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TJOS:
I take back my words; it was a wise decision. It's better than begging. After a month of recovery, he can seek out a renowned boxer with an impressive record for a match. Then, he should focus on investing the money wisely.

That is point... If he won't lavish the money like he did before.

TJOS:
Mike Tyson shouldn't have returned to the ring; it puts his reputation at risk.

Reputation is not helping him as you can obviously see. He needed that money for his survival. A living dog is better than a dead lion.
Reputation doesn't pay bills.. he has to feed and look after himself like every other normal person and I bet he also misses some fresh juicy kpekus... U know what I mean.

Undilutedme:
Hello, Nairalanders. Good morning, I’m going to be short.

I stay in Ondo and I just finished my youth service and currently, I’m staying with long time friend(We’re splitting the rent) till we are able to find our way. Something happened last week Friday that has brought a little misunderstanding (We don’t flow like before) and I want your opinion.

Okay, so I went to my work, I work from 8-5, sometimes 6 and that day, my girlfriend called me and said she was around the house and wanted to wait and see me, I told her it was fine that I would be back soon. I went back later to the house and I met her, my friend wasn’t around then. The house was very neat, but I knew she was the one who swept it, so I didn’t ask. But one talk led to another and she told me it was that my friend that told her to get broom and sweep the room. When she said it, I wasn’t so cool with it because I felt he didn’t have that right to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room. Even if she wanted to sleep it, I should be the one to tell her and not my room mate. I told him and he didn’t see anything wrong with it and insisted that I didn’t like it and he shouldn’t do it next time, because I found it a bit disrespectful to myself and my girlfriend. Since then, he hasn’t been so cool, we talk but not like before. Did I overreact? Do you think it’s okay or wrong for my roommate to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room?

NB; I do not tell my girlfriend to sweep the room when my roommate is around, so it doesn’t bring “see finish “ so, she’s never swept in his presence before, but she does it when he’s not around.

Also, he has his girlfriend that comes to the house too and I have never told her to do anything like that before. So, what do you guys think?

If the room was dirty when you girl arrived, were you expecting your friend to sweep and clean the room while she watched and then leave the room for both of you to knack yourselves afterwards... That one no be see finish abi?

Obviously, you don't know yourself as a man but your friend does.

BlindAngel:
As I'm talking to you right now, they are saying all manners of words, that I disrespected them and the they won't pity me with the list they'd give me.

That aside, to be brutally honest with you, I didn't mean to disrespect them, I have tried all manner of ways to walk out of this marriage but I don't see that happening. Maybe this will be the deal breaker, I won't do any of what they mentioned, absolutely none. I believe it'd make them hate me and by God's grace I pray and I'm praying hard for them to talk about returning my bride price to me.

Indeed, you sounded like someone under pressure. I believe as an Adult, no one can force you do what you will not want to do... You feel furious cos you think that your wife took advantage of you with the suicide thingy.

Grow bro... You shouldn't have gotten her preggy in the first place, who were you relegating her with the pregnancy to?

Now is the time to man-up. I believe no one in this life can pressure you unless you allow it.

The inlaws are not a problem at all. As an in-law, it's customary that you support in the burial if you can. So, just settle them what you can support them with and lock up. You are married already - None of them can do you anything again.

For marriage between you and your wife, You need to talk to yourself in clear terms... You feel your wife played you emotional blackmail - this is the issue here. You may be wrong... What if she meant it

Forget the expenses... I bet you, if your heart was in it(wife, baby, marriage), the money no be problem. More money will come. Amen

Remember the story of a lady who quarrelled with her fiancee and jumped off 3rd Mainland bridge... I bet he too called it a bluff.

Whether marriage met you settled or not... You have a baby on the line in it now.

My advice is act responsible ..... in what ever way "responsible" means to you.

revived2:
Last last Dem go leave am
They either leave him , exile him or silence him

But I doubt they'll silence him because of his kids ...... They might exile him or leave him to rot in jail.

Rot in jail... What is his offence. Having sex in the office can not land you in jail.

Then the sexual engagement were consensual.

Silencing him is possible... His action is a slap on the husbands and some of these men will have evil thoughts towards him. Anything is possible to get back at him.

dawnomike:
Please, kindly keep the money and hand it back to the owner in 3 months time.

