₦airaland Forum

Do you think before you type?

FarahAideed:
Africans and this primitive accumulation of land mindset ..Africa is the only place on Earth I still here people talk of land and landed property like fools . As people we must remember Life is nothing but an experience and our duty here is to capture and deliver as much experience as we can before we die because that's all we got ..in the real sense nobody owns any material thing in this place called earth not even a grain of sand , the only thing this place allows us to own are memories of experience ..

Those days when sex is done properly with the man doing all the major activities during sexual activities .....there was a big gap between men and women as women respect the powers of men....
Fast forward to now men has relinquished all powers to women
You hear stories like I want her to be on top
I want her to grind me well leaving u the man as useless as anything .......


Men let’s change attitude cos it will only continue to deteriorate more

Block head can you please explain what shite is all about.......loud mouthed toad

NNEWIsuper:
I'm Igbo and I support shites...FG should obey court order simple

U are very stupid for this write up oga.....do you have blood flowing in ur veins at all

Officer4:
Check very well, you’d notice it was a stray bulletin from a fellow policeman

Nurses no dey get big yansh at all on it as the uniform Dey be na im Dey make the shape shoot out

Nostradamus:
Haa!!I'm only trying to explain better for the bro...



But true-true,nurses dey get big yansh oo.

Nairaland has actually made some people wey where dem come from act all tushed up...
Before u talk some will say frican and Nigerian girls re so so so

Oga park well do you think children of rich men ply their trade on Nairaland?

Davash222:
Una wey dey fall in love with Nigerian and African women, I commot cap for una. You guys are the strongest.


For me, I rather fall astray than to fall in love with a Nigerian or any African woman.

I no Dey condemn anyone just trying to prove a point here.even in porns when you watch it the end product is always disgusting.


At the end of a longtime, the tissues in the anal region gets weakened and finally u use a pad to protect yourself from passin out fluid......

Tell me the good things u gain from the sex?

Let’s be frank with ourselves. Any man that actually finds so much pleasure in anal sex is gay. A natural straight man get irritated with what comes out of the back hole....


I feel concerned when I see young guys discussing and it gets to the level of sex and they tell you anal is the best?


How come?
Babes beware,if your man likes anal he is either cheating on you with a man or he is warming up
To start it soon.

Anal sex is disgusting

Can you see yourself write....since u have been watching bbn since it started wetin u don gain.......

Dey are smarter in all ways


Their guys are big scammers but u can’t ever know and their babes know so much but they are sensible enough to keep it under check

I believe it’s better to be a divorcee than a random baby mama

NEZON:
wat re u sayin,hw can a hausa gal appear on BB wen den are mostly pretender,do u tink most of dem don't wanna appear there.i knw many story n have see much of der secret n dirty life,many divorce re frm north n hausa girl mostly most lesbian re hausa girl,king of sugar daddy re hausa girls

I marvel at ur wisdom with this write up...u actually nailed the topic really well.....

ladiesreject:
Christian girls (95% of them) are sluts. I will say that again and again and again. Every negativity and immorality starts from them.
If you must know, 99.5% of Hausa girls are Muslims. I don't want to say 100% because there might be few exceptions (which of course, I've never seen).

If you think because someone comes from the north and speaks good Hausa is Hausa then you're not only stupid, but you're also inexposed and dumb.
Hausa girls discriminate against us here in the north and we both speak Hausa. We are not Hausa. Hausa girls are Muslims.

Who uses Kayan Mata? Christians? SMH.

Did you read the part where I explicitly stated that I'm a Christian? It's just unfortunate that churches no longer preach against immorality because they are looking for members. We here in the north, we stand against it and will continue to preach it in our churches until they turn a new leaf. And since I can't reach out to all the xtian ladies, I will continue to use nairaland to attack them for their immorality, so brace up for it. If you aren't guilty of the act, you'll just pass. I will end up with a Christian lady one day simply because Hausa girl will not even listen to anything I have to say just because I'm a Christian. The Christian ladies that I hope to marry one day hawk their bodies like it's groundnut. #crying.

Take the case of BBN, how many Hausa girls are in the house?
How many Hausa girls do you know that are baby mamas? Again, that you're from the north and speak Hausa doesn't make you Hausa.

Will u learn before u start posting senseless things online....appreciate and learn to be constructive things in life

iCauseTrouble:
Nawa for Nigeria o. Electric cars wey dropouts dey make for India and China.
Thought school is meant for innovations and inventions and not copy and paste

Dubai citizen well done sir , however Dubai returnees don’t use singular words in the place of plural ....it is these not this sir!!!!

Me I prefer my ekiti o

nnokwa042:
this are people who never been to dubai some of them are in oshogbo or jalingo ,

Do u read before u type? Please read the story again and comment as a sensible person so that u can be one

Donmedra:
Some idiots in the south want this one as president or vice president??.

