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It's their business what they choose to do with their lives OP, so don't sweat it ...

Just avoid taking folks like that seriously ...

Once you discover that they're fake in any way (breast, a.ss, hair or whatever), just avoid taking them seriously, so you don't end up partaking in the consequences of another's stu.pidity ...

Beautifulday:
It is not free.

Oh really?
It was sometime last year I believe ...

thesicilian:
Don't let anyone deceive you bro, education is definitely not a scam.

I totally agree with you

thesicilian:
You say that now, but imagine your wife or girlfriend receiving Val gift from her colleague at work

Stu.pid comparison ...
Did the man buy a gift for his colleague? Or for his late brother's wife? ...

If you must compare, compare it with the wife buying a gift for her late sisters husband ...

The modern man is indeed finished ...

Imagine doing chores just to have se.x? Yikes!!! You'll go back to your father's house that night ...

When elders tell y'all men to stop building a woman, y'all be yarning dust, now see it ...

How many of these kinds of stories would you read online before you have sense, o ye men? ...

Keep forming "real men" by upgrading a woman and she will dump your sorry a.ss for a man not stu.pid enough to do such ...

This is why I tell men, NEVER spend a dime in building a woman ...

If her parents couldn't send her to school, then let her hustle and go by herself ...

If you want to open a business for her, do so in your name, if she doesn't like it, then let her go and work or her own money and open it in her name ...

If you love her so much that you want to buy her a car, buy it in your name ...

Women of these days are not worth the sacrifice at all ...

Seun please reward this guy.

His design may not be topnotch but atleast the fact that he could come up with a concept to rebrand nairaland in some way should be rewarded.

To the rest of y'all who are calling his design trash and all, have you ever thought of ways to improve something that may not directly benefit you? ...

I'm certain that majority of the OP's critics can't even design a circle, much less come up with something like this ...

FRANCISTOWN:
The guy who posted that wasn't gender specific. It was a both side thing.

But your poverty-stricken, long-throat , current state of penury would always make you see girls as recipients.


Guys! You can even die young but never, I repeat never ever have anything serious to do with a broke girl. Just hit and pass

Hahahhaah ...
Comrade be calming down abeg ...

We all know that the average woman is a broke, entitled parasite ...

Always wanting to recieve but never wanting to reciprocate ...

That's why women like herself should never be taken seriously ...

Bornboy4:
Men reduced women to this level. Men should be chastised for breaking the hymen of a girl they won't eventually marry. But wait oh...don't you think that most ladies are to quick at opening their legs for sex?

You're very correct ...

Women are not to blame for this or anything else for that matter ...

The men are ALWAYS at fault ...

No woman is too important to be chased in my opinion ...

And a woman who wants to be "chased" is either an individual with a low self-esteem whose sense of worth comes from having someone "chase" her or an indecisive one who don't know what she wants, both of which are a turn off for me ...

Once I ask you out and you give me a "I'll let you know when I'm ready" kinda response, I'm gone ...

It's fine to reject any advances from someone you don't like, but why get physical? ...

Sincerely eh, the lady that will make this mistake of laying hands on me for whatever reason will land in the hospital ...

Girls can't handle half the sh.it that they give out ...

Small rejection wey dem give this one, she don grab shirt ...

Lmao ...

The Hallmark of Tinubu's government is blame shifting ...

First it was blame Obi ...
Then blame Atiku ...
Blame Buhari ...
Now it's blame Governors ...

Who knows, next it'll be blame the masses ...

I'd rather be a "weak" man than end up with a wh.ore ...

guobe:
Will you tell this statement to your sister to run her life the way she likes or your daughter?
Guy let's call a spade a spade.

I will tell this to any adult in my life regardless of who they are to me ...

toujurs:
Do you know how often regina, buy ky jelly to lubricate her kepkus, because ned nwoko face can't make her feel wet.

And you know this how? ...

I'll be responsible for a girl's needs when she comes home to do my laundry, clean up my place, wash my plates, etc.

If she can't do any of these things, then it's witchcraft for her to expect me to meet her financial needs ...

I mean, I can't be playing husband roles when she doesn't play wifey roles ..

Since a man's ability to provide is a woman's way of measuring whether or not a man loves her, then she coming to my house to do the above is her proof that she loves me ...

First of...
You left your husband because he cheated on you and you're intending to marry a man who is cheating with you ...

You really are daf.t madam ...

Secondly...
What makes you think he will leave his wife and children for you? ...

I mean, he even introduced you as his house keepers wife ...

Shouldn't that tell you that there's no future between you two? ...

Thirdly...
You have become the very same thing that you hated ...

