@ lostgirl

no need to. You have your opinions I have mine. Free country. No harm done!
Seriously !

@ lost girl

apparently not

@ Lost girl

you are truly lost!!!!!!!! White women marry African men for pretty babies and sex?

Hi Bongo man!!!

@Ogaga4Luv

LMAO at the joke!!!!!!

Hmmm, I really don't like cheaters, however, after listening to this "lady" go on and on in her ugly way of talking I am not surprised that her husband went somewhere else to be with another woman.
That was embarrassing and uncalled for .

So true!! The time thing is absolutely true.

Someone will say: "Get back with me in 30 minutes" and then its two hours later!! LOL

Its so different then when I grew up. I'm specific to the second!! Haha.

I hope he did a good job!!!!

WOW

that's all I have to say to that!!! LOL

@ poster

This really depends on the person and the personality you have yourself, how much time you want to invest and on your partner, There are many individuals from broken homes that went into lasting marriages. It doesn't just depend on you but also on your partner. It takes two people to make a marriage work not just one.
With this said, you could try as hard as you can and give it all you got but if your partner is not willing to do the same then all your energy you put into keeping it togeher will be wasted unfortunately.

@ bongo _man

Ach ja , hast Du den song gehoert Schau mal nach!!!

Mein lieber Bongo_ man

Ich habe es gesehen!! Ich glaube Dein Charm hat Dich gerettet!!!!

Da freue ich mich aber das du nicht versteckt bist sondern Filme anschaust!!!!

I have to agree with Bongo_man of course , the German language sounds pretty harsh and always klingt or sounds like the speaker has something stuck in their throat!
Naja, Deutsch klingt nicht romantisch fuer mich , aber ich mag gerne tiefe Stimmen und ein schoenes Lachen egal welche Sprache die person spricht! Did you get this Bongo _man?
Wie auch immer, Ich mag gern Franzoesisch and Italienisch hoeren.
Ich gehe jetzt auf Arbeite und hofffe jemand finden zu koenne wenn ich wieder zu hause bin. Du fehlst mir schon!!

europegirl

Oh dear,

@ Gemmie

I don't really know what to say. Love can make you blind. I am sure you felt that he was the one. Unfortunately, you got pregnant before marrying. I understand it is a very common thing these days. I am glad you will be able to take care of you and the baby. Thank goodness you had your education.
However, I see your problem. What will you tell the baby later who his father is. I think it is unfair to ignore that his biological father is Nigerian. I feel it is completely unfair for the baby not having a chance to know his real dad. On the other side , however, if the father wants nothing to do with the baby then you can;'t make him.
I'm so sorry this happened to you it's a burden for sure but also a blessing in disguise as you will have a child.
I wish you all the best and please be strong and take care,

Mingwo Bongo_man,

Kostenlos??!!! Na das ist ja Klasse!!!!! Willst Du den Film in Deutsch anschauen Ich mag Filme lieber in English anschauen obwohl ich Deutsch bin! LOL
Schwimmen oder spazieren Arbeitest Du garnicht? Mutti hat mir gesagt es regnet zur Zeit viel in Deutschland. Ich bin in Florida da ist es schoen warm.
Das ist lustig I dey check bongo_man . Bongo_man was ist Kolo? Hidemmyass.com sounds good! Ich wette viele Maenner sind dort. Just kidding!
Warte sag mir auch was" Na wa ooo" stands for bitte mein unbekannter Lehrer!
Na gut das wars jetzt,

Oghenekevwe (Kevwe)

@ Bongo _man

Du bist wohl ein Spion? Deshalb musst DU unbekannt bleiben!!! Dann nenne ich Dich halt weiter unbekannter Bongo_man! Ich fuehle mich wie in einem Spionen film/ Krimi. Einen 3 Wochen Kurs?! Bongo _man you make my heart go yori yori! LOL I dey always laugh when I read your posts! I dey on facebook and go invite you as friend! Howfar now?! LOL. Come , now. Abeg I go take your class.
Ich will nicht meine facebook link hier ranposten aber. Ach ja, ich hoffe die Pidgin English lessons sind frei und ich muss nicht bezahlen!

Bis bald und gute Nacht

@ Just Good

That was not very nice! I hope you were teasing!

@ Bongo man

Du machst mir sehr viel Spass und bringst mich zum lachen! Das mag ich sehr!!! Ein job mit den Vereinten Nationen waere toll!! Vor allem wenn ich mit Kindern arbeiten koennte!

Mein lieber unbekannt aus Bongo, hast Du auch einen richtigen Namen oder bist Du nur unbekannt

Vielen Dank fuer die Komplimente! and Pidgin English lessons would be wonderful! I dey learn quick! LOL

Wow,

I love the pics. Thank you for sharing!

