Romance › Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Feanah(f): 5:15am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Antecote: Don't mind her, she's still young, doesn't know what life is. When the time comes she won't know when she will open I've seen people in their 30s who still haven't given it up,It's a 'moral' something...Has nothing to do with age. |
Romance › Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Feanah(f): 5:01am On Aug 27, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Feanah(f): 5:00am On Aug 27, 2017*. Modified: 5:33am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Oma307: I guess you are one That's something private I believe.Just stating what I think is right. Hopefully you think so too |
Romance › Re: Ladies! Does Keeping Your Virginity Till Marriage Make You A Better Person?? by Feanah(f): 10:06pm On Aug 22, 2017*. Modified: 5:39am On Aug 27, 2017 |
Yes,it makes you a better and more decent person |
Education › Re: The medical students and aspirants thread by Feanah(f): 6:49am On Aug 22, 2017 |
bethedoski: Hi Dr, Will be glad to get them for you too . There are many nice hostels off-campus you could easily afford for your intended duration of stay(at the agent's discretion of course). I can't guarantee that of the Dr's quarters reservation but will be sure to make enquiries. Congratulations Dr Hello sir,good morning.How are you? I'm around,how do I get the past questions pls? |
NYSC › Re: Accomdation For Kwara Corpers Posted To Ilorin..... by Feanah(f): 3:58am On Aug 05, 2017 |
Onatolu39: Hello guys, This accommodation is available now for corpers/students. It s a self contain apartment located in Tanke,Ilorin!
There is water, light and security..
No need to pay agents fee or anything... 100k per year!
Call me on 09054807001... can 1 rent for 3 months? |
Education › Re: The medical students and aspirants thread by Feanah(f): 6:28pm On Aug 01, 2017 |
bethedoski: Hi Dr, Will be glad to get them for you too . There are many nice hostels off-campus you could easily afford for your intended duration of stay(at the agent's discretion of course). I can't guarantee that of the Dr's quarters reservation but will be sure to make enquiries. Congratulations Dr Thanks Doc,will be waiting for feedback....thanks alot |
Education › Re: The medical students and aspirants thread by Feanah(f): 11:25am On Aug 01, 2017 |
bethedoski: Congrats Dr... For the past questions, I could easily talk to the doctors I know here and get most of them for you... Regarding accommodation... there are a couple vacant rooms in the Dr's quarters u could lodge for the period of your exams... it would be imperative though, to arrive earlier so as to secure one... Fellowships would gladly cater for u pending that. Congrats once again!
Am a 4th year Unilorin med student.
Dr Lagusta ✋, why you press pause on your diaries now? Hello Doctor,I'm also a foreign trained Doctor..I'll be interested in the question papers too pls and can one secure the Doctors quarters accomodation before heading there?Like have it reserved for him or her.And what are other options for accomodation pls?Thank you |
Literature › Re: Need Recommendations For Great Stories by Feanah(op): 7:26pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
No answer  |
Literature › Need Recommendations For Great Stories by Feanah(op): 8:14pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Hello everyone,didn't know I could come across some very great,realistic stories here...Never took my time to explore because I noticed most stories have an adult theme and deal mostly with bedroom matters.
Just finished reading 'Tears of a soldier',great story even though it isn't complete;have started mission Sambisa now,seems great!I need suggestions for stories like these...something deep,something that makes you think and learn,see life from the perspective of others,and appreciate their struggle.
