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The link is not working OP ...

This is a nice perspective to look at things ...

Ladies! Find a man in his morning season and build with him till he grows ...

God made woman a helper, so find a man and help him grow to the man you want and watch yourself be the center of his universe ...

But I know you will not listen ...
You will rather wh.ore yourself around to the highest bidder, because you're too bereft of knowledge to make wealth any other way ...

ThiagoKid:
Thank you very much!!

You're most welcome...
Do well to keep your promise on the rewards though - whoever it may be ...

Penicillin ointment should do the trick ...

Building the house is not the problem here, it's the finishing that's the koko ...

To answer you, I don't think 20mil will be enough to build you that kind of house with that kind of finishing ...

ThiagoKid
The way I see it, if you start any business now, you prolly will fail ...

This is not a prophecy, it's a fact! ...
You don't just wake up one morning and start up a business, you do your market survey (SWOT analysis) first to see what product are in demand and see how you can meet them ...

See eh, every business idea that has been listed up there has the capacity to make you mahd profits, but it'll be dependent on the demand and supply ratio of that business in your environment ...

Lemme give you an example...
If you set up a POS business near a bank that always have cash to dispense to customers, that business will crash! ...

Why? Because the demand for a POS service will be at an all time low! I mean, why should I pay to use a POS when I can just go to the bank and get my cash for "free" ...

But if you take that same POS business to places where accessing cash is difficult, that business will boom ...

In summary...
Go around the market or a place you have in mind to start up a business, see what they need and then supply it ...

Orrrrrr...
If you already have a business in mind, go around and see what place the demand for your business is high, but there's low competition and then set up your business there ...

I wish you good luck!

Some time last year, the OP was strongly against head, but see am now? Is god not wonderful? ...

Or maybe you've finally treated the infection that drove men away (in the words of "prescious something" ...

@OP ...
You are derailing your own thread by paying that fellow any attention ...

@fellow_above_me ...
Only fo.ols without any self respect stay in places they aren't wanted, don't be a nuisance to humanity ...

@Topic ...
I totally agree with the pix ...

You see, money isn't the issue here ...
The issue here is that most modern women are so bereft of sense, so much so that their only means of making money is spreading their legs like butter on agege bread ...

That's why they go about looking for a rich man to leech upon ...
And when they find one, they are ready to tolerate any form of abuse just to keep leeching on him ...

Watch how females will come here and blame the man for not taking care of his wife ...

DonroxyII:
Dey Play ... normal age gap for normal dude to Breakthrough in Nigeria of today is between 35-40 before he would be instincted to settle down .... Except for those who are born with Monies or Hit Jackpot Faster!


Normal age gap is now 10years for Street Dudes-Babes That's for the Responsible Ones... Because it takes considerable time to fight Genetic Curses, Family Tussles Then Street Wahala ...

Most Girls of that age range(35-40) are out of Market Due to One or Two Reasons ....

You are left with the Fresher Ones Now do you have enough Maturities to live with Gen Z-Baddies Girls even the Spiricoco among them na weyrey ...

Reasons for Marital Problems is Plenty ! ...as far as economy is not getting better, marriage shall suffer as well as children Upbringing!

"I think the age gap is too wide FOR ME to even think of it, talk more of considering it ..."

Read again...

Even though this story is fictional, there are two things that stood out to me ...

1. Acting in anger is the worse possible way to act, so we all gotta stay calm and take no action when we're upset ...

2. Men naturally are stronger than women and one hit from a man to a woman can disconfigure a woman ...

So ladies before you start yelling "if you're a man beat me", you better be careful cause if that man listens to you, you may never recover from it ...

The only being capable of the kind of love that some folks above are implying is God ...

No other being is capable of loving an individual in a way that is "immeasurable" ...

Having said so, everyone in my life who will "see" the fruits of love on my end MUST earn it ...

My mum have earned her's by the sacrifices she's made for me, so it's left for my wife to do same ...

If she can't, then it's clear to the blind who takes priority "love wise" ...

Though I've worked with both and I haven't had any issues with either, but I'd choose male bosses anytime any day! ...

Females are naturally entitled and emotional and fact is that, it's hard for them to keep that part of them away from business ...

And regardless of how hard they try, it almost always shows up and blimey when I say that im not ready to deal with any emotional buhaha ...

So male bosses all the way ...

A woman who thinks that becoming an olosho is the only way to raise money can't qualify to be my wife ...

Cause I don't deal with du.mb women ...
So yeah, this question is invalid in my opinion ...

Anunakeeh:
Blame their men not them per-se.

They are the ones fueling and encouraging the menace as you can see in the video.

Dear gawd! ...
This is getting really nauseating ...

An adult female, makes a decision that the only way to make money is to spread her legs like bama on bread and somehow, it's not her fault? ...

Somehow she's not to be blamed "per se"? ... Somehow the man is to be blamed? ...

You're part of what is wrong with this world! ..

There's absolutely nothing wrong with a woman (or a person for that matter) loving money ....

