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Realhommie:
Then it's what? I respect your opinion though..

charly20:
The daily structure already showed me a failed swing and CHOCH in a "resistance zone".

This candle "+" in HTFs is actually consolidation in LTFs so that is RBD according to S n' D people. And according to "institutional traders"; "previous opened orders in accumulation areas are closed when price returns there before continuing in the intended direction". So it is high probability.

Coupled with the existing compression cum liquidity pool I marked out and fib OTE, even higher probability

Then there is a QML= checkmate

But if you dey call me sir, wetin you go call the other sir dem

Cheers!

Beebah2000:
Small butt no be sickness.
Leave am for me like that

Use the money do preek enlargement

Silentgroper:
shey my preek small?

pansophist:
Sex is like a fight, its something you prepare for before the battle, not on-the-spot preparation. Like the military saying, "if you want peace, prepare for war". If you want good sex, then you prepare for it via your lifestyle, not one-off pills. Sex like battle, is won before the battle day. If US and Togo will fight tomorrow, its common sense the US already won.

Start living like your ancestors. More meat that sugar, bread, rice, beer, and massive exercises. Your diet motto should be "if it doesnt bleed, I will not eat". So eat animal products like a lion, lift weight and build muscles. If you can run/walk a distance of 30km every other day without your body feeling it, then being good at sex will be a by-product.

Besides, how will you do it? Even if you take sex pills,, what about internal strength such as muscle to enable you lock her in strategic positions, thrust longer, and the appeal on your masculinity as she admire your body doing magic? I don't care how advance the pill is, You can't have pot belly and achieve that effect to her psychology.

UnknownQueen:
I regret being human, I would have preferred to exist as a sand or stone. Or any non- living thing.....

QueenOfTheCoast:
they thought war are like BIA (Brothers in arms) or war film.

if you're a gamer, just play battlefield 5 or COD vanguard and connect your console to a home theater.
concentrate on the game and at a point you'll get lost in the game.
some said such games are traumatizing to the players.
that's half of what a real war looks like.
imagine not knowing when and where the next Russian shell will land.

Kollins11:
Even if I had nothing doing on that day, I would rather cook half bag of beans, one by one with candle flames.

pansophist:
When will people realize that love is a decision, not an emotion? This is the very foundation of all the divorce and break up out there. People expect the butterflies to be there permanently. Take other instances of love relationships (eg between parents and child), you will see that many times, the child pisses off their parents so bad from childhood to adulthood, but the parent didn't just dump the child because they fell out of love with him/her, or a child falling out of love with their parents because they pissed him off, that is nonsense.

You marry someone because based on your assessment of their virtue, you have decided to love them. It is a decision. Of course, it helps if you are sexually attracted to them, but that should be secondary, not primary. All the people that I considered attractive ten years ago are not attractive anymore when I see them. I see many of my classmates I was attracted to then, and now, I am like, ''Did I actually fall for you''? Now imagine I married one then because of attraction and she gained 20kg of fat, losing her attraction, then it will be a straight divorce.

The above is what our ancestors understood, hence they save their son/daughter the stress of searching for a partner and instead, arranged it themselves. Because if you allow young people to make such delicate choices, they will choose partners based on stupid reasons such as ass, height, job, and other superficial things that don't directly make a marriage successful. Also, your parents have a clearer eye, they are not attracted to your to-be husband/wife, and based on the experience of their own marriages as well, they will look for such qualities in a partner for their child.

I am not saying arranged marriage doesn't have its downsides, but I am building a case of why it was practiced in the past, unlike now where we think discarding old cultural practices is modernization, and it is a lie. Are we not paying the price for that big mistake? Relationships now are more of a headache than peace, and it will get worse because problems just like humans grow too. I predict that in twenty years' time, any marriage lasting for twenty years will be seen as a miracle. Because we have confused feelings with love (a decision), and virtues with vices.

