Goodmarlian: Come to think of it,konji is the most powerful force on earth,no matter how disciplined or religious you are you will definitely fall for it as time goes on,no man or woman can stand the test of konji forever. Are we all now saying our creator is wicked for giving us such a herculean task of enduring the most powerful force on earth until we get married? Infact married is not even guarantee of sexual satisfaction you spouse may even deny you sex and maybe not even find you sexually attractive anymore,more so not everybody will even find a spouse in their lifetime due to certain illness or deformity or other reasons these days I am becoming less religious and more logical because it doesnt answer life deepest questions.
If you were in Joseph's shoe, Portipha's wife would give birth to triplets but Joseph overcame.
If you lived in Pharaoh's palace, his palace maids will be dishing out babies like Maternity ward. But Moses overcame.
Find your divine calling or sexual urge will ruin your life. You have been WARNED!!
womaniser: We work in the same company but she is upper management although quite young. I'm older than she is.
Ever since we met, we always hang out, go to concerts, restaurant outings and wine tastings etc. We (just both of us) have ended the night in her house on multiple occasions where she makes dinner, and we eat,drink and gist till late into the night. I don't sleep over. She is very free, clutchy but we don't do any romance only hugs etc
But once we're in the office or enroute and we jam, she won't even make eye contact not to talk of greeting. She would stand right to me and talk to other people, when she returns to her office, she then chats in teams or WhatsApp. Annoying!
She's a fun person tbh. Smart, exciting, rich and independent. I'm thinking of cutting her off totally but who knows, she may of help in the future. It's just confusing
Respect and do same. If that's her style within work environment, then let it be. I fancy such girls abeg.
Xso666: Good day everyone, please I will be as brief as possible on this. After my first post here on naira land I was adviced by members of this forum never to bring my family predicament on the internet space as I would not get answer or solution to my problem. Well I made a complain here about my virgin wife who I caught coming back from God knows where with a guy that sells thrift in my area because I went for outside work but unfortunately the work didn’t hold so I had to come back home unexpectedly. My wife denied having an affair with this guy and even swore on her late father grave that she never had anything to do with this guy and that the guy only escorted her from where she went to buy something that evening. Now here comes the big problem as my wife is pregnant and and we went for scan and the date of the pregnancy didn’t match with the last time we had sex because I am a very busy person and I go outside for work. I am confronting my wife now and begging her to tell me who is responsible for this pregnancy but she insisted I am responsible and she has never cheated on me, I didn’t want to take the matter to the village because I was advised not to involve her family members in our relationship for now but honestly I don’t think I can hold it anymore I really love my wife and I don’t know if I am overthinking things or I am doing too much on this. Some weeks ago when she was bathing I quickly went through her phone and I saw a number not saved in her WhatsApp and I went through the conversation and I found out it was a guy she was talking with and this is same girl I have warned never to give her number to anyone I don’t care who the person is but she always have a way of making me feel like I am too in-secured and I end up apologizing to her because I married her a virgin but her high sexual libido is my greatest insecurity as I feel like I might not be enough for her and maybe she might be doing things at my absent as the pregnancy date isn’t matching when last we had sex . Please I need sincere advice on how to go about this issue and please I don’t want insult or abuse as I am not in a right state of mind now. Help me move to front page so more people can help me contribute to this so I get good and matured answers.
A woman may have gotten pregnant from the previous sexual intercourse that you had with her without knowing or obvious symptoms. And since your sex is continuous, you may think it was your recent sex that got her pregnant. Where as, you scored a goal long before VAR recognized it.
After a Sexual activity, a man's sperm still stays in a woman's body for extra 5 days before it dissolves and unable to fertilize her egg.
I am not saying you are completely wrong but there's 90% chance is your work and that got sealed.
SenatorCharles1: How else do you handle an aggressive person assaulting everyone around?
You trample upon a person's right through mockery and oppression, also deny her right to explain herself, how else would she react to your military dictative harassment.
CHelena: Speaking during a livestream with singer Peruzzi, Peller described the amount as outrageous, insisting he does not have the funds to pay. He noted that his rise to fame is recent and questioned the fairness of the demand.
“I just became popular, and now they’re asking me to pay ₦36 million. The government has never supported me, yet they want to tax me heavily. It’s because I’ve been open about my income on social media,” Peller said.
SenatorCharles1: You guys should just stop this nonsense about supporting people that lack home training
The so-called dis-comforting lady is a disgrace not just to herself but to her family.
