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the good thing out of all this is that I ate his wedding rice twice[/quote]hahahahahahahaha, Ole

Mariojane:
it is actually a joke. no skeleton in my wardrobe(u can check to confirm ) nd i am not d lady. i don't behave like dat and i will neva try it.

Glad to know you ain't that way. And yes, I knew you were joking.

#pats her on the back#

Mariojane:
okay no more argument since u get tired of it easily. you sound like som1 with a broken hrt.

hahahaha, I take that to be a joke but my dear, the joke is on you!

You sound like you've done same thing before, or are you the lady in question?

adahib:
I commend you for trying so hard to get your point across but believe me,people like the poster you quoted will always argue probably because they believe they are better humans and see things more logically than the rest of us . Believe me,all the people advocating for dialogue,forgiveness and all what not will be the first to throw out caution and common sense when faced with a similar scenario.

@OP,my reflex response would be to call off the wedding,but after thinking about it,that would still be my decision because no amount of explanation,apology or emotional blackmail would make me continue with the wedding/marriage. Agreed,we are not saints,neither are we holy but for goodness sake,where is the love,where is the loyalty? Let's call a spade a spade. That woman doesn't deserve to be married.....

Thank you (for getting my point more succinctly).

Mariojane:
even if you wont marry her u can still dialogue with her. ask her y she did it. y she was UNFAITHFUL? maybe her reason might b something u can learn to avoid in your next relationship

hmm... I don't even know what to say to you again. I get tired of argument easily. But I want you to know you're not being logical or objective in your analysis at all. Will talking things over erase the fact that the abortion took place a few days to our supposed wedding? Ladies are the biggest advocate of the "no sex before marriage" campaign, and for you to have had a guy who willingly agreed to this, you still went ahead to be sleeping with another guy behind his back?! What more could the lady have asked for? What more could the guy have done?
Please my dear, let's take sentiments away and embrace objectivism!
Thanks for your time, as I humbly rest my case!

Mariojane:
does her having an abortion makes u unhappy? what if she is a lady with gud morale and character? most (not all)of u guys at one time or the oda had compel a lady or two to abort pregnancy. is it not a guy dt will marry d lady that aborted for u? i believe u need to have a serious discussion with her. there is alwayz a reason to every action.
the doctor was very wrong he wasnt suppose to disclose such information to his patient patner without her permission.

mistakes do happen. if you are breaking off with her u shud remember that u will get female children and they might make d same mistake. what will u do if ur in-law-to-be breakup cos of that.(am not wishing u such but just put urself in the girl's shoe).

You seem not to get the (huge) point here. The abortion was discovered to have taken place a few days to our wedding, and another thing is, I wasn't sleeping with her - which means I must have agreed to/with the "no sex before marriage" slogan! UNFAITHFULNESS is involved [in it all] as well Ma/Sir!
It also simply means I'm the FOOL here! Please dear friend, in this case, I DON'T TALK [things over] or COMMUNICATE!!

I rest my case!

make I book space first before I even read..

Ok, the answer's simple: I will first of all thank the doctor (for forever delivering me from a forever trap), and second of all, I WILL CALL OFF THE WEDDING and cut all ties with the lady!!


Who cares what people would say or do? It is MY HAPPINESS we're talking about here, like seriously!
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I am Otis!

oh God! So this man finally passed on! I've never been so touched in my life, not even when my dad died.

May you forever REST IN PERFECT PEACE!
And to you, the lady, Caracta, and also you, Jane (can't remember the full moniker), God will never ever stop blessing and keeping you ladies, Amen!

God bless Nairaland, and God bless you, Seun Osewa, and God bless (all) Nairalanders!! Amen!

Hmm...

Some good news right there.

Well, I have.
Just because I'm shy to approach a lady doesn't mean I don't have my own taste and 'spec.' So I turned down a few.

Good for him. Happy married life (in advance) to him.

SELENAqueensy:
Op, I think a normal guy will find this romantic

But guys una sabi complain o..
If she wear cloth now, u will still say my g.f covers her body too much, she won't let me go there, b4 I was 170 but now m weighing 300

diddydiva:
what's romantic in this?


smh

Honestly I tire o..

searching4love:
Sorry for the way i abused u either. I was pained. Peace be unto you

Thank you.

searching4love:
Stop using religious blackmail u idiot. How can you just label me a scammer on a public forum. Have i scammed u before? Dont you know everyone comes here seeking help to various problems? What did is a dent and stain to me. You should apologize instead

It wasn't my intent. Apologies, please.

searching4love:
You are a fool and perhaps a demented fellow. Check my profile and read my threads. You think everyone is like you Hopeless bastard

May God bless you and help you to succeed in all your ways, Amen!

mifavour:



I see you

Oya remove me from the list quick quick biko.

This guy has been posting this on almost every thread, just to get sympathy. And I assure you, people, he's a scam! Nairaland ladies, please BEWARE!

searching4love:
Going by the trend of cheating mostly found among the female folks especially Nigerian girls, one begins to wonder if there is still hope for we the unmarried men. Where are the women of virtue and dignity why has promiscuity become a norm and way of life among our ladies Are there still good women out there Are there still ladies who stick to just one guy irrespective of your financial situation?


I have been scammed and taken for granted by ladies who took advantage of the love and care i had for them. It saddens me to know that most Nigerian men have the same story to tell about our females. How and where can one really find the love of one's life in this our immorality filled society?
Your opinions are needed

Hmmm.. They just wanna be 'famous' and not necessarily for the money.

Though, they would still 'steal' when they get there sha. Money nor dey ever reach dem.
Please disabuse your mind from thinking these guys are going to effect any "change" cuz I promise you, they wouldn't!

I'm sure Chidimma was climbing (on top of) something, to meet up to Flavour (in that kissing position).

A pretty girl that would be "cooking for me?" Na wa o. Bros, you mean you need a Maid?


And also, are you equally handsome? Cuz if you're not, then you have no moral justification whatsoever to "demand" for a pretty lady.


#no offence meant, please.

Let me ... I bin think sey I know am, but unfortunately, I nor know am...
Maths dribbling me since early 2000s

Vicotex:
If una like make una show me the inside of buhari daughters vagina, I won't still vote for him.

#GEJtill buhari rephrases his speeches

Bro, don't you think that was a little too 'raw' please?

xpac01:
Nitori Oloun! Please interpret bro.

It's just a form of exclamation in Yoruba, meaning: For Christ's sakes, or better still, 'for God's sakes'
Just like when you scream, 'Jesus!' Hope you get it now, bro?

xpac01:
A cute thick lady with moderate stretch marks, mild body odour. . . my strange turn on.

Funny enough, I love seeing stretch marks on a lady; especially, like you rightly said, moderate.
But as for the others you listed, all I can say is, NITORI OLOUN!

It is expected. So I don't see this as news-worthy.

Haa! Nkan be!

SkinnyDude:
maybe you dey stammer?
your mum go get better wife for you.

Lol. I don't have any impairment of any kind, Sir. I'm actually a perfectly normal guy. And as for my mum, she sees me as one of the most decent boys in the entire state, cuz she's never really seen me with any lady in the name of a girlfriend before. But unknown to her, her dear son nor just get liver at all, lol.

SkinnyDude:
mature man like you. young guys like us dey shame to face women, you too dey shame

Honestly I dey shame bcuz of am, but wetin man go do na?

I always like the way this Farooq guy writes - though I'm not so much interested in what he's saying most times.

Bro, perhaps you should go catch some sleep, please. Cuz it's late already.