Farrason: Although the 1K is practically nothing for the entire family. But where is the encouragement to show that you are there through the tough time and not sweet times alone. The man has to double his hustle and get around people who are progressing in life legitimately.
Sex is both in good and bad times. Not only when the going is good. Husband is also a human being and cold weather is harsh on singles not to talk of a married person weh warmth solution is on same bed.
I will say, that was the moment she would have used to boost and encourage her husband. Most likely, she talked him down and decided to punish him for dropping 1K
Apart from self motivation... Men need wife encouragement and praises to push harder for a better life for their families.
People who have experienced genuine praises from their wife know this....That thing sets you like machine gun!!
StPete: People get stupidly emotional when they read posts like this knowing fully well women can be manipulative.
What concerns 1k with sleeping with him at night if not to use that to emotionally stare the wrong sets of people?
What if that 1k is all the man had and had no nothing for himself to eat?
What does the woman do to contribute to the welfare of the family in these hard times.
Always listen to both parties before u descend heavily on one side especially ye men on this forum. One day, a woman will criticize you and lie against you, and people will judge you bitterly without hearing your own side of the matter
Although the 1K is practically nothing for the entire family. But where is the encouragement to show that you are there through the tough time and not sweet times alone. The man has to double his hustle and get around people who are progressing in life legitimately.
Sex is both in good and bad times. Not only when the going is good. Husband is also a human being and cold weather is harsh on singles not to talk of a married person weh warmth solution is on same bed.
I will say, that was the moment she would have used to boost and encourage her husband. Most likely, she talked him down and decided to punish him for dropping 1K.
ediko5: This morning, i came across a post on facebook. A woman shared that she plans to visit 10 countries this year—and she’s already been to 7.
Out of curiosity, I decided to check the comments. Posts like that usually attract a lot of attention. That’s when I saw a comment that stopped me cold and worried 🤦
This lady named Aniberry Ejike wrote that she hasn’t traveled in 5 years because of her marriage and kids.
She said publicly that marriage is not for someone like her, that the only reason why she’s still married to her husband is because she doesn’t want her kids to grow up without their father or have different dads.
That’s all. That’s her reason for staying in that marriage.
I visited her profile, she has a beautiful family. A husband who seems fully present, and yet, deep down, she’s nursing the idea of walking away—not because her husband failed her, not because he isn’t providing or doing his part—but simply because she wants to travel freely. God🤦
And she said all of this online without f'ear or respect for her husband.
If she can say this in public, imagine what the man is dealing with in private.
Let this sink in: a stranger’s vacation pictures is what is pushing #Aniberry into b'reaking her beautiful home.
We are seriously living in d'angerous times.
Please be careful what you feed your mind. Social media is not worth your peace or your family.
For her to say that she doesn't want her kids having different dads... I perceive she wants to live wild in fulfilling her sexual fantasies while travelling and not minding getting pregnant in the processes.
Obviously... She is gradually strolling out of the marriage. If any man approach that lady with a promise to marry her and take her to France, Spain, etc. she will disappear without a second thought. It's a matter of opportunity.
franchasng: Your presumed friend is suffering from STDs or STIs. Let me break it down for you.
Some STDs, such as chlamydia and gonorrhea, can cause vaginal irritation, which can create pain during sex intercourse.
Another STD that causes pain during sex is genital herpes which causes blisters and sores around the private part and does lead to pain on penetration.
Another STD on this list is vaginitis. Vaginitis refers to any vaginal inflammation, and any form of inflammation around the vagina will definitely lead to pain during sex.
Lastly, urinary tract infection known as UTI can cause pain during penetration.
As for the pain around her abdomen during sex, she should go for thorough test and possible scan to rule out any form of pelvic organ issues.
All the best
How does a woman who has been calibate for a year have STI or STD. Where e pass?
elmagnifico411: I don tire for all these nairaland children.. allow us enjoy people’s story about how Dey found out that their partner was cheating, u guys went ahead dragging postinor 1 and 2, dumb mofos wverywhere! Na postinor Una mate dey drag sey them know?? Hian!!!
Bro thank you. I thought I was the only one that noticed. Them no post comment, just dragging the postinor matter like say na food dey der.
See 5 pages, na postinor matter full am. Really dumb people. They should allow people to gain insight on signs and red flags.
There are some females that are too smart you will never know.
My babe has been living with me since a month now and I do suspect her once in a while cos few things dey go off track some times even though I never see any concrete evidence.
I came home from work stressed one day. We had fun before I slept cos she wanted it, she wanted more but I was too tired to continue. Told her I will be back early to finish the job when I return from work tomorrow but Omo, when the time came, babe say she has abdominal and body pain and no be menstrual pain. I asked how that one came. Shebi you were asking for more yesterday with so much desire. My mind began to wonder, my only thought was that one bad boy don carry out heavy DIGGING on this girl, hence the pain.
