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thomas2024:
You shouldn't have done business with them by the way, you should have swallowed your pride.

"Even a fo.ol is considered wise when he keeps quiet" your post just reminded me of this quote ...

Whilst I understand your POV, I don't fully agree with it.

Partnership isn't just about finances alone - it's more than that ...

I see Partnership as any arrangement that is equally beneficial to the partners involved ...

When it comes to marriage, men and women expect different things from each other...

Men and women GIVE different things to each other...

The issue here is that one partner feels the other partner isn't doing enough...

One partner feels that they're the only one carrying the burden while the other just laze around all day ...

As long as both partners are giving their best (100/100 just like you pointed out) for mutual benefits, then that's partnership ...

One thing marriage has taught me over the years is that, sometimes I have a 100 to give and my partner doesn't have a 100 to give, other times, I have 1 to give and my partner has a 100 to give...

What matters is that we have each other's back when the other is down and we give each other our best ...

Whether or not she has given her life to Christ doesn't change the fact that she isn't good enough to wife up by MY STANDARDS ...

I can't marry her even if she was the only woman in the world ...

I would turn in my grav.e if I hear that any of my sons got married to a woman like that ...

This is not because I ha.te her or that I'm judging her, IT'S JUST PREFERENCE ...

A woman with that kind of past is a walking RED BANNER!! ...

If any man looks at her and feels he can wife her up, then that's fine ...

If an ex-w.hore is the best he can do, then so be it - I respect that, but not me ...

Old things are passed away, na for God eye o, no be for human being eye ...

So if you think that you can live a reckless life in your past and expect to be exempted from such consequences, then you're mistaken!

Actions have consequences, and the sooner we realize that, the better for us all ...

I wish her good luck though ...

When you have built a multi-billion dollar conglomerate, you'll want to pass it down to your children ...

And so, in many ways, you would prepare them so that some day when you're no more, they can take over from you ...

I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH THIS ...

They don't have to like what they do, but atleast they won't be broke ...

Eat the lady?
As in, give her head? ..

Lol...
He prolly doesn't want to die young ...
I mean, she could be "fishy" down there ...

Also, if she has decided to cheat, then let her own it with her full chest and stop giving excuses for her intending wh.oredom ...

As gotten the man, let him see a doctor asap. Low sperm count is something that can be dealt with for the most part ...

Ask yourself, will a man who has that much in his account even consider her? ...

Will she be able to breathe the same air as a man who has that much in his account? ...

If you knew the answer to this, you wouldn't even fall for this childish attempt at getting you revved up ...

Think9ja:
Please, tell me how I can learn for free on Coursera

Go to your Google and type "free Coursera courses", open the 3rd coursera link that pops up (it's third on mine, it may be first on yours) ...

Then choose from the list of over 2000 courses that is available. You'll need to sign in with your email though ...

I've said this before and I'll say it again: women, stop denying your husband s.ex ...

Men, if she consistently denies you s.ex for flimsy reasons that doesn't hold water, leave her! ...

Marriage isn't dating where women will be doing shakara with their bodies ...

As a man, whether or not it's comfortable for you, you must perform your role as a man! ...

But women do not understand that it is irresponsible to neglect their duties as a woman and because men tolerate it, it has led to this ...

The more we keep getting the government involved in marriages, the more that sacred institution becomes useless and not worth it ...

Women stop denying your husbands s.ex, it's wickedness and men if she consistently denies you s.ex for flimsy reasons that doesn't hold water, dump her! ...

brain54:
If it's indeed yours...

Then do the right thing. Not for her sake but the blood - your blood, she carries.

Who knows if it was her "hormones talking" pregnant women are known to act erratically or irrationally sometimes.

Don't punish her with the pregnancy especially if you know she can't afford to "take care" of it herself!

Here we go again making excuses for women's bad behavior ...

Why don't this "hormones talk" when she's at a military check point or direct this energy towards her boss at the office? ...

Why are women able to keep themselves in check around certain people but yet rant like headless chicken to others? ...

It's simply because they know that around certain people like you, their fo.olishness would be tolerated and folks like you, will make excuses for them ...

Pregnant or not, verbal abuse (abuse of any kind) is a choice! And should not be tolerated ...

@OP...
Unblock her and if you find out that the child is yours, don't abandon that child ...

You don't have to marry her, God forbid you do, but then, you do have to take responsibility for your child - IF it is yours ...

2cribz:
Turkey,south africa,i for say ghana,but no try am..go europe alaye

Someone who has money to go to Europe wouldn't open this kind of thread ...

Goodplace:
Is it not money that they pay to learn any skill...be reasonable

You can learn anything for free on YouTube, Coursera, udemy and the likes ...

Though paying to learn, will give you a more streamlined approach ...

However, when funds is an issue, YouTube and Google should be your best friend if you want to learn any skill ...

And even if you pay to learn sef, you still need YouTube and the likes to get better ...

I wonder how men can put up with a disrespectful woman ...

