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PhonesRe: 17 Funny But Thought-provoking Images Of How Smartphones Take Over Our Lives by fairheven: 10:27pm On Jun 07, 2016
hereby switch off my phone ***
CrimeRe: Am Okoh Godwin Am Not A Bokoharam Member by fairheven: 5:43pm On Jun 07, 2016
but why is everybody in a hurry to jet out of nigeria?
why can't you sit down and hustle here?

it is somebody that transformed the place you are seeking to relocate.

sit your but down, if we perish so be it.
TravelRe: 8 Disgusting Habits Displayed By Nigerians When They Return From Abroad by fairheven: 3:39pm On Jun 07, 2016
dammilotun:
I have looked through this post, all I can see is a dangerously low self esteemed. I am flustered at your expectation of people who have tasted the better life to come and adjust to a mediocre way of living and speaking to impress or make you comfortable. This is an emotional blackmail, most people don't hang out with old friends cos of the financial pressure and the way they reason most often than not. I really pray our country come to term with the reality of life enjoyed in the western world,until experienced your opinion of people's behaviours will remained laced with mediocre sentiments
that your "I better pass you" mentality is what the OP is hammering on.
that you have lived abroad and seen better live better life doesn't make you any way better than people down here.

are you suggesting every body should migrate out of nigeria to experience so called "Eldorado?".. since that is not possible, whatever mindset your talking about is your personal "change"
TravelRe: 8 Disgusting Habits Displayed By Nigerians When They Return From Abroad by fairheven: 3:15pm On Jun 07, 2016
don't even mention the ones from UK,they are can be so frustratingly annoying and "first class aka gum"
who needs their money?.. I beg paddle your canoe and let me paddle mine
PoliticsRe: Killers Of Samaila Inusa Arrested In Anambra And Ebonyi by fairheven: 12:33pm On Jun 07, 2016
and when will they fish out the Agatu killers?
FamilyRe: Cobbler And His Wife Welcome Triplets In Uyo, Cry For Help (pics) by fairheven: 4:56pm On Jun 03, 2016
keepingmum:
when will people learn to take responsibility?

You are a cobbler with a housewife and 2 kids. Dont you know what contraception is? You can barely feed those kids yet you are bringing additional mouth to feed ontop food wey no even de sef!!

What height of irresponsibility is this. Now they are seeking external help to raise their children that they CHOOSE to have, knowing they have NO MEANS to raise those children.

Contraception is even cheaper than a pack of pampers and a tin of cerelac. And no one should come and mastorbate under my comments about children open doors for people. What about the first 2 kids? are they not blessings or are they curses?

Please and please, people learn to take responsibility and think things through rather than bringing hardship to children.

A poor man is looking for a son, to inherit wetin na? is your name dangote? Even dangote has ONLY 3 daughters despite his wealth and he stopped there. Bill gates has 1 child, Richard branson has 2 children, Sanusi has 7 children from 3 wives, please what is this man's excuse for breeding more than 2 children.
cheesy but lets thank GOD he didnt run away cool cool
AgricultureRe: Orji Uzor-Kalu's Mega Farm In Abia State To Cost $400m by fairheven: 2:00pm On May 30, 2016
"aku ruo ulo"
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Help!!! My Hubby Needs A Change Of Job Urgently by fairheven: 5:28pm On May 27, 2016
but wht is with having two kids when you both are not financially stable?
CultureRe: Overcoming Inter-tribal Prejudice by fairheven: 5:20pm On May 27, 2016
Chukazu:
tribalism has become a way of life for many young Nigerians who ordinarily should be in the vanguard of love and self respect.

tribalism has eating so dip the fabrics of our core values that one wonders if there anymore salvaging left of our dear nation.

the truth about tribalism is that" none was born tribal "..we all learn it in the process of growth and formation.
put different kids of different tribes in one room, they would play without any tribal inclination such that it is virtually impossible to identify their tribes, but the moment they grow one begins to see traits of tribalism boldly scripted in their actions and behavior.

1.ever wondered what this world would be like if everyone is from your tribe?