I mean...
Who wouldn't the luxurious life that money can bring? ...

But my issue with most women is that, they're so daft that the only money making venture that they know is dating a rich man or spreading legs like rumor ...

Their brains are so dead that they can't even think past their "in-betweens" when it comes to making money ...

1. If that's the case, then it's best she keeps shut ... Cause words said in anger has the ability to ruin a person's life, whether or not the one saying it means it ...

2. ...

3. Men and women should take care of themselves ... but in cases where either party can, but doesn't want to then they should go their separate ways ...

Anything other than this is just her excuse to satisfy the itching in-between her legs ...

4. This isn't gender specific ...
It's a two way thing ...

5. Trash! ...

6. Trash! ...

7. Bitter folks are bitter folks, regardless of what you do ... If she's a bitter person for whatever reason, walk away before she makes you like her ...

8. It's a two way thing ...

9. Tor! Strong and independent woman to the mud ...

10. May we keep "missing" out on it ...
This is not some alpha BS, but unless you have done something fundamentally wrong, it's fo.olisness to beg a woman ...

11. What you just described is a person of value and blimey not all women are people of value, some of em just be a walking liability ...

12. ...

13. Dey play!!! ...
Woman? Shy to ask you for money? ...

I think the age gap is too wide for me to even think of it, talk more of considering it ...

I believe the age age between couples shouldn't be more than 7 years ...

Hahaahhahahah ...
This young man is downright delusional ...

But let's get serious ...

I find it really amusing when people (especially women) be like, "if he cheats on you, cheat on him back" ...

Either ways sha...
I support you ...
Cheat on him back, okay? ...

Service that rod like a who.re real.woman that you are ... Infact, cheat on him with as many men as possible ...

budaatum:
Sorry, but I do not see women fighting fir equal opportunities as useless. What I do see is that I need to fight harder against pigs for gender equality.

My only hope is that your daughters refuse to accept the subservient role you would allot them.

First of...
You have not answered ANY of my questions ... You keep avoiding them ...

This goes on to tell me that, either modern feminism is as useless as I think it is or you're very ignorant about a course you claim to support ...

I think both applies in this case ...

Secondly...
No where in any of our conversation did I imply that women should be kept in a subservient role ...

All I've been doing is ask questions that you clearly are avoiding because you know that the answers to those questions will shatter everything you stand for ...

Thirdly...
You don't have to worry about my daughters, blimey they're not fo.olish enough to believe in a useless movement that's perpetuated by lazy, bitter and delusional fellows who use feminism as a front to mask their ineptitude and misandry ...

Hit me up when You're ready to answer my questions, that is, if you can ...

Until then, enjoy your day ...

budaatum:
There does not need to be a law for a parent to decide to educate their male children only because they can not afford to educate their daughters too. What there needs to be are laws to make it illegal to deprive girls of education.

Yet again, you haven't answered my question ... That alone is proof of the uselessness of modern day feminism ...

First of, you talked about states where women are not considered for governorship, I ask, is there a law in that state that says "women can't contest for governor"? ...
((You're yet to answer this ))

Secondly, mention 1 constitutional right that a man has that a woman does not have? ...
((You're still yet to answer this too ))

But rather you keep beating around the bush ... See how useless feminism is? ...

It's so useless that you can't even defend it ...

Regardless...
Lemme indulge you a little in this back and forth thingy that you're playing ...

You said and I quote, What there needs to be are laws to make it illegal to deprive girls of education, so I ask...

Are there laws in place that makes it illegal to deprive males of education? If there aren't, why aren't feminism fighting for it? ...

I mean, since feminism is about "equality", you guys should be "equal" and fight for the rights of males too na ba? ...

Thus, I can say this with boldness, that modern day feminism is nothing short of misandry and thus is utterly useless! Quote me once any time any day and twice on thursday ...

budaatum:
Nigeria is not the entire world, still, here in 21st century Nigeria, female children are being deprived of school and education so their brother's education can be afforded. And we still have many states where females would not be considered for governor. Even just a poll on Nairaland would show you how few would accept a female boss if they had a choice.

You talked about states where women are not considered for governorship, I ask, is there a law in that state that says "women can't contest for governor"? ...

You still haven't answered my question sir ...

Mention 1 constitutional right that a man has that a woman does not have? ...

I'm waiting...

Feminism in the 21st century is useless and is just a cover for misandry ...

You claim you're fighting for equality right?

So using Nigeria my country as a case study, mention 1 constitutional right that men have that women don't in the 21st century ...

Oh boy! (Sighs) ...
When will this ever end? ...

OP...
All their lives, men have been taught how to treat a woman good, but rarely ever have women been taught how to treat men ...

Rather women have been taught what to expect from men, thus what we have now (majorly) are just a bunch of entitled and du.mb women walking upandan with empty s.kulls ...

Thankfully, the modern man isn't having any of it - not anymore! ... So talks like "how to satisfy a woman" and the likes is fast becoming irritating to the modern man ...

