In whatever decision u opt 4,apply tact & wisdom,u know wat is best 4 u but never 4get dat there are no gaurantees in d choices we make.gudluck

Posts like dis make marriage distasteful & a feat suitable only 4 superhumans,

Dis is so depressing,

Lol

OP,i think you need to work on your insecurities ,u seem threathened & a litte shaken of the other guy's status(no offence).However you also need tact & wisdom in handling dis matter.I'v read some useful advice 4rm several posters dat would benefit you .You shouldnt be thinking of moving on & starting a new relationshp @ dis juncture.work & salvage wat u have,fight if u have to (if u tink wat u both share is worth it) cos often times walking out & starting a new relationship aint the antidote to lasting happiness cos ur new partner is far from perfect.

I strongly believe in the "good enough 2 bed but not good enough to wed"not every boyfriend is life partner material .It sounds callous but me tinks its just plain reality.Yes,i would (and i have) date a guy wit no intention of marrying him.d minute.

I tink men are. I'v got 5 older brothers & they make me feel like a bosslady.My partner tolerates & puts up wt my crap.

Used 2 tink i could but their repeated acts of violence esp up North made me change my mind.Its a resounding NO!

Dont see nothing wrong wit beign a divorcee,it shouldnt b a stumbling block 4 the both of u. I tink her beign divorced 4rm a previous relatnshp would mean she's garnered a wealth of experience dat would prove beneficial 2 both of u,

@ Ezekiel,i quite agree wit u 2 an extent but my opinion abt d police stil remains unwavering.Apart 4rm the bribery allegations levelld against them,i know 4rm experience dat Naija policemen are STINGY!, "aka glue".wat am i supposed 2 do wit him.A definite NO 4rm me.

D guy rant wus probably beer induced.a few slaps would have cured his delusion sharp sharp!!tnx 4 being a gentleman & a knight in shine shine armour 4 a distressed damsel. 3 gbosas 4 u.

***smiling mischieviously & blinking my eyes***No comment !!

@ OP,I hail o!

@ 190 ,Missy B;Gracias!Merci!!Thanks!!!

Not all first boyfriends made u tink about forever after,often time such relationships were built heavily on immaturity,naivety etc.The reapearance of an ex shouldnt make a reasonable lady jeopardize a solid marriage.gettn mushy & starryeyed over a first love is a sure ticket 2 infidelity,distrust,divorce,etc

Hel.l NO!

I use pads ALWAYS.attempted 2 use tampoons once bt did a shoddy job of it & chikened out.

Ibadan no doubt

MC HAMMER by Ricky Ross {Teflon Don ]

I'l stay wit him if he agrees 2 other options like adoption,& invitro fertilisation .we cld also seek a reliable sperm donor.but if he refuses,i've no option but 2 leave b4 my eggs shrivell up.lol

I realy dont tink i has anything 2 do wit pretence ,to each his own.I'm stil struggling & trying to master the 'fork & spoon thingy.anoder of my 'bad' habbit chewing my eba,tried 2 swallow bt just havent been succesful  so far.But i hate it when pple dip bread & biscuits in tea or washing their hands & drying their hands on clothes & bodyparts. Realy grosses me out.

Geeez!!dis story if true sends chills over my body.one minuite u think know someone & d next,they bare their fangs,

Also avoid fizzy & carbonated drinks like d plague.,drink lots of water,also practise tummy tucking exercises 4 most part of d day even during work.D key is Consistency & Patience.Most importantly dear, luv yourself!

(hides under d bed)dnt wanna be hit by straybullets in dis crossfire o!

@ 2buff,ur simpathies aint worth nada.save dem 4 'your lot'. We rock!

D society makes it so hard 2 realy live & explore life 2 d peak without beign labelked something derogatory.so so many restrictns .BUT I'D STILL WANNA BE A WOMAN IN THE NEXT LIFE & D ONE AFTER.!!

U just have 2 luv NL!!!my everyday laugh tonic.I HAIL O!