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Islie:
…Accused of holding regular meetings with terror suspects in Abuja

…knows the whereabouts of kidnapped Zamfara female varsity students, corps members



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/02/terrorism-kidnapping-influential-northern-senator-under-watch/

Even this information is enough for such a person or group of sponsors to go underground. What kind of a country is this?.

See the way such a classified information is flying around on the Internet of all places and you guys think the culprits will sit and wait like a tree until you apprehend them or they will improvise.

Well, Unless our God watches the city, the watch men.... Finish it!!! Yeye people.

wrongman665:
Bassey, i see Nigeria rejoicing after the match.

Indeed we rejoiced after the match!!

Innocent People are languishing in prisons... Lord intervene

Keepamsafe:
My neighbor wants me to go along with her as the man in her life for their family get together on February 14th. Should I accept the offer? But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members and I don’t know how to turn down this her request judging on how nice she has been to me in the past. I need advice on what to do please.
help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

What's the shape of your head self.... Hmmm, now I see when this thinking came from. We need to beat some part of your head into shape, no wonder you no dey reason well... Now let's begin

1. So as a guy, when you go for introduction to your girl's parents, do you go empty handed - who will fund it in this situation.

2. When they demand to know your background, parents and all, how do your dodge the bullet.

3. You don't know the pressure that lady is facing from home on Marriage things and she's about to take you in.

4. When her family visits, you will need to act your fancy role again and this time make your own woman come dey house.

4. After this favour, guess what is coming next.

5. If your legs are still working fine... Reason with your legs to japa otherwise, you don buy market weh you no pay money.

And I was looking for the part where you will say excess sex kills but got disappointed.

Unwanted pregnancies and STI... Look very well, do the people you see today care about that with the rate of baby mamas everywhere. Raw sex is flying high on that chat like kilode!!!

Bro, if raw sex was a foreign currency, then dollar na JJC. Look around and beyond and tell me if na lie.

Salewa97:
Source: https://saharareporters.com/2024/01/30/herders-almost-kill-man-machetes-his-farm-imo-complaining-about-destruction-crops-cattle

Don't be fooled, these fulani guys have been moved to the east on purpose. There is an agenda on ground. But our God is not asleep. Your plans will fail in Jesus name.


@saharareporters also did an amateur job, how can you report a news without knowing the location, how did you get the pics and how did you know it was in Imo. Seriously, @saharareporters is just heating up tension in the country and causing panic everywhere. FG pls intervene on this unverified information, they should stop making people panic unnecessarily.

FRANCISTOWN:
The worst thing that can happen to a man is to marry a single mother whose baby daddy is still alive.

She may decide to move on with her new life... This is not in every case. Baby daddy could have been toxic and highly irresponsible.

However if they are still in talking terms and love nets. It's a ghost mode... The woman will have kids she doesn't know who the real father is.

mariahAngel:
Hi people!!! 👋🏼

So, I've been seeing some posts around lately, stating that this combo (picture below) is "poisonous", and I was like how naa? 🙄

Thing is, this combo is one of my favorites because not only is it so delicious, it is also very filling, and I am not about to give it up for whatever reason.

So, what is your take on this?
Do you like this combo?
Would you give up eating it?

What food combo do you enjoy the most?

Pictures' source: Instagram

MAD!!!! Exactly what I am having tonight with an addition of sliced bread and chilled coke.

Food moments... Is also one of the good moments in life... Pls don't just eat away... Enjoy the moment... It saves life.

Sayvick:
Medical experts have discredited a popular myth called magun (charm) that many people believe is responsible for couples getting stuck during intercourse.

The physicians who gave detailed reasons couples get stuck during sex which they noted was a medical condition, said there was no scientific evidence to show that the occurrence was as a result of a charm or spell.

According to the experts, getting stuck during intercourse is a medical condition known as penis captivus and has nothing to do with charm.

The senior health practitioners explained that Penis captivus is an occurrence during sexual intercourse when the muscles in the vagina clamp down on the penis more firmly than usual, making it harder (or impossible) to remove the penis from the vagina.

Also, an India’s dedicated sexual wellness clinic, Allo Health, says Penis captivus is a rare and unusual sexual condition that occurs when the muscles in the vaginal wall involuntarily contract and clamp down on the penis during intercourse.

The clinic notes when this happens, the penis gets stuck in the vagina and cannot be withdrawn, saying that this condition can be a frightening and uncomfortable experience, leaving both partners feeling embarrassed and helpless.

