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obembet:
You finally get the chance to go on an important date with your long-time crush, but just as you step out in public, something unexpected happens, what would you do?


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Kennitrust:
Good day my follow Nairalanders.

Everyday, life opens a new chapter of life to us. My own chapter had been opened and and it read... "it time to get married.

In the church I attended, there I met this girl so mature enough to be taken in as a wife. I approach her for the first time and I started asking her out. Seem she knew my intention, she started asking me about my church life, my family, my business and all that not.

To be honest with her, I did my best to answer every question in the language she could understand.

She seems not still satisfied with my account, she sent me this message at about 5am.
Said until I respond to those questions, she won't have anything to do with me again.

I'm truly confused on wether everyone that finds love 💕 really goes through this rigorous question.

And more about her life, she spent almost everyday in church after work. She said if I'm truly serious, I should also be as serious as she is in going and participating in all weekly activities in the church.

Please help, how do I answer this questions, since it the only options she said can bring us together?

SQLmastar:
Please house, I need mature advice. This matter is tearing me apart.

I met this lady (a doctor)
4 months ago. I'm 35, she is 31.
She told me she was a virgin and I believed her because of how she carried herself. I was very happy and rushed everything – introduction, engagement, and marriage plans (I promised my mum that I would get married before December 2026). We were supposed to do our traditional marriage in one week’s time.

Last week, I received an anonymous WhatsApp message. The person sent pregnancy test results showing that my fiancée was pregnant for her ex-boyfriend during her 1-year residency. She had told me about this ex, but said they never had sex, and that was why they broke up.
I confronted her with the message. At first, she denied it and said it was fake, someone trying to spoil her name. But when I said I would call her best friend to confirm, she broke down and confessed the truth.
She admitted she got pregnant for the ex, aborted it immediately, and promised herself never to have premarital sex again. She said she was ashamed and didn’t want to lose me, so she lied about being a virgin.
Now I’m confused and heartbroken. I love her but the lies are too much.
On the other hand, I have already invited many people – including the chief of my village and my manager at work. Cancelling now will bring serious shame and talk in my village and workplace.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do? Should I go ahead with the marriage or cancel everything? Has anyone been in this kind of situation?

I need honest advice.

escortafrik:
Hello guys, I really need your advice because I’ve been turning this over in my head and I don’t want to make a mistake.

So a bit of background… I’m in my final year at the university, just trying to finish with good grades and figure out what’s next for my life.

A close friend of mine introduced me to her cousin a few months ago. He’s doing really well for himself, stable, calm, and very intentional in how he carries himself.

We got along pretty quickly and things moved from just talking to a serious relationship faster than I expected, but it has been good so far.

Now the situation is this… he wants me to move in with him.

At first, I thought maybe it’s just excitement and love growing fast, but he’s been consistent about it and says it’s because he sees a future with me and wants us to start building our life together properly. I do like him a whole lot , and part of me likes the idea of us being together in that way, like a real couple sharing everyday life.

But I spoke to my friends and they are not having it at all. They keep telling me that once I move in, it might reduce the chances of marriage happening, that men can get too comfortable and stop seeing the need to “formalise” things. Even his cousin who introduced us is saying I shouldn’t as well but I’m quite surprised because this guy has been so good to me in every aspect of my life.

Now I’m stuck in the middle. I don’t want to act based on fear, but I also don’t want to ignore advice that could save me from future regret.

So I’m asking honestly… what do you think I should do in this situation?

babz11:
A friend of mine recently relocated to Osun State and is looking to let go of his apartment along with some household properties still in the apartment. Items available include chairs, a microwave, blenders, a bed, and other essentials.
Anyone interested can take over the apartment by settling the outstanding one-month house payment and discussing the remaining details with him directly.
Serious buyers or interested persons should kindly send their phone number for more information.

We4all:
I used to think no man will ever accept to take back a cheating wife. But I can count up to three women that cheated whose husbands took them back.

Whilst some people may label the men as fools, I believe the men are just being understanding, the same way we have understanding wives.

LordIsaac:
You wouldn't really know your friends when you are down, wait until you're elevated and only then would you know who truly is your friend.
Quote me daily!

Celebrityblog:
https://x.com/i/status/2037959629750096300

But why would she go back to him for sex when she knows they have no future together anymore. Nawaooo.

Ishilove:
Whoever wrote this list has serious rejection issues.

