Kenochi: Let me start this morning by borrowing a line from the Legend himself,the Abami Eda,Fela Anikulapo Kuti The Song goes like this: You be thief,I no be thief You be armed robber,I no be armed robber You dey steal,I no dey steal
Maximum respect to the great seer,Abami Eda Chai!!!!!,Meffy and his gang of 40 thieves did a real number on Nigerians, please let us leave Abacha alone,this present crop of Politicians and their hangers on have made Abacha look like a saint Haba!!!,I seriously feel Emiefiele couldn't have done this monumentous thiefry alone,I don't want to mention names but the former AG, Buhari nephew and a certain Uncle of Buhari have serious questions to answer
I have always said that Emiefiele is just a scape goat, Asiwaju is using him to send a serious message to the Buhari Camp, which is that they should stay clear of his Government The kind of money this guys stole is enough to distablize any Government,it is better to launch a first attack on this guys so that they will never regroup to foist any problem for his Government I believe Asiwaju will allow them return their loot,and give them a safe landing I guarantee that this guys will never have a voice as long as Asiwaju is in government
Kindly check my signature for good properties around the Ibeju Lekki Industrial Hub
Bros... I now see the real reason Buhari said any one who calls him for any case after his tenure will be in trouble. The guys knows the magnitude of havoc that he has seen.
Chai... Oluwa oo.... Oh boy!!...
Nigerians, are we awake like this abi we still dey sleep. Can you try to picture all the suffering of we went through and the rubbish they sold to us while bearing the burnt of the thiefry. The suffering of the cashless policy imposed by the same Emiefele and the excuses he gave with boldness and impunity.
The number of people that died on ATM queues, children that possible died of hunger, no cash to sort a minor unexpected issue, mothers/fathers crying in bank halls, banks that got burnt, bank workers that were attacked and killed/injured. Even worst, the level of poverty in this country, deficiency of good medical treatment, poor educational system and ASUU strike... To mention but a few and during this time, see the level of stealing and manipulation going side by side.
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Former President Donald Trump said immigrants coming to the U.S. are “poisoning the blood of our country,” a remark on Saturday that quickly drew a rebuke from his chief Democratic rival as President Joe Biden’s campaign likened the words to those of Adolf Hitler.
“They let — I think the real number is 15, 16 million people into our country. When they do that, we got a lot of work to do. They’re poisoning the blood of our country,” Trump told the crowd at a rally in New Hampshire. “That’s what they’ve done. They poison mental institutions and prisons all over the world, not just in South America, not just to three or four countries that we think about, but all over the world. They’re coming into our country from Africa, from Asia, all over the world.”
Hear the rubbish he is saying. The looted funds stored up in your country, our ancestors you maimed, raped, tortured and forcefully kidnapped from our lands, our heritage that your fathers stole from our communities did not poison the American blood.
You just woke up now to realize it... I laff in Calabar!!
Let the husband choose the type of death he wants now or refund the money instantly. After that he can decide what ever the relationship should be.#iranu
Testiebobo: For instance, put yourself in a shoe of someone who has a very rich friend, but the friend is very kala and stingy. And you needed some cash like N50,000 to send to your hungry family who are not living in the same state as yours. But your rich friend lied to you that he does'nt have money. Fine! But the next day you saw him in a botique buying clothes and shoes worth N600,000 for a girl he just met 2weeks ago. What do you do to such a stingy friend?
He doesn't owe you an apology. It's his money. Are you a value or liability to him... The guy go even give you 100K without breaking a sweat if you are an asset to him. Bro upgrade anything of value in you that could be of need to him. Knowledge, skill, competence. Anyways, no too vex sha... More reason you need to double your hustle bro.
revolt: The billionaires that run abroad societies still hve control. Broken families and single mothers is b8g business abroad.. there's people that gain from it. However their society is dying.. its the reason they need immigrants to keep coming. So keep thinking that is progress.
This is the method of dangling the carrot in front of the donkey as you ride it. The day it breaks free... You can't imagine what she will take from you.
