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There is nothing more useless than that religion ...

Imagine a religion that mandates its brainless idiots followers to ki.ll you simply because you don't believe in what they believe ...

A religion that has become synonymous with terrorism. A religion that can't exist together in the same space with another religion ...

A religion that has turned women into slaves, subjugated them and taken away their most basic human rights ...

Honestly, all those practising that religion should go back to their country. They shouldn't even be allowed near the borders of another country for whatever reason ...

And when they're caught in any act that threatens the peace of a nation, wipe em out ...

I mean, since they're quick to ki.ll people for not believing in their useless god, the same fate should be met out to their followers for any minor crimes they commit ...

So a man who doesn't want to marry a single mother is "scared"? (Sighs) ...

This isn't a matter of "fear" or "being scared", it's just PREFERENCE ...

Men don't marry single mothers because they don't want them, period! ...

Let's stop painting the preferences of men in a bad light ...

Just because she doesn't know how to type good English doesn't mean she's worthless or not worth being with ...

A woman's worth isn't defined by whether or not she can speak good English ...

She could be lacking in her ability to speak good English, but then again, she could be the truest definition of "helpmeet" as described in the bible ...

To be honest, I would choose a girl like this over all those internet wh.ores slay queen, if she meets my other requirements in a woman ...

So I can't fault this girl just by this message alone ...

I've seen some broke girls (which, in all fairness, is almost the entire female population in the world) keep themselves, and I've seen rich females spread their legs like bama on bread and vice versa! ...

Thus, a woman's financial status is not in any way proportional to her ability to stay faithful ...

Females stay faithful because they discipline themselves to do so, period! ...

And as for "spoiling" your woman, well, that will be dependent on whether or not the man thinks she's worth "spoiling" ...

I for one think that the women in my life are worth spoiling, with my mum of course being at the top of the list, so yeah, it all depends on what the man thinks ...

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and starts asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

First of all, no man just wakes up one day and carries out a DNA test; there must be something that will warrant him to take such actions - so the argument of his "breaking trust" is invalid, cause she already broke the trust, that's why he even thought of carrying out the DNA test in the first place ...

Secondly, if the results of the test come out and show that the man isn't the father of the child, he won't feel the loss cause that would be good riddance to bad nonsense ...

On the flip side, if he is the father, he can always fight to be in the child's life and save himself from whatever the woman did to push him to conduct a DNA test in the first place ...

So in either case, he doesn't lose nada ...

There is no religion more st.upid than this self-acclaimed religion of peace ...

And what's worse is that they want to shove this st.upidity down the throats of everyone ...

Gadafii:
you are more fooooolish for referring to the fraudster and con man as innocent.

I'm not the cause of your frustration boy ...

Sha try drink water make you no get high BP ...

My dad wasn't a perfect man, but I can think of no better father to walk the surface of the earth ...

So yes!!! I will choose him over and over and over and over again ...

What a failed government! ...

Instead of focusing on taking the nation out of this hardship that you have plunged the people into, you're pointing fingers at other people - how pathetic! ...

2027 is around the corner, if wuna like vote nonsense again, las las, e go touch everybody ....

The most useless religion ever known to man is this so-called religion of peace ...

I spit on their so-called gods! ...

All their followers know, is to cause mayhem and destruction ...

Mention one place where this useless religion exists and there's peace, just one ...

What did she do to deserve this? ...

No man will just wake up and set a woman on fire; that woman must have done something to deserve this ...

Modified

See them insulting their fathers. Lol ...

Any psychologist in the building should use Nairaland as a case study for any experiments; believe me, you'll get very accurate results ...

All I did, was raise a mirror to the hypocrisy of the society and boom, see them getting all revved up ...

If a woman harms a man, the question asked will be, "What did he do to deserve it?" "He must have done something to her" "The man should be smarter" and balderdash ...

But now I flip the scripts and y'all be throwing fire and brimstone? ...

Or have you forgotten the comments of people when a girl poisoned her man and his friends? ...

Don't worry eh, this is just the start of my many experiments on y'all ...

Y'all will see the danger of hypocrisy in real time! ...

If this is true, then the husband is a very fo.olish person ...

The one you should target your anger at is your wh.ore wife, not that innocent man that parades himself as a pastor ...

Your wife was the one who stood before hundreds of people and took the "oath of fidelity" "forsaking all others and be joined to you" ...

She was the one who broke her oath, so deal with her and leave that man be. It's not his fault that your wh.ore wife was easy to bed ...

And don't come here defending the wh.ore saying she was deceived by the pastor, cause common sense should tell a woman that opening your leg for someone other than your husband is a disgrace ....

If I had warned her to stay away from that guy and she refused, I wouldn't feel one but worth of sympathy for her ...

Cause I don't fight for stupid people! ...