Anfield247:
My younger brother of 22 years attacked me this morning after taking a substance called crystal methamphetamine popularly known as ice. For the past one year now, he has been giving everybody in the house heat. Ranging from insulting people, picking money in the house, eating food that is not his own, Bullying everybody in the house, wearing clothes without washing and not even thinking of sweeping, fatching water or washing the plates in the house.
I was looking at him, hoping and believing he will change for good. But as days passes by, it's becoming worst. Yesterday, he wanted to fight our mom, I prevented him and I warned him not to even raise his voice at her again. I tried fighting him but my Mom pleaded with me not to attack him...
This morning, while I was still in bed, my elder sister called me and said my brother was trying to break the padlock to my bag so he could collect clothes from it. With my sleepy eyes and subconsciousness, I went outside just to collect my bag from him.. I dragged the bag from him, the next thing I felt was a heavy punch to my face.. That was when I realized that this was no longer a joke. I quickly responded by trying to him back. We exchanged punches and he ran away. Till now, he has not come back. He added that everybody should be ready for him.
Sometimes, I wonder if he is truly my brother. I sustained an injury on my nose from his punch. He doesn't want to change for good. Sometimes, I do ask some of his friends that take ice why is he behaving like that. They will tell me that I should look for what is wrong with him.... I feel so bad because he's my only brother

Nnakatsan:
I was talking to a friend recently and she opened up about something that shocked me.

She said her husband had changed… less attention, less affection, always on his phone.

At first, she thought it was just stress. But over time, the distance became obvious.

What struck me was this — nothing “big” had happened.
No fight. No major issue.
Just slow emotional and physical disconnection.

It made me realize something…
Most marriages don’t break suddenly — they fade quietly.

I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately, especially how attraction and effort change after marriage.

For those who are married — what do you think causes this?

iamSamurai:
I am a devout Catholic. My partner (Yoruba) knows this from day one. We had known each other for 3 years prior to dating. From the first week we started talking, I mentioned to her that I would be having a Catholic wedding. Last year I was in Vatican as part of my holiday.

We started dating earlier this year and she has been pushing marriage conversations. She is now saying our doctrines are different and she would want a Redeem wedding. That she would want me to convert to Redeem and hope I see the light( this phrase annoys me).

I told her that our family will be a Catholic first family that I don’t have a problem with her going to her church. But she is saying she would want to be taking children to her church and that her church’s doctrine are way different from Catholic and won’t want that kind of confusion.

On the wedding stuff, she later said she had a conversation with her aunt, and she suggested that we first have a Redeem wedding and afterwards we can then have a Catholic wedding with a few friends and family. She even jokingly said that we would take a year break before the white wedding (after traditional and court wedding ) and during that time if she gets pregnant she will use that to get me to wed her in her Church.

Furthermore, she says her marrying an Igbo is already a lot that she is not sure her parents will agree for her not to wed in Redeem.

My annoyance is that she knew about my church from day one. We had discussed about these kind of things several times before we started dating. So why the goal-post shifting now?

Shomek:
Lagos Is Pumping Itself Dry – Boreholes Are A Ticking Time Bomb

Let’s stop pretending.

Boreholes are NOT an unlimited water cheat code.

In Lagos, almost every building now has a borehole. Estates drill. Hotels drill. Churches drill. Companies drill. Everybody is pumping groundwater like it’s immortal.

Who is measuring how much we’re removing?
Who is regulating it?
Who is monitoring aquifer levels?

Nobody.

We’re extracting millions of litres daily from underground reserves that took hundreds or thousands of years to accumulate.

And we think it will never finish?

Lagos is a coastal city. What happens when:

Water tables drop significantly?
Saltwater starts entering freshwater aquifers?
Boreholes start producing salty or muddy water?
The ground begins to sink from over-extraction?
This is not theory. It has happened in:

Jakarta (serious land subsidence issues)
Cape Town (almost hit “Day Zero”)
Chennai (major water shortages)
But here in Lagos, we act like drilling deeper is the solution to everything.

Instead of demanding proper national water infrastructure, we normalized private survival mode.

The real uncomfortable question:

Are we building houses today that may not have sustainable water in 30 years?

Property developers won’t talk about it.
Government barely regulates it.
Homeowners just want water to flow today.

But groundwater doesn’t care about vibes.

So let’s debate honestly:

Should borehole drilling require stricter permits?
Should there be extraction limits?
Should government heavily invest in central water supply instead of leaving citizens to fend for themselves?
Or is this fear-mongering?
Is Lagos gradually creating its own future water crisis?

