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Ose mama analysis giver............
Ur post cranked me up

Omar09:
Ned specifically told me he's a thigh and leg guy. It's Regis leg that caught Ned off guard!

That’s what you should know
Neds marriage to Regina is not based on anything of importance...... Ned needed the fame and Regina needed the money
..... fame gotten money spent

ubunja:
Give us the facts then. Why did Ned marry Regina? For her intelligence? Her financial maturity? Her education?

Pls don’t allow misinformation make u look uninformed.....

GOFRONT:
Hmmm......Ubunja the Miseducationist have spoken...... I hail o

Weldone madam
Do you know the ned?
Have you seen the Regina before?
U spoke about someone u don’t know.
Get ur facts before u type madam

ubunja:
ask Ned

U said bank or good organization?
Do you know how much their take home is.....
Brother check your findings well
Cos people live on loan doesn’t mean they live comfortably

zexy2030:
the quota is increasing by the day. Just be privileged to work in a bank or good organizations, u will meet ladies who are ready for marriage at 25,26.
Your cycles determines ur spouses.

Yea I know
However what is the percentage of ladies that are financially sufficient at this age?

zexy2030:
yea for broke ladies.

Do u realize material things is the super aim of this age grade

zexy2030:
the best age to marry is 24,25 at most 26 , anyone beyond this age is prone to haste and wrong selections making her relationships more complicated, except she is finacially comfortable may manage to get a guy she could push up.

Good talk however we need to marriage is more of planning

Rukkydelta:
People should do what they like
Marry when you know you are ready

Always remember you can never work smart without knowing how to work hard first......
so u prefer them to peddle the love in ur house?

ubunja:
so you want to marry them after they are done love peddling and promiscuing?

I don’t say what people want to hear I say what people need to know......
However we need to be realistic whenever we are giving out information

ubunja:
stop telling women what they want to hear. And tell them what they need to hear. It's 2020 bros.

Good comment from you
However do u know that real men don’t make all things before they decide to marry.....
Only low self esteem men make money and marry people far less than them


Wen you get to a certain level try to marry ur level in intelligence not someone that can not compliment you

ubunja:
Girls Must marry before 24.

The things a woman gains by growing older, like financial maturity, higher education, good career etc mean VERY LITTLE to high value men who have everything in life and just need a wife. Many women have listened to advices like OP's have reached 30,educated and financially mature, only to see the men at their age group date younger women in their early 20s.

Who wants a 30yr old woman who's career obsessed and with her own money? Broke and Struggling guys. Not men with money.

The younger and fresher a woman is the higher her value and the higher quality of man she'll get.

A woman at her 30s is just a mess. Too many heartbreaks have made her bitter. Too many dicks have made her numb. Too many abortions have made her cold-hearted. But a 19 yr old girl.... She's still fresh and still believes in love and everything.

U said the truth however being promiscuous is highly concentrated among late teens and early twenties

Alfather:
thats true.. But some of them in their 20ths are love peddlers and premoscious

I did not say every Nigerian lady sir

yanabasee:
In Nigeria, we don't conduct surveys... But we often give statistics to make wrong facts about serious issues that often mislead the people..



You can't categorize every Nigerian girl on late 20s to cover your false observation of things..

Good evening everyone
The issue of relationship has caused many issues and causing more harm presently than good.. relationship now look more like prison to people than amusement parks which it is supposed to be.......

From surveys carried out I noticed that most relationship issues starts from inexperienced spouses......


Here are 10 reasons why a lady needs to be older and more matured before tying the knot to make it last longer......


1. Emotional maturity: maturity for ladies comes with age and the older they go the more emotional stable they become. That’s y people see ladies in late 20s as humbler.
2. Financial maturity: in the late 20s a lady would have learnt a skill or finished from school. She will be working and knows marriage is shared responsibilities.
3. Homely nature: homely and motherly as she has fewer friends that want to take her time away from family
4. Want to invest more time in the growth of the family
5. Knows wen to caution the husband when he is taking decision that will harm the family.
6: she understand the difference between fear and respect... she respects the husband but counters decisions that will jeopardize the family... this is what the alpha male call rudeness
7. Because she is experienced, the only thing she wants to see is for the relationship to work out.
8. Parties will mean less to her and that’s the kind of woman a man wants in the marriage...... someone that will be available...
9.because her dreams has been worked on, she understands how to align it with ur aspirations to move you forward as the man......
10. She will love you with her totality..... she’s not interested in any other person if she has chosen you......


Feel free to add yours or counter the points....


Next series will be on 10 reasons y men should not marry until they cross over 30


Thanks for reading

The only thing I expect op to think about is how to start life small and pray to become great......
Bible says godliness with contentment is a great gain



And to those of you seeing only evening newspapers

Is it not better to be kept till evening and read by great men when relaxing like vanguard or guardian than to be bought in the morning like complete sports and by afternoon it is not relevant again except to wrap suya



So many go into marriage within 20s and lose it in the 20s and many goes into in 30s and it stays forever

Poor man mindset and low self esteem

Sirvingeo:
You are really funny oo. The white lady is access to good life nah. At least they are after money and passport . In this case the guy will still spend his money . Is it not better he get his taste since he is the one spending the money .

