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Very disturbing scenario.. Why should I leave my kids with either? I wouldn't even need to choose to start with cause my expectations of all healthcare workers is to have undergone criminal and child abuse check to start with.

But I know one thing; No gender has a monopoly of doing evil. But that's just me.

Our upbringing, beliefs and outlook to life represents who we are. Life Experiences shapes us.

My kids go to Montessori immediately after 1st birthday and there're two male child educators always in that baby room and accepting babies at the door I'm talking Professionals and well kept.. Aside the fact that there're cameras installed in every room which are assessible to parents within a click from work. I also have female nannies at home and watch them like a hawk too. ( so whats the difference?)

I honestly don't have any problem with it. I was raised solely by a single dad and surrounded by brothers, had the best time of my life growing up.

Only heard of these numerous horror stories (pedo uncles & fathers) 30+years later on NL ( also in 'Precious' movie) . Not even in realm of real world. Never seen one with my korokoro eyes.

Sick world.

Racateur

Adigbe

That's a long thread ... Will read later

Dyt:
Motigbo ma

Good.

(((hugs))) (for him not mummy )

Dyt:
Ma, that boy is just 2.4mnths but his troubles are out of this world. No one can correct him, he will open that his small mouth to say I shlap u.

Akanbi bury lomo

Agba wa bura .. I'm sure you did more than him. Infact e sho ara yin ninu Ile yen and stop spanking that boy or gbadogbado a gbowo agbado lowo gbogbo yin

edwife:
Lol,i have never met anyone so bold and confident even when he knew he was a fraudster....

Happy Val,hope you had fun!

we did. sick of eating out , made goat intestine pepper soup and stout+malex

Hope you had fun too?

Dyt:
Wet palm on his wet bum

Lol, when my lil man knows he's done smth wrong and I call him or sees me coming, he starts holding his bum shouting soyiiiiiii or waving or putting two hands together and bowing.

He's already terrified of you Dyt.. E rora oh

So how's the killing plot going?

Arugbo ojo, Oba gbogbo Aye ati orun.. Kaabioosi olorun mi.. Eshe baba! Forever I will praise you!

You and Nbabe and soups


Edwife that was hilarious..

My Val bouquet

datguru:
Next four years!


Any way, cheers

And so shall it be.


OP God bless your home.

5minsmadness:
Yes Sir. One of my intimate girlfriends was calabar. I used to have bouts of asthma after sex with her.

And I'm not asthmatic.

amtheone:
You want to give it a try? If yes, then you will have to prepare body and soul together because you are going to experience something that you have never experienced in your entire life before. If you doubt me, ask people.

Simple q and you're going roundabout.

Anyway, heard their men are overly possessive (have trust issues because of their ladies love for sex) and abusive. How true is this. Are you a calabar man?

Congratulations! Best gift ever. God bless him.

Hmmm
How bout their men?

YES

They aren't dummies and have feelings too.

'It's finally here' lol

Happy St. Valentine's Day to my one and only olowoori mi ale oloshi NOBODY .... I will always love you babe.

And to my fav NLers and padis..

Naijababe
Damiso
Sheer chaircover
Greatgod
Edwife
Idowuogbo .. BADOOOO
Aisha2 ( where you dey )
Coogar
Teefee
Toonoisy
Nashville ( where in the globe you dey )
Pick'
Bellong
Freshdude
2mch iscariot
Ati bee bee lo...

Enjoy your Day with your lovely ones and don't forget 50shades is showing today

Glory to the Lord in the highest amen.

jnrbayano:
The bold doesn't connect.

Answers to your 2 questions ...

Awful surprises : Putting someone else's (family) need ahead of mine.

Pleasant surprise: Independence

How's that a rocket science

charles009:
Though she has left the house this morning with some of her baggage, I am determined that I am never going to allow her enter my house again.

Hehe na wah..

jnrbayano:


Your comment is filled with more questions than answers.

how?

jnrbayano:
Experience they say is the best teacher, but a wise person learns from other people's experiences, good or bad.

What do you know right now about marriage which you probably didn't know when you were single?

We, in this side of the divide itch to learn too.

Please, can you share?

Putting someone else's need ahead of mine.

Not easy.

Pleasant Surprise: I'm FREE and make my own RULES.

bellong:
Welcome back Ma'am

Happy New year Bellong, how is family doing?.. Best regards.


Damiso ... okay you ain't no rev sister then.

damiso:
You know them No thank you. I don't want their business card pls just tell me what areas they are In so I can avoid them.

that una UK ehn...

Congratulations TV01, I'm happy for you. May she be another source of joy to your entire family. Amen.

Welcome to da' club... Embrace every precious moments, that's your princess right there

***

And to those of you making jives about daughters My God and My Lord shall favor yall with 3 bouncing baby girls one by one. AMEN!

DollyParton1:
yes and yes.

Before nko ?

SirShymexx:
We're all always guilty of that, but words have nuances when it comes to application in context.
Nicki Minaj, Kim K, and Olivia Pope are supremely classy women albeit perhaps not on a particular standard where morals (even this one is debatable cos we all judge them based on how public their private lives are) are involved. I'd even throw Amber Rose in there. We as human beings are just naturally judgemental based on preconceived notions and our outlook to life .

QED

DollyParton1:
Why you gonna put Olivia Pope in the leagues of Kim K and Nicki Minaj.

Coz the President lays her or she's always in pantsuits compared to other 2?

JahzaraAde:
Mowowajumi, mori owo Yin.
Moweyinwo, mori ife Yin.
Wonwa bere l'owo mi pe bawo ni mosese?
Mo sofun wan wipe emi na ko, Olorun Oba ma ni!

Mo ni Baba kan, moni Baba kan o, Baba ara to m'oyin omo!

Praise God!

edwife:
Aluta you had a go once with television . I don't think that day will come but if it does i might turn it to a comedy with plenty of gifs.

Lol.

SirShymex.. Yes I only answered from a liberal point of view (posed question). But you're right, if we want to tactically go deep into different contexts of Class from all cultural diversities , we will have different definitions per case. Therefore Class is subjective.

Nicki Minaj , Kim K, 'Livy pope are classy girls but from Nigerian standpoint .. They're woreorish, no q asked. I on the other hand have left home for a while and my conditioned mentality differ in most cases.

Watched Suits last night and there was this flashback clip of Mike Ross and his grandmother , she forbade him from staying with Trevor ( his childhood friend who also happen to be a drug cartel)... Mike didnt listen and his gramie eventually came around and said the most touching statement.. ' I'm not happy with your decision, but at the same time you're an adult and I have to support your decision Mike'. What am I driving at? I think you already know it.

#Sorry I'm at work if my post looked rushed/ scruffy ..typed this on my coffee break#

Classy: stylish and sophisticated. QED

Classiness and Virginity are completely two different things.

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