Na so I just hold back, now I am looking for excuse to bounce her. But let me ask, na so abdominal pain dey come out of nowhere??
Chilipepper: Mom of Six Reveals her Date’s Reaction after She Told Him about Her Status.
Your status as a mum of 6 didn't turn him off even though he said it wasn't ideal but your manipulation using the man enough language did more damage.
Woman are always known for manipulation... It didn't start today.
Some do it subtly with wisdom, so do it bluntly in ignorance.
All women manipulate but the question is the goal for it. Some women manipulate their men to greatness and some to doom.... Hence he ran for his dear life while his legs carry him.
In a bizarre and unexpected sighting, an elephant seal was spotted wandering through the streets of Gordon’s Bay (Cape Town) on Tuesday morning, nearly a kilometre from the shoreline.
Stunned residents first noticed the massive marine mammal around 6am and quickly began filming the unusual encounter.
Videos and photos online showed the visibly fatigued seal moving slowly along tarred roads, even propping its upper body on a parked vehicle before continuing to galumph forward.
By 8am, officials from the Cape of Good Hope SPCA had arrived at Sir Lowry’s Pass Road, where the animal had settled in a residential area.
Efforts were immediately launched to ensure the seal's safety and eventual relocation.
SPCA spokesperson Belinda Abraham confirmed that inspectors were working to secure the area and develop a safe, low-stress plan to return the elephant seal to its natural habitat.
“This is a rather unexpected visitor,” Abraham said.
“We’re actively working on a safe and stress-free plan to relocate this magnificent marine mammal. Please avoid the area to help us give the seal the space and calm it needs while we carry out the rescue. This is a developing situation, and we’ll keep the public updated.”
One resident, who asked not to be named, said the seal likely made its way inland during the early hours.
“The seal had been busy since early morning. He was around the beach area and then moved closer inland. We often see seals here, but not like this, it’s not an everyday occurrence. This was unusual. The seal was huge!” she said.
“There were a lot of Gordon’s Bay residents at the scene because it was something phenomenal, especially at that time of the morning.”
Despite the growing crowd of onlookers, the animal appeared unbothered, calmly navigating the streets as residents looked on in amazement.
This isn’t the first time a seal has ventured into Cape Town’s suburbs. In December 2022, a female seal was seen crossing the busy Jakes Gerwel Drive near Vangate Mall in Athlone.
That animal was later safely returned to its marine environment by Chief Inspector Jaco Pieterse of the Cape of Good Hope SPCA.
Metordman: political defections and political prostitution for selfish interest are just the goal of greedy politicians. Come 2027 it will be NIGERIANS VS APC not POLITICIANS Vs NIGERIANS. REVOLUTION is when they collect your 10k to vote, and still vote COALITION(unknown) for a change. And i tell u, 2027 is going to change the phase of democracy forever. The COALITION is going to be underestimated but will be a game changer. Political appoitments, bribery, stealing, grabbing,snaching will not save the DRUG LORD and THIEF. Wait for the Northerners to stab u in the back. If u like appoint Atiku as your minister of petroleum. Your time is up. Last minute Back stabbing. Lollllllllllll. By the way Elrufai, Ibb,Adbusalami,Buhari and other guerrilla warriors are secretly doing the damage with their Nicodemus meetings". When it comes to Northern voice, they nor send APC, PDP or any party. FEAR NORTH". Even Money fails. Money may not be the determinant for victory in 2027. Its going to be a tough one. So keep your appoitments to yourself
Do you have a voters card?
Election is done manually in Nigeria and not through social media.
If you don't have a voters, run away from here now before I change your parade!!
PurityOrNothing: *Purity or Nothing Global Movement* DAILY PURITY DIGEST
Date: *18th May, 2025*
Topic: Hard Truths About Sexual Pleasures
II Timothy 4:3-4 - "For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables."
*THE PURE WORD*
You've been encouraged to fall in love with the sound doctrine of sexual purity. If you want to be accurate with God, if you want to be a sound and balanced believer, you must know doctrine.
Don't forget that this is beyond reading the bible, it is on another level. It involves sitting with the Bible and gathering truths from Genesis to Revelations, under specific categories.
If you want to study the subject of sexual purity and chastity, you start from Genesis and start highlighting where this was talked about. So, doctrine summarizes the truths of the Bible - synthesizing and condensing its teaching.
Fortunately for us, the Internet is making certain things easier today. So, you can easily type "all bible verses on sexual purity" into a search engine like Google Search, and take note of all the verses, studying them one after the other contextually (and checking similar verses that support what was stated therein). It is hard work quite alright, but that's how to grow without being a victim of falsehood.
