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Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by essenceplus: 1:08pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Rather than admit wrong when they meet superior understanding, they begin to fight to defend earlier positions rather than learn and improve, they read to project previous leanings, hence aren't exposed through what they read to be improved and then make changes. 2Kurupt, note trying to change people is declaring a war against thyself. Do not be discouraged,just as Morpheus said, the ones we try to deliver are the very ones fighting against us, you must expect it and deflect the negative charge by being bigger and sometimes walk away to defuse/dis-engage the negative energy Finally, everyone learns at a pace, some would need physical experiences of failure to learn what they ought to have learnt beforehand. Its Planet3xi |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by 2kurupt(m): 1:10pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:Let's not deviate from the matter the OP presented. He is concerned about getting a lady to make his wife, he doesn't say he can't sustain her when they do marry. A pidgin proverb says "leave wetin dem write for bus, enter bus". Marry first before you start bothering yourself how it'll end you dig 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by essenceplus: 1:12pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
2kurupt: Simply put, win the lady, and then she begins too be the critical thinker of making the nest while the man simply provides her with nesting materials. She builds it to her taste and wants. The male fetches the material, the female uses it to cnstruct the nest. She believes the philosophy, she misses it with her own internal blueprint. So, the male should sell the philosophy enough for the female to believe and own( or rather, be induced to believe she owns it, ) but then runs it like her own through crafting and building strategies through the relationship Planet3xi 1 Like |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by 2kurupt(m): 1:18pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
essenceplus:Well said bro. Seriously I just weak with such reasoning patterns. Many of our youths today tend to see materialsm & accumulation of wealth as the solution to all life's problems, quite sad. |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by HARDDON: 1:22pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Spinojaja26: It is written: 1. As he thinketh, so is he 2. I can do nothing without thy mind 3. Out of the abundance of the heart(mind), the mouth speaketh. ( body emits unspoken words, positive or negative things are attracted). Sense pill: if everyone you meet is dark, it's because your mind has been trained to see only that shade of colour. The world was created on the principle of light. If you are constantly in the dark, all you need do is open up your mind's blinds, let in the light. Op, your challenge is not external but internal. The gurls are not your problem, your flawed thought processes and the aura you emit, based on what you think about, are. Kindly shelve meeting any lady for now until you develop your mind. location/situation does not make people, the mind do. Kindly look for these books: 1. The mind is the Master 2. As He Thinketh So is He by JAMES ALLEN and his other collections and digest them. Pour thru good mind related books and those about meditation. Also, search on YouTube for WORKING WITH THE LAW by RAYMOND HOLLIWELL While at it, as someone suggested, read up Dating Drills on here and our blog. If you are dedicated to this course, within 2-3months, you would become a new Posh Man! @ all, here is my Sunday Sense Pill: 1. Mind Your Mind 2. Stop assuming you know if you don't have results in a specific area, seek out materials( books, podcasts etc) and improve your life. Have an Awesome Sunday 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by essenceplus: 1:26pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
2kurupt: I'm working on a report prepared by a so-called intellignet guy. A very intelligent guy from here, and i'm like, this is why the nation is stuck. No creativity at all. Terrible mental posturing THE MIND IS THE OFFICE OF A MAN. WITHOUT IT, NOTHING TANGIBLE CAN BE DONE FOR HIM. IT'LL BE LIKE CASTING PEARLS BEFORE SWINES. Planet3xi 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by essenceplus: 1:35pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Op go and read how to make a woman emotionally invested. Check HARDDON'S BLOGS YOUR ANSWERS ARE THERE 1 Like |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by babyfaceafrica: 1:36pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
2kurupt:I don't... |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Nobody: 1:41pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Spinojaja26:Stop insisting on married, they are obviously no good for you. |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by CaptainMitch: 1:57pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Thank God, I work in the presidency |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by northvietnam(m): 1:58pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Bloooody: EOD |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Shey na Imo girls? Na dem! 1 Like |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by EARNOLUMIDE(m): 1:59pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
If you get money well wife go show |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by boban007: 1:59pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
ARE U AN ACID ATTACK VICTIM? |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by lonelydora: 1:59pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Spinojaja26: Stop telling Owerri girls the truth. Their eyes are fixed on yahoo yahoo boys. No owerri girl wants a legit worker. Package yourself with all the lies you can afford, and see how fast you will get a wife 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Owodiran1(m): 1:59pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Spinojaja26:uncle nack anybody belle .collect the child lobatan. Time waits for no man........... 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
To marry u on less than 50k salary that is not regular. U are a wicked man |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by DarlingEmojist(m): 2:01pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
dingbang: The guy need Serious Lagos girl he no knw say all these Lagos girls of nowadays re Àwàlà girls |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by tabithababy(f): 2:01pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
After you have dumped the good girl |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by lonelydora: 2:01pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
CosmicPhoenix: I didn't see this comment before writing mine above. That's the simple truth |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by franchasng: 2:01pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Spinojaja26:My brother every profession comes with it's own burden, I think that is the current burden for Government Teaching professiona now oh cos no fine lady of this our time now known as slay queens will agree to marry the village headmaster Its not easy, don't blame the ladies in this situation. The same thing with Police officers, it is well |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by LesbianBoy(m): 2:01pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Rita30: I wonder what some of you gain by coming online especially on nairaland to paint a different picture of what happens in reality. Abi is it ignorance? How many times have you seen "the worst of men" marry beautiful women in Nigeria? 1 Like |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by EternalBeing: 2:02pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Start paying this kind of Tithe and your problem would be solved soonest. https://www.nairaland.com/5208838/paying-tithe-time-more-important#78733653 Before anybody quite this, he/she should read what is in the link first. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by boxypane(m): 2:03pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
World population is around 6 billion of which 4.5b are females and 1.5b are males. This infers that for every 5 females, there is a male. Nwa né!!! U go see. 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Skmoda360: I no get any genuine reason for quoting you I just want see amadioha thunder |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Bossjakande: 2:04pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
same here even mine is not money problem.I make my millions. just I always date d wrong ladies and end up in pains.wetin I Neva do for woman.dash her money in schl, assist with her sister wedding for suveniar, borrow her money when in need. a girl I train to marry. guy marriage is sweet but u are not getting younger and sex feeling is dere. maybe just pregnate someone so u have a child for now.when u have money u can marry later |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by EARNOLUMIDE(m): 2:04pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Find well you will c |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Minjim: 2:06pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Just keep searching. Don't even think much of it whenever a lady dump you. And compromise on some of your criteria for a fiancee too. Ladies Will be doing sakara to their potential husbands when in their early 20s but when they reached late 30s and their worth start dwindling they start fasting and praying. Think little of it . Just keep searching and be focus at your work . You hit the jackpot one day. Believe me, it's a men's world Note : While searching, never show desperation. Else Ladies will just scam you 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Awe4luv(m): 2:06pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
chiommy123:the world has turned upside down, so it's a woman that now think about many things(financially) when it comes to marriage?...when all she need do when she enters so to open up her legs and take care of the house....lol... 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Bossjakande: 2:07pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
dingbang:guy after Fulani I cant tell u imo state have d most beautiful girls in naija.so is normal dey will have shakara and expensive. how far now its been a while I saw u in d room. |
Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Destroyerofyeeb: 2:07pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
dingbang:
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