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Most people belong to the school of thought that ladies are more desperate for marriage than men.....
So a man can feel comfortable living till late 30s as a bachelor ...
However marriage is needed more by the man but a man that doesn't enjoy the youthfulness with his wife then what's the story he wants to tell his children.....
Very large age gap between spouses makes a lady uncomfortable in the house.....she sees her husband like her elder brother ...first step in the break in communication.....
The highest amounts of cheating among spouses stems not from maturity or finances but lack of friendship between spouses.....
Lastly let's not be deceived ...its awesome to grow with your kids in a lovely setting rather than being the pta chairman of a primary school when u are supposed to be retired......



My piece though....critics allowed access.......good morning all

People talk about mental maturity


..please I will like to ask....wen is someone mentally matured for marriage?

Most times people talk about people not prepared for it.....please at what stage in life and age is someone better for marriage?

Often times comparism also goes a long way to kill a mans self esteem

Basically my view on this......if she has a baby u tag her....if she aborted u tag her......marriage is beyond just love...its about understanding ........understand sex and love alone won't make u stay happy in marriage.......only God..... Understanding......maturity.......and proper planning makes u happy in marriage.....

People preach running out of marriage......my issue is can you run from what u will meet in future occurrences.... Note I'm not a fan of single parenting....baby mama..... And divorce....my piece though!!!!

Please why do couple feel like running out of their marriage .......just few months into it?

Opinions here are funny.....why do guys see ladies that stay with them as desperate and the one that leaves as callous.......if God rewards us for being faithful in things that we do then how come as humans we can't reciprocate........appreciate people you will make more in life......more importantly appreciate people that stood by you to get to the top......my opinion though

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Yes mum and dad are the head as ur father is just a figure head and ur mom is the honorary head....local international naija village girl

exlinkleads:
Ladies have no chills this days. I mean, what is the fuss really about? Ladies go to church and believe the words in the bible and yet when you mention that man is the head of the family, they pick offence. What is happening in our world today?

Facebook user, Tina Michelle Obiora, seems not to be concurring to this norm in Nigeria that a man is the head of the family and has advised teachers, social studies teachers actually to desist from teaching students such ‘Nonsense’.

See her post below and people's reactions

‘Social studies teachers should stop teaching our kids that fathers are head of the home! I didn’t send my daughters to school for a teacher who is still stuck in stone age to teach them to accept patriarchy as a norm! We need to start suing schools! Nonsense!!! MUM AND DAD ARE THE HEAD! Milly’

http://www.exlinklodge.com/2017/04/nigerian-lady-blast-teachers-who-teach.html

I pity u young man....if economy push u to steal I'm sure recession will make u to be lynched......watchword

susrite:




I'm not pushing all blames on him

He wouldn't have done that if our economy isn't k-legged

A man is suppose to love and a woman is suppose to respect the man......but my question which one comes first.......is it the love or the respect?

I'm sure u never reach 18years as u dey type all this ur rubbish oga

marvin902:
wait what question if its marriage then your bloody fool which hole dere drag you come out from ..6 months to propose na thunder wen dey do press up go fire that hand wen type this nonsense

Don't allow anyone waste your time...if he doesnt pop the question in 6 months....feel free to dump his sorry ass......what do you guys think?

I actually hear people give different views about how many months or years a relationship should be.....pls I need your candid opinion on this.......how many months relationship is ideal before a man pops up the question of marriage to the lady?

Desperation doesn't lead to affirmation and it makes someone look cheap......my view about it!!!!!

A hard question demand technical answer and Ritical reasoning

It is well known that guys actually shy away from the funny topic called marriage.....!!!!......but the funnier part is that more ladies are actually using everything to make guys consider marriage Please why are ladies so desperate and using everything to make guys hungry for marriage?

I have tried to interview men accross board from different countries....only to know that men love varieties make me laff a lot but the answers I got actually went in the same direction

Even notable leaders and world personalities can't help.however we need to remember cheating is not about sex alone. So y can't men stop cheating?

It is a psychologically known fact that all men both old and young, ugly and handsome, fat and slim, cool or heady get carried away ttally with what they see. This fact has led to many men falling victim of things they never imagined and when questions about why they cheated are asked... the answer is always leaving u with questions in ur head.....pls my question is " can men actually live without cheating"?

Wanting to do things on my own without listening to advice....it kills my gf

Op u are realy a great writer in the making....ur tenses and arrangement was just gbam.....ur point construction was just over head......


5 gbosa for u...........

Wetin come concern us for there? Abi wen this one come turn news

This guy really needs to work more on his brand Befor he start the money thing cos I no really know Wetin him dey do o!!!!

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People come up here to write rubbish....nigerians can actually not be satisfied with ur achievements....if he acquires a bigger car and pay wit a dud cheque una go complain...as his first car....im sure he really tried....and many people wey dey comment against the car sef no get bicycle....mcheew