I'm very sure someone in her family would be saying "we've always warned her about this her useless attitude, now she has taken it public"
You are totally wrong. Humanity is always considered first when you handle people. In a saner country, you don't even man handle a murderer in custody from apprehension till court judgement.
Nnamdipapa: So this is a real-life story and it’s currently happening to a friend of mine. I spoke with him today. What will you do if you were in his situation?
John has been dating Lola for the past 10 years, and she was the love of his life. He met her as a virgin. They got married and moved to Canada.
Now, it was very difficult for both of them to get into their respective careers in the new country, and soon the kids started arriving. In five years, they now have three kids. John had to enroll in school while working three jobs just to cope with the expenses. They already bought a home with a mortgage.
At some point, Lola slid into depression and had to start taking antidepressant medications. This meant she couldn’t work, and all the financial burden had to be carried by John alone. To put this relationship in context, John is an Igbo guy while Lola is from the South-West. They met while living together in Ibadan. John is the spirikoko type—always praying—while Lola has grown cold and withdrawn over time.
Because of the bills and John’s three jobs, they didn’t get to spend enough time together as a couple, and they gradually grew apart. John was always away working.
Unknown to John, Lola had started an affair with a Nigerian guy she met at Redeemed Church. They were already sleeping together. Each time John tried to make love to his wife, she would reject his advances. John, sensing something was wrong, confronted her.
She confessed. Yes, she had slept with another man and had lost interest in John and in the marriage.
Remember, they have three kids under five. Lola’s family are here in Canada and they are supporting her in this matter. In her defense, Lola accused John of always working and not having time for her. That was her reason for looking outside for another man’s affection.
Now, John went through her phone and found a search history about “how to accuse and implicate your husband.”
They’ve both been avoiding each other for the past two weeks. John spoke with me for two hours yesterday, crying on the phone and feeling crushed and disappointed. He is already planning to get a new place and move out of their home.
I advised him to file for a divorce.
Who is at fault here, and what would your advice be for John? Remember, this happened in real life.
She is just waiting for him to make a mistake and she will use it against him.
As of now, she has no offence on him cos he is providing and doing 3 jobs to do so. With his discovery about her search history, it won't be easy for him to let go cos he loves and never expected this but truth is that... She has a ticking bomb waiting to explode on him. She will sending him packing and he will also loose his kids when that bomb goes off.
As of now, he has upper hand based on her cheating but even so, she will claim that she was mentally unstable.
The dictum, of the dead, speak no evil (de mortuis nil nisi bonum), speaks to the courtesy expected in interpersonal social relationships and hardly applies to public leaders. If we do not speak ill of brutal dead leaders, history will be written against us. Sometimes it takes the death of an influential figure for us to properly come to terms with their impact on our lives, and it is unfair to impose the burden of silence as virtue on those already victimised. For an especially repressive man like Muhammadu Buhari, who, from Decree 4 to having various laws enacted during his supposedly civilian rule to stifle dissent, we owe it to ourselves to speak. We must not forget that someone was tried for treason for insulting Buhari. While alive, it was illegal to dissent. Now that he is dead, his apologists still want to deem criticisms of him immoral. We cannot all be lotus eaters, sleepwalking through endless cycles of amnesia and unable to be stung into an awakening despite repeated jabs of the truth. When we criticise the dead, it is for the living. The dead cannot hear us. Even while alive, Buhari turned a deaf ear to entreaties anyway. Yet criticising him in death is a moral necessity because what we are actually doing is to confront his cohort of enablers, apologists, irredentists, and lackeys who bleated, “Sai Baba!” as Buhari eroded our national will. They are the ones quoting poorly interpreted Latin maxims because they need us to forget their role in the Buhari administration. When we speak ill of the dead, we are also confronting his successors, who continue to rule as if there is no tomorrow. If the dead body of Buhari does not humble them, why should we, the people, be the ones to reflect on the meaning of death just because a bloody tyrant died? Our leaders need to hear our unfiltered thoughts about their dead peer so they will know that they cannot force their legacy merely by naming every public monument after themselves. And yes, we must also speak ill of the dead to redress the future. When a society has been subjected to repeated assaults such as the one Buhari inflicted, it is necessary to reassert the baseline of values he eroded so that future generations know that what he represented in no way constitutes the normative standard of leadership virtues. Buhari lived and died a hypocrite. He demanded that Nigerians live by standards he himself never kept. In 2015, he campaigned on the promise of banning medical tourism but ended up invoicing Nigeria heavily for his medical upkeep. The Nigeria he left behind was