Ask same billionaires, they will tell you the film. Divorce and pay-off is not as easy as you think.
nakotee: My name is Nnamdi Ikemefuna growing up as a little boy I noticed I had high sexual drive I didn't tell anyone then it actually caused me to do so abominable things like
1. I use to try to have penetration on my first sister when she is sleeping but luckily for me I didn't succeed but I used to cum on her labs until I stoped
2. I tried raping a girl in a dark street one night during December time but couldn't succeed I think I only touched her breast and put her to the ground before some people started coming towards there.
3. I once stole meat from the pot and my elder brother was brutalized because I lied I didn't do it.
May God forgive me.
Let it off your chest bro... How are you doing now.
KingKO22: The question is if Nigeria government start killing innocent igbos in SE by raining bombs on your landlocked republic because the terrorists IPOB are killing Nigeria militaries would you be happy and you won't complain ?
Israel are only good at killing women and children
I would like to hear your opinion on boko harram, herdsmen, etc that has plagued the north for more than 10 years.
This is why government will never take the youths serious in this country...
sukkot: So guys we need to understand that women are drawn to protectors and alpha and strong men. It is how they are wired. Something happens to a Nigerian man when he gets abroad and the women notice it. The man gets emasculated by society. He goes from being a strong figure of authority in Africa to an unwanted disrespected black man in the west. Even a 17 year old white boy on the job can almost slap that 40 year old naija man on the job and he will be shaking and calling the 17 year old boy, Sir. The man is emasculated by society. Goes from being an alpha dog in naija to a puppy in the west. Our women sense these things and to a woman if you are not an alpha dog you are just useless. You start emptying the trash and making breakfast and washing dishes now as the man. Jobs that you used to hire maids to do for you in naija. Not only can a 17 year old white boy disrespect you on the job but you are now a dishwasher at home. You have no value in society. Anywhere you turn up you are not celebrated but tolerated. After a while the woman starts to see that this guy is truly worthless to me, why do I need to coexist with this emasculated societal reject ? I am better off by myself and I can get a better job than him here as a nurse. He has become a burden to me. This is why most women chase their husbands away from home after they both relocate abroad
Bro... For this type of marriage... The men lost control over the wives and hence lost everything else.
I tell you this for free, if all you have over your wife and kids is CONTROL in Nigeria... When you travel abroad with your family, you will loose everything you built with them. Cos in abroad, FREEWILL speaks so loud even the deaf can hear it. Alfa Male or Not.
There are families where kids can't even crack a joke on their mum's makeup or dad's haircut. Not to talk of wife joke about the husband's dressing.
Don't control your wife or children to love you but let them do it out of freewill. This will automatically come with concern, respect and understand of the new environment for you - Oga Alfa male.
Jennyclay: Why recording and posting it online?? Is not as if he’s faithful either . Nigerian Men are really childish . The idiot even said he’s feeling like God . Mumu!
You don’t give your girlfriend money, you don’t take her out on a romantic date, you nonsense men don’t even care about her well being and you want to experience faithfulness and true love. You foolish men must be joking!!
I’ve said it, if I can’t get enough money, sex and true love from my man, I’ll look else where. No time!!
Shior!!
So God you have cleared the air... So even if I had it all when we got married, once there is a challenge and things tight small, u will walk away. Better I call it quite than marry you then.
Gjrich: Nigerian international student arrested for impregnating 4 female police officers in US.
A Nigerian international student named Jamil Ezebuike, from Anambra State, has found himself entangled in a legal web in the United States for impregnating police women.
Ezebuike, pursuing a course in women’s security at a distinguished university in New Jersey, stands accused of impregnating not one, but four female police officers.
His arrest has sent shockwaves through the community, unravelling a complex narrative of deceit and clandestine relationships.
Ezebuike’s journey to the US took shape under the guise of an international student, armed with a non-immigrant study visa.
As an aspiring professional in women’s security, he had seemingly immersed himself in a course that aligns with his academic pursuits.