It doesn't have to be related to war...can be romance,mystery,adventure etc Looking forward to your suggestions. |
Literature › Re: Tears Of A Soldier............ A Military War Story by Feanah(f): 7:40pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Haba continue now |
Webmasters › Cost For A Nice,user Friendly Forum by Feanah(op): 2:19pm On May 06, 2017 |
Pls how much will it cost to develop a simple website with a blog and forum like this.I don't check my mail,so please post your price here.I'm a student,so give me student price o
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Health › Re: Endocrinologist In Lagos Pls by Feanah(op): 7:12pm On May 04, 2017 |
oxypress: Why not go to the outpatients clinic first for doctors to assess you. If they detect endocrine problems you will be referred to endocrinology section. That should be the normal practice in all hospitals. Same thing if the case is emergency you can be referred from that section too. I am not in LUTH o! Well,I've seen two different doctors (internists) , and their treatments differ because I've results that contradict eachother. I'm tired of spending money and doing tests all the time , so I want to see an endocrinologist...most probably he/she can do better.But I don't think they'll happily give me a referral letter,because they both trust their diagnosis! |
Health › Re: Endocrinologist In Lagos Pls by Feanah(op): 7:08pm On May 04, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: yes, if not they wont answer you, you can get it from any hospital. I am not too sure if they have clinic on wednesday afternoon though but i am sure of other days Thank you very much |
Health › Re: Endocrinologist In Lagos Pls by Feanah(op): 9:38pm On May 02, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: come to LUTH, endocrinology clinic holds every afternoon from 2pm, just come with a referral letter and they will see you Thank you,does it have to be with a referral letter? |
Health › Endocrinologist In Lagos Pls by Feanah(op): 1:42pm On May 02, 2017 |
Good afternoon people!Pls who knows an endocrinologist in Lagos?Not just a consultant internist;an endocrinologist that deals only with endocrine problems.I don't mind whether it's a public or private hospital. |
Business › Re: We Supply Shea Butter To Wherever You Want It by Feanah(f): 5:56pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
How much per carton and how many pieces for the oil and shea butter?Pls reply me here or by email ...safeenadarl@yahoo.com ASAP,thank you |
Islam › Re: The Issue Of Shortening Salah (salat-ul Qasr) During NYSC Camp by Feanah(f): 11:05am On Dec 30, 2016 |
Assalamu alaikum,I think you should ask sheikh @assimalhakeem if you're on Twitter,he's quite knowledgeable and answers asap. You can also check this https://islamqa.info/en/60358 , I think the question is similar to yours. But still ask Sheikh Assim Alhakeem of possible & let us know his answer pls. Jazakallahu khairan |
Education › Re: Abiola, 21-Year-Old Nigerian Medical Doctor (Photos) by Feanah(f): 5:38pm On Nov 09, 2016 |
76Naira: Funny you. I know Ibukun personally. I don't call her Abiola. I knew her classmates where she schooled, know her parents and sister. Infact, I knew her when she was 16, 5 years ago and I spoke to her 3 days back when she returned for this event. She is a super bright girl. got A's with a few glances over her books. If you want to see smart, engage her and you will appreciate what she is made of.
Cheers Did she school in one of the north African Arab countries? Her name sounds familiar |
Education › Re: Abiola, 21-Year-Old Nigerian Medical Doctor (Photos) by Feanah(f): 5:33pm On Nov 09, 2016 |
I think she looks older because she's wearing make up (though she looks 21 to me)...and young adults and teenagers these days usually look and act so much older than their age (s). Graduating at 21 from medical school is nothing new,even 20,if the person attended a school which awards the degree in 5 years time.Very common in the ones who studied outside the country.I hope we see more young doctors in the nearest future.
if our schools were functioning like they should...This wouldn't have been anything to dispute about at all,because we have so many kids graduating early from secondary school these days. |
Education › Re: Abiola, 21-Year-Old Nigerian Medical Doctor (Photos) by Feanah(f): 5:25pm On Nov 09, 2016 |
Exponental: Finished secondary school at 15. Is there a Uni DAT does Medicine for 5years? Assuming 1yr houseman ship is not altered? Housemanship is after induction.Yes,there are schools which award an mbbs degree after 5years (not in Nigeria ) & that would have allowed her to graduate at 20 if she got an admission at 15. |
Education › Re: Abiola, 21-Year-Old Nigerian Medical Doctor (Photos) by Feanah(f): 5:09pm On Nov 09, 2016 |
BiggyB242: My cuz just started Madonna Uni, she is 15 in for med and her younger sis just 13 already in SS2,Kids these days jumping classes. Got admission at 15 too because I jumped pri 5 and 6...My parents decided to let me try taking common entrance and I was just lucky.Started a med school in Nigeria, wasted a year and some months before leaving there for another school.My mates I left there,even with the 3-4 semesters gap, just got inducted like two months ago & I have just a few months left to go God willingly;even though I left them and started afresh. I hope your cousin gets to finish on time (21) since it's a private uni..I hope they don't waste her time .I wish her all the best. |
Islam › Re: Share Your Unforgettable Experience(s) That Brought You Closer To Allah by Feanah(f): 6:01pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
Well I don't really have story to share..just that I school in khartoum,not one of the places you'll want to be .I started looking for admissions late (my dad wanted an islamic country) and it was the only country I managed to get apart from others who put me on waiting list,incase some students don't show up.A month after I came here,I sat for my IELTS examination,because I wasn't willing to stay;intended transferring to some other school after my first year which needed the IELTS test. I got along quickly with my new class mates and decided to join some of them in the islamiyya they attend.SubhanaAllah, it didn't take much time before I decided I wanted to stay;the place wasn't as bad as I thought & my school was very very good too. I had so much about my religion I needed to know,knowledge which I know will be hard for me to get if I leave this place. The islamic rulings I didn't understand,some were easily explained to me and made alot of sense.It took me less than a year to decide I wanted to wear the hijab, willingly on my own..I just wanted to cover up.Had more peace of mind learning about my religion,my priorities changed . I've stopped going to the islamiyya for some years now and it has definitely affected me spiritually. I've just some months left here,and I'll definitely miss this place because I've learnt so much about my religion here. It was a blessing in disguise, something I never wanted. |
Islam › Re: Share Your Unforgettable Experience(s) That Brought You Closer To Allah by Feanah(f): 5:38pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
lexiconkabir: Ok, that will be when the whole family (including me) had an accident at Iwo road when we were coming back from eid al-adha celebrations, my brothers and my sister were ok, my dad was ok and my mum was ok, i was the only one THAT ALMOST DIED, why? I was sitting behind my dad, so when he was struggling with the steering, he finally hit a tree, the branch of the tree compressed the door(beside where i sat), dislocated my arm and gave me a cut on my face.