Though the causes of penis captivus are not fully understood, the clinic added that some theories suggest that the condition could occur due to excessive contraction of the vaginal muscles during an orgasm or an accidental clamping down on the penis during sex.

Experts in the field of urology and sexology who spoke exclusively with PUNCH Healthwise in different interviews maintained that it was very possible for a penis to get stuck inside a vagina during intercourse.

They urged those affected to seek help from experts as any effort to forcefully remove the penis will not only hurt them deeply but could lead to loss of lives.

The physicians regretted that the occurrence was often misinterpreted to be a trap or punishment meted out to an unfaithful wife by her husband or the gods, thereby denying those affected access to good and timely interventions.

A Consultant Family Physician at Anambra State Ministry of Health, Awka, Dr Chidumeje Okafor, who successfully separated a couple that were stuck in the state recently, speaks on the condition and how to treat such conditions.

Okafor, who also works at Iyi-Enu Teaching Hospital Ogidi, said, “Last week, a man (32) and a lady (25) were brought to the hospital in a Sienna bus and were tied together with a wrapper. They were in a sex position called spooning. The man was taking her from behind before the muscle spasm occurred.

“Muscle spasms occur when muscle involuntarily and forcibly contracts uncontrollably and can’t relax. That morning, as they were having sex, the lady achieved orgasm and sex became painful for them.

“Unfortunately, the man couldn’t withdraw his penis from the lady’s vagina when he started feeling the pains. They called a pastor who told them that the lady was married to a mermaid and it was the mermaid that used magun on her.

“Hearing that, I quickly admitted them and gave the lady a dose of anesthesia and some pain relievers. I also gave it to the man. After that, I started calming the lady down and eventually, I separated them. They were discharged almost immediately. They were victims of penis captivus.”

He continued, “Penis captivus occurs when the muscles of vagina clamp down severely on the penis, preventing the man from withdrawing. This situation is common to people with a history of vaginismus.

“This is the body’s automatic reaction to the fear of some or all types of vaginal penetration. Whenever penetration is attempted, your vaginal muscles tighten up on their own. You have no control over it.

“There are two types of vaginismus that affect young or elderly people. One affects very religious people who have never had any vagina penetration before. The other may be those who have had penetration and later stopped due to an unpleasant experience.
“Vaginismus is the risk factor for penis captivus, while vaginitis, sexual assault, infections, and endometriosis are risk factors for vaginismus.

“The muscles that are implicated in this are mostly the muscle of pelvic floor called the levator ani muscle which provides support to the pelvic visceral structures and plays an important role in urinary voiding, defecation and sexual function.”

The physician added, “These muscles are puborectalis, pubococcygeus and iliococcygeus. They are like diaphragms of the pelvic floor. The diaphragm prevents the chest organs, lungs and the heart, from falling into the abdomen. These three muscles also prevent organs of the pelvic from falling.

“So in penis captivus, these muscles contract intensely thereby preventing the penis from pulling out. When this happens, it’s advised that you don’t panic or allow anxiety to set in. Don’t be afraid, the more you try to forcefully remove it, the more it holds you down and you end up injuring yourselves. Call for help.”

Also, a Professor of Surgery and Consultant Urologist at the University of Port-Harcourt Teaching Hospital, Rivers State, Onyeanunam Ekeke, affirmed that “the condition is medical and not magun as people would say, especially the Yorubas, urging the victims to seek medical attention to save their lives.

“Penis captivus is an involuntary muscle spasm, painful contractions and tightening of the muscles wall of vagina, preventing any form of penetration, whether finger, penis or anything. These muscles contract intensely thereby preventing the penis from pulling out.”

He, however, believes that with the new cases being recorded in recent times, penis captivus would gain wide publicity to stimulate research on the topic to end the backlash that comes with it.

In a 2015 article published in European Scientific Journal which centered on magun, the authors said generically, the word magun is a Yoruba word that is fast enjoying global semantic attention particularly as it denotes mysterious phenomena by which it has generated several questions.

“Researchers have attempted to define magun as a mystical-sexual enchantment or embargo placed on a woman (usually by her husband) to check her infidelity or as a deterrent to many (men) who otherwise could have been reckless in their sexual life.

“While it appears easier to answer the question of definition or what magun is, the workings of this phenomenon have continued to spawn puzzles and inquisitiveness thus, it generates more questions and questionings”, the authors said.

And is it a coincidence that it happens when randy men meet with people's wife/girl friends that are under its spell. That's how science will convince you that humans can now eat rocks for a living and how it has been scientifically proven.... If e sure for you, climb Babalawo wife.

