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Radicalwarrior

If all wh.ores stop going into prostitution wouldn't the same prostitution end? ...

Or have you come like others before you to absolve women of accountability and hold men responsible for their choices as always ...

Girlfriend? Hell no!!! ...

Wife? Depends on whether or not she is truly incapable of doing it herself ...

Bonab:
Thanks for your take on this matter,but please understand that not all single mothers became one by opening their legs carelessly like you alleged,some lost their partners to early death,some were raped, some were divorced etc.

Yes, some are because of the wrong choices they made in life,but don't you think they deserve a second chance like every other human being? Are they worse than the people who have aborted many babies?

Secondly,if you go through most of my articles you would notice that I always discourage premarital sex before marriage. But seeing how single mothers are insulted and disrespected everyday by people who knows nothing about their story is really disturbing.

We can never correct people through hate but love,and we have to understand that no matter how careful we are, people will always make mistakes. So whilst we advise them to do the right thing, let us not despise or stigmatize those who have already made some mistakes in their past and are remorseful about it.

In my earlier write up, I alleged that a woman's inability to make smart decisions in her young age is the MAJOR reason why we have single mothers littered everywhere, I didn't say it was the ONLY reason ...

Which means I recognized that a woman can become a single mother via all the other reasons you mentioned and I agree 100% ...

Secondly...
Nowhere in my earlier write up did I opine that they didn't deserve second chances or that they're worst than those who have aborted, nahhhh ...

I think they do...
I don't think they should be hated or despised...
I think everyone deserves to love and be loved...

All I'm saying is that REGARDLESS of how she became a single mother, a single mother is very unattractive to most men as compared to a young girl without children ...

And I did a comparison with broke men...
I mean, once a man is broke, whether he was once rich before and lost everything or he was fired or his business went down the drain, whatever the reason why he is broke, he will be considered unattractive to most women as compared to a man of means ...

Women wouldn't even care about their story, they'll just look down on him regardless - it's exactly the same with single mothers ...

This is just the plain truth for men and women!! And the truth as you already know is void of emotion ...

Teaching ...

OP this write up is an amazing one, however, it is no news that single mothers are the least desirable set of women in the world ...

This isn't something new, it's factual! ...

I understand that they are men who will have no qualms being with a single mother and that's okay! ...

But most men will rather go for a young girl with as little a body count as possible, than go for single mothers REGARDLESS of how she became a single mother ...

It's just like how most women see broke men as bottom feeders REGARDLESS of how they got there ...

So rather than preach to us the types of single mothers, why not advice ladies to keep their legs closed ...

Cause you and I know that a woman's inability to make smart decisions in her young age is the MAJOR REASON why we have single mothers littered all over the place ...

If that's the case then...

Only rich women deserve rich men ...
Only tall women deserve tall men ...
Only fit women deserve fit men ...
Only domesticated women deserve domesticated men ...

But I guess we're not ready to have this conversation, are we? ...

femicyrus:
Me too
She was only acting up and the guy took it seriously.
He ought to have gone to see her at her house if he truly love her.
Imagine her waiting for 2 good weeks.
She can't even hide it!
The girl is not a bad girl as being portrayed by many.
Her 1st day off at work in 2 weeks, she is already at his doorpost.
That is love

Sighs ...
The sooner we stop making excuses for women and start holding them accountable for their actions, the faster we'll restore the family system to what it originally worse ...

A woman breaks up with you...
Block(s) you on ALL social media platforms...
Block(s) your line(s) so you don't call her...

And yet you think he ought to have gone to her place? ...

That's proof of low self esteem if you ask me ...

Gone are the days when men would put up with this nonsense ...

Times have changed and everyone, male and female should adjust to it lest we lose out on many things ...

These days, men don't even bother to chase women as compared to before now and you seriously think, a female will act that way to any self respecting man and he will come after her? Lol ...

And don't forget, that is the US, where a woman can say anything and get you arrested even when you're innocent! ...

What oga did was to protect and respect himself so he doesn't get into troubles ...

I think Trump is a better candidate than Biden ...

I can't watch anyone, male or female do that to my house and not beat the living day light outta that person, nahhhh ...

And if you check well now, that woman is prolly a house wife ... Cause someone who used his/her hard earned money to get stuff wouldn't be too quick to ruin them just like that ...

Smh, indeed too many adults in kids body ...

See all them above me fighting for politicians who don't even know about their existence ...

Really hilarious ...

What happened to the drink that he opened? Did he drink it at the end?

Pojomojo:
Osun, Ekiti and some part of Nassrawa

Thank you so much for the clarity, I haven't been in those areas ...

Around Lagos, Makurdi, Port Harcourt and other places I've stayed, you can't get such for that amount ...

Thanks for the clarity though ...

Bintabisiriyu2:
Shut up mumu, broke ass nigga.

Hahahahahh ...

Is this what you see when you look in the mirror🤣

Or maybe, my post made you remember your late father🤣

Abeg carry your wahala pass jareh, I'm not the cause of your problem ...

