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please people,

I really need a guide from someone who has been able to submit the application. i tried yesterday at unilag, the page opened and i was unable to proceed to page two.

please help!!!!!!!! very urgent and very serious!!!!!!!!!!

poster no thank u that is why we are here.

@abbey city,

who cares? let her think and say anything she wants at least she and other ladies will learn a lesson from there.

these days guys are changing but ladies/women are making them to go back to their old dirty deeds.

peace.

poster I'm beginning to be interested in your gist. Can you please spares us the details of the new guy 'GABRIEL' she just met?

could it be that the guy is too handsome or wot, caring why u are not, rich y u ar not, give her more attention y u ar nt?

How often do u guys see? it is not the heart brake that matter but the lesson one learn from it.

so feed us wit d details of wot she said about Gabriel.

hmnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!! thanks.

BEBE2007.

LONGTIME, IT'S GOOD TO HEAR FROM U.

@ POSTER,

DON'T EVER TRY IT BCS IF U DO, U MAY NT BE ABLE TO STAND THE SHOCK MOST ESPECIALLY IF U ARE A JEALOUS TYPE.

AS FOR ME AND MA FAMILY, WE WILL NOT ATTEND SUCH WEDDING NOT AT ALL.

CHEERS!

well said busta jare.

some chicks are just too demanding to be with.

little patience they can endure. she will never think about how d poor guy will rent his own apartment, get confirmed, pay back previous debts of d 1st month he borrowed when he started working etc.

that is why i can never date school girl. first, they are not honest, they will collect money 4m u and giv it to some useless campus boys all in the name of lust.

my advice for you is that just give her what you know it will not affect you and do what BUSTA suggested above. If she does not change, then leave her for real. Don't let any girl push you to the wall all in the name of love because i can infer from your post that u are seriously worrying.

Campus girls no go area for me. I see them as in experience untill they graduate, wait at home for 2 or 3 years before getting a job. Then, they will know how to manage the little money you give them. That is my personal opinion about campus girls.

may all d previous prayers be answered. Amen.


MY FATHER AND MY GOD, I THANK U 4 D TIME LIKE THIS

THANK YOU 4 ANSWERING MA PRAYER AT ALL TIMES.

THANK U 4 UR PROTECTION OVER MAY LIFE N FAMILY

THANK U 4 D LIFE OF BROTHERS AND MY SISTAS

THANK U FOR MA JOB AND 4 UR DIVINE SECURITY UPON ME AT ALL TIMES DESPITE THE NATURE OF MA JOB.

GOD ACCEPT MY THANKS AND PRAYER IN JESUS NAME.

OH GOD, I CONFESS MA SINS B4 THEE AND I ASK 4 D 4GIVENESS OF MY SINS, DADDY PLS HAVE MERCY UPON ME 2DAY.

FORGIVE ALL MA SINS AND MAKE ME HOLY NOW IN JESUS NAME.

AUTHORITY IN HEAVEN, I ASK 4 UR DIVINE BLESS AND PROTECTION OVER MA LIFE, MA WIFE TO BE, MA KIDS YET UNBORN, MA INLAWS, MY PASTOR, MA FAMILY, MY FRIENDS AND ALL MY FELLOW NAIRALAND PEOPLE, LET US POSSESS OUR POSSESSION IN JESUS NAME.

MY LORD I USE THIS MEDIUM AS A POINT OF CONTACT TO PRAY 4 MA FRIEND WHO HAD AN ACCIDENT WHILE IN SCHOOL AND NOW IN GENERAL HOSPITAL, IKEJA, GOD LET UR HEALLING HANDS TOUCH HER RIGHT NOW. LET HER STAND UP AND WORK ON HER LEGS. TAKE HER OUT FROM DAT PLACE QUICKLY IN JESUS NAME.

LORD AM NOT HAPPY SEING HER ON THAT BED , PLS PARDON HER AND GIVE HER UNIMAGINABLE AND TESTIMONIOUS HEALING IN JESUS NAME.

