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Females can't handle what they give out and that's a fact ...

This was an insightful read ...

I tell men, never marry a broke woman ...
If she doesn't have value with evidence, not potentials, then she's not worth marrying ...

Forget all of this, "marry from the slums and then build her", ideology it's f.oolishness! ...

If her father couldn't do it, then allow her hustle and do it herself! ...

Wuna funny o ...

The way y'all place women on a pedestal in your head is really amusing ...

But lemme address a few stuff ...

First paragraph...
Once a person deletes your number, blocks and warn you never to call them again, please respect yourself enough to not call them abeg

You too sha get small pride, make them no see you finish ...

Paragraph 2...
Even men too need reassurance, so yeah, whilst it is expected for the man to reassure his woman, the same is also expected of the woman ...

Paragraph 3...
You just described women as monitoring spirits ... I mean, doesn't the whole concept of blocking a person mean that you don't want to see them? Talk more of having anything to do with them? ...

Paragraph 4...
Everyone must give account of every word they say, even the Bible confirms that ...

So, whether women are angry o, or they're happy, once the verbal abuse starts, please don't ignore it ...

On a side note, I believe that sometimes, people say what they really feel about only when they're angry - so pay attention ...


In summary...
I understand that there is a fundamental difference between men and women, however posts like this paints a narrative that removes accountability from women and puts men in a position where they have to continually tolerate the excesses of women ...

That in my opinion is just messed up ...

Na who God show me, na him I dey marry ...

In the spirit of "equality" I see absolutely nothing wrong here ...

Men have been paying the transportation of women since time immemorial, nothing wrong if women start reciprocating ...

This isn't rocket science OP ...

Just...

1. Respect the man
2. Don't be a liability or a dum.my
3. Cook and clean
4. Spread your legs whenever he wants and seduce him very often
5. Don't be a nag and know when to keep shut

Do this and you practically have that man inside a bottle ...

jmoore:
Your perception of virginity is adulterated, hence makes your opinion a hogwash.

A virgin is one that has never been involved in any sex, be it oral, anal or vaginal. Therefore it is ridiculous to call a woman who has done 0ral sex a virgin.

A true virgin woman is sexually pure, she has not gotten involved with anyone sexually, she has mastered selfcontrol. And when a true virgin makes a choice to remain a virgin till marriage, then she is a diamond.

Underate selfcontrol at your own peril.

There is nothing like cheating in boy/girlfriend relationship. They are just fornicating with other people same way they were fornicating with themselves.

If you can't avoid fornication while single, adultery will be your next class when married.

We'll put!
I never wouldn't have said it better...

@OP
First of...
Get your definition right ...
What you wrote up there isn't a description of a vir.gin, rather it's the definition of a who.re who has refused to take it in-between her legs ...

Secondly...
This is a very weak attempt to downplay the relevance of a woman who have enough self control to keep herself till marriage, especially in this very corrupt world ...

Thirdly...
No one ever said that virgins make the best wives, but a woman who has enough self control to not fornicate or engage in any form of se.xual related practice is one who has enough self control to not be adulterous ...

And come to think of it, if she's made it a habit of sleeping around in her single years, you think she'll automatically stop because she stood before a bunch of strangers and said "I do?" ...

Dey play ...
Go do your research and you'll see that most men who are victims of paternity fraud never met their wives as virgins ...

F22RAPTOR:
Stop lying oga...why don't you drop picture evidence

You really should learn to be quiet about things you know nothing about ...

@OP
I was as surprised as you were today when I made 2 transfers to my opay and I was deducted roughly 92 naira (45 + for each time) ...
(Access to opay and Minnie point to opay)

The deductions are really high as compared to before ...

I think they better look into this, else they'll begin to lose customers ...

Tis well ...

Hahahahahh ...

Even their own fellow gender from diaspora are calling them out having noticing their behaviors ...

Naija girls which way na

Audio appreciation ...

Please tag me when it starts reflecting in the prices of commodity in the market ...

Nothing to talk about here ...
Once she cheats, dump her! ...

Forget the trash talk of...

"It was a mistake" ...
"I didn't mean to" ...
"It's your fault" ...

Don't even bother to ask questions or wait around to find out why ...

Just dump her sorry a.ss and move on ...

Hahahah ...
I expected this ...

What's funny here is that, the women in Nigeria that have this qualities are very few ...

Those that don't even have a fifth of this will be throwing tantrums upandan like the one above me ...

Honestly, once men start having standards (like they are begining to now), they'll realize how us.eless and empty majority of modern females are ...