THis answer is savagely mad o

Wickedfacts:
Stop typing like a parasitic beggar. It is the man's responsibility to take care of the HIS family. HIS family.

If the girl comes from a Poverty-stricken family where they can't afford to contribute to her wedding, that is her family problem. Let her not infect the man with her family poverty.

This thread is not to argue
He only said define what you want even before it clocks 1 year

Defining doesn’t mean you are timing it
It means you are definite

MrBrownJay1:
so you mean to say that late 20s women in r/ship must have a clear picture of where they are going with a man, after 1-1.5yrs, even when we all know that all r/ships are not the same (aka some are slow and others are more difficult to figure out)?
what if they need more time to evaluate what they desire/need? what if they still dont know each other fully within 1.5yr? should they throw away what they have? you are making it seem like there is a timeline for dating, while any person in a r/ship fully well know there aint really any.

the reason why so many people are failing in marriage is because they rush into things they are not fully able to master.... the minute anyone puts a timeline on such issues, they've already failed. you should only marry someone if you are 110% sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with them...and if you are not sure about it after 1.5yr, then you should take all the time you need until you figure that out (instead of dismissing that person)

the sad part in what you wrote is that, you seem to believe that all men are so predictable....

@ op this is the kind of advice u should expect since you don’t know right channel to take ur case to....ur cAme to seek advice on Nairaland..... better still try LIB or write to joro..........

Do u know the number of single parents in this world now.....join them at ur own peril

Offpoint:
Your husband is a public díck, he's got passion for boobs and big nyanshes, you've approached him to addressed the issue but his dîck is "bizy body"....

My piece of advice, don't wait until he comes home and give you free STD...
And don't think of leaving him for now, look for your ex or find a new man who can chat dirty and send you his dîck pictures (Don't send yours, you can sort)

Intentionally leave your phone for your husband go through, if he saw it... His reaction should let you know your next steps.
Let him feel what you've been feeling too. If he wants divorce, divorce him... Bible support divorce if adultery is involved.

If he lays hands on you, drug him and chop his dîck off....


Thank you...

By the way, who says Messi is not a Goat?

Self control on ur mother’s face?
Wasted product

DominusPrime:
I know most people will condemn this man As a weakling but look on the brighter side.
He passed a daunting test of self control which many men will fail. If i were that woman I will marry and love him even more.

Please read the sense out of what u typed?

budaatum:
I guess if you can't respect yourself by not sleeping around you can't possibly respect your own mother not to talk of your girlfriend or no one will be slapping your mother.

Your write up said 2018,
Pls check for the updated one.... the information might have changed
Lazy blogger

Me pained ke?
How will I be angry with a car dealer?
I only said post the pics of your own car

maynation:
Why are you pained na? Isn't that the price of Big daddy? No insult intended tho.

Pls can you show a pic of ur car?
Talking gibberish

maynation:
You are probably talking about older versions of Camry, and hey please don't drag Toyota big daddy into this talk. Doesn't that car sell for a little above 1milli?

Good morning, most people says give birth to your baby and move on...... however they will be the first group to call u bitter wen u can’t settle cos of u having a child....just do the thing that will make u less bitter in future

Ok sir
When did u start watching aljazeera?

Randy100:
calm down. You don't know who we are talking about.

Oga left cnn when?
She had been gracing the studio of aljazeera for ages

Randy100:
you are not alone sha. She left CNN because according to her they were suffocating her with trump matters.

That’s my world crush
Mariam nemazee

Good morning all
It’s a little research that had been bothering for sometime now.
Y is the Nigerian man life expectancy so low?
Research results pointed out too much sex, overstress nature,friends and family issues.


But there’s an underlying point raised by everyone differently.... it is called bitterness of the mind....
bitterness of the mind is seen in plenty things

An average Nigerian married man spends over 4 hours daily complaining about the bad wife....

An unmarried youth spends time talking about his unfaithful girlfriend

A teenager spends more time thinking about how to bed several friends...

It’s easy to blame others for our woes however it causes bitterness in our lives.....

Blame others less.......
Work hard and smart
Be happy with yourself

It’s an opinion poll..... feel free to talk about it

Chicken pant
Do you know what popular means?
Count five people that trended just last year and they trended more than Tacha

Nigg3369:
I just checked 500 most popular and 500 least popular people, tacha isn't in either so STFU about saying she belongs in the first five you stupid fan, I don't hate or like her but check your facts before spewing nonsense

I marvel at the kind of Brain even PhD holders on this forum seem to have.... let me ask?
How many of you can maintain fame either positive or negative for one week not to talk about the time this lady in question has held on to it......
Tacha is even more popular than bbn as a show:

She has no PhD but she can use her brain effectively:::
If you count popular people in 2019 Tacha belongs in the first five, she’s already creating something for herself already in just 33 days into the year where the only thing some of you is still working on is new year resolution?

Pls stop hating ,use ur brain, achieve the best so u can be someone in ur lane

They have come::::: anti submission agents

vickydankal:
Sorry oooo
But I think you have pride and controlling
All those you listed won’t make a woman like me respect or fear you. Oga please not all us like that part you said “.... a woman like a bitch “ we are humans not machines. Some like it slow and steady not fast and furious