In the story of the 3 servants who were given talents by their master. You are the 3rd one that got a talent.

There are several businesses you could do within 3months and don't have to use up all the funds if you do your analysis well. You are even favoured to be at a time like this.

Buy fowls and sell for Christmas. Let them remain at the poultry while you build your cage for selling it. By December, bring them out for sales so by December proper, people within the area are already familiar with your spot. 2-3K on each for 500K - 1M investment will give you some good margin by end of January 2025. Ensure to display your goods from 1st December... If you can't, you can hire me and get returns.

Meteng:
Unicorn?

As in... Does that near the resemblance of a unicorn?

Sharingiscaring:
This is about the 6th time I'm facing such a temptation. Yet, I've never fallen. I hate olosho, but instead of me to Bleep a married woman, I'll move into town and look for pay as you go. So, don't worry, I'm never going to give in.

You're saying she has not started liking me. But, you'll see as I continue this story, how she has been checking me out. Most of these Gen Z girls no get conscience at all.

Lolz... Gen Z.. lobatan!!
Good that you are standing on your feet!!. Na man u be.

If you do anything wrong in this life and get forgiveness... It is not from sleeping with another man's wife. Avoid it like a plague!

So cut the story and simply flee!!

Sharingiscaring:
Bolded area cannot happen. Lying is against my life policy. That's why I'm doing this thread. If I bleep her, it would be impossible for me to come here and say otherwise. Now, because I don't want such a frustration, I can never bleep her. You don't know the power of a public accountability exercise like this.

I understand you... The thing is she has not liked you enough to want you... You have already established that you like her...

The moment, she likes you and want you sexually... The rest is whistling!!.

Sharingiscaring:
After packing in, the guy traveled back to where he works. Only his wife is around. His wife told me her husband would be coming back only at weekends.

Many things have happened (no, I haven't touched her and I don't ever intend to). But, the one I want to say now which made me to open the thread is me getting an erection before her and she staring at the erection with a gloating smile. I've been tempted many times by married women, but none of them was as tempting as this.

Please, let me rest for a while.

Forget this your theory of exposing the Devil... Mr. Man, flee with your back heels touching your back head. This is what the Bible advised... FLEE!!

This one lives in your compound and I bet you a million naira, u will knack the poor woman tomorrow night. Unless you flee by avoiding her totally.

If she is fine with curves and you like her... Forget it!!! Even the devil can not hold you back. This I have seen!!.

POV: You are here to seek validation for something you have decided.

Omicronvaccine:
Speed Darlington Celebrating His Release From Police Custody, At The Club While Dancing To Burna Boy's Music


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b3HDifzDyy4

No choice but to turn a fan sharply... Freedom after speech is not your mate!!

Fineman2:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOb2IBitY_Y?si=Vhbgq8nIeeOCZX9L



https://www.yabaleftonline.ng/nigerian-man-depriv%c9%98s-himself-as-he-buys-latest-iphone-for-his-wife-watch/

They will still not be satisfied!!!..

SKILLZ64:
Family issues after the death of my Calabar wife

Met at Lagos State NYSC Orientation Camp, Lagos, Nigeria.

After three months of courtship, she called me one morning to tell me that she was pregnant.

I asked her what her intention was. She said that because I didn’t have a job yet, she needed to go for an abortion.

I encouraged her to keep the pregnancy, telling her that I would love to meet both her mom and dad.

They both agreed that we would meet on a particular Sunday, which eventually happened.

I met her mom and dad.

Her dad became angry and furious with me for not paying her bride price. I promised that everything would be done as soon as possible and that I had a job.

A few months before the delivery, I got a job at one of the leading chartered banks in Nigeria, where I worked as one of their top managers.

On the delivery date, she passed away due to complications during the operation. After informing her parents, trouble started.

I was told I must go to the village with the corpse for a proper burial, not knowing they had an entirely different agenda.🥺🥺

All the expenses were paid by me.

On getting to the village, I was accused of using their daughter for rituals. 🥺🥺

It was a terrible experience for me because suddenly, both parents refused to accept her corpse and told my aunt that I needed to take the corpse to the village square myself for a night ritual.

🥺👁️😭😭

I was surrounded by elders, and they forced me to make love to the corpse if I claimed to have nothing to do with their daughter's death, which I refused.