Cause I, for one, wouldn't even consider breathing the same air with a woman who talks to me this way ...

Don't call her again ...

If she doesn't call you back, then fash that farce you call a relationship ...

And don't listen to anyone who will tell you, "Just apologize for peace to reign", that's premium BS ...

You already pre-informed her of the happenings of that outing, but still she decided to follow you regardless ...

Since she couldn't respect you, then she's not worth being with ...

Nairaland men boys and single mothers, when will this fight end? ...

Whilst I would never marry a girl who isn't a virgin, talk more of a single mother, I won't talk down on them ...

They are humans, too, who deserve a chance at love. And just like every female, they have the right to set standards to ensure the same mistake doesn't happen twice ...

I know y'all don't want single mothers, agreed, but be mature enough not to throw insults at single mothers ...

You can state your preference without spitting venom at people. Make wuna try grow up abeg ...

It's simply because the majority of women are incapable of competing on an even playing field with men, and so they have to lower the bar to bring them in ...

They have carve out or reserve some slots just for females. Cause if they allow it open to all and sundry, men will beat them hands down 99% of the time ...

Think of it: look up the criteria for a man in the US Army and that of a woman; the gap is huge!!! ...

Even in ALX SE, I believe cohort 15 was just for females; no male could apply, and when I saw what those girls were given, it wasn't as strict as the general cohort; their timing was lax! ...

Look up the number of female pilots in Nigeria compared to males, you think it's because women don't apply? Lol ...

But because they all fail by the wayside and the number of females that scale through as compared to males is inconsequential ...

This is why women who enter an even playing field and outshine men will always have my respect, but for the rest nahhhh ...

The truth is that amongst women, mediocrity is celebrated! There is no burden of performance and so they're in many ways super laid back and lazy to do anything ...

But kudos to them sha...
Atleast these ones are making waves in their sector, even though it has been skewed in their favour ...

Whilst I understand that the average modern woman has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to offer a man, it doesn't change the fact that they are women of substance who will literally make a man's life feel like heaven on earth ...

Getting married to such a woman is the best thing that can ever happen to any man ...

So don't condemn the institution of marriage simply because majority of the females are utterly useless, cause not all of em are the same ...

Im summary, dig a little deeper and don't settle for dirt till you get the gem ...

Wait o ...

Y'all still have your exes number? ...

Whilst I support Trump, I don't think his approach on this matter is the way to go about it ...

Russia is no pushover

And even if Russia wanted to comply to give the US some face: with these threats, Russia would most likely not back down to save face in the international marketplace ...

I'm afraid if he continues like this, he will escalate things before it ever gets better ...

Sulaizio1:
Really, provide evidence that religion support all these things that you have listed out. i don't get why people focus so much on the differences of Islam and Christianity and fails to recognize and the similarities, Islam is the only non Christian faith that make believing in Jesus(PBUH) an article of faith, the bible talks about Abraham, David, Solomon, Joseph, Moses, in the Quran they are known as Ibrahim, Dawud, Yusuf and Musa (PBUT) , both religion preached peace and love for neighbours, u might not be able to read the Quran, we have AI now, Ask Chatgpt if the Qur'an is in support of all this vices you listed, be informed bro, don't just act, question what seem obvious and remove yourself from familiar experiences, May God guide you.

It's seems you're the one who is not informed "bro" ...

Anyways, I followed your advice and asked ChatGPT to tell me the top 10 terrorist organizations in the world and here's what it gave me

For your research on terrorist organizations, here is a list of ten prominent groups, along with brief descriptions:

1. Al-Qaeda: Established in 1988 by Osama bin Laden, Al-Qaeda is a global militant Sunni Islamist organization responsible for numerous attacks, including the September 11, 2001, attacks in the United States.

2. Islamic State of Iraq and the Levant (ISIL/ISIS): Originating as an offshoot of Al-Qaeda in Iraq, ISIS gained notoriety for its rapid territorial gains in Iraq and Syria around 2014, employing extreme violence and propaganda to establish a self-declared caliphate.

3. Taliban: Formed in the early 1990s, the Taliban is a Sunni Islamic fundamentalist political movement and military organization in Afghanistan, known for enforcing strict Sharia law during its rule from 1996 to 2001 and regaining control in 2021.

4. Boko Haram: Based in northeastern Nigeria, Boko Haram was founded in 2002 and has since engaged in armed insurgency, aiming to establish an Islamic state and opposing Western education and culture.

5. Al-Shabaab: An extremist group based in Somalia, Al-Shabaab emerged in 2006 and has conducted numerous attacks in East Africa, seeking to implement its strict interpretation of Sharia law.

6. Lashkar-e-Taiba (LeT): Founded in the late 1980s in Pakistan, LeT is a militant Islamist organization responsible for major attacks, including the 2008 Mumbai attacks in India.

