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ERockson:
You attended the church for just almost 3 years and demanding financial help based on period you've been with the church, what about pastors's children that have been there for more than 20 years and could not get financial helps for their children.
Pastos can not help everybody approaching them for helps. Now that you are a nurse and earning money how many people have you helped financially, how many school fees have you paid for the less privileges. If you have no enough records of helping many people or all people coming to you for helps, you are not better than the Pastor. If you and your Mom have been saving the money you paid for tithe and offering you might not be in the financial problem that will bring you to pastor for help. So, Because you paid tithe and offering in your church, the pastor must help you. Entitled mentality is your problem

sweetkevisco:
So death sentence, then what if it's a false rape accusation,and the truth is known after the man has been executed

bestman09:
Someone can not help someone stop the spread of breast cancer?

Are we sure it is not about ritual? Perhaps, one baba told him to look for a mad woman and suck the breasts.

Seriously, the man is supposed to have been handed over to the police!

budaatum:
Your "core of my message" is rather very lame.

That's why you have not engaged with me since page one of this thread, where you lost it by quoting a man written book that tells you a woman is a rib!



And that despite the fact that the same book clearly states that before your God created Adam and Eve to be naked ignorant slaves in his Garden in Eden, God created man[kind] in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

But I guess it sums you up that you'd be trying to enslave women in the 21^st century with a book written like 2000 years ago by man and disregard the fact that women now go to school too and can read!

budaatum:
So, you need some law saying your wife should let you sex her instead of you forming a relationship with your wife that makes her want to sex you?

Do you also need a law to tell your children to love and respect you instead of you earning your children's respect and love?

And should your employer too have a law that makes you serve them instead of you willingly serving your employer because they reward you?

Melezenawii:
SW and SS are the major regions carrying the rest of the country. SE make so much noise but contribute very little positively to the country.

https://x.com/maydebuk23/status/2017570960186982750

budaatum:
So, you need your wife to be obligated to have sex with you, and if she doesn't give you permission, it's okay for you to rape her by having sex with her without her permission, and you think that's a healthy desirable relationship?

Can you not imagine doing what you can do to make your wife actually want to have sex with you?

How do you enjoy sex with a wife that doesn't want you to gave sex with her? No, actually, ignore that, since I'm certain rapïsts must enjoy rapïng their wife!

Brendaniel:
This is not cyberstalking, you've gone out of context, read the charge they even charged her there for, still on intent, telling you they know a whole lot will not even fly, this is just pure bullying...

datola:
Hmmm..... Was she supposed to be remanded in prison when preliminaries have not found her guilty. What about if she won the case case. What would be her compensation for the prison experience

This Cyber bulling law supposed not be a criminal lay but civil because it looks like an easy tool in the hand of the highly placed to oppress the downtrodden.

Please, look beyond this Angela case...

Moveittothem:
A story that never happened.

How did he know she wanted equality? Not all women are feminists.

DrMB:
Ever feel like your heart is about to jump out of your chest because of a tiny spider or a long bridge? You aren't just 'scared', there’s actually a name for that. Here are 22 phobias that prove our brains are weirder than we think.
Think you’re fearless? Check this list of 22 phobias and see if you can make it to the end without finding yours.
Be honest: How many of these did you have to Google to make sure they were real? Let me know your 'fear count' in the comments!



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DrMB:
Ever feel like your heart is about to jump out of your chest because of a tiny spider or a long bridge? You aren't just 'scared', there’s actually a name for that. Here are 22 phobias that prove our brains are weirder than we think.
Think you’re fearless? Check this list of 22 phobias and see if you can make it to the end without finding yours.
Be honest: How many of these did you have to Google to make sure they were real? Let me know your 'fear count' in the comments!

You no go fear shark... Abi you wan whine!!



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Ab0bii:
Oga marriage is overrated.
Motivational speakers will send you 6ft beyond easily if you listen to them.

No dey hate my posts abeg, me my problem na money

Tenses:
Where there's no investment there's no risk. That's why it easy for her to walk away. If she was expected to make financial contributions towards the marriage ceremony she would have open up to the man that the marriage will not work so no need to waste money.

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

Fiscus105:
Yes, but different opinions on same topic, meanwhile, only one of such opinion will be true, while rest are not genuine, valid or truth.

For woman to poor in bed, is not a yardstick for fidelity.

Okoroemekah:
i don't believe you.there is no enjoyment in old age.a man suppose to be flexing from his early 20s when you are still very strong and active.i am 50 now and believe me most check engine lights on my body is on.is it at that age you will start flexing ? If you have nothing at 40yrs you have missed a lot sincerely the best part of a man's life is from 20 to 40 that is when you marry.build house.buy car .raise children.but I guess every body is built differently. Some have zero drive and ambition. While some have the mental power to succeed

Mrkc:
I'm in my 40s, single, and jobless. Tired of life

budaatum:
One thing I've learnt is, siblings can assume they all got the same good treatment, when the truth might be that some are not treated as well as some. And though some may claim someone "was well treated as a kid", they don't know how the kid felt about its treatment.

I say the above to add rationality to the actions of this "kid". It is also possible that the kid's action might be irrational, and that he truly was treated well as a kid and now just does not care about his parent's no more, or it can be that his new location has its on hardships that have caused issues for him so his thinking is bent.

If we don't walk in his shoes we'd never know his journey, basically, and any judgement might be ill informed and hasty, and is definitely a "million dollar question", and "life".