In conclusion, the very two things you need to know when it comes to marriage is to assess the virtues of the person you want to marry (that's assuming you are virtuous yourself and can see if someone else is virtuous too, or else you are fooling yourself), and if they are marriageable, then decide (a verb, an action word) that you will love them regardless if you loose attraction, just as you will love your child even if they turn out to be short like aki and paw paw. It is sad that society trains people on how to become effective employees, but not the path to happiness and lifelong satisfaction.

cc: franchasng

czarr:
So you were a virgin before marriage...you probably married early then. So it's not that you miss the wild life of single life, it's that you think you've missed out on the wild life cos you didn't live it....and you thought that somehow marriage is going to reward you for your sexual discipline, and you realise that there is no award for your virginity, and you can see some single friends who were about that wild life also get married....you are angry and transferring the anger to your husband.

You may also be crushing on someone and marriage (your husband) is keeping you from acting on that crush.

Do you really believe your husband has the same level of love or attraction for had for you when he first met you? No! he has seen you finish, you have both seen each other finish, it's Normal for that attraction and butterflies to go down.

He has seen you hanging your pants, sleeping like a zombie, when you are sick and horrible looking, going to toilet, he smells your involuntary farts at night, and you too, you have seen all about him.

You have to understand that after 3 years in all marriages reality sets in, all those lovey dovey stuff goes away and what is left is committment. That is what love is, committment. Love is not a feeling, it's a choice to stay committed to someone.

You think because you don't feel anything for the guy anymore, that your soul mate is out there and your marriage is keeping you from meeting him, if you meet another guy outside and he commits to you, you would still get bored when real life sets in, and routine nature of marriage begins.

Be guided.

Nazgul:
I'm afraid that your observations are on point cos I have the same observations as well.

The most recent was my cousin brother who got married in 2020 before the lockdown, as I'm writing this we barely talk these days, even to reply WhatsApp messages na war. And when he does it's one complain or the other, ranging from how things are hard and since I'm single and an only child, I should assist him financially, to how his wife has changed, to how their one year old child consumes food like an adult... etc.

To understand him much better, I decided to put myself in his shoes. I'm a single guy, I renewed my rent last month (April) and I sat down to calculate all my monthly expenses. Data, fuel, gotv/Netflix, electricity, security, LAWMA, feeding, gas, miscellaneous...etc.

My point is if a woman comes on board that budget would tripple cos kids would be expected, she might want you to open a business for her, courtesy of your pocket, she might come with her younger sister to help out whose training and welfare would be on you, she would sometimes want you to assist her family eg, parents, siblings writing exams, school fees, rent...etc.

Now while your expenses has tripled, your income most times remains the same or even lower, you would resort to borrowing just to sustain your home, of which she won't even appreciate cos according to her, it's not enough, other men out there like you are performing much better for their families. You would live all your life working to finance the home, even your own kids would be strangers to you and love her more when she buys them Christmas clothes from the money you gave to her. They would grow up loving her as a sweet mom and vow never to see her suffer. forgetting all the sacrifices and dreams you gave up just to give them a better life. After pondering through all these, I understood my cousin's situation much better.

If I'm to be honest there's nothing special about marriage, it's more or less like bondage for men. And benefits only the women. Marriages if you have noticed have have reduced greatly, there are so many guys in their 30s and even 40s who aren't even talking about settling down. Would you blame them....of course not.

Women these days aren't helping matters. They dump the larger chunk of the financial responsibility on the man in the name of men are the head so it's his responsibility to cater for the home. But what they don't understand is God created women as a helpmeet, meaning they're there to lessen the budern of the man and not to add to it.

Open any topic here on Nairaland and talk about responsibilities in the home. More than 99% of the female replies would be that it's the job of the man and the man alone.

Women need to change such mindset, cos it has killed and drained the honey of millions of marriages.

Skullano:
You see this generation eeeeh, nah hot water God go use end us las las.

czarr:
The X our girls couldn't find in school, they are finding outside school.