According to my mum, my iris/pupils went up and All that was left was my sclera (i.e the whitish part), she thought i had died and was crying heavily because i stopped breathing(according to her), i was unconscious for only Allaah knows how long.
when i gained consciousness, i found my hand hanged while i was on bed, then i started thinking, I almost died, if i had died where will be my end? sincerely i lived a sinful life, I didn't pray AT ALL! the prophet(sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) said, the difference between a muslim and a kaafir is salaah, umar ibn khattab said, he who does not pray is a kaafir, therefore i was a kaafir at the point of death, so i ask where will be my abode after death? your guess is as good as mine ETERNAL HELL!
you could imagine the tears that rolled down my cheeks (not literally tho, i hardly shed tears ), what kind of life have i been living? life of NO SALAAH, life of GIRLS(yes i had GFs), infact at the point of death i was with "punk hairstyle", so is this how i would've gone to Allaah with "punk"? , I had earpiece listening to the Qur'an of shaytaan(i.e music) when thr accident happened, was this how i would've died? with so much burden to carry when i stand in front of Allaah? a day when every atom weight of evil you have done will be shown to you? how bout the punishment i would've received in the grave before yaumul qiyaamah? subhanAllaah, Allaah had mercy upon me.
so when i finally gained admission, i started changing bit by bit, i walked with friends that were practicing Muslims, that way my eeman increased and became practising muslim till today, the hardest life i had to leave was the Life of Girls, it was really difficult! the greatest jihaad is jihaad an-nafs i.e fighting against ones whims and desires.
Why are you still scrolling down? story don finish na? or what else do you want me to say? oh!
jumah mubarak  Barakallah ,very touching.may Allah guide us,amin. |
Islam › Re: Share Your Unforgettable Experience(s) That Brought You Closer To Allah by Feanah(f): 5:36pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
Contact17: As’salam alaikum brothers and sisters in Islam.
Today, I would like us to share unforgettable experience(s) that drew us closer to Allah subuhanu wa ta’ala. It does not have to be a negative experience but something you will like to share with others so we may benefit from it. Today I will be sharing one of the many times I thought I was going to die. This is one of the times I said to myself ‘ah oti ton fun mi’/ it is over for me. It all began about nine weeks to Ramadan. I noticed I would randomly get dizzy and nauseated. I did not really have any major health issues so I didn’t bother much. I was a little worried but I didn’t pay much attention to it.
Lesson no 1: Take care of your body as much as you can because it’s trust from Allah.
Time went by, Ramadan came, and these symptoms became more frequent especially during the last ten days. I could not pinpoint why, but I thought perhaps, it was dehydration or low blood sugar. However, during one of the last ten nights, my symptoms worsened. I was tired, vomiting, and dizzy. I had never ever felt like this before. I have felt tired and weak before but this was on another level. I felt like my body had failed me and had given up on me.
Now, I have many experiences where I thought I was going to die (like the time I almost drowned) but this was different. This time I believed I was dying.Questing started to pop in. Did I live a good life? How would my case be with Allah? What of the people that I might have backbitten, slandered, or oppressed in any way? Did I oppress people with my tongue and hands? I have not had a chance to seek their forgiveness.
Lesson no2: Repent seek forgiveness from those you may have oppressed in any way or form. If you cannot do that that make dua for them, speak and treat them in a good manner.
