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datola:
Hmmm..... Was she supposed to be remanded in prison when preliminaries have not found her guilty. What about if she won the case case. What would be her compensation for the prison experience

This Cyber bulling law supposed not be a criminal lay but civil because it looks like an easy tool in the hand of the highly placed to oppress the downtrodden.

Please, look beyond this Angela case...

Moveittothem:
A story that never happened.

How did he know she wanted equality? Not all women are feminists.

DrMB:
Ever feel like your heart is about to jump out of your chest because of a tiny spider or a long bridge? You aren't just 'scared', there’s actually a name for that. Here are 22 phobias that prove our brains are weirder than we think.
Think you’re fearless? Check this list of 22 phobias and see if you can make it to the end without finding yours.
Be honest: How many of these did you have to Google to make sure they were real? Let me know your 'fear count' in the comments!



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DrMB:
Ever feel like your heart is about to jump out of your chest because of a tiny spider or a long bridge? You aren't just 'scared', there’s actually a name for that. Here are 22 phobias that prove our brains are weirder than we think.
Think you’re fearless? Check this list of 22 phobias and see if you can make it to the end without finding yours.
Be honest: How many of these did you have to Google to make sure they were real? Let me know your 'fear count' in the comments!

You no go fear shark... Abi you wan whine!!



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Ab0bii:
Oga marriage is overrated.
Motivational speakers will send you 6ft beyond easily if you listen to them.

No dey hate my posts abeg, me my problem na money

Tenses:
Where there's no investment there's no risk. That's why it easy for her to walk away. If she was expected to make financial contributions towards the marriage ceremony she would have open up to the man that the marriage will not work so no need to waste money.

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

Fiscus105:
Yes, but different opinions on same topic, meanwhile, only one of such opinion will be true, while rest are not genuine, valid or truth.

For woman to poor in bed, is not a yardstick for fidelity.

Okoroemekah:
i don't believe you.there is no enjoyment in old age.a man suppose to be flexing from his early 20s when you are still very strong and active.i am 50 now and believe me most check engine lights on my body is on.is it at that age you will start flexing ? If you have nothing at 40yrs you have missed a lot sincerely the best part of a man's life is from 20 to 40 that is when you marry.build house.buy car .raise children.but I guess every body is built differently. Some have zero drive and ambition. While some have the mental power to succeed

Mrkc:
I'm in my 40s, single, and jobless. Tired of life

budaatum:
One thing I've learnt is, siblings can assume they all got the same good treatment, when the truth might be that some are not treated as well as some. And though some may claim someone "was well treated as a kid", they don't know how the kid felt about its treatment.

I say the above to add rationality to the actions of this "kid". It is also possible that the kid's action might be irrational, and that he truly was treated well as a kid and now just does not care about his parent's no more, or it can be that his new location has its on hardships that have caused issues for him so his thinking is bent.

If we don't walk in his shoes we'd never know his journey, basically, and any judgement might be ill informed and hasty, and is definitely a "million dollar question", and "life".

Racoon:
See them rationalizing all the atrocious and treasonable activities of these terrorists. No wonder Nigeria is where it is today.

alphonsoolajide:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/11/22/regina-daniels-parties-with-peter-okoye-in-lagos-amid-marriage-crisis-rumours/

Abee79:
It's really worrying to see how sharing so much success online has backfired. When people publicly posted all the secrets about getting visas and buying certificates of sponsorship, it sadly made the UK government notice and tighten their rules. Now, many people who gave up everything to move are stuck and can't stay. It's a tough lesson that sometimes, it's better to be careful about what you share on the internet, because the consequences can affect so many others.

Chilipepper:
Lady shares story of how a friend secretly placed her on a monthly salary when she lost her job.

Jennyclay:
kindly go and warm Eba and eat if you have absolutely nothing to say

I don’t blame you men, i blame this lawless country. If it were to be in the western world the man will be arrested. He has not right to be in full custody of the children

My prayer now is that, the useless husband shouldn’t molest those children, Nigerian men can’t be trusted not even their fathers.

