₦airaland Forum

HARDDON:
What correlation has light with darkness?
What a confused family!

It is expressly stated in the Bible: be not unequally Yoked with unblivas.....

Religious Extremism has caused more harm to the world than Religion itself.
I leave you to yours!

babyosisi:
How many have you seen where the woman is Muslim NAND the man is Christian
Allah forbids a Muslim woman marrying a Christian man
He only allows Muslim men marrying Christian women not because he loves Christianity bit because he expects the woman to change to her husband's religion in order words it is victory over her Christianity
He is also expected to raise his kids as a muslim
Yoruba a muslims are tolerant ,what Mrs fashola described is the reason a Hausa Muslims see them as weak Muslims
In all their tolerance,you will not see a Yoruba practicing Muslim man give out his Muslim daughter to a Christian man for marriage
That is sin to him
People should tell the truth

Well, I have seen and witness one. My brother's landlord's oldest daughter is married to a Christian. They got married in 2012, though they had what they called the 'Nikai' and also the court wedding at the Ikoyi Registry.
But guess what? My immediate older brother who had this same woman as his landlady is now MARRIED to the woman's last daughter. It all happened last year and they have a son already.
The woman's husband (landlord) would have been the only hindrance, cuz the man nor just send Christianity at all, but when some Alfas and Imams intervened, he had to 'mellow.'
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That shows you the kind of family I'm from: one of the MOST liberal family you can possibly think of.
And my mama na strong Deeper Life woman/member o... lol

OkikiOluwa1:
Religious tolerance is something I admire abt Yoruba people...

I tell you. They have it in abundance, above every other tribe.

okpanachil:
You see you are actually talking about two different things,friendship is different from marriage.In your own experience,how many of such successful marriages have you seen? They are very much in the least and if you are able to succeed,it will just be one added to the number.I repeat no serious/devoted muslim will give her daughters hand in marriage to a christian although they would encourage their sons to marry christian ladies.

You said you've lived among them, meaning you understood them better(?) I was actually speaking in regards to that point - to let you know that I have equally lived among them and that I also understand them and not just talking for talking sake.
Yes, I have seen a successful Christian-Muslim marriage, not just from afar or on the pages of newspapers. Apart from my secondary school friend's parents' example, my older sister [of the same parents] is successfully married to a Muslim from Osun State. They have been married since 2002 (13 years) with 3 kids (all boys).
Hope you happy now?

Juzzybabe:
Its romance!!! Doesn't mean he/she is avoiding the kitchen,its just for fun,some of the things that keeps a home happier. Not gun and knife in the real sense as u think.

hahahaha... my bad.

UncleJudax:
I gbadun your positivity. Just try and make a name for yourself, and watch the issue of religion intolerance and/or incompatibility go to the backburner.
Keep in mind that some people will put their feet down. In that case, just walk

Thank you.

okpanachil:
Guy no deceive yourself except the parents are very liberal.It can only work if the man is the muslim and the woman is the christian.Muslims will never give the hand of their daughter to a kafri in marriage except if the girl herself was already a christian before you met like Fasholas kids if not you go old on top that your ambition.I have lived among them for years

Thank you for your adtice. It was duly noted!
But my brother, I, Otis, have equally lived and still live among them till date. My best friend is a Muslim and his name is Yusuf and we have been friends for 10 years now ; 2005 -( 2015)to be precise.

contactmorak:
most times, parents/families are the issue. I was once so in love with a lady and she loved me equally, but the parents who are stunch muslims insisted we go our seperate ways. She cried and cried. I felt terrible too for months.

You're right. I had a similar experience. Though we were still young and in secondary school, SS3 to be exact.
Her mum, a Ghanaian Muslim and her dad a Nigerian Muslim from Kano.
They threatened to kill her or take her to Ghana if ever seen with me again. Well, that has NOT deterred me from following/nursing my dream till this day.
I want to prove to people (and my family/friends), that tolerating and accepting each other's religion and tribes (in totality) is not only POSSIBLE but way way ATTAINABLE!
So help me God!

contactmorak:
good! U are just one of those few Nigerians who have emanticipated their minds from religion bigotry. Keep it up bro!

Thanks bro. I sure will, cuz it's been a long time passion and dream for me.

Now I see why people actually like me; especially my sisters and mum.

I have always loved and admired religion tolerance. And I've always prayed and wished for a Muslim lady for a wife.
My friend's parents while I was in Secondary school were my role models and inspiration - married for over 30 years - the man an Imam/Alfa, while the woman a strong Christian women leader in her church.
God please give me a Muslim lady for a wife - she does her thing, I do mine.

Allureoftheseas:
Sorry joor, i mistakenly quote u instead of the op.

Nothing do you.

Allureoftheseas:
Put viewer descretion na shuwo was wrong with you? You just made me throw up, ?

hahahaha... sorry o. But which one come be my own inside na?

Barabbas:
O dear.
Looks more like wild tiget attack

As in eh, no be small thing o.

Gracious me!!
Could this be real or photoshopped?
Please put viewer's discretion next time, biko.

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Sorry, you did put the 'viewer's discretion' Guess I was too confused and terrified by the pic to even notice it.

The pic is even disgusting, to say the least.

papercoin:
Reason for the smilEy

papercoin:
Reason for the smilEy

papercoin:
I lIke the emeka ike part this baba funny sha

Wait o, hope you're not taking it seriously o?
As you can see, it was all a joke.

Mods, please move to the right section - JOKES!

Nothing! That's what you get when you place your confidence/trust in China (made).

I love cooking. I wouldn't even bother her in the first place, and I wouldn't even play the game with her.

Immediately I get back and see the sign, I will just step into the kitchen and do my thing.
Life is too precious to play such risky games.

I am Otis.
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Ok, na toy gun. I go play the game. #winks

blackbee:
Egbeda is an ikwere village in rivers state

Ok. But we equally have an Egbeda in Lagos, please.

Lord have mercy!

yuzedo:
Ahh!!

Have had the most intense crush on Taraji since the movie, Baby Boy (2001).

Since I might never WITHOUT DOUBT WILL NEVER GET THE CHANCE to sniff her kpeks, I think it will be extremely prudent to redirect my attention and affection to Ms. Akindele.

Yes. When the desirable is unavailable, the available becomes desirable.

Guy, where have you been?

The World has Ended!
hmm!!!

Definitely a South African.

What part of Egbeda, please?

The question is: Must you have a boyfriend (when you know you don't want the sex)?

That's one hell of a fine house.

Is Mohammed Adoke still the Attorney General of Nigeria ? Oh my God! Where have I been?
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I nor even dey current for Naija mata again o, na wa o.

I believe you can help her to [come to] like it.
It could also be she feels pains during sexual intercourse (with you); perhaps you should be more gentle with her and, practice as well as spend more time on pre-intimacy