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rhymz:
It will depend on the tone with which it was said. If sounds condescending, he or she can be sure to get a hot slap to remind her that my beards and deep voice have come off age. However, if it is said out of innocence i may not mind the first time but if it continues like that, she gets the treatment too, no kidding.
I dont even entertain a younger person addressing me as "My Dear". . . .I find it a little condescending too. My Dear unto which lvls na, na Me dey yansh u or wat?

You could do a great service to us foreinarialanders by explain the concept at the base of this. Thank you!

Since somebody said you spoke with your wife, you should let us know how she justified this new behaviour.
From what you say I don't think she is cheating you, but maybe, she is under the attention of somebody.

Unless she is in jail for life I don't see any reason to say I am sure she will bring me nowhere.

It depends on what you feel. If you know you will not forget this cheat and you will never trust him anymore is better to break.
I know anyway a lot of people who is accepting the cheats of the partner as this seems to give a sort of stability to the marriage.

I keep saying LDR don't work. My personal experience is that at least.
In your case I believe she is trying to say something to you. Maybe she wants you to break so she can follow her road.

I think exactly as Nekai.
Unfortunately my experience with distance relation was nightmare.

Birthday is 5 days after mine. . Cool nah?

Is there anyone inhouse whom has lived an happy LD relation up to the wedding and further?

And the most important thing is that the first message here opens you the door of the sexuality section! Yuppie!

If I date a woman of my age normally it takes two dates before the go.
Zex is just a part of the whole game, not the end of it.

Shy-One:
@ Esteduca:

Divorce?  Crying?  Please that should have been a time of celebration: She should have broke out in dance and song because now She can take time to inner evolve to recreate herself because life is full of discovery and investigation and that is sooo much FUN!!!!

Her Song: "Shackles Off My Feet - I Can Dance"

Lolz. We both realised this some time after.

mama-gee:
[color=deeppink]And what did she do?

Did she give you a feeding bottle to stop your from crying? [/color]

I was informing her I want the divorce.
She started to cry.

You keep posting models and keep saying Ibo are beauty.
I bet I can send a picture of every tribe, race, species of this world with at least one beauty in it.
Average! I'd like to see average normal woman, with their own weak and strong points.
However I am not so familiar with tribes but 9ja women are beautiful, average speaking.

I am italian, 40yo and I 'd like to correspond with smart women to start a friendship and get knowledge of each other cultures.
In my profile the email to contact me. No willing to start a LD relation, just friendship.

I am thousends miles away from you so if you seriously don't want to cheat him here you can come.
I am willing to make friends. Details in my profile. Feel free to browse and to contact me.


EDIT: LOL. I didn't see the post were from 2007. Ok anyway.

Uhm, let me count,
1, 2, 5, 6, Ah yes! None.

I did cry in front of my ex wife. The situation was very painfull I could not control myself.

divalishis:
@esteduca
Sorry, I didnt intend to imply that you insult your girlfriend.
I was talking about how you react when you are jealous. E.g the many calls and the interrogations when she eventually picks.
Didnt mean to insult your sensibilities. Thanks for your post, it really made things clearer!

Thank you! No problem.
I am reading and thank you for this post and all the reply since it makes things clearer to me as well!

Hello there,
I can speak about myself CLEARLY:
I have never beat anybody in my life. I have never insulted or menaced my ex gf I was jelous for.
I am not violent and I am carefull about my woman, as I did with my ex wife. We break because she did not want to have children, while I wanted.
I have been cheated by her and I had no violent reaction, never.
I have shared my experience with a Long distance relation just to let you see an alternative point of view.
I am the first to say that Cotton and Inked are giving you nice advices.
I am on the same opinion that if your cousin is scared to get beated by him she must leave him immediately.
He will find a way to solve his problem with a doctor.
So please avoid saying I am acting as him since I am no violent person and far to be.
Ciao!