Several things were done to me, including being offered Calabar water to bathe with and drink, which I rejected with all my strength.

My sister came to check on me and found me tied up with a rope.

I was overwhelmed with tears because there was no one to rescue me. After several struggles, one of my wife's friends in the village helped me escape, and I fled to Lagos. Since then, I have received many calls saying that if I didn’t do what they asked, something bad would happen to me within seven days.

Can somebody please advise me?🥺🙏🏻

U funny sha... U made it out alive and still dey ask for advise. Don't worry, make I give them your address.

Deepspirituals:
I'm Spiritualist D'Light .

Warning / Advise : Next time you Visit an Hotel For Lodging till next day , Make sure it's a New Soap you are being Offered , After usage , Don't drop it , Take the used Soap along , U can Later dispose it off by yourself but don't Keep it in the Hotel .


Used Soap by someone else can be Used by another Evil Person to Transfer Good Destinies .

This is a Spiritual Matter , Like I Always say , I don't Expect you to believe, Not Interested in your Believe, I would only Expose real Spiritual Crimes I know as a Spiritualist so others would Learn .

Some People keep complaining of Failures , Bad Luck , Promise and Fail etc , They keep Fasting , Praying , Night Vigils , Visiting Mountains , Pastors , Spiritualist etc , They don't really know the Spiritual source of their Problems .

Someone that Travels to China to brings in Electronics ,Has Big Warehouse,Shops etc All of a sudden Business started turning upside down ...His Experience appears so strange to him as Well .

Before Physical Failures ,It has Happened in the Spiritual.

Be Warned .

Hear me well ,Not all Hotels are into this

I remain Spiritualist D'Light

What about your towel?

What about the plate you ate with at a party.

What about your foot step after you visited the village.

Na only God dey help us... The reason why you should be prayerful.

They are not innocent. These are expression of their thoughts or experiences.

The lady with the trust no dick expression is fantastically true.

Dicks have never been honest and always attention for a digging operation irrespective of weather. But you can always trust a man... Not his dick.

emperor4love:
And Roger collect,e go kill ur destiny

The guy cracked me up... Any experience you feel like sharing here

nlfpmod:
Zenith Bank Mobile app is down. Share your experiences.

Here was the notice they earlier released about routine maintenance:

It's a normal routine every month end. This month end, it will happen again.

Tayorshd87:
From a friend though

I went to my guys place na so I met one hot chick I mean sexy with good front and back so I quickly make relationships but unfortunately my guy told me d babe is one of his own guys babe too which he will be here in no time.


Truly the guy came and we all unite and say hi to each other but my eyes and d babe eyes too didn't just stop looking at each other .

Like I have strong affection and likewise d girl too

Wetin u go so if u are in my shoe guy..
because as I ask my main friend Abt d babe he told me the girl na on and off babe meaning they do separate and come back every 2weeks or 1 months .

But the way me see d babe ehn I ready to marry am this is love at first site ..

Wetin u go do??

Thief weh won to steal from another thief.

Feel free!! Share the disease!!

recklesslove:
For allowing your actions fill my heart with bitterness n pain . I forgive u.
Now I know better, your actions were as a result of the misery n nothingness you felt deep inside.
You desperately needed a punching bag and something to score over so u could feel better, fortunately for I was available.
Your pain needed expression, more like needed attention, n was crying out for healing.
But instead of looking for healing you felt dragging me to inflicting me with your pain would give u a breather.
Today all I see is not the pain you caused me but your misery n emptiness that runs deep inside you.
Today I see u as u are . Naked.
Lost , confused n desperately needing healing.
The pain you caused me was only the native language of the misery , emptiness n nothingness your felt deep inside.
Today I see you naked

Your words are just spot of what exactly happened. Unfortunately, only at this point does our inner eyes see the truth for what it really is...

I should have told you sorry but then... Your expressed proves that you have moved on and realized that you have lived with an animal in human skin.

Have fun henceforth with your new found wisdom and do me proud never to allow another man treat you this way...

There are red flags, don't ever over look it again or it could be the end of you.

Love is crazy even though beautiful on the right soil. Cheers to your freedom

questioner:
Youngelder1
Nicepoker
Itiswell22
Realitykings

Please pardon me, my guys took me out to watch today's matches.

I go resume immediately after man u and crystal palace finish

You just killed the intrigue!!!