one where teaching hospitals went for months without an electricity supply. The only hospital he equipped was the Presidential Clinic in Aso Rock. Nigeria still does not have a single properly functioning public hospital, but a leech like Buhari got the best medical care until his death. When he left office two years ago, Nigeria had the highest maternal mortality in the world and life expectancy was at an all-time low of 53! His failure in health was no different from the low marks he earned in areas such as education, energy, insecurity, transport, and other critical sectors. Public morale was low. The economy dipped into recession. He campaigned on resolve but governed on indecisiveness and compromises. His administration was so incoherent that he must have removed fuel subsidies thrice. This was a man who came into power with such a massive amount of goodwill from Nigerians, expecting new beginnings. Everyone wanted to see what he would do, and if he had pushed himself to make some reforms, he would have received cooperation across a broad generality of Nigerians. Unfortunately, Buhari was the proverbial person who looked lost while the community looked up to him. As soon as he was elected in 2015, he started giving excuses about how old age would affect his performance. This guy ran one, two, three, four times before he finally won, only to realise he was too old for the job! It took him six months to appoint ministers, and when he unveiled the list, it was just a bunch of regular guys. One would have imagined it took him that long because he was putting in strenuous effort to recruit people who had studied the country enough to understand where we should go, but no. He was just an indolent man who thought complex problems could be solved by the mere force of his will rather than a disciplined study of issues and rigorous application of principles. Buhari was a man of whom fate promoted way beyond his mediocre intellectual and moral capacity, and he made no effort to justify the investment of providence in his life. He got to the top echelons of power pretending he was simple and “Spartan” when he was just too slothful to do anything else but just mooch off the country. He had nothing to offer the country in terms of ideas or insights, and acting as if he were self-disciplined and incorruptible was the perfect decoy. He was so steeped in his false virtues that he forgot to turn off the act even when it was no longer necessary. Up until this year, he was still lying about his lifestyle, claiming he lived off the rent he extracted from his tenants. A close acquaintance who worked with Buhari during the 2007 and 2011 campaigns told me the man did not even have a bookshelf in his house. He closed himself off to the world as it swirled around him, and the tide of history turned. Buhari was blissfully unaware of anything, and that was why his mind remained unevolved even as his body aged. Buhari was also a man who was wicked for nothing. He inflicted pain so many times, not because he had any larger end goal he was pursuing, but simply because he derived joy in seeing others suffer. Under his watch, 350 Shiites were massacred, and Buhari said they had it coming. Not only did he let Tukur Buratai, the mastermind, complete his tenure, but he also rewarded him with an ambassadorial position. Under his watch, they killed IPOB and EndSars protesters, but he was never moved by a pain that was not his. He was practically blind to all the havoc caused by terrorist herdsmen, even as they ravaged communities in Benue State. With all the noise he made about anti-corruption, his administration drowned in scandals. Even his wife described his administration as the “citadel of corruption”.
Buhari’s economically enervating policies sapped life out of Nigerians. One of them, the ill-advised naira redesign policy, quenched lives and businesses. Buhari stoutly defended his decision to take that step until it turned out that he did not really care about the outcome that supposedly motivated the policy. That was the same way he closed the borders, not to achieve any economic goal, but simply because he needed to be seen as a tough leader. Now that he is dead, those fortunate to see his back as he exits this world are awash in the delight that the Buhari who thought himself invincible finally submits to the burial mat. While death is a universal fate and no retribution for a man who lived to be 82, there is still some joy to be derived from outliving the person who stole from others’ lives to enrich his own.
Farrason: Although the 1K is practically nothing for the entire family. But where is the encouragement to show that you are there through the tough time and not sweet times alone. The man has to double his hustle and get around people who are progressing in life legitimately.
Sex is both in good and bad times. Not only when the going is good. Husband is also a human being and cold weather is harsh on singles not to talk of a married person weh warmth solution is on same bed.
I will say, that was the moment she would have used to boost and encourage her husband. Most likely, she talked him down and decided to punish him for dropping 1K
Apart from self motivation... Men need wife encouragement and praises to push harder for a better life for their families.
People who have experienced genuine praises from their wife know this....That thing sets you like machine gun!!
StPete: People get stupidly emotional when they read posts like this knowing fully well women can be manipulative.
What concerns 1k with sleeping with him at night if not to use that to emotionally stare the wrong sets of people?
What if that 1k is all the man had and had no nothing for himself to eat?
