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OP is thorough bred Igbo man

eni4real:
But you are emotionless??
Is that the new thing that the psychology textbook teach you now??

Be Original!!

Don't allow white people to scam you with their mumbo jumbo

I get your point OP. Sorry for heartbreak. Don't pry into someone's inbox again. You'll only see your worst nightmare waiting.

eni4real:
Your psychology is flawed!!
I am not the OP

I would have believed you but one thing; you're emotional!!!

eni4real:
Crux of the matter that was explained to you through some white Psychology textbook??

Be Original, next time

Relax OP, we know you never set out to test the logic of your actions. You're here for a fancy band of emotional pity party. Tough luck.

safarigirl:
Nobody has ever discarded me, and no one will ever discard me.

You will most likely marry a discarded woman sha, because you are discarded yourself and you attract your likes.

I don't hate men, I hate idiots like you.

did my remark bruised you so bad, little girl?

" Nobody has ever discarded me and no one will ever discard me." We're looking at the self published proof of an alexithymic dick-swapper....

No be you be the insecure mumu wen dey brag about writing porn? Ode, see as you lack self-validation. Nairaland overused druggie.

eni4real:
Your textbook psychology knowledge is written by Whites who don't know anything about how the moral fibres of black men work!!!
All those Hypocrite that drink and eat infidelity and divorce think they can explain how the mind of every humans work including those that are well trained by their parents... Value which most of them never had in their liberal countries!!!

Once OP sack that Chameleon Sister Mary, let's see if your psychology knowledge will put food to her table

Flawed Psychology

now he's hiding under psychology, white/black and avoiding the crux of the matter

You didn't even pretend to answer the question.

eni4real:
You don't know anything about OP's moral fibre!!

Your textbook psychology knowledge is limited on this case!!!

I know more about the OP/you than I know about the girl.

She's hypocrite and dick-magnet. But productive at work. Full stop.

You/OP are a proven illustration of an oga without self-control.

A total inebriated snoop who doesn't value anyone's privacy, even that of his staff.

Someone who can't tell the big gulf of difference between an employee's productive output and competence from her personal life .

You're considering firing her when she hadn't broken any rule of engagement, so you're going to look for one or lie your way through to get one.

Plus you/OP have a depleted moral /professional base to determine between moral wrongs and crime.

Too bad. Should I go on?

eni4real:
"Passion and emotion in your voice"?? Were you there??

A Sister Mary having 5 different sex mates and commiting criminal abortion , is spared by your psychology logic..

Your psychology is flawed on this!!

How come she has the audacity to use the office phone for such a dirty private life??

Op, that girl does not respect what your business represent!!

Sack her immediately!!

Let's see if Mr Psychology will put food on her table

phone got missing/stolen. You gave her office phone to use with internet data connected. So that explains that.

But what were you looking for inside her private life in her inbox? Now your heart is broken and you're reacting as a jilted virgin.

Your wife knows you better than most people. If she changes topic whenever you're bellowing like some love-stonned cururo talking about this girl, it's because she's your wife who knows you have NEVER PRAISED ANYONE IN YOUR LIFE LIKE THAT. PROLLY EVEN YOUR SISTS.

safarigirl:
LOL.

So, bride price that you paid, means you should get one clean, untouched babe, abi?

Are you clean and untouched? Is it not Nigerian men that go extra miles, to convince women they are unmarried to, to sleep with them? Then, the same Nigerian men, think they can decide how many women the girl sleeps with

If you are not a virgin, take several seats abeg.

Thank God no be only una dey this world. As long as you are not the person that will marry her, face your front and save your sympathy for yourself, because you don't even know what you will use your bride price money to bring to your house

your never-ceasing mumu is till on turbocharger. Go cure your man-maladjustment and stop ranting all over the place. You're not the only girl men have discarded like a street litter.

Stop being an unpolished spiteful man-hating woman.

eni4real:
Employee think she is in her sitting room, took office phone has chats with her numerous boyfriends and discussing abortion events there??
That Chameleon Sister Mary should be sacked!!

She will spread her chameleon personality to the OP's business very soon

Is that why your wife changes subject whenever you brought her topic home? Because she could hear the passion and emotion in your voice?