Stayfrugal:
Please tell me, please

Read about.

Stayfrugal:
I've been licking oranges since Thursday

Be like na tree block your yansh, we've got to do it the African mother style way.

In the days of old, you don see where Dem dey bath pikin and the mother wan force am shit. E get wetin Dem dey use for the pikin bum... U don get abi? Go use am.

If you don't Gerrit.... Forget abourrit!!

Loolz...

Take as much oranges as your hands can lay hold. But make sure you dey close to toilet otherwise.. your story will be hard to forget.

Opintiwa:
If Christians and other religions storm some Fulani settlement and behead, maim , rape and kill thousands continuously for one week under disguise of being uneducated.

I think there will be a mutual respect

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you... This I have seen. Truly, a mystical being spoke through you.

EreluRoz:
I'm sure as young as that boy was, he was already having dirty thoughts towards her else he would have gone to someone else and not his co flower girl.

Those that married their agemate try sha, it can never be me. If you are less than ten years my senior, I'll forever see you as a small boy 😆

Are you single... I want to check something

Mysteriousworld:
My neighbor and his wife are always fighting...
What bothers me is their son, the marriage isnt healthy for him.
For the first time, i helped them settle their fight yesterday.
I listened to them both.
The mans complain is that his wife doesnt respect him at all, for example, she says ; "im going to pure the dustbin away" then she doesnt return in another 2 hrs, she wont pick calls or she left her phone at home,(he claims hes sure shes not cheating, because thats where my mind went) when she gets back and he complains, she'll now start her own anger, saying he has no right to tell her that....shes not a child and so on....(the man doesnt police her, just expects her to tell him her whereabout).
She finds it hard to say sorry(he says that scares him)
She's never wrong.... And always has an excuse for being wrong...a narcissist i guess.

The wife says everything the man complained about is unnecessary, says he complains about unnecessary things... He complains too much.... Thats her problem with him.(she was in tears through out)

This is what caused the fight yesterday...
They were playing and happy till they decided to go out together... Then the husband noticed her waist beads, thats where quarrel started, to the point that she bite him, and he slapped her back.... All in the eyes of their son.
He said the first day they started dating, she was wearing waist bead, he told her he hates it and she removed it immediately.... Only for her to start wearing it after marriage... He said he had been complaining about it for 6 months now, until yesterday when he insisted she must remove it...

To cut the long story short, he said hes done with the marriage, and to my surprise she said she is too, she left to sleep in a guest house yesterday, says shes coming to park her load this morning...
She said she'll leave with her son , he said she cant leave with his son... I guess thats where therell be issue this morning, based on the custody of the child.

The story long but this is a summary...
Pls... Matured minds on nairaland....
Im confused and dont know if i should try and help them settle it... Because a part of me is thinking its better for them to go separate ways, since none of them is ready to bow to the other... At the same time... Im thinking i can help them settle it...
Its just clear there will be a big issue on who takes the child this morning if they decide to end it.

OP, you have done well... However truth is that you can take a horse to the stream but can not force it to drink water. Hence, you have done your part but if the couples don't wish to continue, there's nothing you can do about it.

Marriage is a two side coin but the man and woman will always have their own side to defend.

It's the place of the man to love and that of the woman to respect. If you respect your husband, you can't be gone for 2hrs just to throw trash away even if you were gisting with neighbors outside. You can't have waist beads on if your husband says he dislikes it. Even the man too is to authoritative in his approach to matters. She is your partner and not your younger sister.

Humans generally are rebellious to authoritative figures in their life. Try it with your child, it's a matter of time/yrs and that child will challenge you one day.

Marriage too is like a business, apply logic and strategies to your approach and conflict resolution skills. Someone above already suggested some cool moves. Lastly, if you lack wisdom, ask of God who gives liberally to all men. Always apply wisdom, it's your family!!.

Judith2021:
teachers are urgently needed in a growing school.... Applicant must be willing to relocate urgently... Accommodation it's available....
Salary 30k(but room for increment)
Interested applicant can call or Whatsapp me on 09053157908

Applicants must be willing to relocate to where?

No name of school and no location and yet you want applicants to relocate - Kidnappers them!!

SGANIVA:
No,no courtship, the traditional marriage and wedding happened within some months i meet her

Guy, be patient with this woman mbok!!. She is looking after a baby as well. Is her first time being a wife and mother and yours, a father and husband... Take am easy.

You want to start another season of ruthless . .Abeg the baby with her grow first o

I suggest both of you should take this time to slow down, build your marriage and get to know each other more and more.