What does the woman do to contribute to the welfare of the family in these hard times.
Always listen to both parties before u descend heavily on one side especially ye men on this forum. One day, a woman will criticize you and lie against you, and people will judge you bitterly without hearing your own side of the matter
Although the 1K is practically nothing for the entire family. But where is the encouragement to show that you are there through the tough time and not sweet times alone. The man has to double his hustle and get around people who are progressing in life legitimately.
Sex is both in good and bad times. Not only when the going is good. Husband is also a human being and cold weather is harsh on singles not to talk of a married person weh warmth solution is on same bed.
I will say, that was the moment she would have used to boost and encourage her husband. Most likely, she talked him down and decided to punish him for dropping 1K.
ediko5: This morning, i came across a post on facebook. A woman shared that she plans to visit 10 countries this year—and she’s already been to 7.
Out of curiosity, I decided to check the comments. Posts like that usually attract a lot of attention. That’s when I saw a comment that stopped me cold and worried 🤦
This lady named Aniberry Ejike wrote that she hasn’t traveled in 5 years because of her marriage and kids.
She said publicly that marriage is not for someone like her, that the only reason why she’s still married to her husband is because she doesn’t want her kids to grow up without their father or have different dads.
That’s all. That’s her reason for staying in that marriage.
I visited her profile, she has a beautiful family. A husband who seems fully present, and yet, deep down, she’s nursing the idea of walking away—not because her husband failed her, not because he isn’t providing or doing his part—but simply because she wants to travel freely. God🤦
And she said all of this online without f'ear or respect for her husband.
If she can say this in public, imagine what the man is dealing with in private.
Let this sink in: a stranger’s vacation pictures is what is pushing #Aniberry into b'reaking her beautiful home.
We are seriously living in d'angerous times.
Please be careful what you feed your mind. Social media is not worth your peace or your family.
For her to say that she doesn't want her kids having different dads... I perceive she wants to live wild in fulfilling her sexual fantasies while travelling and not minding getting pregnant in the processes.
Obviously... She is gradually strolling out of the marriage. If any man approach that lady with a promise to marry her and take her to France, Spain, etc. she will disappear without a second thought. It's a matter of opportunity.
franchasng: Your presumed friend is suffering from STDs or STIs. Let me break it down for you.
Some STDs, such as chlamydia and gonorrhea, can cause vaginal irritation, which can create pain during sex intercourse.
Another STD that causes pain during sex is genital herpes which causes blisters and sores around the private part and does lead to pain on penetration.
Another STD on this list is vaginitis. Vaginitis refers to any vaginal inflammation, and any form of inflammation around the vagina will definitely lead to pain during sex.
Lastly, urinary tract infection known as UTI can cause pain during penetration.
As for the pain around her abdomen during sex, she should go for thorough test and possible scan to rule out any form of pelvic organ issues.
All the best
How does a woman who has been calibate for a year have STI or STD. Where e pass?
elmagnifico411: I don tire for all these nairaland children.. allow us enjoy people’s story about how Dey found out that their partner was cheating, u guys went ahead dragging postinor 1 and 2, dumb mofos wverywhere! Na postinor Una mate dey drag sey them know?? Hian!!!
Bro thank you. I thought I was the only one that noticed. Them no post comment, just dragging the postinor matter like say na food dey der.
See 5 pages, na postinor matter full am. Really dumb people. They should allow people to gain insight on signs and red flags.
There are some females that are too smart you will never know.
My babe has been living with me since a month now and I do suspect her once in a while cos few things dey go off track some times even though I never see any concrete evidence.
I came home from work stressed one day. We had fun before I slept cos she wanted it, she wanted more but I was too tired to continue. Told her I will be back early to finish the job when I return from work tomorrow but Omo, when the time came, babe say she has abdominal and body pain and no be menstrual pain. I asked how that one came. Shebi you were asking for more yesterday with so much desire. My mind began to wonder, my only thought was that one bad boy don carry out heavy DIGGING on this girl, hence the pain.
Na so I just hold back, now I am looking for excuse to bounce her. But let me ask, na so abdominal pain dey come out of nowhere??
Chilipepper: Mom of Six Reveals her Date’s Reaction after She Told Him about Her Status.
Your status as a mum of 6 didn't turn him off even though he said it wasn't ideal but your manipulation using the man enough language did more damage.
Woman are always known for manipulation... It didn't start today.
Some do it subtly with wisdom, so do it bluntly in ignorance.
