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Women: go and learn how to cook and stop picking offense when someone points out your inadequacies ...

Men: learn to protect the integrity of your woman, especially in public ...

Why are they beating the man now? ...

Y'all should be beating the us.eless wife who CHEATED ON HER HUSBAND!!! ...

Cause the man you're beating didn't take any vow, did he? ...

This is just misplaced anger! ...

All these talk of nice guys and the likes is just premium BS! ...

Never change who you are (in this context) simply because you want to get the ladies, it doesn't end well ...

If you're a great guy aka nice guy, stay nice! Don't start acting all "alpha" just to get a woman ...

Let your "nice guy" attribute be the sieve by which you filter f.oolish girls from your life ...

Cause the reality is that, it's their loss, never yours! ...

You need a source of income guy, no matter how small it is ...

If you're serious about it, you can balance both the Alx and your job ...

It's going to be very difficult, but then, it's not impossible ...

Good luck man! ...

This shouldn't be rocket science na ...

But then, many men be brainwashed into settling with trash! I pray God helps us ...

I'm glad the eyes of some men are beginning to pop open ...

If her father couldn't do it and she's not ready to play ball, then let her hustle by herself ...

Girls be scamming boys since the beginning of time ...

A DNA test should've been conducted before he even carried the baby in his arms, talk more of taking a picture and claiming father ...

Why on earth will a broke man think of having a kid? ... To bring the child to suffer? Come on na, let's be real with ourselves here ...

No one should give birth to a child(ren) they can't afford to cater for, this isn't rocket science ...

The question we have to ask ourselves here is, why is it that when a woman is in trouble, rather than persevere in a legit hustle to scale through, she opens her legs to different men? ...

Secondly...
Why do women expect that it is a man's responsibility to help them out when they are in trouble? Why do they feel entitled to it? ...

Can't we see that there's something that's fundamentally flawed in how most women reason? ..

Lemme also state this categorically here that, asking for something in return before you help anyone doesn't make you a bad person, nahhhh ...

If you come to me for assistance and I tell you that before I help you, you have to give me something in return - it's your prerogative to either give me something in exchange for what you want or you leave! ...

That's how the world works, it sucks, yes! But then, you either give whatever in exchange for whatever you want or you find another way ...

Women should stop acting like it's a man's responsibility to be at your beck and call, simply because they have a hole under their legs - it's super disgusting abeg! ...

After making millions of dollars from this same industry, you now suddenly "regret"? You then come to claim you were "taken advantage of"? ...

Indeed taking accountability is a females cryptonite ...

Over exaggerating keh? ...
See this one o ...

A VERY LARGE MAJORITY of females WILL ALWAYS find a way to bill a guy in the course of the conversation, so don't blame men for protecting themselves from the likes of your gender ...

Truth is, you're one of the very few who can hold her ground financially, that is, assuming you're as "different" as you're projecting yourself to be ...

(sighs) ...

Young men never learn, do they? ...

Young men! Learn from this! ...

Modern day relationship has now become a boxing ground and as the ref would say "protect yourself at all times" ...

Please let this country separate so that these abo.kis can have their own nation and do whatever suits them ...

Honestly, I'm tired of those people ...

Elegantspiker:
Exactly my thought.

But if I don't do things absolutely right, there is this feel I get that's disturbing. Like, what do I do where signature is required?

Use your signature, then underneath your signature you could write (F): The person's name ...

I use the above for official documents when I'm signing in someone's stead (like my boss), I believe this could be applied here ...

But whatever you decide is fine...
I believe the individual will appreciate the thoughtfulness behind the gift and not necessarily focus on the nitty gritty's (such as this) ...

Elegantspiker:
I intend to buy a time piece (watch) and give to someone as gift.

When buying, should I buy with my name on the invoice or the intended receiver's name?

Should the invoice be enclosed in the watch's box before delivering?

Get the gift with the recipients name on the invoice and the invoice should be enclosed in the box before delivery ...