The intricate tale of his arrest unveils a carefully orchestrated deception.
Operating under the radar, Ezebuike managed to engage romantically with four female police officers simultaneously.
The relationships remained concealed until one of the officers, who had been impregnated by Ezebuike, discovered the truth.
What adds a layer of intrigue to the story is the officer’s decision to investigate further, revealing Ezebuike’s involvement with three other women in the police force.
The revelation prompted the officer to report the situation, leading to Ezebuike’s apprehension by security authorities.
The legal repercussions loom large as he faces the prospect of a court arraignment.
If found guilty, the consequences may extend to deportation back to Nigeria, marking a significant downturn in his academic and personal pursuits.
This incident serves as a poignant reminder of the complexities surrounding international relationships and the ethical considerations that come with studying abroad.
The legal proceedings will not only determine Ezebuike’s fate but also underscore the importance of transparency and adherence to ethical standards, particularly in a cross-cultural academic environment.
As the story unfolds, it casts a spotlight on the intersection of personal choices, legal consequences, and the broader implications for international students navigating foreign educational landscapes.
Moyinoluwa35: Please is it a crime we in nigeria enjoy life before we all die? Why is everybody comfortable with this suffering going on in this country? Nobody is talking everyone have move on
We are chicken-hearted. Even you go run if gbege start. What's happened with the #EndSars movement. The elders (with no Children in Nigerian schools or visit Nigerian hospitals) in the society tricked the younger ones into backing out and now see us see Nigeria.
Honestly, there's presently no purpose of fighting!!! Let's stick to prayers and perhaps our Moses will come sooner than expected.
Burnoutx: Please I need your advice on what to do. Married to a wonderful lady (so I thought) and she gave me two kids. A boy and a girl. Been married for 7 years now and to be honest, it’s been manage this and that. Things got to bad that I decided to travel to south Africa and hustle. Seek greener paths elsewhere, come back home and bless my family. Things didn’t go as planned so I came back home with no money after two years of pain and found out that my wife is dating someone at the next street, even got pregnant! I forgiave her but while I was back she was still sleeping with the guy right under my nose. Caught her and her friends begged and I forgave her again! Yes am not working at the moment and she’s making money and cares for the family but she has changed so bad that she stays out late and make late calls. I love her but I can’t keep living my life like this. She shouts a lot and even blames me for having an affair outside!!! Any little opportunity she gets she will cause and insult me while living under my own roof. Am not holy on my own side cos you talk to me anyhow, I respond the same way but I will never hit a woman! Please house I need advice
You need your sanity as a human and respect as a man of the house but they don't come by mouth. They come by what you bring to the table. Don't let fear hold you back, the earlier you accept your fate, the better. For now, your wife belongs to the boys -
Until she bring disease come house before your get sense?
Having such a woman, you don't need to look at any other women...
This is what your imagination says but truth is that it's all lies. It's fear and love of God that holds a man back from adultery. Even a man that loves his wife may fall into temptation once in a while.
You see this shape so... Like a he-goat you will still run after the one that has no front and back packages. Na you go shock yourself after you finish the feasting and start to ask yourself wetin happen.
marvellous2222: Can a man be this wicked to the wife of his youth? 😭
I am a legally married woman with no child and My marriage is 15 years. I reside in Lagos.
I am not the type of woman that monitors or interfere in my husband business or his staffs. Though I know some of the staffs but not much closeness.
7 years ago 4 youths corps served at my husband office but one lady among the 4 corps member was later retained and employed as a secretary to the director who is my husband.
Though my husband told me when his secretary wanted to do her wedding at Port Harcourt 4 years ago. I didn't go but being my husband staff, he went with some of his friends. Less than a year after the wedding the Secretary gave birth to twins. I even went to visit her at home in gbagada, Lagos with gifts for the new babies then. When I asked for her husband I was told he is out of the country. I never knew I was being fooled.
December 22, last year, the Secretary gave birth to another baby in a private hospital where my immediate sister got employed less than 3 months as an accountant. It was my sister that witnessed everything and told me.