2.think of what life would look like, if everyone acts exactly the way you do?...boring to say the least, no wonder the saying that " opposite attracts "
so the beauty of humans is their individual peculiarity.. what attracts me most to people is that they are different from me.
I like to meet folks that would teach me some culture, tradition,and unique lifestyle that am not used to, not the one am already used to,one of the reasons I have decided to marry outside my tribe. our greatest assets is not our oil,or other resources, our most coveted assets is our unique diversity

The greed of parental consent in marriage.

often times when I here that one is been denied parental blessings because of differences in spousal tribe, it is nothing but greed and familiarity ... example,an Igbo parent who doesn't want their daughter marry a Yoruba, would not mind the same daughter marrying lets say.. an American, because they probably wish to gain more and secondly the bitter old familiar grudges of the two tribes.

which makes me ponder..
why do we chose to treat and relate to people based on tribal identify instead on individual character and lifestyle?... God didn't create any tribe in his image, but humans were created in God's image, so my relationship with man is based on his character and not tribe.

no single tribe is more important than the other,and none is inferior to another.. what makes us good or bad is our character.. when God sees me, he doesn't see igbo or Yoruba, rather he sees a "human being, created in His image".. the same way we must see ourselves.
let's not think of ourselves highly than we ought but with equal measures and regards for all.
CultureRe: Overcoming Inter-tribal Prejudice by fairheven: 4:04pm On May 27, 2016
superiority complex is often the case
CultureRe: Overcoming Inter-tribal Prejudice by fairheven: 3:59pm On May 27, 2016
Cutehector:
what abt the traditional customs of the village in whch he/she is marrying from
the willingness of both parties to tolerate matters alot
RomanceRe: Why Is It That Whenever My Boyfriend Wants To Breakup With Me, He Always Calls? by fairheven: 3:56pm On May 27, 2016
mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, why is it that whenever my boyfriend ends things with me, he calls me back in few days to makeup?[/color]
meaning the break up is a regular occurrence, so when last did you guys brake down? undecided
CrimeRe: Student Of Bayero University Commits Suicide (see Her Photo) by fairheven: 3:43pm On May 27, 2016
shamsuRana:
could she have had the thought of it,beforehand?why would she be moving around with an insecticide?
to kill mosquitos of course
PoliticsRe: Ex-militants To Return For Pipeline Protection – FG by fairheven: 10:31am On May 27, 2016
Kastonkastroll:
Haha I like this style. The militants will be left with one another to finish off themselves. That's a smart one from the government.

Mend vs scavengers loading very soon grin whoever gave the government this idea is a brilliant person grin
which smart move..?
the same pple that bomb oil installations are same people they giving contract for protection, can't you see that your FG IS DAFT here?
..remind one of North Korea leader, the man get small dic*k and anytime the "kini" no function wella, he would threaten South Korea with Nuclear weapon cool...so anytime your government vex the militants, they will blow something cool
CareerRe: 20 Quotes To Inspire Great Teamwork. by fairheven: 7:57am On May 27, 2016
good but learn to space your write-up.. makes for easy read


for a team...

"DEADLINE MEANS, IF It crosses The LINE, you are DEAD! angry
CelebritiesRe: Actor Ijebuu Dressed-up Like A Lady In A New Movie by fairheven: 7:51am On May 27, 2016
gbens2000:
this your talk no follow at all
read and digest before quote.

remove a woman's make-up.. the attachment, weave-on, mascara, lipstick, eyeshadow, not to talk of shaving of her natural hair, you see that some women are not even as beautiful as they appear.

on the other hand... make up an average man with same weave-on, attachment, lipstick and the rest, and you see how "beautiful" some men can be

now that has nothing to do with "men transgender" that one is madness
PoliticsRe: Cross River State Garment Factory Ltd About To Be Commissioned (photos) by fairheven: 6:09pm On May 26, 2016
this should be happening in Aba..but we dont have a government yet
FamilyRe: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by fairheven: 3:57pm On May 26, 2016
i personally think marrying from ones tribe is soo so boring ...i should marry someone that would teach me some culture and tradition i dont know not the one i already know.
TravelRe: Two Nigerian Sisters Rescued From The Mediterranean Sea by fairheven: 3:48pm On May 26, 2016
seunny4lif:
Dem don ready to pay 40K Euro abi angry angry
They always thinks 40K Euro na like 40K Naira grin grin grin
This how the journey dey start
She go hustle small for Libya before crossing to Italy then if them Auntie dey France, Belgium or Spain
Now Italy don finish
Na France and Belgium dey now grin grin grin grin
how you you take know all this? undecided undecided
LiteratureRe: These 5 Books Helped Me The Most In Life. Let Me See Yours. By Ilegend by fairheven: 11:51am On May 25, 2016
mine..