Abeggie make we rest with all this talk🙄

All this talk of "that she's a virgin doesn't mean she'll make a good wife" is just a way for wh.ores to console themselves ...

Does she not being a virgin make her a good wife? ...

Let's stop acting like good character and virginity are inversely proportional to each other ...

There are virgin girls with amazing character, just as there are wh.ores with bad character and vice versa ...

Why is it that we just choose to take the few instances of virgin girls who are uncultured as a means to trash the value of a woman keeping herself till marriage? ...

If you like, follow this trash talk and get married to a wh.ore, na you sabi ...

Where is she now OP? ...

In a hospital abi she's receiving treatment in a nearby chemist shop? ...

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And what was done to the woman? ...

Bwilliam:
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My gwad!!!!!

One thing a lot of married folks, especially females forget or realize too late is that your partner is your priority ...

Not your child, not your parents, not your siblings, not your job but your partner ...

Remember this, before making any decision ...

Holluwhakemmy:
Such is life. Old things have passed away all other things become new

Tell that to your landlord you owe money to ...

"Babe...

I love you so much, you know that right?

Well, there's this thing I've noticed and I didn't know how to bring it up, because I didn't want to upset you...

But it's imperative I do so because I don't want it to be a wedge between - I sincerely hope you don't take this the wrong way...

There's this mild odour I've perceived around you. I don't know why and I can't explain the odour, but it's there and it's bad and so I'd like us to deal with it...

Which is why I bought this product (any beauty care product out there), so you and I will give this a try later this night, okay?"

The above is exactly what I would say to my wife if I was in your shoe ...

This way, you're not accusing her or insulting her that she's smelling, you're only stating your observations...

Secondly, you're providing a solution to the problem and not just leaving her to figure things out...

I believe any reasonable woman would appreciate this gesture ...

There's no religion more useless than that religion ..

A religion that is encouraged to kill "unbelievers" ...

One that treats women like slave and second class citizens at best ...

A religion that claims it's for peace, but won't hesitate to kill and fight for a non existent god ...

Does that kind of religion have any use? ...

I don't care why she cheats ...

Once a woman cheats on you, she's no longer qualified to be in your life as your partner ...

OKOATA:
Sorry to say this bros you are an illiterate. You spend your whole day on the system browsing online but can't find solution to your girls problem. There are snoring kits on jumia, Jiji she can use and it works. Better break that your system cos it's of no use oga.

First of...
You can pass your message without throwing tantrums around like a child ...

Secondly...
It is not his responsibility to find a solution for her ... If he decides to help out, on the strength of the love he has for her, then fine, if not, it's still fine ...

And besides...
She who is snoring, doesn't she know that it is inconveniencing for others who sleep in the same room as herself? ...

And can't she find a solution to her own problem? ...

With your level of thinking eh, you have absolutely no right to call anyone an illiterate ...

Cause the only illiterate here is who you see when you look in the mirror ...

@OP...
Any reason is good enough to break up with a person, I repeat ANY REASON IS GOOD ENOUGH ...

You just have to know what you can handle and what you can't ...

If this is not something you can handle and you're not willing to help her seek a solution, please back off now ...

So that, it won't be a case that when you both get married, you start using this against her - it won't be fine like that ...

So if this is not something you can handle, back off ...

The moment you start relating with a girl in any way that isn't formal, you both automatically become on the same level regardless of the age gap ...

If this guy wasn't bleeping her, do you think she would have the guts to insult this man? ...

Even girls who are older than me can't try this trash, talk more of a girl I'm older than ...

Pussyisgud:
Your brain dey for your yansh.

Sighs ...

A simple latex would've solved this ...

I don't think that a lady shooting her shot makes her look cheap ...

My only issue is that when ladies shoot their shots and get turned down, most of the time, they instantly become either aggressive to the point where they start insulting you or they try to throw shades at you ...

Maybe they prolly think that a man must say yes cause they're shooting their shots ...

The moment I saw "My husband is the root cause of everything" I just knew that advising this one is a total waste of time ...

And besides, since your husband is the root cause of everything, I'm guessing that You're the stem cause and the branch cause ...

Madam, whatever you choose to do is your business, but if you love your children as you claim, then don't prevent a relationship between the kids and their father ...

Cause the reality is that, it takes a masculine figure to raise a male child, a woman is solely incapable of doing so (for the most part) - go do your research and see the stats of boys raised by single women ...

There's only so much you can do to raise a male child as a woman ...