The lady I thought is just a secretary is my husband-wife. The wedding the Secretary did in port Harcourt then was between her and my husband. The twins she gave birth to then and the new baby she just put to birth are my husband children. The house I went to visit her in gbagada was bought to her by my husband with a saloon car.
My husband didn't deny it when I confronted him. Even his parents and siblings all knew about it. I didn't know I was in darkness for years.
I am still in the shock because all is still like a dream to me. I asked him of my offensee to have punished me that way but he said I did nothing wrong.
Since the day the whole secret was exposed I have been mentally sick and disturbed. What should I do? pls admin approve some men can be extremely wicked.
To be honest.... I can not say I feel your pain it is he who wears the shoe knows where it really hurts. But then I would have told you to walk away and leave everything behind but then that's the easiest thing to do.
This is the time to hold God to his word in Exodus 23:26, be prayerful and truely happy for your husband that he has children of his blood and like Hannah, you too will bear him children of his blood. It will not be easy going through this but with God, your miracle will materialize. Stay strong, God is your strength.
LifestyleTonite: If those houses are destroyed now, the "they hate us" people will say they are being targeted. But when the whole area is flooded as a result of no passage for water, they are always quick to mock Lagos on social media, saying, "see the Lagos Tinubu built."
Their latest tactics is to say that no building goes up without government approval, therefore the demolitions are illegal. Okay, provide the approval letter you got before you built on a canal like a ship, they go mute.
One word for those houses... Otilor
I don't see any where the tribe of the house owner is mentioned here. Be objective. It's been stated that demolishing of houses is not targeted at any tribe but to correct the menace of inappropriate building structures like this one. Don't be shallow minded.
In his viral clip, Zazu gave the date and location for the fight, that is, if Charles Okocha accepted his challenge. Portable's video is coming days after Charles Okocha had gone online to rain heavy curses on him for calling him out online.
Read an excerpt of Portable's comment challenging Charles Okocha below: "@charles_okocha if you put body, you go collect Woto Woto ANIKULETI STREET DONJAZZY Man Pass Man
oliverwrites: If you know the story you won't give me this advise. I spent a month at the pyscharitic hospital two years ago because of a toxic and very manipulative wife who sadly I love. However, this time I am sticking to my guns until she changed, it has been 8 months I left home and have zero intention of return back until she shows remorseful and makes effort to change.
However, my duty as a father will never be neglected. I understand it is not always about money and I have never taken it to be about money but right now, the only thing I can do is spend money whilst hoping there will be a change.
So sad... But then, advise was based on the post. Enjoy your day.
oliverwrites: My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.
Please give me gift ideas.
Make this Christmas a complete family by uniting with their mother and spending the Christmas as a family. It's not about money all the time. This Christmas can be about happiness, love, family values and strength in unity. Every other thing is secondary here!
I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.
And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.
westlius: I met this guy 2020 at Calabar, we worked in the same project in Calabar (8miles). After the project I returned back to my base in PH and he was in UYO for another job. 2 months ago he chatted me he is in PH and badly in need of job. Then his calls and messages became constant. I gave him several job links, this morning he sent me a FB message that one of the job has sent him an invitation, I was happy at least if he gets it he can pay his bills. He then drops his account details that I should send me 1k for transportation which I declined. I bluntly told him I can't look for job for you and give u transportation for the interview. This evening, as I came back from work I called him to know if he went for the interview, the funny guy send no he didn't go because of no transport fare, I just hang call
You gave him a link does not mean he has gotten the job. He might attend the interview and not be successful, hence you should have assisted him with the Tfare. Furthermore, if he eventually is successful at the interview, do you know that in the first one month, going to work will be a challenge without Tfare and he will possibly still run to you for more help on it.
You owe him nothing but we are all humans and rise by lifting others.
ademola2017: In 2017, i expressed my deep concerns on nairaland about my now ex wife double dating game before we got married, her attitude towards me and how the relationship was one sided.