1.PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE

2.PILGRIMS PROGRESS

3.CHURCH OF OUR FATHER

4.EIGHT HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE

5.PROFILES OF SUCCESS

6.CRACKING THE DA VINCI CODE

7.29 IRREFUTABLE LAWS OF LEADERSHIP
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CelebritiesRe: Actor Ijebuu Dressed-up Like A Lady In A New Movie by fairheven: 11:14am On May 25, 2016
shows that what makes a man different from a woman is mostly make up
PoliticsRe: We Won’t Fund Your Census - US To Nigeria by fairheven: 6:30pm On May 17, 2016
euromilion:
Even countries that has all that in place,still conduct census,as a matter of fact,we are having census right now in Ireland.
THEY DO ,NOT AS OFTEN AS WE DO
AND THERE IS ACCURACY AN BELIEVE ABILITY
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Regrets Not Privatizing NNPC When He Was President by fairheven: 4:54pm On May 17, 2016
privatizing or selling it to your kings men as you did AFRICAN PETROLEUM to OTEDOLA,NATIONAL OIL cum OANDO to wale TINUBU ,NICON INSURANCE AND AIR NIGERIA TO JIMOH IBRAHIM huh
Foreign AffairsIndia's Modi Photos With Mum Win Twitter. by fairheven(op): 8:07am On May 16, 2016
Twitter users have praised Prime Minister Narendra Modi's decision to post pictures of his mother's first visit to his official residence in Delhi on social media.

Heeraben Modi, who is in her nineties, lives in her family house in a town in Gujarat, Mr Modi's native state.

He tweeted that he "spent quality time with her after a long time".

Mr Modi became prime minister after his BJP party won the general election in May 2014.

"My mother returns to Gujarat. Spent quality time with her after a long time & that too on her 1st visit to RCR [Race Course Road]," Mr Modi tweeted.

Prime Minister Narendra Modi with his mother Hiraba at the 7RCR in New Delhi during the latter's first visit to the PM's residence.

PropertiesRe: Advantages Of Aluminium Roof To Others by fairheven: 7:33am On May 16, 2016
Lanre01:
Lolz... Iffa Hear... OP try DS South Korea Stone Coated roofing Tiles, then U'll knw de Advantages of Stone Coated roofing tiles over Aluminium....

www.nairaland.com/3085335/budget-friendly-price-cost-of-quality-DS-South-korea-Stone-Coated-Roofing-Tiles
and why should we importing such materials over our locally made with attendant capital flight?
PoliticsRe: We Won’t Fund Your Census - US To Nigeria by fairheven: 9:24am On May 11, 2016
having census every ten or five years is a waste of limited resources,instead we should work on proper DATA gathering like birth and death rate ,that way you have a 'one off' census and continue to improve data


the problem is that we have never had an accurate census and probably may never...so long as governor depend on national cake from abuja which usually based on population of a state,they will keep manipulating figures to favor them
TravelRe: Nigerian Appreciates Woman For The Visa To America She Granted Him 32 Years Ago by fairheven: 9:32pm On May 10, 2016
musicwriter:
I have no idea how traveling to the US is such a big achievement to be celebrated 30 years after.
just imagine!

if given same opportunity, an American would curse you after 30 years of misadventures in Nigeria.
EducationRe: Queenate Ibeto On Stage With Obama At Howard University Graduation Ceremony by fairheven: 5:52pm On May 10, 2016
donJ2:
Father lawd! shocked shocked, what amazes me is not even this comment buh d 2 D.dinhos that liked d comment...smh
on point!
that moment when you console yourself, that just one is insane but suddenly realize that Ola Rotimi has written another book.. with the title, "Our wives have gone mad again" undecided
SportsWhy Is NFF Afraid Of Kano Pillars? by fairheven(op): 5:35pm On May 09, 2016
just learnt NFF only fined kano pillars a paltry sum of money and ask them to play two matches behind closed doors.

I even heard the same NFF refused to acknowledge the incident of crowd trouble and violence against visiting Enyimba team, if not for camera evidence.

if we don't have different laws for different people, why were they so had on Giwa fc even to the extent of forcing them to play their match at an away ground?

are they just trying to get even with Chris Giwa?
PoliticsRe: Why Are Northern Highways Better Than Southern Ones? by fairheven: 1:26pm On Apr 30, 2016
apcmustwin:
Before this turns into tribal bashing, we have to understand that the topography of North and South are different. Northern States are not predisposed to erosion and other weathering conditions that destroys road.
i will believe this if only you can convince me that the same scenario applies in other countries of the world,as in the quality of a road in ...let say GHAna ,is determined by topography of the regions?

are we the only country that have north and south?
PoliticsRe: Why Are Northern Highways Better Than Southern Ones? by fairheven: 1:25pm On Apr 30, 2016
apcmustwin:
Before this turns into tribal bashing, we have to understand that the topography of North and South are different. Northern States are not predisposed to erosion and other weathering conditions that destroys road.
i will believe this if only you can convince me that the same scenario applies in other countries of the world,as in the quality of a road in ...let say GHAna ,is determined by topography of the regions?

are we the only country that has north and south?
PoliticsRe: Osun Water Corporation Functioning In Ile-ife (photo) by fairheven: 6:03pm On Apr 29, 2016
in such dirty environment?

I beg enjoy yourself by yourself.

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