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Saskatchewan

ijustdey:
man is just a complex being when it comes to its relationship with the opposite sex.... what he see and imagine sometimes is controlled by the third leg that he won't reason the way you just put it.


he feels empty without fulfilling that sexual desire or urge

That's just complete bullocks! He should be able to hold it together for few years. Jerk it off in the shower or something

Had this discussion with a collegue recently.

Why is it so hard For men to wait & morn their wives for atleast 2years ? , I mean is it not weird and mind boggling how quickly they warm up to another woman? It is for me oh You lost your wife for God's sake not a pet. You already have children to raise. Get a maid to do all the cooking & other house chores. Have some Respect. Gosh.

Meanwhile, a wide percentage of widows will choose to wait & raise their children before inviting another man into their home permanently. It won't even cross their minds.


I just don't get it.

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Good job @Tayour ... Meanwhile that fish is calling me.

Tayour my sister we are doing great.

I'm exhausted .Gosh I need an early vaca soo bad. Looks like forever.

Massage therapy is not working anymore... I need to go away!

Abeg don't tear the baby into two oh Na God I take beg una... Carry una quanta for one side jare

Ceeesaw:
Well to start with, there us nothing wrong in a woman staying home to bring up good kids.

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Which ones are bad kids??

edwife:
Yes! She is a graduate for pete's sake!

Don't mind OP jare.

Gotta swerve from this thread coz I'm starting to get e-angry sef... The mofo didn't even include his kids name in the papers. So he can throw them out anytime.

omonnakoda:
Any constructive suggestions?

Okay..

edwife:
She married a selfish and stingy man.
She should get the hell out of that house and make her own money.....
Building the house in his name as in what? he is even selfish towards his kids.

In other words.. The woman should get a job.

irunoko:
let me give you flavours song to back it




shake it shake it.krikakaka shake it

Oya komole

edwife:

Engagement in Nigerian is different from the oyinbo engagement oh ( popping the four word question).

However, in Nigeria ..

Paying bride price & wine tasting signifies engagement in some culture. ( I stand to be corrected though)

'Family introduction' signifies engagement in another.

So yes, some fiances move in together( what we call trial marriage & getting to know each other) and assumes wifee duties after theses official ceremonies henceforth.

Is there any problem with that

edwife:
I tell you,a family man with 2 kids will build a house and none of his immediate family member is on the document,which kind nonsense is this?

I will simply follow the leader ,work and build my own including my kids as the next of kin-shekina!

Hi Five with both hands jawe... Shake ya bootay

Nonsense and ingredients

I know a woman that built 3 three-storey house in her children's names (3 of them). The hubby built their home in his name too. What arrant nonsense.

No need to fight for yeye ownership.Just do what you do best and life goes on.

^^ my dear the thing tire me oh.. Me sef I for don buld my own. No be Bricks , cement, water, iron and employees ? Shuo. No time for shakara abeg

Chicken fingers on a cooling rack

Split wetin,a man that's always adamant to give money and builds a house in his own name excluding his wife's.. Salary?? Continue daydreaming you hear.

Woman, dust your transcripts and credentials and get your hands dirty. Stop waiting for another bodied human like yourself for your basic needs for crying out loud. Don't you have parents? And even if they're well to do, don't you think they deserved to be taken care of and monthly token from you?? You don't even have any savings to fall back on if the worse happens, do you?

Please put those cuties in school and get to work!

NobleG1:
You're still confirming how messed up your mind is.

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Many OP's points to counter but I'm lazy.

Just accord me a well deserved respect and you'll get thesame back. Simple . Everybody will be happy.

I'm too old for all these relationships ABCs

Timbuktou and Bellong have given you an invaluable advice and information. Please heed and move on with your life. Face your work

NobleG1:
Nigeria is a Banana Republic which has Kangaroo courts. And it reflects in your comment.

Thunder fire ignoramus mind... I watch a lot of Judge Judy , People's court, J.Joe brown , to name few ... I know for a fact that the guy will get a favourable ruling provided he has a proof of payment.

Listen up guys: There's no such thing as 'a gift' in court.

Curry is on FIRE

GS crowd control though Now 'That's hot' !

Still ontop of these girls matter eh .., hahahaha I can't laugh jawe

Mekybliss:
That guy is materialistic. Please tell him to refund the sex

wow ... Just wow

NobleG1:
You don't give people gifts in the hope to get it back! When a gift is given, it automatically becomes the receiver's property (even if you have the receipt), unless the receiver rejects it or voluntarily returns it back to you.

In a reputable court of law, you don't get gifts back! He had no right to take those things back forcefully. In fact, he should be charged with unlawful entry and theft. Unfortunately, we don't have good justice system in Nigeria.

If the girl actually cheated on her boyfriend, then she's a s*lut. He could have just dumb her and move on.

If you're not gonna be fully committed in a relationship, END it!! Don't cheat while in a relationship!

So it was wrong and immature of him to do that. If you know you gonna demand your gift back if the receiver does something you won't like in future, then DON'T GIVE ANYONE GIFT.

Yall just enjoy trashing Nigeria at every slight provocation.

What is a "reputable court of law" again, do we have a non-reputable court of law??

Any Judge will rule ALL his belongings back to him with interest sef. They are deemed his properties. He possess all the proof of payment. And I'm not even talking receipts , ordinary Bank statements will do in court. End of.

Good riddance.

adorablepepple:
God catch u too

I know right

birdman:
rockets are a bad matchup for LAC. On any given day, they should beat the Clips. They just dont have the defensive discipline and heart of a champion. They played hard last night just to avoid being disgraced. Come thursday rockets will be going home.

Btw, am I the only one who really doesnt like Noah? i want to see bulls lose just for that reason alone.

You're right. LAC was outplayed and I began to question LAC's past victories. But hey for a team that have never qualified for any playoffs in NBA history, they are up to par.
Oh yes, Chris Paul and his pack will be back in full force tomorrow. I'm rooting for them and Cleveland for finals.

Wetin Noah do you, His pony tail ? same beef I have for Harden .. Can't stand the dude too.

scholes0:
Where do you stay?

Canada noni

I intend to enrol my kids in public schools when next we visit home.

DanjaNinja... You just made me cry.

God will shine his everlasting mercy on your Aunt ... She's an epitome of blessing. She's indeed a rare gem. She's truly her sisters keeper.

May your Mom's soul continue to rest in peace. I'm sure she's smiling and at peace wherever she is.

This is a big lesson for me to reflect on... to train my kids with their love in mind. Be each other's keeper.

Thanks for sharing.

Thank you Lord.