If she is not working yet, are in interested in her stress? boredom? Challenges? Engage her in a discussion and find out what's in her head.

Lastly, how much attention do you give her... I believe romance begins when a woman becomes aware that you are giving her a considerable amount of your time and attention.

lebron7:
Keep this same energy when it's your daughter or sister

Reciprocating your insult is below me. I have not said documentaries are wrong or that TB is holy... I have only cautioned you to be wise.

Apparently, it's obvious what runs in you and hence your defence on your stand. You need to do something about it before something is done about you.

omohayek:
What on Earth has a documentary exposing TB Joshua's criminality got to do with "mocking" God? Are you so gone in your worship of the dead man that you identify him with God?

It's obvious where your mind is focused on as that is not the only line written. If you can not comprehend such a short paragraph, I doubt your level of understanding, hence I owe you no explanation.

lebron7:
You are very stupid,
Very very stupid
God cannot be mocked but tb Joshua was raping children and you're here spewing your religion jargon

Really... Anyways, I am not the cause of your problem. Channel your aggression to making your life better this 2024. You stink of bitterness!!

FYI: Anything is possible on social media.

Izuchukwu70:
Na Yul Edochie start am.

Omo we no go gree for that guy... He must settle ys for the inspiration. Haba!!

gidgiddy:
I took my time yesterday to watch all three Episodes of the BBC documentary on late TB Joshua. A number on women of different races and nationalities, British, South African, Zimbabwean, American, Philippines and Nigerian, all came together to talk about TB Joshua

The one thing all these women had in common is that they once all moved from their respective countries to live in TB Joshua's Region's community, Synagogue Of All Nations, SOAN, and became part of his inner circle.

All the women gave horrific and graphic accounts of rape, underage sex, sexual abuse, physical and verbal abuse carried out on them by TB Joshua.

The South African woman claimed she had three abortions due to multiple rape by TB Joshua. The British women told how TB Joshua would send for them only to sexually molest them. The Zimbabwean gavee a story of how TB Joshua raped her as a virgin and underaged.

Even TB Joshua's own daughter came foward to tell how she confronted her father for multiple sexual molestation of women only for him to have her locked up for months and beaten daily.

I was also shocked at the Story of how the SOAN building collapsed, the lie that was told that an aircraft brought it down, and the coverup that followed as well as the 'fake miracles'

Even though TB Joshua is no longer here to defend himself, I believe these women. There is no smoke without fire. A group of women who live in different countries of the world cannot give similar accounts of sexual abuse by one man without it having an element of truth

I believe that TB Joshua was a rapist, sexual predator and a sociopath. I believe TB Joshua used religion to cover up the evil within himself. He operated as a man of God in the light, but was a devil in the dark.

I also believe that there are many well known men of God who are currently doing what TB Joshua did.

God has not made you Judge or Jury over anyone. Every one can comment online and every one is responsible for their comments on this matter. Be wise and let God handle His business.

Bible already told us that God can not be mocked!!!
Shalom.

God1000:
Where did this slogan emanate from?

Honestly speaking... How did this movement start self.

I like it on the positive angle... Stay focused, stay determined... No gree for anybody.

adesegun121:
How TB Joshua R^aped Me When I Was 17, Forced Me, Others To Do Countless Abortions –Former Disciple And Synagogue Church Member


A former female disciple of Pastor Temitope Balogun Joshua, better known as TB Joshua has narrated how she was allegedly raped by the cleric when she was still underage.

Joshua died on June 5, 2021. As part of its investigation, the BBC interviewed at least 30 former members and workers of the Synagogue Church of All Nations (SCOAN). The first instalment of the documentary was released on Monday.

The woman who was featured in the investigative documentary alleged that the late pastor first had unlawful carnal knowledge of her when she was 17 years old and kept doing so till the time she left his synagogue.

“He was telling me that, you know, I’m your father and I’m delivering you. We went into his room and I stood there and he said off your clothes. So I removed my clothes and then he just pointed. So I lied down and then he raped me.

“He broke my virginity. I was screaming and he was whispering my ear. That should stop. Stop acting like a baby. Better shut up. You want to make noise. You want people to hear? I felt like there was a beast. Like this beast? I was 17 years old. I was underage,” SaharaReporters quoted the woman from the BBC documentary.

She continued: “He grabbed me and he held me very close to him and he, he literally then pushed me down to the bed and he got on me. I was still so shocked. I was still bleeding to his pit on the floor and he held my hands and he looked straight into my eyes and said, ‘I can see you are my child now. Don’t betray me’.