LORD I COMMIT MA FORTH COMING MBA EXAM IN TO UR CARE, TAKE CONTROL AND LET UR NAME BE GLORIFIED IN MY LIFE. LORD LET ME SEE FAVOR IN THE PRESENCE OF MAN AND U ALWAYS. LET MA EXAMINATION LEAVE BE GRANTED AND TAKE CONTROL OVER MY TRAINING AND D EXAM.

DADDY, I REMEBER THOSE THAT ARE LOOKING ONTO U EITHER 4 JOBS, VISA, ADMISSION, HUSBANDS, WIVES, GOOD HEALTH, CONFIRMATION, PROMOTION, FOOD ETC INTO UR HANDS, LORD PERFORM UR MIRACLES IN OUR LIVES AND LET US SHARE OUR TESTIMONY BEFORE THIS WEEK RUNS OUT. AMEN.

DO UR WONDERS IN OUR LIVES AND WE WILL BE INDEBTED TO U THROUGHOUT OUR LIVES IN JESUS NAME.

THANK LORD FOR GRANTING OUR REQUESTS, IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME, I HAVE PRAYED. AMEN.

PRAISE GOD! HALELLUYAH.

YEMI LOVE AND SINTHIA,

U GUYS ARE SO FUNNY.

YEMI HOW DID U KNOW DAT D BOY WILL BE TWINS?

SINTHIA, ARE U A PROPHETESS OR A SOOTHSAYER?

TELL ME.

i can infer 4m ur post that u sound like a heart-broken guy but all the same, marriage, friendship and relationship ordained by God. they are pretty sweet.

'if an hunter remembered d sufferring he went through in the bush, if he killed an antilope, he would not let anybody eat out of it.'

in a nutshell, we experience something in life that is usually painful but one needs to LET GOOOOOOOO. Not by remaining single will heal d soul. absolutely not at all. just learn out of it and move-on-up.
peace.

Hi busta,

that was a frank talk. really kool.

@ poster

i can c that u ar still a kid. anyway, d deed has been done. u may b lucky ok and if otherwise, u ar old enough to be a father at 25, u remember. if u ar not employed, u will soon be employed or ar u still in school? u will soon graduate. Do not go 4 abortion. hope u av heard me clear.

may God help u out.amen.

peace.

@ BUSTA

She has a very high temper n get annoyed easily even when im still cracking jokes.

that is because she has no sense of humor.


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To be honest im fed up with her but i dnt want to dump her because she might call the police n make shit up
i don't see what kind of shit she will make up unless u're guilty of something. Besides. . . na by force? don't they have law in whateva country u are?


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I have stop all conversation with her atm but she keeps texting my sister n begging me not to dump her

who is the one dating her? u or your sista? stand your ground!


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Honestly i love this girl but im depressed n dnt know what to do?
You really love someone that depresses u?
I don't believe your story is complete. Maybe u're scared of her or she's getting papers for u.

whatever the case, life is too short and I believe u are still too young to be suffering depression already from a relationship. What will happen when u people marry? You will suffer stroke or heart attack

my sista how u dey? that was a nice post u know.


@ poster,

A word is enough for a wise. Like my late pastor usually said in her lifetime, "A broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage'' Pastor Bimbo Odukayo. May her soul rest in perfect peace.

man, it is your life just stand up and be a man.

Am off from here. peace.

@poster,

i want to say that the nightmare above is not only associated with ladies alone but also happen to guys that show too much love to his spouse.

From my own personal experience, all the girls that i really love and dying for rarely love me and they eventually turned me to mumu. can u guys bit that? countless phone calls. gifts, text messages but all in vain.

meanwhile, i give little or no attention to ladies that are dying for me. This is not wickedness but rather human nature.

in order for one not to make him/herself a slave in any relationship, just learn how to let go. A man/woman that doesn't appreciate you in return of the best love towards him or her does not deserve you.

i think at this point in time, we should change our orientation about courtship/marriage  and that it must be 50-50 from both sides and should not be left for one party alone.

so, if u are given in your 50% best to the relationship and the other party is not reciprocating, hmnnnn, LET HIM OR HER GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cheers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ TroOE,

thanks ma sister. how's work n family?