Also, don't bother responding, cause I don't respond to fo.ols twice ...

Me thinking aloud, your father should have used a condom to prevent all these 🙃

Bintabisiriyu2:
just make money.

Check out the top 5 riches men in the world and see how many of them aren't divorced ...

The AI put rent at 12k, that is assuming that ones annual rent is 144k, I dont know where you would get a moderate selfcon for anything less than 170k around some places in Nigeria ...

Secondly, it placed utilities at 7k, that is: water, electricity and gas ... Assuming that the gas there is cooking gas, I don't know how many kg you use in a month, but for me, that 7k will prolly cover just that, NEPA bills due to the increased tariff is prolly more than that, unless ofcourse you have a prepaid meter in your house, so it isn't feasible...

I could go on and on, but the fact is that, 62k cannot give one the barest minimum level of comfort in Nigeria, considering the strength of the current economy ...

It's like suffer no dey tire some of wuna o ...

If your childhood trauma is still affecting you as an adult, then deal with it! ...

And how much does she need to earn? ...

I don't care whether or not a woman earns more than I do, the big question is, can she submit to a man she earns more than? ...

If the answer is no, regardless of financial prowess, she becomes unfit to be my wife ...

CrownLands:
She's just shy..

Regardless ...

If she can't consider how her "shyness" would make me look, then I won't consider how my dumping her on the pulpit will make her look ...

I mean, there's no way on earth I'm rewarding that magnitude of embarrassment with commitment, never! ...

Just my personal opinion sha ...
You're free to wife her up, it's all good ...

Maybe his mouth is smelling ...
Maybe she's shy ...

Maybe there's someone in the background that the bride is running package with ...

Maybe ...

But regardless of the "maybe", embarrass me like this and we're done ...

It's the entitlement for me ...

That's his your boyfriend doesn't mean he owes you money ...

If you want money, get a job! ...

Go ahead and work on the other parts of the house ...

That way, it'll give them time to find another place to live ...

Botragelad:
The eternal mystery of women's preferences. .
Let's play along with your hypothetical scenario, shall we? Assuming these women are devoid of agency and individuality, and their sole criterion is financial security, even then, it's not a foregone conclusion that they'd all choose the wealthy one.

Newsflash: women are not a monolith. They have diverse priorities, and experiences that shape their decisions. Some might prefer the man with a sense of humor, emotional intelligence, or shared values over the one with a fat wallet.

But, for the sake of argument, let's assume all 10 women prioritize financial security above all else. Even then, it's not a guarantee they'd choose the rich one. Perhaps some would prefer the man who is content with his modest means, demonstrating a sense of gratitude and humility.

Your hypothetical scenario is a simplistic. It's time to evolve beyond such outdated thinking and recognize women's complexity/individuality.

First of...
Nowhere in my earlier write up did I opine that women were a monolith ... Neither did I say anything that hinted that women didn't have a sense of individuality ...

But somehow, you saw all of this in just a simple question? ...

Secondly...
I said both men were the same in ALL regards ... Which means the whole emotional intelligence, sense of gratitude, modesty and sense of humor are present in both men ...

But I guess that flew right past your head ...

Thirdly...
If your definition of "evolving beyond such outdated thinking" (which I hope not) is you making the kind of assumptions you made in your earlier write up, then no thanks, I'm fine being completely sane and not delusional ...

Fourthly...
The question I asked isn't all hypothetical ...
Infact, a documentary was done on this exact same scenario, but it wasn't 10 women that were used, it was a 100 and not surprising, an overwhelming majority of women (97) choose the man with the fat wallet ...

The conclusion of this is simple, whilst it is true that women aren't monolith, an overwhelming majority of women out there will choose a man who is financially stable over a man who isn't ...

This isn't based on assumptions, it is factual! ...

Thank you so much for your time dearly beloved evolved specie ... I remain my most humble self, simplistic fahvvy ...

Botragelad

I'd like to ask an hypothetical question and I think you and I can have a conversation void of insults ...

If I line up 10 women and I tell them to choose between two men, these two men are identical in ALL regard, except the fact that one is rich and the other has enough to get by, which in all fairness do you think the 10 women (or atleast majority of the females) will choose? ...

Same reason broke men are always rejected ..

A woman will only talk like this to her man when the bills she pay is almost equivalent or more than that of the man's ...

That's the thing with women, when they have small money to pay bills for 2 days, the whole world will hear it, but a man can carry 100% of the bills for years and it's all good ...

(Sighs), it is videos like that makes me wonder if young men getting married to modern women is worth it at all ...

The only reason why she cried and begged is simply because YOU CAUGHT HER!!! ...

If you didn't catch her, she would continue doing sh.it behind your back ...

Trust me, women who cheat don't change, they only get better at covering their tracks ...

My advice? Du.mp her sorry a.ss! ...

So the someone's daughter na? Hope her salary is also more than a bag of rice too ba? ...