Let’s hear real opinions — no sentiment.


SOURCE: https://shomek.gt.tc/topic.php/537/lagos-is-pumping-itself-dry-boreholes-are-a-ticking-time-bomb

Nlfpmod

SpencerForbes:
Is that a man I’m seeing at the back or what?

I can never allow a man to get that close to me. On top what exactly? Anyway, I know they are "professionals" just like those ballet dancers, but for me personally? It can never happen!

SpencerForbes:
Is that a man I’m seeing at the back or what?

I can never allow a man to get that close to me. On top what exactly? Anyway, I know they are "professionals" just like those ballet dancers, but for me personally? It can never happen!

ERockson:
You attended the church for just almost 3 years and demanding financial help based on period you've been with the church, what about pastors's children that have been there for more than 20 years and could not get financial helps for their children.
Pastos can not help everybody approaching them for helps. Now that you are a nurse and earning money how many people have you helped financially, how many school fees have you paid for the less privileges. If you have no enough records of helping many people or all people coming to you for helps, you are not better than the Pastor. If you and your Mom have been saving the money you paid for tithe and offering you might not be in the financial problem that will bring you to pastor for help. So, Because you paid tithe and offering in your church, the pastor must help you. Entitled mentality is your problem

sweetkevisco:
So death sentence, then what if it's a false rape accusation,and the truth is known after the man has been executed

bestman09:
Someone can not help someone stop the spread of breast cancer?

Are we sure it is not about ritual? Perhaps, one baba told him to look for a mad woman and suck the breasts.

Seriously, the man is supposed to have been handed over to the police!

budaatum:
Your "core of my message" is rather very lame.

That's why you have not engaged with me since page one of this thread, where you lost it by quoting a man written book that tells you a woman is a rib!



And that despite the fact that the same book clearly states that before your God created Adam and Eve to be naked ignorant slaves in his Garden in Eden, God created man[kind] in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

But I guess it sums you up that you'd be trying to enslave women in the 21^st century with a book written like 2000 years ago by man and disregard the fact that women now go to school too and can read!

budaatum:
So, you need some law saying your wife should let you sex her instead of you forming a relationship with your wife that makes her want to sex you?

Do you also need a law to tell your children to love and respect you instead of you earning your children's respect and love?

And should your employer too have a law that makes you serve them instead of you willingly serving your employer because they reward you?

Melezenawii:
SW and SS are the major regions carrying the rest of the country. SE make so much noise but contribute very little positively to the country.

https://x.com/maydebuk23/status/2017570960186982750

budaatum:
So, you need your wife to be obligated to have sex with you, and if she doesn't give you permission, it's okay for you to rape her by having sex with her without her permission, and you think that's a healthy desirable relationship?

Can you not imagine doing what you can do to make your wife actually want to have sex with you?

How do you enjoy sex with a wife that doesn't want you to gave sex with her? No, actually, ignore that, since I'm certain rapïsts must enjoy rapïng their wife!

Brendaniel:
This is not cyberstalking, you've gone out of context, read the charge they even charged her there for, still on intent, telling you they know a whole lot will not even fly, this is just pure bullying...

datola:
Hmmm..... Was she supposed to be remanded in prison when preliminaries have not found her guilty. What about if she won the case case. What would be her compensation for the prison experience

This Cyber bulling law supposed not be a criminal lay but civil because it looks like an easy tool in the hand of the highly placed to oppress the downtrodden.

Please, look beyond this Angela case...

Moveittothem:
A story that never happened.

How did he know she wanted equality? Not all women are feminists.

DrMB:
Ever feel like your heart is about to jump out of your chest because of a tiny spider or a long bridge? You aren't just 'scared', there’s actually a name for that. Here are 22 phobias that prove our brains are weirder than we think.
Think you’re fearless? Check this list of 22 phobias and see if you can make it to the end without finding yours.
Be honest: How many of these did you have to Google to make sure they were real? Let me know your 'fear count' in the comments!



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DrMB:
Ever feel like your heart is about to jump out of your chest because of a tiny spider or a long bridge? You aren't just 'scared', there’s actually a name for that. Here are 22 phobias that prove our brains are weirder than we think.
Think you’re fearless? Check this list of 22 phobias and see if you can make it to the end without finding yours.
Be honest: How many of these did you have to Google to make sure they were real? Let me know your 'fear count' in the comments!

You no go fear shark... Abi you wan whine!!



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