I think it's better that way ...

dkidd:
What do U expect when the woman isn't allowing him to bend her again like he used to before they got married. U people start acting ancient after marriage,no more excitement or zeal for new things and U want a man to still remain in one place... how na? He saw a breath of fresh air in charity.

Cap!!! ...

Let's stop making excuses for the excesses of men ...

That woman played him and I'm proud of her!!!! ...

Men have got to do better! ...

If they bring up court marriage, you bring up prenuptial agreement asap ...

This write up deserves a million likes...

All these guys above me sha ...

Well, if the man saw something in her that made him think she's worth of all of this, then who are we to badmouth her? ...

Congratulations to them jareh ...

Lemme get this ...

She stays in your house...
You pay all the bills...

She's working but she doesn't contribute financially to the running of the household and yet she can't take on the house chores? ...

If the above describes the situation, then her feelings is the last thing you should be bothered about ...

At this point, it doesn't matter how she takes it, DRIVE HER OUT OF YOUR HOUSE!! ...

The best you can do for her is give her a weeks notice ...

When will men stop making these magnitude of sacrifice for a mere girlfriend ....

Whoever wants to marry a single mother should go ahead ....

There's no shame in marrying a single mother and there's no shame in not marrying a single mother - it's all a matter of preference ...

But as for me and my family, we know deep down that single mothers are at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to women worth taking serious ...

If that makes me "irresponsible", then it's their cup of tea - every malam to his kettle ...

But I for one will not shame anyone or be shamed by anyone for my dating preference(s) ...

As long as it's not business related, if she talks to (or about) another man more than she does you, my dear, she's cheating on you ...

If women can dump a man cause of his height and small gbo.la (things he obviously can't do nothing about), then I don't see anything wrong in men dumping women for having small yansh and bobby ...

I mean, all's fair in love and war, right? ...

The public display of aggression gives me a picture of the happenings of their home ...

I mean, if she can destroy her husband's belonging in public, how much more damage is she capable of in private? ...

I don't know about y'all, but if what I'm thinking is what it is, this woman would be gone long before now ...

Cause I understand that what you tolerate is what you accept, and this behavior right here is UNACCEPTABLE! ...

You're right, it's your body, it's your rules ...

However, men have the right to not want a wh.ore for a wife ...

Men have a right to want a young adult female for a relationship over a grand mother ...

And just as women want their choices and preferences to be respected, y'all need to learn to respect the choices and preferences of men too ...

I mean, it's super delusional that a lady will disqualify men for being bro.ke and then cry foul when men disqualify her for being a wh.ore ...

Or you think men don't have standards? ...

Well, news flash ladies!! Men have standards! ...

So do whatever the h.ell you like with your body, but if you're a w.hore or you were once a w.hore, you're already not good enough in the eyes of many men ...

Regardless of whatever stupi.dity the society tries to shove down our throats, I still stick to the believe that a man is not fully responsible for a girl he isn't married to ...

And any man who puts a girlfriend on a daily, weekly or monthly salary is d.umb as mess ...

Rather than throw money at just a mere girlfriend, invest in yourself and in your family (mother, father, sisters etc) ...

Cause "God bless you my pikin" is far better than "uuhnwwwnn" ...

Those of y'all supporting that guy are wrong! ...

Whoever invites any out should pay for the treat or at the very least, inform your date that you want to go dutch on things, that way, they'll be prepared before coming ...

Ifthat girl didn't have cash, she would just be embarrassed to death because of a boys immaturity - honestly eh, some of y'all need to grow up! ...

And girls, when you go out eh, try dey order food with conscience ...

Don't go on a date and proof to the world that you're a retched orphan who hasn't eaten for 2 years ...

Wonderful write up by the OP, well done! ...

Only fo.ols place their girlfriends on salary or take full responsibilities for a girl they're not married to ...

Just as she won't play wifely duties during the dating stage, you too should NEVER play husband duties before marriage ...