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VinnyBaba:
See how you Try to twist/Misinterpret the Bible to suit ur Prejudices.
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Meaning Church Members committing Fornication, Drunkenness, Covetousness and idolatry Should be EXCOMMUNICATED, too? [b]

Brotherly, God is not a God of DISCRIMINATION and OSTRACIZATION!.

Even Jesus Christ did NOT discriminate against Sinners and Societal Misfits!
He Mingled with them and Tried to bring them to Salvation!

VinnyBaba:
Adultery is a Big SIN in the Bible!
And in African Traditional, it's an Abomination for a Married woman to have sex with another Man.

But when it Happened in the Bible,
Did Jesus Christ condemn, advocate Imprisonment or Death on the Woman.

Dat's the example the Pope is Following!

Or YOU WANT TO INSULT JESUS CHRIST too?🤔

aking123:
Pyypl has the best rates, followed by klasha for now.

As at today, these are the rates for the different providers I have personally tried myself. I tried them both on Alexpress app and the web version of aliexpress to be sure, since some cards don't work on the app for the first time.

CashEx:
Conversion To USD: 1 USD = N742
Conversion From USD: 1 USD = N734
They Charge $1 for transactions btw $0-$50, $1.5 for transactions btw $51-$100, $2+0.5% for transactions over $100
They Charge $2 for deposits, first deposit per month is free.

Chippercash:
Using dollar card, rate - 765/$
On apple payment using dollar card, an additional conversion rate charged is 448.5/$ after previous dollar rate charge, because Apple charges in Naira. I am thinking the solution is to use the naira card on the Apple payment since the charge from Apple is in Naira but I don't know if it will work because haven't tried it yet.

Klasha:
751.11/$ with a minimum first card balance of 5$, no hidden charges for both deposits and transactions.

Kudiwave:
774/$ but doesn't work on Aliexpress.

Tribapay dollar mastercard:
770/$, minimum balance - $2, has other charges, i don't want to talk much since it is expensive already compared to others.

Grey:
Dollar card rate - 770/$, so high, won't talk much mbok.

Gomoney:
Owned by Sterling Bank, Discontinued, stopped working on international transactions.

Gotok:
It has not worked from my end as at today, some people have said it worked for them, me it has never since i created and funded the account weeks ago.

Pyypl:
748$ above. I topped up the dollar from my binance account, top up your binance by p2p. The Master dollarcard works flawlessly for aliexpress, hidden charge of 2% for international purchase (say from aliexpress) which is very small. Means if you order an item worth $10 you will be charged 2% of $10 which is like $0.2. No withdrawal charges, same amount when you withdraw to your binance, not tried but am sure.

Spendwise.ng:
Dollar card rate - 771/$, high, no further analysis.

After practically opening, and trying these several accounts, the above is my analysis.

Please if you have any cheaper or better idea, do let us know. I hope this my little info helps.

pansophist:
You too man.

I see it always. Women behaviour is like they are playing game of cards. They have different cards for different scenarios. If it's time to cry, she will cry. If it's time to lie, she will lie. Time to be a victim, she will act like one.

The "discard card" is the last card, played after you've outlived your usefulness and she has gotten what she wanted from the relationship. At that moment, a man gets an epiphany and a crash course of the woman he married. Most men never recover from that.

Should I continue? I don study those creature well

pansophist:
Because you're submissive now doesn't mean you will be submissive in Canada. Women have a collections of attitude. The attitude they give now is what will get them what they want.

And the attitude they will give when they get what they want is totally different from the one before. "I love you" for her is conditional, depending if you've not outlived your Usefulness. When she settled abroad, then you'll know the kind of person you import.

Madam poster, no vex. Other scrupulous women don spoil ground for the rest. The patterns of bad woman are all the same. They lie, witheld truths about themselves, and very selfish. Evil has the same color. If you're genuinely a good woman, I pray that the God of justice grant your heart desires.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 332, REDPILL 2022

For the woman, her reality is to escape pain, be mirthful, and feel pleasurable and desired in the company of others.

The womanly spirit lacks ambition, and the passion to transcend into the immaterial. Her love for the divine is for the showers of blessings, the results, not the process to understand the underlying workings and all the intricacies familiar to the divine.