And you proved her right when you had to click into someone's else's inbox. You should be fired as oga for having such lack of control...but you are taken with the girl. Rein in your emotions and go professional.

wisdomkid:
What about the case of George Floyd?

what has George Floyd murdered by a police got to do with an employer snooping into his sales girl's inbox and getting worked up because she's forking 5 dudes?

Another apple-to-orrange dumb comparison.

eni4real:
I am sure she is not the only good salesgirl in the world.. There are many girls that can perform better than her without stressing the OP this much!

Op should sack her...

All insults just because OP do not want her to go hungry through sacking!!

OP is a moral guy.. He detest a chameleon in a sister Mary cloak!!

Your psychology is goofed on this one!!!

yeah. Employer snoops into the Facebook inbox of his female employee. Sees the girl bleeps well and is disappointed and wants to sack her. Looooooooolz.

Yes, goofed psychology or busted motive?

wisdomkid:
This is why Africa is this sick, malnourished and painstakingly spitted on today by the world, you know why?
Because we all carry on because it does not affect us. No, what affects Ghana, indirectly or directly Affects Nigeria.

If your daughter is in the same situation today, and someone else is in a fatherly position to help, how would you take it? It's sickeningly to see about 1,200 people supporting your notion. This is why Nigerian government are getting away with any dubious behaviours, because we hate each other.

quite the opposite!!! Africa is behind the world because of how sanctimonious and hypocrital we are as against how productive we are.

Every advanced countries in the west wouldn't care what their employees do outside their official hours as long as it's their personal life.

How very ignorant.

Nezzjnr:
You guys are saying OP should mind his business... For what exactly??
Didn't you see where OP stated that he's like a Fatherly figure to her and she's different from the others

This girl is still a minor working as a sales rep... If something bad happens to her... All fingers will be pointing towards OP.

if she's in deed a minor, then OP could be as guilty as the ones who got her pregnant. Allowing a minor to work

OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

as a psychologist I will tell you you have interest in this girl. Probably why your wife was jealous.

This is also why you snooped into her inbox. Something that isn't your concern. It is also why you're heartbroken (disappointed) when you did discovered she's been taking random Dick's.

This is why you are now attaching emotional matters into official business.

Typical African hypocrital sanctimonious goat.

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iamauxin:
Take A Look At The Gigantic Snake Killed By My Hunter-neighbour

This was captured this morning by my neighbour's trap. It shares a semblance with Viper and therefore highly poisonous from what I've seen in NATGEO WILD channels.

To cut the long story short, My neighbour quickly prepared peppersoup with some of the meat and roasted the rest.

This is my first time of seeing a snake this gigantic.

Here are the pictures.
NB, the head and the tail were severed from the body, cos that's where the main poison lies

Lala What are you waiting for.

More pictures... Coming
Updated: it's a Python... Thanks for the heads up.

your sacrilegious assertion of putting python and poison in same sentence should have made this post front page unworthy if not that lala is a mumu for snake posts.

Please pythons and other constrictors don't have venoms. And this snake and "gigantic" are polar opposite..

Are you the molester? Seems you know much about the incident.

salford1:
No I actually just got a pay rise. My work is essential.

another uncorrelated shiit. Please keep telling us about your personal financial status and job description. It is all related to Coronavirus and China and WHO complicity.

What a snowflake.

salford1:
Congratulations.
You just answered your own questions.

Aslong as African countries lack good leadership, begging for aids from organizations such as the WHO would not end. Nigerian Senators, HORs, governors etc would rather enrich themselves than help less privileged Nigerians. Same as alot of other African countries with corrupt leadership.



A good example below:

Major donor contributors for free HIV and malaria drugs in Nigeria and some other African countries for example includes the WHO, The US Gov through (PEPFAR), World Bank, Unicef etc

However, the budget from Donald Trump's White House last year for 2020 includes a whopping $1.35 billion in cuts to the President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR) and $392 million in cuts to the funds to fight tuberculosis and malaria. This Corona outbreak also gave the US president another opportunity or justification to remove US own contribution to the WHO. Note there are many countries that contribute to the WHOs purse not just the US
The WHO Ethiopian president, executives and workers could care less, they would still get paid their fat salary. Let's even say WHO gets disbanded (which is not possible), their staff would simply get absorbed into the UN. Na citizens of poor countries go hear am.