Racoon:
See them rationalizing all the atrocious and treasonable activities of these terrorists. No wonder Nigeria is where it is today.

alphonsoolajide:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/11/22/regina-daniels-parties-with-peter-okoye-in-lagos-amid-marriage-crisis-rumours/

Abee79:
It's really worrying to see how sharing so much success online has backfired. When people publicly posted all the secrets about getting visas and buying certificates of sponsorship, it sadly made the UK government notice and tighten their rules. Now, many people who gave up everything to move are stuck and can't stay. It's a tough lesson that sometimes, it's better to be careful about what you share on the internet, because the consequences can affect so many others.

Chilipepper:
Lady shares story of how a friend secretly placed her on a monthly salary when she lost her job.

Jennyclay:
kindly go and warm Eba and eat if you have absolutely nothing to say

I don’t blame you men, i blame this lawless country. If it were to be in the western world the man will be arrested. He has not right to be in full custody of the children

My prayer now is that, the useless husband shouldn’t molest those children, Nigerian men can’t be trusted not even their fathers.

God please intervene

Emmyruns:
JAMB NO LONGER MANDATORY FOR ADMISSION - FG GIVES INSTITUTIONS POWER TO DECIDE USING SSCE RESULTS

The Federal Ministry of Education has announced that the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB) will no longer serve as the primary requirement for gaining admission into Nigerian tertiary institutions.

According to the new directive, universities, polytechnics, and colleges of education will now have the autonomy to determine which candidates to admit based on their Senior School Certificate Examination (SSCE) results or its equivalent.

The Ministry stated that the policy aims to give institutions more flexibility in their admission processes and ensure that deserving candidates are not denied access to higher education.

Kaczynski:
the most reasons for divorce is when a woman no longer love her man or feel anything.


when it comes to nigerian marriage, most men drink alchol and start getting aggressive on their wife , most men dont help out in the house they only care about paying the bills nothing else , most nigerian women go to work and still take care of the house when they come back, 70% of nigerian men stop being romantic to their wife when they clock 50,
tell me whats the last time you gave your wife a back rub or feet, cook dinner for the family,
some nigerian men cant even change their baby pampers or feed their baby.


marriage is about partnership, love and support, its all scratch my back i scratch yours


its sad most nigerian men think money runs the family , tell me why women are divorcing billionailires for guys with nothing but camry lite in his drive way

TheSourcerer:
Can i ask just one honest Question?
how does this affect ypu tbh? or anyone in fact ? would u like it if wpmen tokd ypu what to do woth tour body?
please i genuinely just want to know how ypu reason thats all.

Fiscus105:
What do think can make woman cling to a man in this situation?

. She believes in future.
. She has no option.
. The guy's dick is unforgettable.
. Real and genuine love for the guy
. Charm.

Goodman024:
Hello everyone, good day. I trust you’re all doing well. Please, I really need some matured advice from you people regarding something that has been troubling my mind and could affect my future. I’ll try to be as brief as possible, but I also want to explain well so you can understand me.

So here’s the matter: I’ve been in a relationship with a lady for almost a year now. From the beginning, we had our fair share of challenges, things like poor communication, not being very supportive (all from her end), and some other small issues here and there. But along the line, we both worked through those challenges, grew to understand each other better, and since then things have been going well between us.

In fact, I’ve already introduced her to my family members, and by next month I plan to go and see her people. I’ve been thinking seriously about settling down with her and hopefully making her my wife next year. That’s how far I’ve gone in my mind and plans with this relationship.

But something happened yesterday that broke me badly, and it’s the reason I’m here asking for advice. I recently found out that she lied to me about her health condition. To give context, some months ago, she was diagnosed with fibroid. I have been supportive since then, reassured her, and made her know that whatever happens, we’re in this together. But what really pained me is that I later discovered she has actually known about this fibroid since over a year ago, long before she even told me, but she kept it from me until recently.

As if that wasn’t enough, I also got to know that she has had two abortions in the past. And please, I’m not just assuming or accusing her wrongly, I have proof of everything I’m saying. Honestly, this revelation has really hit me hard, and I’m just confused about what step to take from here.

The truth is, I genuinely love this lady. But at the same time, my heart is heavy with a lot of thoughts. Should I let go of this relationship because of the lies and past secrets? Should I forgive her and move on, considering the fact that everyone has a past? Or should I take another approach?

I don’t want to make the wrong decision that I will regret later in life, that’s why I’ve come here for guidance. Please, advise me like a brother, or even as a son. I really need matured opinions on this.

Apogee14:
Ok it's a cleaner lady in my building who is commissioned to come every two days. She lives three streets away so I know she doesn't have to pay for transport but am sure the cleaner money is very low according to her back then it was like 31k before they did that minimum wage thing. Anyway I make it a point to toss like 1000 into her account like maybe once a week or even more. It just depends because some times I chop chin for like 2 weeks before giving her. Anyway so I decided instead of free money let me get her to do something small for me once in a while. I pile up my trash just at the side of my apartment before I get the chance to take it outside to the dumpster , it's not a lot of trash, like 3 small nylon bags of trash. So I would pay her 1000 just to walk like 40 steps to help me drop it in the dumpster outside. Anyway so the trash has been on the side of my house the past one week and the woman has come twice and she has seen the trash but just ignored it. At the end of the day I would go look and the trash is still there. Is it wrong to expect her to try to help me after all the help I have given her ? I give her food too apart from the money. Is it wrong to expect her to help me without asking ? Because if someone is always generous to me and I know they have paid me twice to help them move the trash outside, I would move it even if they have not asked me . Basically it seems she no send me, she is only interested in money. What do you think ? I dey look her side eyes now. Should I stop giving her or continue ?