The feminine has a lightweight spirit, can only float and can't penetrate; can only paddle and can't go deep.

The feminine spirit is the intoxication, distraction, and pleasure of the masculine soul.

Authority: When you see her beauty, look unto God.

CaveAdullam:
Fresh account from the oven.

Let's take the ministry forward.

Do like, retweet, and follow.

Merci.

OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....


I'd rather empower men with that amount than hoe around with it ...

[/b]Watch this space.[b]

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....

emmaodet:
All I see are women with too many options.

Women have options and it makes them take stupid decisions.
It is only a man that blue chip companies like chevron and Mobil are chasing regularly that will be making shakara with jobs but a man that has treaked , suffered, prayed etc just to get a single job will so so so value and hold it tight.
Mother Nature has really spoilt ladies with constant attention, gifts and money from men so they always get carried away.

I like reading ladies diary on that section and I am always surprise how ladies quickly move on after breakup.

There is always men in the corner on stby to jump into relationship with her.
Read on of recent - she claimed to be the average good Nigerian girl, beautiful (only God knows if that is true), tall and earning fine yet men have been chopping and cleaning mouth with her.
She is frustrated, depressed and always having mood swings but in all, what got my attention is the way and rate she swaps relationships.
Just within a month or 2 of breaking up with her boo, she had attended only God know how many weekend dates, tried her hands or couples of failed relationships etc.

There is always one Ugo who has always been her bestie she confides in or James that slides in her dm a long time ago and now she wants to give him a listening ear and chance or Tobi the guy staying the next street who has been a long admirer or Sola at her place of work or or or just too too too many.

For God sake, can’t you ladies just take a 3-6 months break from anything relationship after breaking up and use that moment for a self-appraisal?
From my observation, it seems relationship is the lifeline and blood of women.
They can’t just do or survive without it.
Many will live a miserable life without a man’s impact in their lives just for a year.

ubunja:
problem is genuinely good men don't turn these women on. A lot of the good guys rely on CHARACTER as their selling point. But arousal and attraction has nothing to do about your character. Why? Cause what a woman first sees when she looks at you is YOUR BODY not your personality, not your behaviour, not your character. Your body is the first attraction. The bait. That's what affects her pucc first. Your personality she'll only learn when she starts talking and interacting with you. Good guys oftentimes lose from the get go cause their presentation- body, dress, mannerisms- scream "gentleman" when it must scream "I'll tear that pucc up.!"

You need to look like you can fucc a woman's brains out. just by the way you look, dress and act. Sadly good men don't give that vibe. Cause they appear too nice, too caring, too considerate. A woman has a hard time imagining him tossing her around the bed, pinning her to the walls and folding her in 20 different positions. He seems too gentle to be that freaky. But that's the freaky sex that women dream about. When women look at a gangster or a thug, his fierceness and his passion and aggressiveness,, all they can think about is "damn if only he brings this fury to the bedroom, he'd surely murder this pucc!"
It's why women think men who are always angry are good in bed. And it's why your woman will sometimes provoke you or start a fight with you just before bed - she's trying to get that raw passion out via your anger so that you'll really handle her, like be really aggressive with her. But a gentleman could never.

Lucrativress:
Faith
Substance of things hoped for evidence of things not seen.

Exactly, it becomes superficial, something which was meant to be worshipped as a good part of culture and rewarded.

Times are changing, the World is dynamic, I am a Christian, yes, I believe in Faith, yes but I'm also pretty practical.

And I am a fan of Ecclesiastes and Songs of Solomon...

For now I'd just say "Faith without works is dead"
The work will be working with what's up now...

What's up is most men are drawn by what they see.
They shout bad girls but they love bad girl's
So you don't have to loose your virginity as a virgin but be ready to make alterations to yourself except you want to announce it to the World like the Corper....

Lucrativress:
I totally agree with you but in a age where we have so much moral decadence, chastity, purity and independence is no longer valued or welcome.
You're seen as bland and "not in the league, unapproachable, less attractive" and....

As much as there are no Grey's, we're now in a time where you have to succumb to something's if you do not want to remain unseen.

