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Celebrities / Re: Kunle Afolayan Loses Passport And Laptop In Paris by FearFactor1: 9:33am On May 29, 2017
My phone just loss
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Religion / Re: Repent Today! The Kingdom Of God Is At Hand! by FearFactor1: 10:03am On May 28, 2017
kings09:
And Seun is aware of dis. Christianity is easily attacked bt same nonsense cant be tried wit islam.

It's pathetic.

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Religion / Re: Repent Today! The Kingdom Of God Is At Hand! by FearFactor1: 10:02am On May 28, 2017
snrman:
because they know your comment is going to b insulting

And all those insulting posts on this thread?

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Religion / Re: Repent Today! The Kingdom Of God Is At Hand! by FearFactor1: 9:50am On May 28, 2017
Even on Nairaland there is sentimentality and tribalism.

Why should I have to swear before I post on an Islamic thread meanwhile any body can post on a Christian thread.

Mods should take note.

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Phones / Re: Snapchat Keeps Unique Daily Audience Against Instagram by FearFactor1: 7:24am On May 18, 2017
grin
Agriculture / Re: Tomato Scarcity Beckons As Tomato Pest, Tuta Absoluta, Returns by FearFactor1: 6:30am On May 12, 2017
Na to buy one drum of grinder tomatoes oh...
Business / Re: Keystone Bank Revamps Branches by FearFactor1: 6:29am On May 12, 2017
Hmm. It's a step in the right direction.
Politics / Re: Breakdown Of National Assembly’s N125 Billion Budget by FearFactor1: 6:28am On May 12, 2017
Where is my allowance
Programming / Re: Are You An Animator? Start Earning Money Now by FearFactor1: 7:05pm On May 10, 2017
Animator terminator... grin
Romance / Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by FearFactor1: 9:07am On May 10, 2017
PatriotTemidayo:
Every piece of advice am about to give is curled out of your write-up. First, I think you think too highly of yourself and less about him. Secondly, picking a fight over him watching porn describe you as Naive and close-minded cus like you've said, you're in the US and he's in Nigeria, how else did you think he survived? Thirdly, you do not appreciate the fact that while you're busy pursuing you personal educational agendas, he was very understanding for waiting for you, that was a big sacrifice.
Lastly, you live in the US and called Nigeria's Item inferior? That's absolute ignorance. I think your parents and family are top used to very expensive and imported items that they forgot that stuffs in Nigeria ain't exactly the same quality as that of the US, and I am sure your people just wanna make an issue for this. I think they got another hidden suitor someone and I think they suddenly think your man of 7 years is not worthy of their heavy investment who is now a PhD in-making.

Think.

You said they dont wanna sell you so why should box of gold matter?

If they don't wanna collect so much money from his family, so how much does a box of gold cost?

As far as am concerned, he has the right to break up with your ass cuz you've been so carried away with the word "YOU" that you forget you're trying to build a relationship, and not a factory.

Don't blame him, but make amend. And make it humbly. Your doctorate degree, your Green card and your family and stuffs wouldn't help you get a man. He was sad your man b4 you got to this level, be wise.
Car Talk / Re: 52,000 Porsche Macan Recalled Due To Fuel Odour In The Cabin by FearFactor1: 1:56pm On May 09, 2017
U can only return what u have ryt?