All women manipulate but the question is the goal for it. Some women manipulate their men to greatness and some to doom.... Hence he ran for his dear life while his legs carry him.
In a bizarre and unexpected sighting, an elephant seal was spotted wandering through the streets of Gordon’s Bay (Cape Town) on Tuesday morning, nearly a kilometre from the shoreline.
Stunned residents first noticed the massive marine mammal around 6am and quickly began filming the unusual encounter.
Videos and photos online showed the visibly fatigued seal moving slowly along tarred roads, even propping its upper body on a parked vehicle before continuing to galumph forward.
By 8am, officials from the Cape of Good Hope SPCA had arrived at Sir Lowry’s Pass Road, where the animal had settled in a residential area.
Efforts were immediately launched to ensure the seal's safety and eventual relocation.
SPCA spokesperson Belinda Abraham confirmed that inspectors were working to secure the area and develop a safe, low-stress plan to return the elephant seal to its natural habitat.
“This is a rather unexpected visitor,” Abraham said.
“We’re actively working on a safe and stress-free plan to relocate this magnificent marine mammal. Please avoid the area to help us give the seal the space and calm it needs while we carry out the rescue. This is a developing situation, and we’ll keep the public updated.”
One resident, who asked not to be named, said the seal likely made its way inland during the early hours.
“The seal had been busy since early morning. He was around the beach area and then moved closer inland. We often see seals here, but not like this, it’s not an everyday occurrence. This was unusual. The seal was huge!” she said.
“There were a lot of Gordon’s Bay residents at the scene because it was something phenomenal, especially at that time of the morning.”
Despite the growing crowd of onlookers, the animal appeared unbothered, calmly navigating the streets as residents looked on in amazement.
This isn’t the first time a seal has ventured into Cape Town’s suburbs. In December 2022, a female seal was seen crossing the busy Jakes Gerwel Drive near Vangate Mall in Athlone.
That animal was later safely returned to its marine environment by Chief Inspector Jaco Pieterse of the Cape of Good Hope SPCA.
Metordman: political defections and political prostitution for selfish interest are just the goal of greedy politicians. Come 2027 it will be NIGERIANS VS APC not POLITICIANS Vs NIGERIANS. REVOLUTION is when they collect your 10k to vote, and still vote COALITION(unknown) for a change. And i tell u, 2027 is going to change the phase of democracy forever. The COALITION is going to be underestimated but will be a game changer. Political appoitments, bribery, stealing, grabbing,snaching will not save the DRUG LORD and THIEF. Wait for the Northerners to stab u in the back. If u like appoint Atiku as your minister of petroleum. Your time is up. Last minute Back stabbing. Lollllllllllll. By the way Elrufai, Ibb,Adbusalami,Buhari and other guerrilla warriors are secretly doing the damage with their Nicodemus meetings". When it comes to Northern voice, they nor send APC, PDP or any party. FEAR NORTH". Even Money fails. Money may not be the determinant for victory in 2027. Its going to be a tough one. So keep your appoitments to yourself
Do you have a voters card?
Election is done manually in Nigeria and not through social media.
If you don't have a voters, run away from here now before I change your parade!!
PurityOrNothing: *Purity or Nothing Global Movement* DAILY PURITY DIGEST
Date: *18th May, 2025*
Topic: Hard Truths About Sexual Pleasures
II Timothy 4:3-4 - "For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables."
*THE PURE WORD*
You've been encouraged to fall in love with the sound doctrine of sexual purity. If you want to be accurate with God, if you want to be a sound and balanced believer, you must know doctrine.
Don't forget that this is beyond reading the bible, it is on another level. It involves sitting with the Bible and gathering truths from Genesis to Revelations, under specific categories.
If you want to study the subject of sexual purity and chastity, you start from Genesis and start highlighting where this was talked about. So, doctrine summarizes the truths of the Bible - synthesizing and condensing its teaching.
Fortunately for us, the Internet is making certain things easier today. So, you can easily type "all bible verses on sexual purity" into a search engine like Google Search, and take note of all the verses, studying them one after the other contextually (and checking similar verses that support what was stated therein). It is hard work quite alright, but that's how to grow without being a victim of falsehood.
Hence, for the next few days, together, we will excavate some truths from the Bible that revolves around sexual pleasures and purity. This is being equipped with sound doctrine on this subject matter.
*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Romance › Re: Why Did God Give Us Powerful Sexual Urges And Still Dont Want Us To Have Sex . by Farrason: 10:15pm On Sep 07, 2025