For this, coupled with many other holes plugging by the US gov just tells us that the US can't be bothered to offer good assistance to any disadvantaged or poor countries in the world again. It's now America first which is good for them - Nationalism.

To be honest, I can't even be bothered if Trump gets re-elected in November. It actually favours me as I work in the Energy industry in Canada. Trump loves the energy industry, and he has speedily approved our pipeline that carries oil from Alberta all the way to Texas. It's a win for my Canadian economy. However, not much benefit is Trump's win for poor and shyte hole countries..Goodluck to Nigeria and Africa.

I think you alone are the biggest beneficiary of WHO.

What has all this long drivel you posted here got to do with the fact that the WHO was complicit in the Coronavirus information? So because Africans are beneficiaries they shouldn't advocate for s more transparent and better WHO?

Abi Coronavirus no dey affect you economically? Liberals and their worthless sentiments!
Pfts!

salford1:
I do not live in Nigeria or anywhere in Africa neither am I your bro. I do not relate with the devil and his little minions..

liberals and far leftists have only sentiments and emotional blackmail standing for them. No science, logic, history or reason. Just sentiments.

ethicallyright:
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Keep quiet good for nothing right wing terrorist. Hypocrite lying with the name of God.
You sheep support a vulgar reality star capitalist who doesn't want global health insurance but demonize a good man who has pledged a substantial amount of his wealth for that cause.

Stop spamming Nairaland please.

you seem like the terrorist here. The dude you quoted said his opinion but you're not only asking him to shut up, you branded him a terrorist for supporting a presidential directive punishing China for liberty denial.

The hypocrisy of leftist propagandists like you is nauseating.

johnpablo541:
Let's learn something in Nigeria, we can always make our points without insulting. Lets just state our points and move on please no more insults. Peace.

not everyone has the ability to ignore insults to sensibilities. I'm not sorry to say I don't.

BigBelleControl:
This issue requires both forensic and metaphysical test to decipher the truth about the accusation of molestation. The man might be innocent and the woman might be right.

Another question is was that the first time the woman would leaving the house and the husband capitalized on that single opportunity to carry out his nefarious activity. This is beyond VAR.

Does it take the man to send his wife parking at night to sleep with the daughters? No.

Why is it that it was after they had had an animated quarrel and when the man asked her to leave was when she came running to say the man slept with his two daughters?

The woman has a police or civil defence official who advised her to place that lie.

johnpablo541:
What is written on that sign post the camera blindspot didnt get is

ASABA-ONITSHA
EXPRESS WAY
NO STOPPING



Those other "WELCOME TO" and "FAREWELL FROM" sign post were installed by the respective states. And they are both before the bridges on each state.

leave that village fool to keep claiming bridge when Anambra state has the worse erosion-ravaged land in the entire nation.

AsomughaChuks05:
Mad goat.

this one is coming from the galaxy of broken ego. Ranting about who owns a bridge and you're not worried about your erosion-ridden state.

By your name, I know you're amongst those kola-chewing, chewing stick wielding villagers dressed in worn-out rags looking like the memorabilia of mongo park's relics from the river Niger expedition.

Be claiming bridge while erosion claim your land, inheritance and ancestral gravesites.

AsomughaChuks05:
No. The whole bridge is on Anambra soil. That's why it is called Niger Bridge Onitsha.

the name doesn't connote where the entire bridge is located. How can a bridge linking two cities be completely located on one part of both cities? Does it make sense to you?

Onitsha has been a renowned city for decades while Asaba rose because it was named Delta state's capital in the 90s.

You want them to call it Onitsha-Asaba Head Bridge? Foolish!

AsomughaChuks05:
That bridge, the whole length of it, is on Anambra soil.

blind fool.

punisha:


I can bet my bother's kidney that this was over a petty sum of money.
poverty plus anger equals destruction.

why not your own kidney.