your president either do I hold any political office that share free money. Let this be the last time anyone we beg me for Money here. If you need money then go and work . Because i work to make my own money .

Missyford31:
I have a four yr long relationship with an Igbo guy. Plus I come on here n learn it
It's easy to learn. I like it

Check your email , I sent you a mail .so we can chat privately

Missyford31:
na mines too white lol

Lol How come you understand my pigin Local english if truly you are white .

It's been long i stoped free sex. Infact I don't need anything free again . That's why I'm making money . It's better I pay with cash and satisfy my self. I tell her how to suck me ,romance me and please me and that's what a man needs. You can't suffer to make money and still be suffering to satisfy one silli girl on the bed after she has enjoyed your money for free based on relationship.

Missyford31:
Where's the pictures? Lol

Lol ok na yarch you find come abi. Open your yarch and snap it picture.

Zzor:
Where he wan see am from,he just want to feel himself,he needs it.

Dont go and work and be waiting for a man that will dash u 1m because say na your papa employ me. abi wetin. Thunder fire

Nairaland is full of fun . . I like this forum

Truth be told , they legalize cheating because the husband is over there cheating or probably married to his real foreign wife .while the Nigerian girl is here in Nigeria cheating too . The husband may not complain because he married her just to fullfil all righteousness because ordinary he will not like to have married a liability like Nigerian women

With the way all our Nigerian girls have all turn to olosho and runs girls every where even on inmessage and badoo. Can you still go out on a date with a girl at eatery like ShopRite and pay for everything she order for and also buy her a take away, give her 5k for tfare or drop her infront of her house. if you have not fvk her before or intending to fvk her in future.

Back in the 90s and early 2000 these gesture happens but I doubt if it still happen nowadays way runs full everywhere. I only see guys sitting together or group of girls sitting together each time i goto ShopRite. What really wnet wrong .

Guys let's discuss fact

Ghost8889:
Why is it that people are so much interested in sex that no matter how much they have it, they will never be satisfied?

Is because sex is the only relationship between a man and a woman .

Oshoooo:
hello sir please I need help, can you kindly help me sir may your pocket never run dry

I will help you . So you can also help others . Contact me

But all this sychophant and hypocrite shouting help her if you have the money .this and that. How many of your fellow men have you help with free money before ? Since you plung money from tree . How many men have you given a free ride before the way you give to a girl, if you are that generous just look around in your street or work place you will see that man that needs 10k from you help the man . not a girl . Simp everywhere. You guys act as if you don't know the point I'm making . 95% of Nigerian men can never and will never give a girl 10k free without having intension of fvking her now or in near future . Including me my self.

Truvel:
U Are Wrong. I Av Seen Nigerian Women Who Are Not Divorce Play Dis Roles. U Need To Change Ur Mentality. I'm Telling U Dis 4rm Experience.

I bet you haven't traveled outside Nigeria before that's why your thinking is very timid . If you travel and comeback then you will be the one to change your mentality. And begin to see that our women here are fraud , pure 419. No real love here. Women in Nigeria go into marriage because of what they will gain and not because they truly loves you or what they can provide in the relationship or marriage.

Zzor:
From comments up there,you can fetch out the broke guys among them including the rubbish poster

If only you know who I am in real life. I can give you 1m for free. You don't know there are lot of rich men on nairaland. I love this forum because is faceless and I can feel free to write anything I want without people knowing who I am . Lol

Truvel:
So, What U Are Saying Now Is Dat It's Not Advisable To Get Marry. So Women Don't Av Any Important Roles To Play In A Men's Life? U Av A Low Mentality. Av U Not Seen Women Paying School Fees? Pay Rent? Or Raise Children Which D Father Neglected B4? Av U Not Seen Or Heard Of Women Even Feeding Men In D House? Especially, In D Case When D Man Is Jobless?

Women only play those roles when they are divorced , separated or when there husband is dead . Reason with your head and not with your pinis . Especially Nigerian women

Kriss216:
Fvck or no Fvck, I can't give a Nigerian girl N80.

Lol why nah .

With the way our girls eyes dey red and the way girls see guys as maga . Can you dash a girl 10k for free without demanding fvk . How much can You dash a girl for free

If the girl have big breast and big yarch.can you give her 10k without fvk

Let's discuss

phr33man:
Take it or you leave it. Nothing like having a woman in your life. Just pray you get a good one. No doubt many of these ladies are wh*res these days but I bet there are still a good number of decent ones. Are we better of as guys? No body only pass for either gender o. A real successful man not just money needs a woma(wife in particular) . We just have to pray to have a good wife who might probably have made mistakes too earlier in life.