Cos I have pictures...
Crime / The Art Of Stalking... by FearFactor1: 1:46pm On May 09, 2017
Stalking is unwanted or obsessive attention by an individual or group towards another person. Stalking behaviors are related to harassment and intimidation and may include following the victim in person or monitoring them. The term stalking is used with some differing definitions in psychiatry and psychology, as well as in some legal jurisdictions as a term for a criminal offense.
According to a 2002 report by the U.S. National Center for Victims of Crime, "virtually any unwanted contact between two people that directly or indirectly communicates a threat or places the victim in fear can be considered stalking", although in practice the legal standard is usually somewhat more strict.
People characterized as stalkers may be accused of having a mistaken belief that another person loves them (erotomania), or that they need rescuing. Stalking can sometimes consist of an accumulation of a series of actions which in themselves can be legal, such as calling on the phone, sending gifts, or sending emails.
In the UK, for example, most stalkers are former partners and evidence indicates that the mentally ill stalking type of behaviour propagated in the media occurs in only a minority of cases of alleged stalking.
Psychological effects on victims
Disruptions in daily life necessary to escape the stalker, including changes in employment, residence and phone numbers, may take a toll on the victim's well-being and lead to a sense of isolation.
According to Lamber Royakkers:
"Stalking is a form of mental assault, in which the perpetrator repeatedly, unwantedly, and disruptively breaks into the life-world of the victim, with whom they have no relationship (or no longer have). Moreover, the separated acts that make up the intrusion cannot by themselves cause the mental abuse, but do taken together (cumulative effect)."
Types of victims
Based on their work with stalking victims for eight years in Australia, Mullen and Pathé identified different types of stalking victims dependent on their previous relationship to the stalker. These are:
1. Prior intimates: Victims who had been in a previous intimate relationship with their stalker. In the article, Mullen and Pathé describe this as being "the largest category, the most common victim profile being a woman who has previously shared an intimate relationship with her (usually) male stalker." These victims are more likely to be exposed to violence being enacted by their stalker especially if the stalker had a criminal past. In addition, victims who have "date stalkers" are less likely to experience violence by their stalkers. A "date stalker" is considered an individual who had an intimate relationship with the victim but it was short-lived.
2. Casual acquaintances and friend: Amongst male stalking victims, most are part of this category. This category of victims also includes neighbor stalking. This may result in the victims' change of residence.
3. Strangers: These victims are typically unaware of how their stalkers began stalking because typically these stalkers form a sense of admiration for their victims from a distance.
4. The famous: Most of these victims are individuals who are portrayed heavily on media outlets but can also include individuals such as politicians and athletes.

Types of stalkers
Psychologists often group individuals who stalk into two categories: psychotic and nonpsychotic. Stalkers may have pre-existing psychotic disorders such as delusional disorder, schizoaffective disorder, or schizophrenia. Most stalkers are nonpsychotic and may exhibit disorders or neuroses such as major depression, adjustment disorder, or substance dependence, as well as a variety of Axis II personality disorders (such as antisocial, borderline, dependent, narcissistic, or paranoid).
Some of the symptoms of "obsessing" over a person may be characteristic of obsessive compulsive personality disorder. The nonpsychotic stalkers' pursuit of victims can be influenced by various psychological factors, including anger, hostility, projection of blame, obsession, dependency, minimization, denial, and jealousy. Conversely, as is more commonly the case, the stalker has no antipathic feelings towards the victim, but simply a longing that cannot be fulfilled due to deficiencies either in their personality or their society's norms.

In "A Study of Stalkers" Mullen et al.. (2000) identified five types of stalkers:
1. Rejected stalkers follow their victims in order to reverse, correct, or avenge a rejection (e.g. divorce, separation, termination).
2. Resentful stalkers make a vendetta because of a sense of grievance against the victims – motivated mainly by the desire to frighten and distress the victim.
3. Intimacy seekers seek to establish an intimate, loving relationship with their victim. Such stalkers often believe that the victim is a long-sought-after soul mate, and they were 'meant' to be together.
4. Incompetent suitors, despite poor social or courting skills, have a fixation, or in some cases, a sense of entitlement to an intimate relationship with those who have attracted their amorous interest. Their victims are most often already in a dating relationship with someone else.
5. Predatory stalkers spy on the victim in order to prepare and plan an attack – often sexual – on the victim.
Many stalkers fit categories with paranoia disorders. Intimacy-seeking stalkers often have delusional disorders involving erotomanic delusions. With rejected stalkers, the continual clinging to a relationship of an inadequate or dependent person couples with the entitlement of the narcissistic personality, and the persistent jealousy of the paranoid personality. In contrast, resentful stalkers demonstrate an almost "pure culture of persecution", with delusional disorders of the paranoid type, paranoid personalities, and paranoid schizophrenia.

And women were more likely (much more likely) to be violent if they were stalking a victim with whom they had a prior history of sexual intimacy.

Credit: Wikipedia.org

Phones / Re: Smart Phone Battery Myth We Should Stop Believing by FearFactor1: 7:22am On May 09, 2017
I talk am say dem no smart
Phones / Re: 3 Possible Reasons Why Power Banks Explode by FearFactor1: 7:20am On May 09, 2017
Same reason why money banks shut down,

Rotor door issues
Generator issues
Even fire.

Heard of Savanah bank? grin

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Career / Re: How Should I Respond To My Boss Who Fired Me Via Email? by FearFactor1: 7:17am On May 09, 2017
hoMegas:
delete the Email and pretend you didn't see anything

U go work for free be that

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Career / Re: How Should I Respond To My Boss Who Fired Me Via Email? by FearFactor1: 7:16am On May 09, 2017
Basically that's how u get fired in big corporate organizations...

Nobody walks up to u and starts apologizing..

Word: just turn in ur stuff and walk away, get on with something u love doing.