To hell with your story... Even the result of the match make me hate you further and will missile you on sight.. iranu!!

AKWATGOLD1:
My oga at the Top crooner.

Looks like Portable to me.

See meat...

Zonefree:


Not just Japan...it's everywhere. No sane human eats while walking.

Experience a mass trekking day in Lagos due to fuel scarcity and high transport fare... You will be amazed at the number of people dealing with gala and fanta abi pure eater as they trek long distances from work to their homes.

I can't kill myself.

PoundHound:
Op, how were you able to withdraw the funds to your account when the names doesn’t match?
Dey lie small small

Lie Lie OP

I created a sportybet account with my wife's details and bank account to it cos I was having issues with my bank at that time. Long time though.

Sometimes ago, I had 2 straight wins and withdrew the money using her account. Later I decided to change it so man can hug his money for some personal things so wife will
not know but could not change it... They asked me to call customer care and I was not ready to start explaining story of my life. So I let it ba and opened a different account with my own details.

HeatSeeker:
https://punchng.com/why-some-nigerian-men-are-not-biological-fathers-of-their-children-psychologists/

We no gree!!

You matter need deliverance, I rest my case

Carcholce:
Accept correction?

Why is your begging spirit so angry at my post and even went far as getting my attention?

I’ll pray for you. Any begging spirit hovering around your bald head, die by fire. Every spirit of begging that is making you angry at another man, oh I curse you to flee from Farrason in whatever god you believe in. Amennnn. You are healed sir. I’ll always check on you.

Carcholce:
If my comment didnt pain you and evoked the begging spirit in you, I don’t know why you quoted me in the first place.

Just called your attention to the nonsense you posted. Accept corrections with open mind and stop displaying your stupidity.

Carcholce:
You are very silly for not being able to pass a message without the insult. Why is it paining you? Are you a beggar? Did my post trigger the begging spirit in you?

Eat shit!! E pain am

Carcholce:
I don’t help anyone. I don’t expect anyone to help me. I only part with money when you render services for it, like wise myself. I get paid when I render my services. If you want money from me, you must work for it.

Keep quiet der joor... Every great man was helped by someone either in cash, kind, influence or some how. It is always connected. That's why it's good to be kind... You don't know your point of breakthrough.

HenryWilliams:
Left her husband and children to die in the hands of a boyfriend..
Women and their priorities..
I'm sure she refused all reconciliation attempts between herself and her husband probably due to fickle fame she got thru sports..
This is what happens when women don't submit to their husbands especially when they're socially or financially superior.

Though I don't support what the BF... It's pure wickedness but women have issues with fame and Success. They refuse to act as women again once they attain such status.

It's easier for a man to get rich upgrade his family and maintain the love and togetherness however for a woman, kicking the husband out is her first priority.

Ayjay44:
This is not your typical thread of peer pressure turning a good kid into a naughty kid but the reverse.

I gained admission into the university at 18 years old, I was withdrawn due to pooor results in my first years. I applied to the same school FUTMINNA at 19 and when I came back, I tried to blend in and act studious and serious like other students (while I’m more of a social person than an academic person).

I was very studious in my 1st, 2nd year, 3rd years.
But I became tired of everything in my 4th and final year and I can’t find the zeal to study anymore(I’m now a spill over student repeating failed courses. I failed all the courses in 2nd semester 500level)

I don’t know what to do.


I don’t know why I came to this school. I should have gone to a social school like UNILAG or UNIBEN. Maybe I should have found my clique there and leave school for good, or focus on other stuff and improve my self
I’m stuck with this extra year and all this complex stuff that I don’t find any real life application.

I should have spent the time I used studying to make money by doing forex and maybe yahoo.

I am now 26 and confused and broke


Peer pressure has finished me.


I feel like killing myself

My life had a similar curve.

It went south in my 400first semester. Had carry overs and got a girl pregnant. Though she was my babe, we were in same school and neighborhood back home. The parents perform drama for our house. I nearly lost focus

But today, I am a graduate with a job, married my babe who is also working now, the child now is 16yrs old and has siblings.

Pls stay strong and hang in der... Many times, the turning point comes when you hit your bottom. Get back on track and finish strong... Many people you don't know are looking up to your rising. They are waiting... If I had given up then, I would not share my story with you today.

Congrats in advance.