Good to hear 4m u.

cheers!

NAJA HAJE,
WOT I MEANT BY B/G IS BOY FRIEND AND GIRLF RIEND.

I LOVE ALMONDJOY POSTS BUT IS JUST DAT I DEDUCED FROM HER POSTTHAT SHE HAS BAD THOUGHTS ABOUT GUYS. MOST TIMES, SHE ALWAYS GETS DOWN ON MEN IN A NEGATIVE REACTION.

iice and bebe2007 well said.

but one may not be 100% sure as anything can happen especially at nite club. human tends to fall prey of circumstance.

if a guy loves a lady dearly he may not want competition. guys jealousy more than ladies is only that we have hearts to condole it and most times hearts of reterliation.

so, count ursef luky if ur man insists that u sud nt go to club alone without him or any of his confidants.


me no fit share ma woman wit any woman .hell no way. na only one face cultlass dey get .

period.

i love this session very much! u know y?

it helps me a lot to cool off stress at work and most especially if my boss is giving me headache. i work with a woman and is like hell. all d same, am gettin along.

i hereby recommend romance session for all and sundries daily is like a blood tonic. i love this drink. lacasera.

@ TrooE
communication, patience, trust, understanding AND

dedication, tolerance, prayer, forgiving spirits, generousity, responsibility, ability to say sorry, focus, perseverance and love.

this is because where there's true love, faults are thin but where there's no love, faults are thick.

thanks.

bebe2007 & busta,

quite a longtimes,

how are u guys? it's nice hearing from u guys.

hope work stress is nt too much.

back to the topic,

i did say that in the past but more careful these days bcs there are many things to that and i don't want to play with anybody's heart in as much as I won't like that either.

peace.

WELL SAID TROOE,

A MAN THAT CAN NOT PROVIDE 4 HIS ENTIRE HOUSEHOLD IS WORSE THAN AN INFIDEL. HOLY BIBLE.

HOW ON EARTH WOULD A MAN GO FOR SOMEBODY THAT IS ABOVE HIS SOCIAL AND ROMANCE CLASS? THE MARRIAGE WILL CERTAINLY CRASH.

WE MEN, WE LIKE TO BE IN CONTROL AND ONLY FEW WOMEN IF NOT NONE WILL SUCCUMB TO A MAN THAT CAN'T OUTSTAND HER FINANCIALLY AND EVEN ROMANCE WISE.

THAT IS Y I DON'T DEPEND ON LADIES CASH. WHO CARES HOW MUCH SHE TAKES HOME PER WEEK/MONTH.

GUYS PLS LEARN HOW TO BE ON TOP IN UR RELATIONSHIP. I HATE MEN THAT FEED FROM WOMEN. OH MA GOD. I CAN'T STAND THEM. I CALL THEM 'OLE AND OLE'
THEIF AND LAZYMAN.

DO BE STUPID AND CUT OFF LOVELY RELATIONSHIP OVER NO ISSUE OK


C HIM 1ST B4 TAKIN STAND OK.

CHEERS!

WOMEN/LADIES OF NOWADAYS HAVE GONE WILD ESPECIALLY MY DEAR SISTERS FROM NIJA. HMNNNN!


OH MY GOD. SEE THEIR RESPONSES.WHAO!

I WILL NT MAKE ANY COMMENT ABOUT THE GUY BCS ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT IS HAPPENING TO HIM RIGHT NOW.

LADIES, CAN U PLEASE 4 ONCE AV A BIT TRUST IN UR COUNTRYMEN. HABA, MEN ARE NT ALL THAT BAD. PLS, LEARN TO SEE MEN 4M POSITIVE ANGLE NOT NEGATIVE ANGLES.
JENNY,PRINCE_ONX AND OTHER FEMALE CONTRIBUTORS.

BCS WE AR NOT GOD AND WE PUT OUR TRUST IN D HANDS OF MERE MORTALS .ANYTIME THEY FAIL US, WE FEEL DESERTED AND REJECTED.