I find this thread so funny. Everything you guys have said is so true. I really laughed at borrowing the English music but reporting it when Nigerian music is played.
It is true though Nigerians are very loud but it's probably cause your so happy all the time!
Personally, it is an issue when others are speaking a language apart from what you know yourself and they are laughing and carrying on with it, that a person might think they are being talked about. However, I love using my language whenever I don't want anybody around knowing what I'm talking about . But when in a group and some don't speak the language then I make sure to use the language everyone speaks or I translate if accidentally something is said someone does not understand.

@ Bongo man

Na Du bist ja einer! LOL!! Oh dear!

I ch hatte 4 Jahre Russisch, 4 Jahre Franzoesisch, 4 Jahre Latein, und ein bischen Italienisch. Oh ja und naturluech English.
Haha, am besten spreche ich English. Ich versuche gerade Pidgin English zu lernen. LOL. You know what a charmer you are!!! LOL Lieblings Schwester und ich soll schoen traumen?!

Liebe Gruesse gehen zurueck an Dich auch!!!!

@ RichyBlacK & Nikkysgirl

Thank you for your positive remarks for the woman

I can't stand all this negativity! Some make negative comments because they can't stand an American Woman maybe hooking up with one of their "own". Others are just teasing, some are jealous wishing they had something like that, and others are scared of what they do not know.
Of course she needs to be careful but the best things in life often are very unplanned and different from what is considered normal and safe! Life is an adventure and should be lived to the fullest.
Do you even know how many people these days meet online and get married and have wonderful marriages?!
@ Nikkysgirl thank you for sharing and I also know how much time is spend on the phone, computer etc. People will do and endure crazy things when they are in love. This goes for both women and MEN!!!!

I wish the poster all the best of luck and happiness in the world and hope that I will be there soon with you. I have till November until I can be united with my love and I am counting the month, days, minutes, seconds!!!!!!

@ $$ Rhino

So very true!!!!!!!

Ach wie suess,

I ch mag' es so sehr gern wenn Leute versuchen eine Sprache zu lernen die unbekannt ist. Ich liebe Sprachen und versuche immer sie zu sprechen wo immer ich auch bin in welchem Land.
Viele liebe Gruesse,

Hi,

could somebody explain to me more about youth service and camp , please? Why does one have to do such and what do you do during camp and then after it is over.
I would appreciate any insights,

Thanks!

Well, I would like a man who is a natural leader. Someone that will be head of the family and does that with ease. A man that has goals and dreams that I could support him in. A man that is not afraid to support me in my dreams as well. Someone I can have a conversation with about anything, fool around, laugh and have fun with. A man that understands I love children and animals and like to help anything in need. One that will enable me to take care of him and lets me be crazy about him.

@ poster

Please do not assist him with his immigration. He is not even trying to be a father but is actually making things harder for you.
I'm very sorry you have to go through his but please be strong for yourself and the baby. She does not need a father around that things so negatively and is not even trying to be involved in the little ones life!

I have this discussion with someone and I'm not really sure about computers so I'm asking you guys. This is gonna sound ridiculous but,
Ok if you are offline meaning not on the internet can you still get the sound that says "You have mail"? Like a couple of times in a row. And what about a buzzer sound?
I'm pretty sure one would have to be connected to the internet right? Or can those sounds be stored somewhere on your computer without being on line?
Thanks.

@ kayusa

Please don't generalize foreign women. Yes some do not know what the concept of marriage entails but there are many that do.
It is so very sad that many marriages fail because people think it is easier to just divorce then to work things out. Marriage should be only done once but unfortunately often it is not.
I do agree there should not be a marriage if it is not truly believed that it can be sustained. So if this woman only wants to marry because a child is involved it would be very wrong to marry.

Actually, it is a fact that men in the medical field tend to be much softer and caring with women patients then a female doctor would be.
I think this has to do with the fact that they do not know how painful childbirth for example could be.

@Mama JD

Hast die heute geschickt? Wenn ja, dann habe ich sie noch nicht gesehen. Aber sonst habe ich keine mail bekommen. Ich will aber schon noch mit Dir reden. Vielleicht koennen wir ja mal dieses Wochenede chatten.
Ich bin oft am computer um zu studieren und Aufsaetze zu schreiben.
Ich hoffe es geht Dir gut und Du hattest eins schoenes Wochenende.


Bis bald

Heute ist es ein sehr schoener Tag hier in Florida. Die Sonne scheint, der Himmel ist blau und das Wetter ist nicht zu heiss.