But if she listened and he did this or maybe it was done by just a random guy, we might need to prepare the theatre for an emergency surgery and trust me when I say, it wouldn't be for me ...

There's nothing wrong with marrying a single mother ...

There's also nothing wrong in NOT marrying a single mother ...

I'll choose the former ...

idahme

You took the words right outta my mouth ...

A man was made to be the sole provider in the era where women were not allowed to work, NOT ANYMORE! ...

Some women are indeed very delusional:

You went to school, I went to school
You graduated and I also graduated
You got a job and I got a job
The opportunities that are out there for you, are the same (or even less) for me

And yet, somehow, after we meet again in 5 years, I'm expected to carry the entire financial burden of a full-grown adult who isn't in any way handicapped? ...

And worse still, I have to do that together with putting up with disrespect and ingratitude, all in the name of being a "real man"? ...

You must be joking! ...

The results of my efforts are for me, myself and I. Any woman coming into my life to share in it must either come with value or bounce ...

One thing that the OP and, sadly, a lot of other people don't realize is that DNA tests can be done with mother-child and not just father-child ...

"Maternity Testing" is also DNA test ...

So a woman can "defend" herself by also doing a DNA test ...

But the reason why most women will never agree to this when confronted with a DNA test (paternity test) is simply because they know that the child is theirs but not their husbands ...

So all they do is cry and try to emotionally blackmail the man. Some may even say "it was a mistake" ...

Of all the things in Nigeria, this is what is most important? ...

Wow! ...

The werey is looking for someone to challenge her, as if those people have their time or even know of her existence ...

Women if you know you cannot submit, then don't marry the man, cause SUBMISSION TO YOUR HUSBAND IS AN UNCONDITIONAL REQUIREMENT ...

Why is it that when the going gets tough for most women, the first thing they do is to start mining clitocurrency? ...

Sheybi they have brains, why don't they work? ...

Listen to me men, the fact that the only thing a woman can do when things gets tough is to spread her legs like bama on bread is proof that she's not worth being with AT ALL! ...

This isn't just about the fact that she cheated, it's the mindset that sponsors such actions at that time ...

This is a very risky business you're thinking of doing buddy ...

If you had a source of income already, I would've said, it's alright to risk it, but then ...

I believe honesty is the best policy, just come clean with your parents and let them know how far ...

You could collect the cash and tell them that you'll lock the cash (fixed deposit) till next year, then get something to do so that you can fund your jamb by yourself next year ....

Spending 4 or 5 years in a course you're not passionate about is indeed a waste of time and resources ...

By the way, which course are you intending to study? ...

When elders say things like "a woman's past is important", y'all Gen z will be crying like headless chickens - now see where we are ...

If you like, continue ignoring her past, time will tell ...

Let them go abeg! ...

It will be the best thing to ever happen to this farce of a country ...

Samantha125:
That's good, you have to suffer and have experience before you can have a good relationship...

Someone with experience is always better than someone without any.

Those experiences may very well be the baggages and trauma that prevents one from having a healthy relationship in future, unless ofcourse they're dealt with ...

So nope, an "experienced" woman is not worth being in a relationship with ...

With the above comments, it's clear that the concept of "Photoshop" is strange to some people ...

Whilst I understand your POV, it is very one sided ...

Lemme state this categorically, I will only tolerate a woman's mood swings, when she can have mood swings in the presence of an army man she does not know ...

Let's not paint the picture that mood swings is an excuse to tolerate behaviors ...

I understand that life happens and it can affect us in various ways, but that doesn't give us the right to take it out on people ...

I too (and every other men out there) I'm human, I also have my own challenges, but regardless, I do my best for my partner - I don't falter on my responsibilities regardless of whatever crap life throws at me ...

And I don't expect ANYTHING less from her ...

So have your mood swings if you like, but don't think it's an excuse to start acting like evil spirit, cause men too are humans! ...

Every consenting adult (18+) is of marriageable age (legally) by any other consenting adult ...

In summary, even if you're 90, I see absolutely nothing wrong in having a relationship with an 18 year old ...

As long as it's consensual!! If it's what you want, then go for it! ...

Don't base your life choices on what folks say ...

If your marriage turn out well (regardless of the age), people will talk, if it turns out bad, them go still para - so do you as long as it's consensual ...

Consensual s.ex don turn r.ape? ...

I honestly don't blame that Equatorial Guinea man for making those videos ...

I have an opay, access, fidelity, grey, geegpay, payooner and I can tell you for free, the best for transactions is opay (naira) and grey (dollar or pound) ...

It's my personal experience sha ...

You'd be surprised that this "movement" you think is dead on arrival will fly ...

Salary for what? ...

Like "Oga" should pay you 100k for being a house wife? ...

I don't care what laws protect women in the US or UK, that woman will certainly wake up in the hospital after I'm done with her ...