"If any of us got pregnant, he said you cannot betray the men of God. We have to do something about it. Women that he rapes, he forces them into abortion. I never had a choice whether I could keep a potential child or not. I felt like I didn’t own my body."

Explaining the late pastor’s motive behind the repeated molestation of women and young ladies, a disciple who claimed to have spent 14 years in the synagogue claimed he was doing so to strengthen his spiritual power.

The woman said, “He was a sexual predator. He was a ritualist. Joshua asked me to find virgins for him to bring young girls into the disciple fold.

“In the midnight, this person will be called into his bedroom so that he could ‘disvirgin’ (deflower) them. When those girls come out, he usually takes all the bed sheets and everything. You pack them and take them to the prayer mountain.”

The woman further said that the pastor compelled other ladies and women who were victims of his rape to have abortions if they became pregnant in the process.

She said, “I witness a lot of abortions. Lots of abortions. It can’t be counted. They started doing it inside the synagogue. There’s a place they called the Medical Department. We went out through the back door of his office. We went downstairs.

“There’s an area that visitors would never see. You’re given a concussion to drink. You get sick. Or they put these metal pieces in your vagina and they extract whatever and you don’t know whether they pulling out your womb or something’s going wrong.”

“He’s somebody used to painting a picture that he loves children. But behind closed doors, it’s a nightmare. I had three abortions at Synagogue. And from speaking to other women, I’m not the only one,” another victim said.

The allegations of abuse in a secretive Nigerian compound span almost 30 years. More than 25 former members spoke to the BBC – from the UK, Nigeria, US, South Africa, Ghana, Namibia and Germany – giving powerful corroborating testimony about their experiences within the church, spanning three decades up to 2019. The British victims were all between 15 and 21 years old when they joined the church. Multiple BBC interviewees compared their experiences to like being in a cult.

Upon his death in June 2021, TB Joshua was hailed as one of the most influential pastors in African history. Rising from poverty in Nigeria in the 1990s, he built an evangelical empire stretching across the globe, and counted among his associates dozens of political leaders, celebrities and international footballers.

The BBC said it contacted the current leadership of the Synagogue Church of All Nations with the allegations in this film. They replied: “Making unfounded allegations against Prophet TB Joshua is not a new occurrence.”

“None of the allegations was ever substantiated,” the leadership was quoted as saying.

They did not respond to the details of the allegations, the BBC said.

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/how-tb-joshua-raped-me-when-i-was-17-forced-me-others-to-do-countless-abortions-former-disciple-and-synagogue-church-member/

lalasticlala, Mynd44, OAM4J Seun Nlfpmod

No cognitive descriptions of places where these events occurred, even the room that you mentioned did not have a detailed description so that if another person enters, they could validate your descriptions and hence the possibility of such story.

30 years and no detailed descriptions of the places the events occurred, even the private room .... just stories of what happened.

As a playboy, if 5 girls describe your room to your main chick, she has confirmed that you are not to be taken serious.

As a groom to be, your wife-to-be says, let's lodge at Eco hotel, they have live bands every Thursday and the beds are thick and have strong springs... You know the rest.

Just my take... However, Only God knows those that serve Him truly. May He grant us a discerning spirit in this end times. Amen

ADEADE292:
Who's game with this kind of animal mate, am confused when I come across this roasted baboon....to me I see this as pure wickedness.

Ask a lion this question... You self no go live to collect the answer.

I support the guy above... Something above turned them to an item on the menu list. Anyways I am a vegan

PerfectJUSTICE:
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we stared living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will her say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please

NB: For those saying it's fiction because I wrote the village is inaccessible. A village where you will have to park your car and continue the rest of the journey with a boat is it easily accessible? A village where you will have to come outside before you can make or receive a call would you say that the village have network? Please I didn't come here to right you a fiction. This is real. If I show you a picture of me like now you will understand I'm practically loosing it. I only need your sincere advice hence I wrote this.

Firstly bro... Thank God that you both parted ways in good health and she is fine. My advice for you now is to disappear from her reach!!.

I know that a daughter is involved but you don't know the plan she has for you and trust me you can't lay an easy claim on that child. Try to move on... Life will sort itself!!

Even most likely, another you will meet her and the sex will be so sweet and same circle will repeat itself.

Open ya ear now: FLEE NOW WHILE YOU CAN.

festacman:
Many men will knack multiple rounds for free. This is a clout-chasing bad girl wannabe.

Real bad girls don't pay for sex. It is waste of their endowments and coital talent. It is a business for them.

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