7. Hamas: Established in 1987 during the First Intifada, Hamas is a Palestinian Sunni-Islamic fundamentalist organization with a social service wing and a military wing, known for its conflict with Israel.

8. Hezbollah: Formed in 1982 in Lebanon, Hezbollah is a Shiite Islamist political and militant group, involved in various conflicts in the Middle East and designated as a terrorist organization by several countries.

9. Jaish-e-Mohammed (JeM): Founded in 2000 in Pakistan, JeM is a Deobandi jihadist group primarily operating in Kashmir, responsible for several high-profile attacks in India.

10. Abu Sayyaf Group (ASG): Established in the early 1990s in the Philippines, ASG is known for kidnappings, bombings, and assassinations, aiming to establish an independent Islamic state in the region.

For comprehensive information, the U.S. Department of State maintains a list of Foreign Terrorist Organizations, which includes detailed profiles of these and other groups.

Please note that the status and activity of these organizations can change over time, so it's advisable to consult the latest reports and official sources for the most current information.

Tell me how many of them are not Islamic ...
Isn't this proof that Islam is synonymous with terrorism? ...

For the record, I would rather use Google than use AI, but since you want AI information, there you have it ...

Secondly, look around you and see how many children are married off to alhaji's, tell me that isn't Islam? ...

Paedophiles are the order of the day in that religion and that is FACTUAL! ...

Thirdly, infidels are mandated to be kil.led in islam, oga do your research on Google and see how many people have been kil.led simply because they either left Islam or they refused to acknowledge allah ...

Honestly man, you need to research before coming on people's mention to say things you're ignorant of ...

When the real thing now happens, the person r.aped won't get justice, simply because fo.olish beast in human form (such as this lady) has so falsely accused innocent men so much so that the real deal is taken with a pinch of salt ...

Indeed we are free in Christ Jesus!

Unlike a certain religion that thinks of women as inferior and does all it can to subjugate them ...

A religion that sees nothing wrong in k.illing people who don't believe in their fo.olishness ...

A religion filled with paedoph.iles who go about rap.ing and killing people ...

A religion whose second name is terrorism ...

Very useless religion that has long outlived it's usefulness ...

I would recommend CPL MARKETING, it's a relatively unsaturated area (as compared to the other market of other skill sets) and because of that, it's easy for beginners to start earning within 21 - 90 days ...

Just get yourself a course on the matter, apply vigorously and start earning ...

If you need help on the matter (getting the course), send a mail and I'll direct you on how to get started ...

Ghostwriting is also a great place to start too ...

I've seen and heard first-hand too many stories of "he raped me" that turned out to be lies aimed at ruining an innocent man's reputation ...

And on account of that, unless a woman can present concrete evidence of rape, I take whatever she spews out of her mouth as I would a spec of dust ...

This does not mean, there aren't men who abuse women, but then, if women weren't so quick to take advantage of the pains of other women for their own selfish reasons, then may, just maybe, the issue of rape will be taken a little more serious than it is now ...

Whilst it is true that the majority of the modern-day woman is a parasite with absolutely nothing to offer, the reality of the matter is that, there are exceptions to every rule ...

Find that exception (however rare and difficult it may be) and threads like this won't be commonplace ...

And besides sef, most modern-day men no really comot road like that, let's be real here ...

It's funny how the preferences of a man in a woman are always painted as "evil" or demeaned in some way ...

So because men don't want single mothers, it now translates to "hatred"? ...

I guess women who want rich men, "hate" broke men ...

Or women who want tall men, "hate" short men ...

Or women who love dark guys, "hate" fair guys ...

Maybe y'all females should look up the word "preference" ...

And my take on single mothers?
Let them go and hook up with the man who got them pregnant ...

I mean, if he's good enough to open your legs for, then he should be good enough to raise the child both of you made ...

Or better still, find yourself a single father and stop crying online that men hate you when you simply don't meet the standards of men ...

When we learn to do a simple Google search, we will save ourselves from the embarrassment of arguing with facts and looking stu.pid ...

The reality of the matter is that the OP is right. Well over 85% of men use their wives as NOK (some sites put it at 90%, just like the OP said) ...

But far less than 20% of women use their husbands as NOK ...

Why this is true is dependent on a lot of factors of which "selfishness of the woman" is a part of it ...

One thing I know for certainty is that, if I ever discover that my wife used anyone else as NOK asides me or the kids, I will remove all her names from all the properties she didn't contribute to and from my will ...

I cannot be putting you first by thinking of your well-being after my demise and you're not reciprocating, not at all ...

Since women think it's alright to use their siblings and parents as NOK, then I think it's high time men do the same ...

I wouldn't want to be anyone's second option ...

If I'm not your first and only, then you and I can never be together ...

I'd rather die single than hook up with a woman who turned me down in times past ...

Let the man you left me for because you thought he was better commit to you ...

I'm not in the habit of settling for crumbs or cleaning up the mess made by another man ...

Women, in general, are attention junkies; everything they do is to gain attention. So I'm not surprised ...