Such is life.
Properties / Re: Tenant(lawyer) From Hell by FearFactor1: 7:15am On May 09, 2017
ajalawole:
u dey mind the op, how lawyer go hold me to ransom ontop my own house

Negodi

Na bull crap. House I suffer build.

But we also need to hear the lawyer side of the story o...

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Properties / Re: Tenant(lawyer) From Hell by FearFactor1: 7:11am On May 09, 2017
U dey fear lawyer?
Write the lawyer
If his response is poor, copy the bar association.

That's way cheaper than going to court.

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Crime / Re: Nigerian Prostitute Jumps To Her Death In Dubai During Police Raid (Photo) by FearFactor1: 5:25pm On May 08, 2017
themonk:

grin grin

Na wha
Y u dey shine teeth?
Crime / Re: Nigerian Prostitute Jumps To Her Death In Dubai During Police Raid (Photo) by FearFactor1: 5:22pm On May 08, 2017
Beautiful prostitute kwa

The beauty of a ashawo na when u kpass finish no pay... hehe

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Federal Government Of Nigeria Fadama III 2017 Recruitment by FearFactor1: 1:47pm On May 08, 2017
Bigii:


wow wish u luck.

pls what did u upload any land document??

Nothing.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Federal Government Of Nigeria Fadama III 2017 Recruitment by FearFactor1: 1:22pm On May 08, 2017
Hmmm aplied.

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Business / Re: What Are The Requirements For Getting A POS Machine? by FearFactor1: 8:35am On May 08, 2017
JohnNgene:
When I visited Fidelity Bank here in Agbani last week, they told me my business will qualify for a P.O.S when it generates a minimum of N1million per month. Imagine that! Lol.

I really need detailed information on this P.O.S issue. Nigerian banks, where are you? Come and give us answers.


cyif2003:
same thin I was told last yr. useless bank

Here'a why u need a turnover agreement before we deploy a POS terminal.

1. The bank buys the terminal. Between 100 to 150k depending on type and model
2. The bank pays the service provider. For network or cos
3. The bank pays for routine maintenance, b/w 10k to 20k mostly.
3. They also provide paper from time to time.

Can u bear all these cost??
Business / Re: What Are The Requirements For Getting A POS Machine? by FearFactor1: 8:34am On May 08, 2017
cyif2003:
same thin I was told last yr. useless bank

Here'a why u need a turnover agreement before we deploy a POS terminal.

1. The bank buys the terminal. Between 100 to 150k depending on type and model
2. The bank pays the service provider. For network or cos
3. The bank pays for routine maintenance, b/w 10k to 20k mostly.
3. They also provide paper from time to time.

Can u bear all these cost??
Religion / Re: Kenneth Copeland Lays Hands On Oyedepo At Winners Chapel's 36th Anniversary by FearFactor1: 6:19pm On May 07, 2017
illitrate:


So everything about life is tied to economy?

U dunno.
undecided
Religion / Re: Kenneth Copeland Lays Hands On Oyedepo At Winners Chapel's 36th Anniversary by FearFactor1: 10:09am On May 07, 2017
State the economic advantage of this post....

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Religion / Re: Israel’s Reshet TV Documentary On T.B. Joshua’s Relocation (Video) by FearFactor1: 10:01am On May 07, 2017
Nairaland is another typical Nigerian owned platform that cares less about customer complaints.

Quite me at ur own peril... sad

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Celebrities / Re: Lara Olubo, Mercy Aigbe's Friend "Beaten By Mercy's Hubby", Breaks Her Silence by FearFactor1: 9:17pm On May 06, 2017
When u marry street fighter...

B/w real men don't hit women,

unless say na for bombom grin grin grin

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Celebrities / Re: Baby On Board - Toolz And Tunde Demuren Are Expecting Their First Child by FearFactor1: 9:13pm On May 06, 2017
See belle
Crime / Re: 2 Nigerian Grandmothers Arrested At Lagos Airport With Cocaine And Heroin - Pics by FearFactor1: 9:13pm On May 06, 2017
Afonjashapmouth:
Ah
Wetin happen?
Crime / Re: 2 Nigerian Grandmothers Arrested At Lagos Airport With Cocaine And Heroin - Pics by FearFactor1: 9:10pm On May 06, 2017
Hmm

If this makes front page and my post is deleted e no go better for that mod.

B/w I son snap shot an first

Moreao
NCAN see food is ready

Politics / Re: BREAKING NEWS : 80 Kidnapped Chibok Girls Freed By Boko Haram by FearFactor1: 7:54pm On May 06, 2017
Honestly, I think say this matter don pass...

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