El Rufai is just a bigot, is it our fault the northern leaders stole the money the South LP bring into developing the north.

Sorry bro ur thinking actually explained ur age properly......
Before u are able to type a complete message insults flow into ur thinking

U want to hear the truth u are acting like an endangered species in this story.....

Put her in the place of your sister imagine coming back from the country u went to to meet her with a story like the lady’s own,how will u feel bro?


In d right frame what will I meet a 28 year old boy on the road and discuss only give advice that I’m doing to u now.....



I’m proud of u for standing by her now but she actually needs u more in future bro



Lastly. Can you train her to measure to your level and ur taste



Finally : there’s no better woman out there , we actually make them to become what we want them to be through hard work and patience



My piece though[quote author=sirdouglas post=80018646][/quote]

Bro ur story reeked of self pity. U want us to pity you by telling us ur pitiful part of the story
I want to ask you
1.what is the age gap between you both?
2. Which properly groomed man with self respect turns a 19 year old on?
3. Do you think about the psychological implications of your actions on her in future?
4. What happened to u training her to the level u want her to be?

My conclusions are
1. You are mean , selfish and self centered
2. You have low self esteem and irresponsible to the real issues and hide under the irrelevant ones
3. So for her future to be secured she opted for abortion but u wanted the more humiliating pattern for her
4. When she born your twins now na ur kinsmen wan marry her?
5. Lastly think before you act (morals of the lesson

sirdouglas:
In as much as you are trying to be mean. I understand your point. For the record, I am not a boy. I will appreciate if you address me with more respect.

Marrying her will not be such a bad idea but we may not enjoy the marriage. Especially her. She has said it over time that she knows that I don't love her. In as much as that is not entirely true, it is not far from it. She doesn't fit my profile for a wife and that is why I have been trying to end the relationship.

If this is coming from a woman I will understand but coming from a guy makes me want to ask you how old you are. Sorry but that's so insensitive of you and immature.

I never meant ill for her and I have been as reasonable and honest I can be with the situation. Judging me won't solve the problem.
What about a girl that a guy rejected for good three times and told her that he doesn't like her for marriage and she is still insisting and keep coming back? It's a two way thingb ro and I am expecting you to be more reasonable with your replies.

Thanks genius before some people go solve wetin look like herbalist recipe for wisdom knowledge and understanding

I’m proud of ur maths skills

Regiomontanus:
The answer is 16.

(64)^-½ = 1 ÷ (64)^½ = 1/8
(16)^-¼ = 1 ÷ (16)^¼ = 1/2
(2)^-2 = 1 ÷ (2)² = 1/4
(8}^-2 = 1 ÷ (8}² = 1/64

{(64)^-½ × (16)^-¼} ÷ {(2)^-2 × (8}^-2} = {⅛ × ½} ÷ {¼ × 1/64} = (1/16) ÷ (1/256) = 16

How old are u to be precise?


U are one of the reasons the rate of divorce is high cos ladies don’t like dating pussies and u are one


Believe me she’s gonna leave you for a real man



My piece though

Bro u too go school for this person na?im so proud of your Nigerian training cos u are well grounded bro.....keep it up

My opinion though

AreaFada2:
Well, you throwing crude insults clearly shows that whatever education you claim to have could not erase your natural crude state.

If you had any foreign education it must be one of those backwater schools I always advise foreign students not to attend. With very low ranking internationally.
If homosexuality is not a natural behaviour for some people, what is it?

How do you explain the fact that it has existed since antiquity? And was even considered normal in Graeco-Roman times? Do you know that despite ease of getting women in 9ja many people are still secretly gay?

And so many Western politicians and celebrities who can pick a fine women still remain gay?
That I am not gay does not blind me to the fact that some are naturally. In fact many ways of life not palatable to me are normal for others.

Do you know that for just being black equally bigoted people consider you subhuman? Because they are different to you. You are against others for being different from you. Also bigotry.

A person is not really educated until he can escape his narrow and bigoted mindset.

Are u really sure u are internationally trained cos your choice of words doesn’t sound like u are a Malawian trained carpenter self.... internationally trained people pass valid points wen talking not this kind of poo u wrote.....
Wetin I know sef,me a locally trained personnel
My opinion though

trapQ:
Look at this fool. @ the bolded, maybe you're a product of Nigeria's failed educational system but not everyone is. Not only am I a doctor, I am also an internationally trained one so my knowledge of biology is very profound.

Just look at the beautiful nonsense you're spewing. Homosexuality is biological in what planet?

Dude, I couldn't even read your trash till the end. Just don't quote me any further. I don't wanna lose brain cells replying you.