In those days, matchmaking actually saved the day.
Someone else did the marketing of "values and morals over anything", you get to make her yours and improve on her purity to your taste.

Now what we have are men who wants sex, beclouded by their bulges, sensual lust and enticed by what their eyes can see.

You expect your values of being a good Girl, less doting and all to be a enough, but nope, it's not, more like setting yourself up to remain unseen.

To be unseen, either you shoot yourself way up in the spotlight and let the story known so you have a large crowd listening.

Or you *WAIT* for a miracle...
This this is the agony of some good girls now.

Believe it.

CaveAdullam:
This poor mental form of reasoning always starts and ends with being a damaged h0e or prostitute - they are the only ones that have access to the holy communion.

If that should be the case, what about male - murderers, pedophiles, fraudsters, and every male in prisons worldwide? They need to be set free because they have been hearing religious sermons weekly, however, their case is in hell.

Women always come up with asinine thoughts like this to save face after they messed up the whole place. They know they don't stand a chance and can't win the existing structures. Rather, they create one and persuade people to see reasons with them and get them hoodwinked.

Men who don't know this will praise God, shout for joy, and shed tears for finding a good wife. Meanwhile, God in heaven is cringing for such a dumbfounded man.

Sigh.

Carcholce:
You people are getting this whole sex thing really wrong. There are some people that have SUCCESSFULLY eliminated the “thought” of sex from their mind. Mind you, I said thought, not the urge.


The urge happens due to the chemical combustion as a result of the food we eat and activities we subject our body to. But this is where we are getting it all wrong, the urge is not SOLELY for the action of sex. The urge is actually a BLANK call for action. This means your body is healthy and ready for action, but your mind determines an action to play.

browndre:
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

Persephone1:
It won't shock me sha... these people arent as staunch with their beliefs as they preach here, they know at some point there are things human abilities cant handle. Falling and longing for love is one of it. I know this time will come when a calculative person will get tired and allow life to happen . Its the ignorant kids that follows everything here that i pity.

I know Pan when him started nah. Lol, he used to be plain and honest with his opinions but along the line, he got influenced by the redpillers now he is trying to find an impossible balance

ubunja:
that's the game brotherman...

Men invest Financially in a woman, women invest Sexually in a man.

But it definitely goes beyond sex for women and becomes more nuanced.
Yes, women invest Sexually in a man but there are women who can't have sex (eg virgins and celibate women) so don't these women get invested?
They definitely do get invested - even without the sex, So sex apparently comes short of being the universal hook we want it to be, begging us to find a more universal all-encompassing hook that will cover ALL women regardless of sexual status. The answer is EMOTIONS.

Yes women invest Sexually but it's not just the sex itself it's the EMOTIONS that follow the sex such that if a man can draw these emotions without sleeping with a woman (eg dealing with virgins and celibate women) he'll still get her invested without the sex; and note: If a woman is actively separating the sex she's having with a man, separating it from her emotions, then she won't get invested no matter how much she fuccs him. No string attached sex don't count to women such that they don't even include it in their body count. Unless the sex is extremely good then she'll become hooked and by extension emotional and by extension invested. But the hook is the emotions.

We say "sex gets women invested" just cause the easiest way to a woman's emotions is her puccy.

emmaodet:
This is why am always surprise when guys bash men who bring their stories to nairaland for advice.
2/3 days ago, a moniker opened a thread and seek for advice about his wife who just got to UK less than a month ad has been frolicking with a strange man to the extent she added him to their private WhatsApp video call.
Many people came for him saying he is insecured blah blah blah.
For God sake, the heart of man is where his treasure and money is.
The man said he has spent close to 27m for visa and relocation for his family (wife and 4 kids) and you don’t want him to be insecured and monitoring his life investment?
How many people can invest just 5m naira without close monitoring? To a man, a woman is an investment reason why we spend a lot in relationships, gifts, money, wedding, running the family etc. This is an investment yet people will just be throwing unsecured or not matured around.

JESHAL:
She wants you to ignore her past so she can devour your future.

leetylee:
Even on manufactured products it's states that "Do not purchase if seal is broken "

This is not about products and commercial values