God please intervene

Emmyruns:
JAMB NO LONGER MANDATORY FOR ADMISSION - FG GIVES INSTITUTIONS POWER TO DECIDE USING SSCE RESULTS

The Federal Ministry of Education has announced that the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB) will no longer serve as the primary requirement for gaining admission into Nigerian tertiary institutions.

According to the new directive, universities, polytechnics, and colleges of education will now have the autonomy to determine which candidates to admit based on their Senior School Certificate Examination (SSCE) results or its equivalent.

The Ministry stated that the policy aims to give institutions more flexibility in their admission processes and ensure that deserving candidates are not denied access to higher education.

Kaczynski:
the most reasons for divorce is when a woman no longer love her man or feel anything.


when it comes to nigerian marriage, most men drink alchol and start getting aggressive on their wife , most men dont help out in the house they only care about paying the bills nothing else , most nigerian women go to work and still take care of the house when they come back, 70% of nigerian men stop being romantic to their wife when they clock 50,
tell me whats the last time you gave your wife a back rub or feet, cook dinner for the family,
some nigerian men cant even change their baby pampers or feed their baby.


marriage is about partnership, love and support, its all scratch my back i scratch yours


its sad most nigerian men think money runs the family , tell me why women are divorcing billionailires for guys with nothing but camry lite in his drive way

TheSourcerer:
Can i ask just one honest Question?
how does this affect ypu tbh? or anyone in fact ? would u like it if wpmen tokd ypu what to do woth tour body?
please i genuinely just want to know how ypu reason thats all.

Fiscus105:
What do think can make woman cling to a man in this situation?

. She believes in future.
. She has no option.
. The guy's dick is unforgettable.
. Real and genuine love for the guy
. Charm.

Goodman024:
Hello everyone, good day. I trust you’re all doing well. Please, I really need some matured advice from you people regarding something that has been troubling my mind and could affect my future. I’ll try to be as brief as possible, but I also want to explain well so you can understand me.

So here’s the matter: I’ve been in a relationship with a lady for almost a year now. From the beginning, we had our fair share of challenges, things like poor communication, not being very supportive (all from her end), and some other small issues here and there. But along the line, we both worked through those challenges, grew to understand each other better, and since then things have been going well between us.

In fact, I’ve already introduced her to my family members, and by next month I plan to go and see her people. I’ve been thinking seriously about settling down with her and hopefully making her my wife next year. That’s how far I’ve gone in my mind and plans with this relationship.

But something happened yesterday that broke me badly, and it’s the reason I’m here asking for advice. I recently found out that she lied to me about her health condition. To give context, some months ago, she was diagnosed with fibroid. I have been supportive since then, reassured her, and made her know that whatever happens, we’re in this together. But what really pained me is that I later discovered she has actually known about this fibroid since over a year ago, long before she even told me, but she kept it from me until recently.

As if that wasn’t enough, I also got to know that she has had two abortions in the past. And please, I’m not just assuming or accusing her wrongly, I have proof of everything I’m saying. Honestly, this revelation has really hit me hard, and I’m just confused about what step to take from here.

The truth is, I genuinely love this lady. But at the same time, my heart is heavy with a lot of thoughts. Should I let go of this relationship because of the lies and past secrets? Should I forgive her and move on, considering the fact that everyone has a past? Or should I take another approach?

I don’t want to make the wrong decision that I will regret later in life, that’s why I’ve come here for guidance. Please, advise me like a brother, or even as a son. I really need matured opinions on this.

Apogee14:
Ok it's a cleaner lady in my building who is commissioned to come every two days. She lives three streets away so I know she doesn't have to pay for transport but am sure the cleaner money is very low according to her back then it was like 31k before they did that minimum wage thing. Anyway I make it a point to toss like 1000 into her account like maybe once a week or even more. It just depends because some times I chop chin for like 2 weeks before giving her. Anyway so I decided instead of free money let me get her to do something small for me once in a while. I pile up my trash just at the side of my apartment before I get the chance to take it outside to the dumpster , it's not a lot of trash, like 3 small nylon bags of trash. So I would pay her 1000 just to walk like 40 steps to help me drop it in the dumpster outside. Anyway so the trash has been on the side of my house the past one week and the woman has come twice and she has seen the trash but just ignored it. At the end of the day I would go look and the trash is still there. Is it wrong to expect her to try to help me after all the help I have given her ? I give her food too apart from the money. Is it wrong to expect her to help me without asking ? Because if someone is always generous to me and I know they have paid me twice to help them move the trash outside, I would move it even if they have not asked me . Basically it seems she no send me, she is only interested in money. What do you think ? I dey look her side eyes now. Should I stop giving her or continue ?