Hence, for the next few days, together, we will excavate some truths from the Bible that revolves around sexual pleasures and purity. This is being equipped with sound doctrine on this subject matter.
*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Kobojunkie: If a husband starts talking to a woman outside of his marriage, is it equally up to his wife to uproot the plant before it gains a stand? Will the wife also need to take it on herself to uproot every other plant around her husband?
I believe this question is open to all for insightful responses. Let's chill and wait.
NEWBIN: There is a man my wife has been talking to The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice
What is the purpose of the man in her life when she has you.
Na like so e dey start. The longer their relationship, the more vulnerable your wife becomes and just one day, she will loose guard and he will knack her stupidly.
At this point, he is gradually testing his boundaries and expanding them in her consciousness. Very soon, that love emoji will mean something to her. Women love attention and he is giving it to her in quantum!!
Not long, he will start asking to see her in person and not just chatting on phone. A harmless meeting after he gains her trust will over time turn to a fantasy of intercourse!!
Jozilinn: 150k in these era is nothing my cousin sister's kids are paying almost 60k per term for school fees and you have 7 kids. Are they going to school? Instead of sex try think of another thing if that you and your wife didn't make it obvious say una get konji the landlord wouldn't have intervened.
ALL OF YOU ARE QUITE RIGHT IN THE ADVICE FOR A BETTER LIFE. BUT WHAT YOU FAIL TO SEE IS THE HAPPINESS, LOVE AND ROMANCE BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE. BY THE WAY, ARE YOU ALL SUGGESTING HE SHOULD NEVER AGAIN PLAY WITH HIS WIFE OR TALK TO HER IN ROMANTIC WAYS AND MORE SO NEVER AGAIN TOUCH HIS WIFE?
MY SUGGESTION IS THAT GET YOUR WIFE TO DO FAMILY PLANNING TO AVOID ANY MORE CHILD BIRTH. AND LOOK UP NEW WAYS FOR ADDITIONAL INCOME TO MAKE YOUR LIVING CONDITIONS BETTER SINCE YOU ARE NOW IN THE CITY. YOU ARE DOING WELL ALREADY ON WELFARE BUT YOU NEED TO UPGRADE TO A LARGE APARTMENT. .... my two cents
Oluwatobiloba07: Please I didn't see where to apply on the portal, thanks
As you rushed in... You rushed out. No patience to read. This is not a fast money scheme. Always bear the pain to read at least. That's why you went to school.
iSense247: If your wife is no longer responsive to sex, it's crucial to understand the potential causes and address them constructively. Possible factors include physical health issues, relationship dynamics, or mental health challenges, and open communication and potentially professional help may be necessary.
Understanding the Potential Causes:
Physical Health: Medical conditions, hormonal imbalances, or certain medications can all impact libido and responsiveness.
Relationship Dynamics: Lack of intimacy, communication problems, or unresolved conflicts can lead to sexual disinterest.
Mental Health: Depression, anxiety, or other mental health challenges can also affect sexual desire.
Lifestyle Factors: Stress, lack of sleep, and poor nutrition can all contribute to lower sex drive.
Steps to Address the Issue: 1. Open Communication: Have an honest and open conversation with your wife about her feelings and concerns. Listen to her perspective and try to understand her perspective.
2. Seek Medical Advice: If you suspect a physical health issue, encourage your wife to see a doctor for a thorough checkup.
3. Explore Relationship Issues: Consider whether relationship dynamics are contributing to the problem. Couples counseling can be a valuable tool for addressing communication and intimacy challenges.
4. Address Mental Health: If mental health issues are suspected, encourage your wife to seek professional help from a therapist or counselor.
5. Lifestyle Changes: Consider lifestyle adjustments like regular exercise, stress management techniques, and a healthy diet, as these can positively impact sexual health.
Important Considerations: It's not necessarily about "fixing" her: Understanding her perspective and finding ways to meet your needs while respecting her boundaries is key.
Consider professional help: A sex therapist or couples counselor can provide guidance and support in navigating this situation.
Be patient and supportive: Change can take time, and it's important to be patient and supportive throughout the process.
Oga.... English doesn't solve everything. Sometimes act much and talk lesser or not at all. This is a wife and not girl friend. His best speeches worn her heart already to be his wife. His action now is to confirm her decision that it was not a mistake or out of confusion.
AntiTerrorist: My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support her.
Get creative.
Give her special treats for sometime without touching her. When you eventually touch her... Suck her down to ground zero. She will appreciate and be glad she married you. Works every time - she is woman!
Family › Re: Husband Kicks Wife Out After She Refuses To Get Intimate With Him by Farrason: 12:43pm On Jul 03, 2025