What is valid to the modern man and rightly so is, after doing all of these, what's in for me? ...

Offpointng:
You're turning this into a joke without thrashing the point raised. leave ur jokes aside and get it straight.

How has the husband helped ease her sexual urge during those months away from home??

Joke? Me? ...
I'm not joking sir ...
I meant every word I said up there ...

The man is to blame for everything!! ...

How can he allow another man "mistakenly" fall in-between his wife's legs?!! ...

If he was more proactive, that "mistake" wouldn't have happened, I blame him sir, 100% ...

He should apologize to his wife like a real man should ...

He is to be blamed for everything ...

I wish he would reach out to you, so he can learn from real men such as yourself ...

Offpointng:
She made a mistake yes but not calling for her head like ur doing atm

I totally agree with you ...
It was a "mistake" ...

She was just lying down there with her legs open and the guy "mistakenly" jumped in-between ...

Don't mind Zonefree and advanceDNA, they don't know what they're saying ...

Offpointng:
The blame shouldn't be one sided. let us know if he did all this and she still cheated. if he didn't, he had better bring her back and apologise to her for the trauma he's caused her

Yes na ...
We can't just blame the girl, we have to blame the guy too ...

I mean, why will he "mistakenly" fall in-between her legs, can't he watch his step? ...

And as for her husband, why will he allow another man to "mistakenly" fall in-between his wife legs ...

He's not a real man ...
He should learn from real men like you ...

Most women are indeed VERY DUM.B ...

If it's the man who cheated, then they can certainly work things out, but if it's a woman who cheated, I can't advice you make an attempt to work things out ...

Just kick her out of your life asap ...

Neverlookback:
Somehow you've managed to put the blame for the woman's failure in business on the man. Is she a child?

So when she started nagging the man about opening a business for her, what would you have expected the man to do?

If the same man had asked the wife to try and learn the business first under the tutelage of an established business, the likes of you would still crucify the man for not supporting the wife.

That's women for you ...
In their minds, "I'm never at fault" ...
You sha get time to respond to her ...

Reginaoyah:
1. Did you expect me to reject the proposal when it came?

You're a total stranger madam, I don't expect Jack from you. Facts, I don't even give 2fu.cks about you ...

But an adult should be mature enough not to marry for the wrong reason ...

Reginaoyah:
2. I had reported him to his mother. His brother,and my brother who all happen to be family at different intervals.

Madam, if at this stage of your life, you still believe that shredding your husband's image all in the name of "reporting" is the best way to handle this, then you're honestly not fit to be married ...

And besides, you've been reporting him all this while what has the outcome been? Shouldn't common sense tell you that, reporting him isn't working and that you should change strategy? ...

(Sighs), indeed, common sense is not common ...

Reginaoyah:
3. He only supported the business when I opened it. This business is more than 6yrs. So you give your wife 100k to add to a small business 6yrs ago and expect her to turn it to billions with kids she feeds and same shop you collect small things like toothpaste from? You are just judgemental, no solution.

I expect my wife to be a good business woman, which clearly that's something that you're not ...

You want a solution? ...
I'll give you a few ...

1. Start by appreciating what your husband is doing
2. Improve upon your business skills and try to expand your business so you you can pay off you're debt slowly.
3. Stop reporting your husband to people.
4. Be very open with your husband about finances and let him know how far.

Do this and let's see how far.

First of...
You married for the wrong reason - an escape route ...

I accepted to marry BECAUSE ALL MY LIFE, I HAD KNOWN HARD LABOUR. My brother's wife used me to raise her kids and work if you understand what I mean. WHEN MARRIAGE CAME, I SAW IT AS AN ESCAPE ROUTE FROM THAT LIFESTYLE

And there's no way you can marry for the wrong reason and with a wrong mindset and have a good marriage, it's not possible ...

Secondly...
You're not a very good business woman ...
Oga opened a shop for you and you ran it down SEVERALLY!!! and yet you still expect him to pump resources into something that you will prolly run down again? ...

And besides, did you seek permission from him before going to take the loan? ...

I mean, you don't expect that you collect money without his KNOWLEDGE and APPROVAL and expect him to pay it back, do you? ...

Thirdly...
You made the biggest mistake of your life the moment you started destroying your husbands image outside. You think those people you're reporting your husband to give 2fu.cks about your marriage? You think they'll respect you and your husband after bad-mouthing your husband? ...

I have reported him to ppl but he comes back even worse.

And besides, you expect him to be "better" after reporting him? ... Women are truly ignorant about how men think ...

Continue to tell your marriage issues to third party okay? You're doing well ...

Fourthly...
You're very unappreciative of your husbands effort ...

He gives me money for food on Saturdays

Regardless of his shortcomings,
He hasn't laid a finger on you...
He doesn't cheat...
He provides for his family...
He started out a business for you...

And still you're unappreciative of his effort? ...

In your own words, My husband was nice before, maybe it is your foul character that caused the change in his attitude towards you ...

I'm not saying your husband is a saint, but madam, na you use your hand destroy your marriage ...