Goodmarlian:
Come to think of it,konji is the most powerful force on earth,no matter how disciplined or religious you are you will definitely fall for it as time goes on,no man or woman can stand the test of konji forever.
Are we all now saying our creator is wicked for giving us such a herculean task of enduring the most powerful force on earth until we get married? Infact married is not even guarantee of sexual satisfaction you spouse may even deny you sex and maybe not even find you sexually attractive anymore,more so not everybody will even find a spouse in their lifetime due to certain illness or deformity or other reasons these days I am becoming less religious and more logical because it doesnt answer life deepest questions.

AWONEYAN:
Wow. I have seen it my area.
What a wonder of nature....

Beautiful

womaniser:
We work in the same company but she is upper management although quite young. I'm older than she is.

Ever since we met, we always hang out, go to concerts, restaurant outings and wine tastings etc. We (just both of us) have ended the night in her house on multiple occasions where she makes dinner, and we eat,drink and gist till late into the night. I don't sleep over. She is very free, clutchy but we don't do any romance only hugs etc

But once we're in the office or enroute and we jam, she won't even make eye contact not to talk of greeting. She would stand right to me and talk to other people, when she returns to her office, she then chats in teams or WhatsApp. Annoying!

She's a fun person tbh. Smart, exciting, rich and independent. I'm thinking of cutting her off totally but who knows, she may of help in the future. It's just confusing

Xso666:
Good day everyone, please I will be as brief as possible on this. After my first post here on naira land I was adviced by members of this forum never to bring my family predicament on the internet space as I would not get answer or solution to my problem. Well I made a complain here about my virgin wife who I caught coming back from God knows where with a guy that sells thrift in my area because I went for outside work but unfortunately the work didn’t hold so I had to come back home unexpectedly. My wife denied having an affair with this guy and even swore on her late father grave that she never had anything to do with this guy and that the guy only escorted her from where she went to buy something that evening. Now here comes the big problem as my wife is pregnant and and we went for scan and the date of the pregnancy didn’t match with the last time we had sex because I am a very busy person and I go outside for work. I am confronting my wife now and begging her to tell me who is responsible for this pregnancy but she insisted I am responsible and she has never cheated on me, I didn’t want to take the matter to the village because I was advised not to involve her family members in our relationship for now but honestly I don’t think I can hold it anymore I really love my wife and I don’t know if I am overthinking things or I am doing too much on this. Some weeks ago when she was bathing I quickly went through her phone and I saw a number not saved in her WhatsApp and I went through the conversation and I found out it was a guy she was talking with and this is same girl I have warned never to give her number to anyone I don’t care who the person is but she always have a way of making me feel like I am too in-secured and I end up apologizing to her because I married her a virgin but her high sexual libido is my greatest insecurity as I feel like I might not be enough for her and maybe she might be doing things at my absent as the pregnancy date isn’t matching when last we had sex . Please I need sincere advice on how to go about this issue and please I don’t want insult or abuse as I am not in a right state of mind now.
Help me move to front page so more people can help me contribute to this so I get good and matured answers.

SenatorCharles1:
How else do you handle an aggressive person assaulting everyone around?

CHelena:
Speaking during a livestream with singer Peruzzi, Peller described the amount as outrageous, insisting he does not have the funds to pay. He noted that his rise to fame is recent and questioned the fairness of the demand.

“I just became popular, and now they’re asking me to pay ₦36 million. The government has never supported me, yet they want to tax me heavily. It’s because I’ve been open about my income on social media,” Peller said.

https://blackcelebritymagazine.com/peller-slammed-n36m-tax-by-lagos-state