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chronique:
Calling them idiots is an understatement. No wonder a lot of relationships don't work out. [color=#000000]Peuople don't understand that not everone can tolerate lies and deception. Once trust is broken,a union starts to crac[/color]k. The woman misled him into marrying her by being deceptive and people can't see that fact;how do people conveniently lie to the ones they claim they love? Why don't humans have a conscience? How many more lies will he discover? How will he cope when he finds out more? I'm not saying it's ok to divorce her cos she lied but people have to understand that what she did isn't something that should just be waved aside,without repercussions. The day you lie to me and I catch you,I'd start doubting everthing you've ever said,and would ever say.

You said it as it is...I really don't blame the OP,I'd have felt the same if I was in his shoes (especially if she's older than me).Lies are just not ok in a marriage.

Jacko1:
Women deceiving men since 1760


See scam na

Who knows hw many oda women r in marriages wit falsified ages

I'm a woman but this is outrageous...how can someone lie like this for so long?She get PhD for lying,it's really true..some women lie so well.

OP,your feelings are justified but try and forgive if you can.

yedidiah:
yeah, rightly said. It is rather unfortunate that things that should be normal, are now being glorified.

It really is

yedidiah:
It is very easy to find them in the environment I come from. Infact, it is easier to find virgins in my circle than non virgins.

same here, Very very easy..Infact coming out to say you're one,is very very awkward because everyone already knows or thinks you're.

awelekiti:
Yea, it's never a big deal and that's what I'm trying to assert here. Adokiye's case....if at all she's right isn't a special one.

I get you ...The lifestyle people live these days makes it seem unbelievable & like an almost impossible thing...Anyway,I hope she truly is,it's a wonderful thing.My regards to your wife,I respect her for keep her act together,cheers.

awelekiti:
It's possible she's a virgin. But she doesn't have to broadcast it. Not many adult who are virgin end up a responsible and respectful wife though so she should just keep quiet. There was a lady I used to know. She could play with you an allow you to touch her body from her top to her waist and do what you like with it. But once it gets to doing it with her, she'll flare up and disallow you. She's had broken relationships just because of this in the past. She's epitome of beauty. She's always dressed gorgeously and in an attractive manner. The day she told me the reason behind her refusal, I was shocked! I used to see her as promiscuous because of the way she easily meangled with men, even with her dressing. Not only did she tell me this, I confirmed it myself. This lady ended being my wife. Adokiye's case isn't a rare one cos we still have her type around. My wife was 29 when we got married while I was 30 and I still met her a virgin at that age.

lol ..I know ladies who're 30+ and virgins,I guess your wife can reach that age too,if she hadn't met you and married.You can easily preserve your dignity for the right person if you really want to,no big deal.Being from the north..these kind of things don't surprise me because it's the norm to always wait till after marriage.It's actually the other way round...surprises when I see a northern girl who isn't married and isn't a virgin especially the Hausa or Fulani.

Curves have nothing to do with this.It's just how God created her.Doesn't in anyway prove that she isn't one of the few ladies on earth who respect their body so much.

Tedassie:
u 4 kukuma faint at once,mk dem revive u wif akara.

Hahaha

Antina:
Even less than 12yrs old, saw a lot whre I served. Higher percentage of them.

nawao,May God help us.

Granger:
And if they insult Allah or the prophet you have the right to kill them.
You people need reorientation.

Did anyone mention anything that has to do with killing here?It's because of people like you I wrote that 'mature' in capital letters.If you need information from people or just want to seek attention,learn how to talk like a responsible adult first.Peace

Jazakallahu khairan

Jazakallahu khairan

Wow I've definitely heard of some..May Allah guide us and protect us,amin

I think doing it in a MATURE way the way the likes of Sh.Zakir Naik do ,with authentic verses and hadith(s) is permissible , so we can make them see the truth.But,it's very important that we try as much as possible not to insult their religion least they insult Allah or His Messenger.And ofcourse they shouldn't insult our religion too.
That's my thought though,Allahu a'alam.I hope I didn't make any blunder

Please how many married Muslim girls do you see that are underaged these days?It's a thing of the past and then it was the norm to get married at an age like that.Agree some get married at the age of 14-16 even now but let's be honest ...
Even the girls that don't marry at that age,don't many of them engage in illicit relationships?we've girls nowadays that lose their dignity at the age of even 12 years all in the name of fun.

Jazakallahu khairan

Hmm I always wonder how this mut'ah idea made sense to them . May Allah guide us unto the siratal-mustaqeem and make them see the truth , ameen

Lol funny in a mature way

LadyMercedes:
Yeah, it's a joke!!!

Haha nice joke

lonelydora:
As a lady stay away from this Nissan Juke.

Ok,thank you.But your reasons please..too much problems?

espn:
MADAM WHICH PERSON SIDE U COME DEY NOW....

Hehe none o

Lol the fan sef..it's not his business & even the Mr Freeze abi whatever his name is,why show off?

Pillyportions:
she said the truth. We ladies should pick up skills that we love, get the training, and we will see ourselves making money from it.May God bless her.
*MODIFIED*
are u seeing wat i am sawing? Ladies no comment much for this post.. Lol

Lol them no dey like this kind post

lielbree:
God please give me the grace to raise my daughters with this kind of mentality. Amen

Amen

Ijaya123:
Majority of our young ladies will read this and forget it almost immediately. They are bunch of lazy ass. Always expecting one mumu to come and pick their bills all the time.

That's too much now.
But it's the truth , very pathetic and self demeaning

Now this is another responsible woman.Even though it's not very feminine as some suggested;it's good as long as she's happy with it and maintains her dignity.It's great to always stand out.We've had other fields in the past too like engineering which were seen as unfit for a lady.
And the people saying she's not beautiful...Career and hard work have nothing to do with beauty,confuses me why people keep bringing this up in topics like this.If you,as a guy,have this mindset,then you need to change;and if you're a lady,then you're in big trouble.

kaleeto:
I don't see how dis will help them "chibok gilrs" since it wasn't built to carry an assault missile. what's d usefulness of this when I can buy a much more powerful drone on the market. Pls dis is not what Nigerians need, we need innovative weapons that will help us defeat boko haram and not some toy plane.

It's his project , he just had the girls in mind.

Handsomecole:
Well I'm very sure the person would have been one of my beloved South Easterner that manufactured it , always showing the light anywhere they go.

One thing I know for sure is that an "Awusa" can never manufacture such. It's not an insult it's just a fact.

Lol fact? Please where did you learn that intelligence has anything to do with tribes??As far as I know,it's a complex trait & it is an individual thing ; and even the researches that claim it can be hereditary ,scientists aren't 100% sure they're true.But since it's a fact,I'm sure you or someone,must have done some sort of research to come to this conclusion.Do provide me with a link to a scientific article or something which proves so.

God bless him

EkeneElectrons:
Yes it is.

Thank you for your contribution

EkeneElectrons:
Gl450 good if shes gertting ready for a kid

No she's a young lady and isn't that car expensive ?