If ife isn’t ur state of origin u need to tell me where u are from cos ur opinion is so myopic and u will actually misguide so many girls with ur mentality

ebonyggurl:
I'm not from Ile-Ife, Osun state Oga its just my current location. my opinion that nigerian men have polygamous mentality is factless? you do know the meaning of polygamy right? most men here, whether muslim or not, believe it's their right to marry and still have as many women on the side as they want. And even when their wives find out, they are expected to turn a blind eye to it "afterall he is taking care of his family's needs, isn't he?" All I am saying is that this is wrong. I have seen it happen around me, so stop assuming I read it on the internet. Other men of other nationalities cheat, I know...but at least they do not take it as their God given right

Oh and that nonsense about black marriages lasting longer than white marriages is simply because of the stigma that is attached to being a divorced woman in our country. If Nigerians didn't attach so much importance to marriages, our mothers wouldn't have endured all the crap dished to them from their men

Yes boss he is sincerely ready na as no be woman him wan marry.... ur point is so valid less that I imagine the person behind the post in my sub conscious mind

donbachi:
he is ready...the woman is his constraint

Yes you will since friendship comes after marriage to most of people you know and they build relationship after childbirth....my brother u are covered sir. I believe in your government o

Thanks for this.....

bluefilm:
You again?

So you haven't learn to be making sensible comments only on nairaland after the schooling I gave you this afternoon?

Well sha, what else can I say?

You must be speaking from the bad experience your mother must have had in marrying a naija man, so believe me when I say I perfectly understand your situation and where you're coming from.

Sorry.

You can’t even be technically rich with this poo you write


U need to be mentally rich before u can be technically rich before finally being physically rich....

Go back to study so u can give valid points online

My piece though

technicallyrich:
Sometime i wonder why someone will marry a nijaierian girl.
Apart from to do abortion,cook different trash,pretend,liar and mess(fart).
What else can an average girl in the zoo offer.
Spit.

When you can’t reason well...how will ur points make sense?

Please always check what you type online

My piece though

uthlaw:
beg for money and have sex...

Sorry to quote you......ur view is factless.....u are from ile ife in osun state and u have this myopic mindset about Nigerian men.
Most of you who judge always judge books by the titles....
I can categorically tell you that marriages of blacks is more lasting than whites cos blacks have a culture oriented mindset...sentiments aside who wants to do a marriage that falls apart in weeks or months



Try do a survey on how many foreigners actually have a long blissful marriage time......5 marriages in 2years

Anyways it’s ur choice madam but avoid watching too much of what you see on internet and tv about the whites.....it’s the best medium to cover their shits

To learn more ask verbally from people that have travelled genuinely.......
My piece though...

ebonyggurl:
Lolz. Like I said, I know it happens everywhere...I just want someone who doesn't see it as a normal way of life.
Besides, una nor know say women dey catch Konji too. Everyone simply needs to learn self control.

Sorry if taken wrongly...the way u portrayed it is what baffled me....I come in peace always ....

Chubhie:
I believe we can stay on the issue without throwing tantrums. I merely provided the op with a plausible valid refutation. This is not personal but academic.

God bless you jawe...may you never defend a bitter person in your life

GraGra247:
There's nothing neutral about your perspective. You are obviously defending her. She's not a warrior, she's an aggressor.

And you think men haven't been gifting her money all these years she's been idle. You think anyone will agree to do that forever??

Have you heard the man's side of the story about the fees? How do you all conclude easily then. Churchill has a foundation that feeds and pays school fees for many people and you honestly think he won't pay school fees for his son?

She refused him all contact and access to his son and to herself for years and they're in court for this reason. She's deliberately doing this to use it against him.

He sends her mother's day wishes and she responds with curses and he uses every form of diplomacy to communicate with her after all her blackmail and she won't.

What more would you do if you were him?? .

U just dey argue from left right and centre...u no get sense?
Can you read and properly understand the writer isn't concerned about Tonto but the child's future.....

Someone said she's broke and bitter u are saying bullshit here again......

I pity you cos ur story will be worse than hers with this kind of mindset that u possess..


The final truth is Tonto is broke and bitter

Chubhie:
She has every right to sell the car and pay for school fees if child support ain't forthcoming. There are still some men out there or interests who would gift her money with nothing attached.

She won't be all that bad in her core. Just how she knows best to fight her given. She's a warrior tho from a neutral perspective.

I laff at undergraduates trying to show how exceptional they can be....wait till u graduate and come back to tell us how you fared at last......u call a 3:23 cgpa holder unserious,let's wait for your own too...



@op please try to sieve the sensible comments and work on them..... Do your MSC in a very good school here and u will be eligible for a scholarship for PhD if impressive.....