Think of your old age , if you are succucesful today and become broke in your old age , your so called good wife will turn your children against you and those children will kill you and nobody will know. I have seen it happen in so many family were mothers turn there children against there father .

Lol 20 men times 360 days of a year will give you 7200 times she have had sex . For over 8 years now I have hated kissing any girl. infact I tell them from first date that I don't like kissing .

Men do woman the favour

First by marrying her it means she will now be living in your house and she will no more pay for house rent

She will now be eating from you meaning she will no longer worry about buying food with her money

By marrying her you have removed shame and humiliation from her/her family because if she didn't get married people will Laff at her


You are have made a good retirement plan for her because if you marry her and along the Line you dies ,she will inherit your property or business


It's wrong when a man brag that this is my son or this is my daughter. In the rightful sense, children belongs to there mother and came to earth from her. They love and care for only there mother when they grow up.they buy gift for there mom,cars ,house name it and they now forget you there father that laboured your youthful age , money to train them in school

So if you are very successful think twice before you marry a Nigerian girl. Is better you do baby mama things so that your properties , money or business will remain intact for you or you marry a foreign girl from nearby african country because she can abandon the children for you and ran away. Because las las na children the man need not there mother .


Guys add yours so we can continue to make men to stop simp attitude

@misssclassy
@Lalasticlala
@Semid4lyfe
@Obinoscopy
@Mukina2

Mine was one busty married lady that we live in the same house . If she want to park her cloths outside she will be shaking her yarch for me and be smiling. Like play like play one day she come charge phone for my place and was sitting close to me rubbing her breast at me . Na so nack ooo
The next week she nack me bill. Na so i run . Me begin pay bill for married woman. Lie lie


Guys share your experience

With this your eyes that's like something wey monkey fart inside . U dey find man to control.unless the man no get sense . What do even bring to the table

Single girls do have more than 20 abortions from different men before marriage and they will hide it nobody go hear am oo. But immediately there husband tell them to have one abortion may be because of financial reason . She will begin to play the victim game. Fear woman ooo .u women are deadly

Meeting her in a commercial bus also means she is a commercial yansh. Lol

Chrisbella24:
Unfortunately, I'm getting married soon.

So, gather your broke peeps and continue wailing together.

This shows how worthless you are. Who told you getting married will make you escape from financial responsibility. I give you 3 years in that marriage and your husband will begin to nag ,beat you and maltrate you .if you didn't contribute anything financially to the marriage and that lead to divorce or even beat you till you die. Lazy bone . You people think everything is joke. I will advice to go and learn work or good business to aurgment your marriage otherwise na die you dey go so

Damianwest19:
I am currently trying to date a girl , but I just hope she is not too materialistic, she asked me to buy phone for her, I have asked her to visit me at home so that we can discuss about it but the day she promised to visit ; she didn't come , although she normally visits me in my place of work with her friend...I don't know if she truly is interested in me or she is more interested in the material things. I really want to marry her but she is yet to prove her love.

Is there way . She is trying to scam you. Ban her from coming to your work place. If she must visit you let it be in your house . Don be a maga

Chrisbella24:
You should channel your energy to making more money.

Broke people shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.


All these guys that spend on their women aren't complaining so swerve

This shows you girls are not ashamed of your selves. A human being with able hands and legs will derive joy in beging a man for money ? God forbid me coming across your type of woman. Mark my word by the time you get to 35 no man will spend dim on you again even for sex or anything. Your sexual value must have depreciated .since is sex you came to life to do

loneprof:
Brown Jay, dey try make you dey cool down and see other people's point.

If you know my ID very well, you would realize that we both usually agree on the same thing most times. Check your mentions...

The point is that as a man, you must spend. Do I support leeches or gold diggers? No! Do I support trying to impress a woman with money? Heck No!

But if you must date a woman, you MUST spend at some point. Even Oyinbo women will demand from you at some point... That's life, let's not deceive ourselves.
Let's know where to draw the line cos it's not all ladies who demand that are gold diggers or "oloshos".

Why must she demand from a man . Does it mean the man doesn't have his personal financial problem to solve . If she must demand for money , the man should demand for money from her too. Listen to me . We Nigerian men are doing Nigerian girls a big favour by dating or marrying them. Because it doesn't favour us in any way. If she born pikin is you the man that will train the child but when the child mature and make money is there mother they will remember and be buying expensive gift for even car . Use your head . We are doing these women alot of favour by dating or marrying them .