It is well.

killmods:
Not yahoo boys but ur yahoo govt. Most of these girls are undergraduates from average to poor homes. Whose parents are mostly underemployed as civil servants or own a petty biz they run. School fees is always on the increase like the govt doesn't want kids from average to poor homes to succeed in getting certified. No room for these kids to hustle legit to support themselves like it's done in other countries, no proper structure in place for these kids to access loans to help better themselves except those private run sharks who will not even give them th sort of coverage they require. I'm not encouraging them but we should never look at situations from a single POV. There's no justification for it but bro e nor easy and It's worse off when ur in a country that has no plans to ease ur journey but add more pains to it on a daily and when u fail they still blame u. Who want fail? So everyone is getting it by any means and I personally have no issue with that so long as u are ready for the consequences and hurt no one while at it.

davien:
I'd rather talk on them here bro(learnt a lesson relating with people live)

The safest ways to make money in crypto right now are ;

1. Through Stablecoins
2. Through exchanges
3. Delegating to new blockchains
4. Selling gaming nfts

I do all 4 from late 2020 and my life changed. Highest I can give is that for stablecoins staking go to coingecko and search through exchanges with score of 5 and above, register, verify, compare their rates and save accordingly.

If you want to buy a crypto with a lot of upside potential and little risk, buy a staking coin that's tied to an exchange and use it to farm more coins/money.

Delegating to new blockchains like atom, Juno, Osmo etc grants you airdrops worth millions(Google it for yourself)

Then NFT games like gods unchained I've made money while playing their card games and selling unique cards I unlock plus they airdropped millions(in naira terms) late last year.

Peace out and good luck.

@harpahrah(no vex, I don't get in touch with people anymore).

dominique:
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NoFucksToGive:
We are not saying treat us like women no! But we deserve a break !!! We do! it is too damn much!!

Sometimes I don't even want to go into the house I just sit in my car and scream so loud my ears.should.burst...

As a man you are too afraid to show any emotion , when a nice girl who sees your pain smiles at you outside you are afraid to smile back before the world calls you a cheat ... Kai everything is just against men Everything.. now I see why so many of us commit suicide it's as if only death can console us sometimes.
The ache in your chest isn't just emotional pain it's the heart wearing out slowly...
I see people criticize and abuse men that fall sick, you call that man careless., You say he doesn't tale good care of himself... Really ?

How can will I bother about that pain in my left rib knowing that if I go to the hospital it is money ? When all your money is tied up, debts are crushing you ?. Off course any swellings and pains I feel in my body I ignore and miraculously they always seem to go away on their own
They day one comes that doesn't go, well I will hang my boot and know my time has come

NoFucksToGive:
Now you see why year in year out they keep lowering the life expectancy for us men? ...
WHO said as at 40.years a man's heart is twice as worn out than that of a woman... High blood pressure worrying and over thinking kills us off...
Truly men are now an endangered species.. and women blame us when we have decided not to marry again .

United Nations statistics showed that globally 98% of suicide victims are men.. 97% of work place accident related deaths are men, world wide 98% of road accident victims are men , 99% of soldiers killed in wars are men... Then 99% of murder victims are men .. you work hard all your life ,

We are an endangered species ..in today's world the worst thing you can be is a man...

If you are down and ask for help they will call you a weak man, a beggar and failure, of you are down and don't ask for help and keep struggling they will call you a failure , and say you are.not trying hard enough , if you are ask for help as a.man no one will help you, of you are down and you decide you can't take it anymore and commit suicide then you are labelled a weakling .. but if you stay alive no one will still help you.

It's not easy for men

aaking:
It varies. We have American type, Indian and Indonesia own also.

Kobojunkie:
[/i]This is a topic for another thread...[i] [/b]if you want to, you can open a new thread for this we can discuss it at length.[b] But for now, let us try not to deviate too far from this here.

As I said..according to the book of Genesis, Adam's sin did not pass to even His own son,Abel, who was declared a righteous man for His obedience of God. So what does that say of your understanding of the verse in Romans?

Kobojunkie:
But according to the book of Genesis, Adam's sin did not pass to even His own son,Abel, who was declared a righteous man for His obedience of God. So what does that say of your understanding of the verse in Romans?

Kobojunkie:
I say bullsheet!

If you paid attention to the verse he quoted you would have realized instead that mr freethinker there is wrong in his assertion... what the verse states is inherited is punishment , not sin.

lordmayor2013:
A free thinker asked: "Why is sin hereditary and salvation is not"?