A side chick ruined your marriage and now you want to ruin the marriage of another woman by sleeping with her husband ...

Women indeed do support women ...

And let's be honest with ourselves, the only reason why you're "confused" is simply because this man isn't based here and have some money to throw around ...

If that wasn't the case, you sure would be decisive about this ...

Let's be real here ...

3 options are human beings and thus they will die after some time, but the 4th option will still be "alive" even after hours have passed ...

So in essence, I'll save my daughter (one living being) and then go after the money ...

I don't care whether or not a woman cheats tbh ...

As long as I'm not the one bankrolling her and she isn't under my roof, all is good ...

My question here is, why would a man know that his wife is cheating and still decides to share a roof with her? ...

At this stage of my life, I have long stopped caring where or who an advice comes from ...

The bone of contention here is, does the advice work? .... If it works, then even if the advice comes from the mouth of a child, then I'm all for it ...

MzansiCoolio:
How do you celebrate one country's goal with a song from a rival country at the tournament?

Nigerians supporting this disrespectful measure by CAF have mountain goat brains 🇳🇬👎🏾

I'm a Nigerian, but I agree with you TOTALLY ...

It's indeed an insult to SA that another nations song was played instead of theirs in the course of their celebration ...

All those who are supporting this will cry foul if the reverse were the case ...

CAF didn't do well in this regard 👎

drimzsmoke:
What you people here see as redpillers, I see as the long term effects of maternal deprivation. You can do well to read about it, then come back and let's discuss the whole redpill ideology!!!

"You people"? ...

I think you've got me mistaken with someone else ...

When you get your facts straight then maybe I'll make out time for a conversation ...

drimzsmoke:
The above is why you hate women, you lacked a mother's care and love. It's written all over your posts!!!

That's petty ...

The only reason why the wife is acting this way is simply because of two reasons:

1. She can't cook the food that her husband seems to like ...

2. Her hubby loves the cooking of another woman & she can't stand it ...

The wife is just insecure ...
A strong warning who have sufficed and then a repeat can then trigger this radical action ...

The hubby on the other hand did right by telling his wife that her friend brought food to his office - seems like a transparent man who loves his wife ...

The said friend may not have had any ill intentions towards her friend ...

I mean, if you give me 100k after tasting my cooking, you best be sure that I'll use part of that money to fix you the same meal that you loved ...

It's no big deal, it's just my way of showing appreciation ...

It won't be a problem if I have access to the account so I can monetize it and all ...

Anything outside that and I'm gone ...

All this only holds true when it's the man who is cheating ...

When he cheats on you, have open communication and seek professional help to see how you can move on ...

But once a woman cheats on you, KICK HER OUTTA YOUR LIFE IMMEDIATELY! ...

omaira:
Truth to be told, i made a great mistake being responsible for her bills. But here is my reason for doing that.

Once upon a time, i was so broke that i lived in the streets of lagos with no place of my own. During this time all i needed was a little support from anyone while i struggle to get my feet on the ground.

So when i met this girl, although she looks so pretty but her family background is nothing to write about. I did not look down on her but rather i decided to give her a helping hand with hopes that she will be able to resolve her family’s financial crisis. I just placed myself in her shoes and thinking of how a little help could make me cause a turn around in my family, i believed she will do same. But rather i realised she just wanted to open office in my head.

She no wan hustle make her own, she just want make i hustle dey bring for her.

When will people realize that men and women are not the same! ...

When a man is at his lowest point, more often than not, he will put his brain to work ...

But when a woman is at her lowest point, she will spread her legs like rumor in hopes of tying down one maga ...

For your sanity, kick her out of your life! ...
No amount of "free nacks" is worth risking your mental well-being for, cause that girl will drain the life outta you ...

OP, you've made lots of mistakes ...

First of all, YOU NEVER TAKE BACK A CHEATING WOMAN ...

Once a woman cheats on you, let her go! ...

What kind of man even takes back a woman who has cheated on him repeatedly?? ...

I guess only a "real man" can ...

Secondly, why on earth would you accept to be 100% responsible for the bills of a girl that you're not married to? ...

In your mind, you think "You're a real man" but the reality of things is that you're creating room for laziness and entitlement ...

In summary OP, you're not a "si.mp" ...
Cause calling you that would be an insult to si.mps out there ...

When I see lots of people come online to support this current administration, I can't help but laugh at their naivity ...

First of, even a blind man has seen that this administration is the worse administration ever in the history of democracy! ...

In no administration have the common man suffered more than this, ever in the history of Nigeria ...

Infact this administration makes the former president look like a saint ...

But still, some folks will come online and defend the people that don't give 2f.ucks about them, but las las, the heat dey touch everybody ...