I got several advices to let her go but decided to give the marriage another chance but it eventually crashed in March 2022. We did all we could to save the marriage but to no success. We were done patching. No child was involved and absolutely nothing to show for the marriage after 8years of being together. I still feel the pain but it gets better everyday. I credit myself for not cheating on her till our last days together and even months after our separation.
After several months of being celibate, I had sex with a young 25year old lady. I met her through a family friend 2 months before she got pregnant
Just one intercourse, she became pregnant. At first, i doubted it because I laboured very hard to father a child for 8yrs and with just one sexual intercourse, someone is carry my baby?? with me being very knowledgable about calculating ovulation dates and timely intercourse, it conformed so I had to accept the pregnancy as a sign from God.
Deep down, my new partner and I do not love each other but the respect for each other is on point. We have ZERO expectations from each other. We communicate well and have started living together in peace. No arguements, no drama and no issues at all.
I changed my mindset by taking her as my younger sister and she does same by taking me as an older brother.
It feels strange to be at so much peace with someone that I dont love at all. Our baby is coming and I am scared things may change when the true reality sets in.
What do you guys think?
It's better you define your relationship before settling down with another woman based on what you have been through and this time, the child involved. It's only love that encourages and strengthens a union in the face of Challenges and not respect. Otherwise, collect your pikin and face your front.
general111: Hello good people of Nairaland. My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go. Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?
Tell her your ex is also in town and you need permission to visit her on same date she is to see hers. If she permits you, then permit her too.
Zetra7: I stopped watching Nigeria national team since the administration of Buhari when national politics creeped and rendered football useless..
Today, I took out time to see what has become of the once super eagles.
From the onset, the problem was obvious...
Nigeria is a fraud of a country, this continue to affect every sphere of our lives. It's quite clear that the people donning the super eagle jerseys are simply product of fraud..
Same thing evident in our political space where ethnic, nepotism and loyalty is above merit based performance..
It's glaring to see that a washed out player IWOBI was the best player with responsibility of coordination of our game.. Terrible.
Now don't get me wrong, Iwobi merit been in the team but not as our star playmaker, where are the Okochas, Kanus, Mikel Obis
Nigeria doesn't lack Talents...
- My second observation is that Nigeria is trying to bring diversity within the team. In football, that has to go to the gutters... Even countries like france took the world cup twice with mostly coloured players.
If a particular ethnic group can give first 11 that will show our love for football by all means let it be.. Every nation seeks to use its best to achieve greatness, why is every thing different in Nigeria?
The Super Falcon performance of the world cup has many Igbos, they represented the flag with a star performance that newly took them to greatness..
That a Yourba man is the president doesn't mean they have to add in numbers to the national team...
My advise - Disban this fraud of a squad and start afresh..
In Europe, big nations finish off the less ones in football but Nigeria has a very low expected goal ratio.
We will never qualify for another world cup in this state..
benuejosh: An what if what she is saying has nothing to do with her relationship with Taylor?
Come to think of it, none of her relationships has lasted more than a year if i am correct. There's an issue somewhere.
Any young guy looking to settle down with cuppy must be as rich as her dad otherwise forget it. She has all that she wants or needs to be comfortable without a man. So you must be on the same level with her Dad as a guy to settle down with her.
Even with money like her dad... No be by money o. Marriage is deeper than that. I believe her right man will come. @Cuppy, love the fact that life bubbles within you. Luv you Hun!!
Gwin007: no.. thanks and they it going to be about 2weeks tourist visa.. Whc after it expires I will now start looking for my papers
This is where you people miss it. And you think these papers you are looking be like groundnut for Lagos traffic. 10 yrs fit pass you like 10days and you may still be in hiding. If you wan japa... Japa well. If you are not grounded with a purpose and strategy... Forget am.
Politics › Re: Moghalu: Emefiele, Worst CBN Gov In Our History, But We Don't Need Media Trials by Farrason: 12:33pm On Dec 24, 2023
. Nigerian Men are really childish 