One of the hadith that was stuck in my mind at that time, was the Prophet’s advice (peace and blessing be upon him) to take five before five. It was narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessing be upon him) advised: “Take benefit of five before five: Your youth before your old age, your health before your sickness, your wealth before your poverty, your free time before you are preoccupied, and your life before your death”. (Narrated by Ibn Abbas and reported by Al Hakim)
I couldn’t but wonder......did I take advantage of my life? My health? My time? If I were to die now, would I die a good death? Am I being hopeful of Allah?
It was narrated that Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah al-Ansaari (may Allah have mercy on him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say, three days before he died: “No one of you should die except thinking positively of Allah.” Narrated by Muslim (2877). An-Nawawi (may Allah have mercy on him) on commentary of the hadith said: The scholars mentioned what is meant by thinking positively of Allah, may He be exalted, is thinking that He will have mercy on you and forgive you. Then, when the signs of death appear, hope should outweigh fear, or should prevail completely. Sharh Muslim (17/210)
At some point I started to wonder how much of my little wealth savings did I really keep for myself. Al-Tirmidhi narrated that they slaughtered a sheep at the time of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and gave it in charity except for its shoulder. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) asked ‘As’ishah, “What is left of it?” She said: “Nothing is left except the shoulder.” He said: “All of it will remain except its shoulder.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen on commentary of this hadith mentioned. Whatever a person eats goes and no longer remains, but that which he gives in charity is what will remain for him with Allaah and he will benefit from it on the Day of Resurrection. This hadeeth is a reference to the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Whatever is with you, will be exhausted, and whatever is with Allaah (of good deeds) will remain” [al-Nahl 16:96].
I would like us to pause for moment and ask ourselves how much of our time are we really spending for ourselves? And how much of our wealth are we really spending for ourselves?
I will leave you with the advice of the Prophet (peace and blessing be upon him) who said; “Be in this world as if you were a stranger or a traveler along a path.” Ibn Umar said, “If you enter the evening, then do not wait for the morning. If you enter the morning, then do not wait for the evening. Take from your health for your sickness and from your life for your death.” Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6053
We all know that death is as real as it can get and our clocks are continuously ticking, so what have we prepared for when the soul would reach the throats?
NOTE: This story has been exaggerated a little to draw lessons.
culled from https://thatislamictalk..qa/2016/11/an-unfortabale-experience.html Jazakallahu khairan |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Aborting A Pregnancy In The Early Stages In Islam by Feanah(f): 5:32pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
Jazakallahu khairan |
Islam › Re: Shocking Reason Why Muslims Don't Condemn Terrorism by Feanah(f): 5:31pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
I was so ready to come here and argue. Jazakallahu khairan, nice one. |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Zina ( Fornication / Adultery) In Islam by Feanah(f): 5:27pm On Nov 04, 2016*. Modified: 9:23pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
Alhamdulillah, this is the main reason I said I'll get my children marry when they want to - both girls and boys. Especially the boys,I'm not putting any restrictions on you to get married only after you graduate.This is one of the reasons why our young people indulge in zinah.We need to let them know how serious it is, so everywhere they go,they can uphold their dignity. |
Romance › Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Feanah(f): 5:21pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
If he's my close friend,I'll tell him because it will keep disturbing me ...He deserves something better,& I'll tell him right in front of her ,as early as possible...that leaves her with very little time to come up with something against me (except if lying is her speciality).If he decides to forgive her,fine & good. You know your friend better!Also put yourself in his shoes, would you rather your friend keeps quite and let you go ahead with a cheat or tell you the truth? |
Family › Re: Help! My Pregnant Wife Is Acting Strange! by Feanah(f): 5:04pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
Bibors: The actions of pregnant women with husbands is so strange and acceptable but I have never seen pant woman who got pregnant without a husband who acts like this. How come these girls or ladies carry their pregnancy without acting movies. These acts are psychological. I can agree that , certain smells may affect some people and some may spit always. Because there's no one to pamper them,they just handle it somehow;same with a woman whose husband isn't around,she tries to hold some things back ....but truth is,some women overdo it with their husbands, they personally confess at times when they're with their friends  (not nice). Nonetheless, you can't know whether she's the type who exaggerates hers,so you just bear with her. |
Family › Re: Help! My Pregnant Wife Is Acting Strange! by Feanah(f): 4:55pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
bencarson007: @Feanah...God bless you my dear You are very intelligent and highly observant. They truly don't. They just package their wahala and keep it on one side. You might not even know they are pregnant. I don't know why it is like that though. You noticed it too  |
Family › Re: Help! My Pregnant Wife Is Acting Strange! by Feanah(f): 4:54pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
Mustay: Interesting observation. Just to clarify Feanah, what do you mean by unwanted pregnancy - married or unmarried couples Ben has said it all.  |