SO, LET US LEARN HOW TO PUT OUR TRUST IN GOD AND GOD ALONE.

JUST AV A FORGIVIN HEARTS NO MATTER WOT!

U MIGHT AV DONE WORST THING TO OTHERS AND THEY MIGHT AV PROBABLY FORGIVEN U. SO Y NT LET GOOO?

APPLY THIS PRINCIPLE, SHUT AND START UP. FORGET, DON'T THINK ABT IT AND MOVE-ON-UP WIT UR LIFE.

LIFE IS A BEST TEACHER.


PEACE

ALMONDJOY,

HW U DEY?

u sound not interested in b/g friend stuff. ar u married? IF YES, WUD U ALLOW U MAN TO GO JUST LIKE 4 D SAKE OF NOT GIVN U ATTENTION?

IF NO, Y IS IT DAT B/G FRIEND STUFF IS A WASTE OF TIME?

I WUD LIK 2 KNW.

I'M A BIT CONFUSSED HERE,

POSTER,
HOW CAN UR GENDER BE READING FEMALE AND U SAID UR WIFE IS HAVIN MENSTRAL P?

AR U A FEMALE GAY OR WOT?

PLS, EXPANTIATE FIRST B/4 WE CAN HELP U. IT LOOKS DECEPTIVE. I BEG.

@troooe,

u mighty have taken a very tough decision in marrying dat lucky man despite family and cultural odds.

whao! congrat. but let me ask u, how can someone go about it especially if ur wife family does nt support d marriage and d lady starts succumbing to he family wishes?

can one still go ahead or back out? d guy love is still very strong and real.

well,

it's her life and she has d final saying, .

For all d ladies that had contributed so far, u av spoken well but take or leave it,no man will be hundred precent confortable nursing another man's children without being jealous. Men get carried away when we are looking for an angel or ladies that is why u realise that a man will do and say anything to win d heart of a woman by all means. Also, do not forget that men are talking here.

let all men in d house be sincered to themselve, how many of us(men) myself inclusive can nurse another man's children without raising an eye-brow or jealous? let men answer this question first. i mean experienced and married men in nigeria, not those ones living abroad that beleive in western ways of life.

finally, just seek the face of God before u take any decision. MAY GOD HELP U (AMEN),

my sister,

the only money I can borrow you is to settle down with your real husband. babe, we are talking of two children here not one, hmnnnn!. do you think their kids? absolutely no!

what u need to do is to have family people on ground before moving in with him and reach a solid agrement. Men tend to realise their mistakes at a certain point in time in  life and they turn to be a better person. thank God u have your job is not that u at d mercy of any man b/4 u feed. So, d new guy may sound very calm and nice now but who knows tomorrow. men do jealous most especially when ur children are growing up and d one u av 4 him is younger sentiment and unequal treatments set in.
i believe u will want ur children near u. i know of a pastor that married a lady after one issued even out of wedlock and today is fight now and then. it is not easy to nurse another man's children without complaining.

i will advise u to think deeply on this or if possible exercise some patiance ok. i think u ar handling d whole issues hurridly.

a word they say is enough for a wise!!!!!!!!!

BUSTA,

whot is gud? good to hear from u again. hope u are great!
nice post u know!


@
uspry1,

we can't conclude yet that the poster wants to steal another man's girl because every lady will want to show a bit of pride. How are we even sure that d lady in question is actually in a relationship as claimed at the moment?

Remember, that's one of the tactics adopted by the ladies in order to actually know a guy very well.

therefore, the guy needs to pursuit, overtake in order for him to possess the unfolding angel.

Brandy says, NEVER SAYS NEVER.


Peace!

bros, u are a bad investor.

The lady in question might have been princess diana or miss world. 120k just for sex in two weeks. infact, you need to be arrested by EFCC for bad spending and harrassment of our precious naira.

Oh my God! that is not funny but rather a sacrilege!

Men don't waste money again on girls for havin countless sex wit them. all u need is to wise up next time.

cheers!!!!!!!!!!!!